21 year old female here, trying hard to find a couple with an older woman to teach me some things (more inside)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Google it. Watch a few videos and experiment with yourself. Do not met up with some random dude from RHP who tells you he is a pussy whisperer and will rock your world, that is asking for trouble. Everyone is different and people need time to get to know a lover to really know all their pleasure points. So don't thrown this experience away on a one night stand. That is my advice. :)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Go to sites like Pornhub, Youporn, even Youtube and search for female masturbation. You'll see soon enough what it is that makes you feel funny down below, and exactly how to copy it. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Hi Sugarbaby, One thing I can think of is to be patient with yourself and to not feel out of the ordinary. If by any chance you feel anxious about it, that in itself could be a distraction from finding any pleasure from masturbation. Maybe it could be that being in front of a mirror could help, so that you get to see where you are moving upon yourself and therefore have that visual relationship with the physical sensations. I agree with Meeka as far as identifying the risk of possibly being taken advantage of, especially in quite possibly being a trusting soul. And this is coming from a male too I might add. Nothing to feel embarrassed about, everyone's sexual journey takes time. Hope these words are helpful, Cheers.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Young lady. Go see a doctor, preferably a female doctor and make sure everything is as it should be. Then if all ok physically your best option is a a sex therapist or psychologist. Your GP will have all the information you will need to help you solve any problems you may have. Good luck.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  It's only a problem if it something you're unhappy with. Lots of people don't feel sexual and there is nothing wrong with that.

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  Mr_MrsAraps

  10 years ago

  I would say that you need to know what works for you before you involve others as the first question from the couple will prob be "what are you into" and your reply will be ...... I don't know. That reply doesn't give much boundaries which is not a good thing as it could be anything from tied up and suspended from the ceiling getting whipped to missionary. I would agree that watching porn is a good thing too but also have a think about what fantasies you may have eg two guys, another girl or whatever as the mind is as important as the physical stimulation to your body. And I'm not a woman (last time I have checked lol) but women come into their sexual peak a lot lot older than men do so give yourself permission for it to take some time and be patient. Cheers W. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Have a great website with videos,and other information for women to help them achieve orgasm..Here are Carlin Ross's five top tips..Look at your genitals in a mirror in a good light....Use almond oil or coconut oil on your genitals....enjoy the good feelings with no pressure to orgasm...Fantasise...if it helps read some erotic short stories to set a scene...keep going...I didn't masturbate until I was in my early thirties,it took me a while to reach orgasm but practice makes perfect..touch your nipples,explore your body,get to know where your erogenous zones are..explore your sensuality as well as your sexuality..what scents do you respond to,buy some scented candles...have long relaxing scented baths...buy some beautiful lingerie..occasionally go out without wearing knickers..smile into the eyes of strangers..feel sexy ,find your mojo and most of all relax,enjoy being a young sexy woman hugs xxFreya...ps This book may be useful...How To Make a Girl Come by Carlin Ross

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100'Do not met up with some random dude from RHP who tells you he is a pussy whisperer and will rock your world, that is asking for trouble. Well done Meeks, this thread had the potential to hit 300 replies in a day or so, and you've gone and cock-blocked all us pussy-whisperers in one swoop :(

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  chevtrek

  10 years ago

  Guys near your age don't care they just want sexand chances are you will feel used.As above there is lots of good advice so watch pornand masturbate, feel and discover your body.Try gentle and rough plus indulge your imaginationto discover you.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Doco available on SBS (Catch Up) at the moment called "Lady Wankers", foreign language with subtitles, regarding the myths, perceptions and realities of female masturbation. Like most sex and sexuality doco's, there's always something to be gained from watching them.

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