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2016 New Year's RHP Resolution

December 15 2015

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Only a couple of weeks to go before we throw away the 2015 calendar and already we are, well most of us, are thinking what 2016 holds for us. this time of the year, I start reflecting of the events and experiences of that year and thinkg how I could make things easier and better for me in the new year. Aside from the usual 'Lose weight' (haha - yeah right), 'improve fitness' (double yeah right), , etc... have you got an RHP NY resolution list? Consistently, I have the same items on my RHP NY resolutions list - 1) Have sex more often... (having sex with yourself or your toys does not count ) . but I am never home long enough (Melb or Australia) to get my sched aligned with the hot men of RHP or with my fwb... ... Now looking at some tradies for on call afterhours service... 2) Have a mfm bi... where to start with this....seems like a mirage as can't find men to do it 3) Attend more group or private swingers party - a swish one (well this one, I already got an invite for Feb) - looking good 4) DVP - working on it.... gotta get a couple of men nto scared of crossing swords 5) Explore and enjoy Melbourne swingers clubs... needing courage to do this on my own. Hesitant so wanting a partner in crime to get this going So what is your top 5 of NY resolutions. What do you reckon is the chance of any of them working out, ever? Lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    No 1 Making sure that the RHP National Meet and Greet in October is the best RHP party ever! We are just getting things finalised. Adelaide, here we come! No 2 Bi MMF. Which is looking very promising.... No 3 Go to more meets, clubs, hopefully a private party N0 4 More role play scenarios, I love them! And No 5 Try some new things, Im getting older and time is running out. I want to have a lot of hot memories to keep me going when Im sitting with a blankey on my knees xx

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    9 years ago

    I'll make my NYE resolutions midnight NYE. Other than that, I have so many travel plans coming up... So my 2016 early new year plan right now, is to focus on them and book my tickets..... #5 Try new things (same as Koko) Koko I'll bring the hot Choc and marshmallows!! 💋 Ms Foxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Never to make resolutions..if something happens it will happen whether or not it's in or out of my control..this years lesson has been not to be so trusting of others..a hard lesson ..xxFreya

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    that will go on my resolution list :)

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  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    9 years ago

    Make any new year's resolution because, things don't always go to plans as I wish them would be. So, I haven't had any and just go with the flow and take whatever challenges that throw my way 😊 However, I do hope that my time/year on RHP in 2016 are more peaceful and respected, especially in the Forums! Beside that, I hope I would find that compatible companion that I have been looking for 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi all Some of us still have old year's resolutions to fulfil, cos let's face it, there's no time like now. One of these is to meet a certain orchid in person and perhaps venture out to one of these clubs too. I have a particular one in mind. As for sorting out plumbing, that of course can easily be arranged. So I would say that chances are looking good for fulfilling some of those at the very least. New Year, well to carry on with the old year, but get much better at it. Take on board lessons learned being top of the plan.

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  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya70' Never to make resolutions..if something happens it will happen whether or not it's in or out of my control..this years lesson has been not to be so trusting of others..a hard lesson ..xxFreya Previous years I purposely made no NY resolutions to give up smoking as I new it would not happen. This year it just happened (10-months now), so what will be will be, or not to be, depending on what question you are not answering

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Just hope to happy healthy and wish the same for family and friends. Mine are not wish list items or resolutions just want to be happy with what life brings my way.

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    2016........Say goodbye to stress.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I don't like failing so wont set myself up for it :) But I will promise to try and not make the same mistakes.That's the best I can do

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Not be so silly. Gafaw!....as if THAT is going to fucking happen! Lol!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    1. Try and find some more regular playmates 2. Throw more parties 3. Orgy 4. Travel more (for play) 5. Enjoy life

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I don't make new years resolutions, I just live every day like it's my last! Fuck the future, today is where the action is!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    but here goes ... Umm , I forgot.. ?

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  • CandDSwing

    CandDSwing

    9 years ago

    I normally don't make new years resolutions but maybe 2016 is the year to mix it up! So here goes (disclaimer that these may change at 11.59pm when I'm having fun and drinking wine and think that sky diving is a good idea) 1. Learn to get my flirt on, it would seem I'm not so great at the flirt game 2. Visit more clubs around Australia and have fun with D doing so3. Continue to have fun and meet new people through the lifestyle 4. Buy more lingerie 5. Become Oprah rice.... Jokes, Real 5. Try new things and be more adventurous, just say yes! xxx C

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    ..... take the Gingko pills for memory loss... if you can remember where you placed them... check the bottom of your gym bag... if you can find it... Lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    1. Find a guy to be exclusive with, I've realised I just don't feel complete when I'm not in a relationship 2. Aim to get pregnant in 2016, because my clock is ticking and I feel selfish not having children 3. Retire, now I'm financially able to after saving diligently for years 4. Stop drinking alcohol, feeling buzzed does nothing for me anymore 5. Stop making sarcastic and facetious comments on the fora. Actually, scratch that last one, I'm not a fucking magician.

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' 1. Find a guy to be exclusive with, I've realised I just don't feel complete when I'm not in a relationship 2. Aim to get pregnant in 2016, because my clock is ticking and I feel selfish not having children 3. Retire, now I'm financially able to after saving diligently for years 4. Stop drinking alcohol, feeling buzzed does nothing for me anymore 5. Stop making sarcastic and facetious comments on the fora. Actually, scratch that last one, I'm not a fucking magician. YEP!

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  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    You have come such a long way since you joined Red Hot Pie. It's bloody wonderful to see. my resolution is to be me and dive into my sexual exploration.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Don't smoke.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Do I remember correctly you quit? How long have you been a non-smoker? And Stirry, how are you going with it?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I quit sept 24 2014 (7.30am) when I had shoulder surgery but I had a 1 packet relapse in March so yeah depends, I'm going to celebrate the "true" year in March. I've tried prettying every recreational drug known to man and can not drink with little effort, but this nicotine is evil, evil, shit, it's always there nag nag nag. I don't mind celebrating two dates, I earned it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    hopefully 2016 brings me joy and happiness , to be with someone that loves me unconditionally, don't get pissy before meet&greets ,parties keep my fingernails short at all times , have a mmf and go overseas - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    those are big hitters... i do get you with your no. 1, would be nice and comfortable but I still am to experience a lot of stuff outside a relationship and am not in a position to commit to a relationship due to my work schedule. one day as going thru some re-structuring and re-evaluation in my business. Giving up some things to achieve another. having kids.. you can have mine.. they eat too much, eating our way to bankruptcy.. surely i'm not the first... retiring... nice... i have spoken to my kids about this one.. am cashing in whne the last one hits 18 or so (3-4 yrs) and moving to somewhere warm and peaceful.... where I can grow dreadlocks and sell brownies to passing tourists. Lol. Nimbin comes to mind....

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    I wish you all the best for 2016. You seem like a great gal from what a heard and seen on the forums. We all deserve happiness... Hugs xxx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    So I rumaged through and found things I forgot all about... Tiger balm.. Wrist tape... Water bottle... Sparring gloves... Sox... Last years NY resolution note... and a expired jar of Big Stiffy pills ... but no ginkgo..? Damn...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I sincerely hope that all happens for you... As much as this lifestyle fills a void for awhile. We still have the basic human needs.. Good luck ... Jay

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Ladies, it's entirely possible my post was sarcastic and facetious. B-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I did wonder and then I pondered! And thought oh man I totally had you pegged incorrectly.

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Ladies, it's entirely possible my post was sarcastic and facetious. B-) got me there. hahaha... tis the season to be sarcastic and gullible...

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' You have come such a long way since you joined Red Hot Pie. It's bloody wonderful to see. my resolution is to be me and dive into my sexual exploration. Yes, I have definitely moved into a different space wrt to discovering and exploring my sexuality. Thanks to RHP and the friends I have made here, both sexual and non-sexual., like yourself. It was a rough ride the first few months of my tenure here with some people giving me a hard time in the forum.l Guess what, I stuck it out, stuck to my guns and same people, are now my friends!!! You just never know what the future brings. The forum has opened my eyes to see and accept certain aspects of sex that would have otherwise remained taboo. Also the fact that I have met some really nice and very naughty men who has helped me come out of my shell has been most exhilarating and I can't wait for the next chapters of this path to self discovery. xxx

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Resolution to stop posting on this forum. Apparently i'm a bitch with a big head that enjoys being nasty. And thats not what i am, so it will be bye bye.......lve had a blast. Annie Xxx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Annie, don't make me wrangle you in public. You'd tumble, tear a hole in your stockings and risk losing a chicken fillet. It would be rather undignified. Hang about and no one need smear their mascara.

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Whateverway' Resolution to stop posting on this forum. Apparently i'm a bitch with a big head that enjoys being nasty. And thats not what i am, so it will be bye bye.......lve had a blast. Annie Xxx You know that is not true... we all enjoy your posts. No, we love it, most of the time. Hell, you cant be perfecdt all the time.. Don't let the negative comments get to you and like anything else, they all will past and tomorrow is another day. Who cares what they say? For every negative comment you got, remember the positives are fourfolds that. Just to remind you how much you mean to us and how you have helped, you have made such a great impact on the RHP community in general with your the Dear Annie forum thread... Ignore the shit that is thrown at you. If you quit, that is what they want. Take some time off, yes. Regroup regain your composure... but don't leave.... The forum will not be the same without your wit and humour and big heart. I, for one, will miss you. Take heart my friend.. hope to see you back soon.... Big Hugs, Xxx Another drink session is in order, me thinks...

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    If I have to come over your pub to give you a hug and a big kick up your bum, i will do it... WRT the kick up the bum, since you are such a tall fella and me, errr, vertically challenged, I may have to bring my own stool to do it. Or you can just bend over and help me out.... . Is spanking out of the question too???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Ladies, it's entirely possible my post was sarcastic and facetious. B-) Funny ? ? ? What I posted was right.. the person it was meant for was wrong.. you got me good...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    This year has taught me that you can't predict the future, nothing is certain and shit happens! All you can do is try your best

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes, you ARE a bitch! But oh!, how we all LOVE a "good" bitch! Lol! Please stay. Obi1

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  • lovman8

    lovman8

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' 1. Find a guy to be exclusive with, I've realised I just don't feel complete when I'm not in a relationship 2. Aim to get pregnant in 2016, because my clock is ticking and I feel selfish not having children 3. Retire, now I'm financially able to after saving diligently for years 4. Stop drinking alcohol, feeling buzzed does nothing for me anymore 5. Stop making sarcastic and facetious comments on the fora. Actually, scratch that last one, I'm not a fucking magician. ..........THEY are biggies! Then I read your last comment and thought I smell something fishy here (and i don't have a scratch and sniff laptop) ............so I watched and waited before commenting. Good luck with any resolutions any way and hope the new year is happy ,sexy and orgasmic for you Meander and all other forumites.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    According to some,I am a mixture of arrogance and preciousness..also a hypocrite. .. What's not to love about me I say .. 😍 When the bastards are talking about you,at least they are leaving someone else alone hugs Freya xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lovman: Actual resolution: To find a new FWB to try both old and new things with.

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  • NewHorizons6376

    NewHorizons6376

    9 years ago

    Try and find a couple within 100 km of port mac for regular meets and have an on going friendship with them or just someone in port would be great - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • MnauMnau

    MnauMnau

    9 years ago

    I've stopped with resolutions ages ago, so now I needs and wants :D I need sex (ho ho ho, who doesn't on this site?) I want sex: 1. with woman with different nationality/race/color/language (I'm from Europe, so everything in AU counts) 2. the same as #1 + her girlfriend/s 3. the same as #1 + her boyfriend/s (I'm straight, to my knowledge) 4. Want to go to swingers party - Firs-timer :( (could not make it last Friday). lilyorchid 1) Have sex more often... .. Now looking at some tradies for on call afterhours service... Although, I'm tradie and traveling between Brisbane and Sydney now and then, from now on I'll be asking all female customers (on after hours) "Do you know RHP?" Until I get "Yes" as an answer. I wish you all only the best if not better.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mine is to fuck all my new friends even if there interstate. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'wild81au' Mine is to fuck all my new friends even if there interstate. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    9 years ago

    2015 was a huge year of change for me. I'm not making any specific resolutions for the New Year, but I do like DG's "say goodbye to stress" one - I'm going to continue to add that to my list of hopes for the future. And, whilst Meander's initial list made me laugh out loud, I love her ACTUAL one - I'd love to find a local FWB (with very strong emphasis on the "F").

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  • tylannister

    tylannister

    9 years ago

    1) Finish my PhD 2) Finally get my Star Wars tattoo

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  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    9 years ago

    If I was going to make a resolution, my new tattoo would be on that list - along with finishing my Masters, which is KILLING me right now! And a Star Wars tattoo huh? Nice! (*Swoons a little ... *) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Find a nice group to hang out with - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm probably taking over (read: buying) a business I currently work for (as a owner/operater). So my resolution is to make that successful. On the naughty front, to bring a friend along to a mixed swinger's party. I'd like to stop attending any commercial swingers events as single, to help put the money towards other things (see above), but I know that idea won't last long ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lily, you and I share some resolutions.....perhaps we should join forces as team Melbourne and see if we can make it happen? Seriously though, I'd still like to to explore more of my submissive side....I thought I'd have plenty of offers of that on joining RHP, but so far: crickets!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is to be more proactive on this site xxFreya

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