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3 Questions for all the real women out there.
September 06 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Real" women As opposed to unreal women?I think maybe you should explain yourself a bit better, unless you are looking for some kind of reaction.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
The real women only do those things for real men......
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RHP User
8 years ago
God, oral for me is everything, it's what a live for lol and I love being treated like a sex toy, porn style. I like being dominated, and cumming on my face is my preference, swallowing also, I love the whole wet, sloppy mess, and feeling and seeing the guy's reaction. I'm not just saying that, I orgasm while I'm doing it, it seriously turns me on seeing and feeling their reaction. This has intensified in recent years, more so with every meet. It's what I think about when I masturbate. I sometimes ask the guy to let me lay down, close my eyes, and have him hover around my face with his cock, so I don't know exactly where it is, when it will touch my lips, it's the tease, it turns me on, and I like them to then crouch down over me and dominate me. I used to like it on my tits and on my back after doggie lol but now my preference is on my face. I don't know why women worry about getting it in their eyes. The eyes sort themselves out, they close when they need to, I've never had it go in my eyes, but over that area, yes. Anal, you can't expect unprotected anal sex, or you can, but if you do engage in unprotected with multiple partners, you're putting them all at risk. At the very least, you must tell each partner, for their own safety
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Missb4u
8 years ago
It's an absolute yes to 1 and 2 and a definite no to 3. No cum in my arse or pussy without a condom. I would only consider that with an exclusive partner and when playing with others condoms would be required. I adore cum though and do look forward to the day I can enjoy it fully again. OP a lot of women don't like cum in their face or mouth but you are more likely to find ones that do on here.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love cum, it's sexy. I'd like to say a definite yes to all three with a very trusted partner but one and two definately, just love it. OP, can I say there are a number of criteria used to determine if I'm a real woman and it's not if I participate in cum play! I know one woman in particular who I idolise and love dearly and she doesn't do cum play. I can safely tell you she's real and all woman, sexy as fuck and beautiful to boot :) Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fucken hell.....where can I get one of those dolls?? Cos they're fucken realistic as fuck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
On eBay. Buy two and have yourself an orgy. Hope you have a health Pay Pal account. ;-)
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undieszip
8 years ago
I met a lady on tinder she only wanted a facial... And had to video it..... her man "worked in imigration" 😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The Chinese are perfecting the art of the unreal woman. I think you can buy one one on Beijing eBay 😈 Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
For one and two, definitely not number three for me like Missb. But it has to be someone I have trust with before I let them cum on my face. And yes cum burns like hell when it's gets in your eye! I don't like to close my eyes, I like to stare into my partner's as they do it. There has been the occasional misfire unfortunately!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' Fucken hell.....where can I get one of those dolls?? Cos they're fucken realistic as fuck BangGood duh ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Stds are rampant among porn stars who go bareback .....penetrating the arse can cause minute tears and infected semen penetrating the wound increases the risk of catching the std....same as swallowing cum...have it spurt onto your face into your mouth..... Surprised the basics of safe sex need to be explained on this site..... Will do all 3, but only with a long term trusted partner in a loving telationship.....not with one offs, or occasional hookups.....definitely not with someone who swings and gets others to experience the same 3 events..... Not worth the risk of getting a positive test from the pathologist - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I prefer to swallow but don't mind it anywhere on my body really. It does wash off you know :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I took the OP's use of the words "real women" to mean women in the real world, as opposed to women in porn, who don't necessarily represent women in the real world. One and two for me with a very trusted and regular partner.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
What makes a woman a " real woman "? Is she only real if she likes ejaculate on her face , in her mouth and up her bum ? Ejaculate on ones face is OK, however it's not nice to get it in ones hair, and can cause unpleasant complications if one gets it in ones eyes. Don't like it orally - thick sticky and not nice tasting. And up the anus ? Thanks but no thanks - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
What makes a woman a " real woman "? Is she only real if she likes ejaculate on her face , in her mouth and up her bum ? Ejaculate on ones face is OK, however it's not nice to get it in ones hair, and can cause unpleasant complications if one gets it in ones eyes. Don't like it orally - thick sticky and not nice tasting. And up the anus ? Thanks but no thanks - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
1. Nope 2. Yep 3. Only with someone I really, really trust As Missb pointed out you're going to get somewhat skewed responses asking questions like that on a site like this because most of the people here are going to be more sexually adventurous.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think the OP is just referring to women in general - as in not the women in porn - he perhaps just didn't word it in the best way.
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lovman8
8 years ago
1) Love the idea of cumming on a woman's face (if they're willing) but when the time cums I feel like squirting as deep and as hard as possible rather than pulling out?2) Ahhhhhh bliss......isn't that how a blow job should finish?.......and I WILL kiss you afterwards3) Haven't done it very often but I do like anal (after all a hard cock will happily try ANY hole) and again ( given the right circumstances) the hard and deep finish feels best. PS And I have admired it before but Missb72 if I happened to be close to that beautiful naked bum of yours it would probably get an unrestrained involuntary covering of cum!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the clarification. That's exactly what I meant. And I agree not the best description I chose. Sorry to everyone I offended. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think he worded his question poorly - I was about to get all offended too but I think he means "Women who are not porn stars". Why he would think that's who he'd be getting answer from here, I don't know but anyhow... I think the problem with porn is that these kinds of acts have become an "expectation" for men. As someone who works with teenagers, I worry about this for young girls. These kinds of sexual acts have to be negotiated between the consenting partners who are engaging in them. Porn, unfortunately, sets young men (and old, apparently) with the idea that they are somehow being deprived if their sexual partners aren't into them. My personal opinions might be different but here's the problem I see with the things you want: 1. Facials - are often seen as degrading. Why do you want to cum on a girl's face? Have you ever really thought about why that's a feature of porn and why it's a turn on? It is mainly a dominating act and some girls (surprise, surprise) don't like it. Some do. It's a visual/power based turn on for me and some women aren't into it. Get over it, find somewhere else to do it or find another partner. 2. Swallowing - again, have you ever thought about why you like it? It don't affect the quality of your orgasm. It's another dominance/visual turn on. Some women like it, some don't. Guys who piss and moan about snowballing always crack me up. Really? When you have to swallow it's disgusting? Think about that for a while. Again, porn make it seem like if you don't lap it up like it's Nutella flavoured, you're some kind of frigid bitch. 3. Anal. Fucking anal. This one pisses me off the most. Firstly, the stupid notion that you've been unlucky because boring women won't let you cum in their arse unprotected is laughable. Who in their right mind would let a casual partner orgasm unprotected in their anus in this day and age? Not only is it completely irresponsible but even more dangerous than unprotected vaginal sex due to the likelihood of tears. So you'll get no sympathy on that one from me - get a permanent, committed partner if you want that kind of freedom. On anal in general, WOMEN DO NOT OWE YOU ANAL SEX. Another side effect of porn. There is nothing wrong with anal, many people enjoy it but it is not something that has to be on offer in every sexual encounter. Some women like it, some don't. And that's perfectly ok. It does not make the frigid or boring. Any many who cries about not getting anal needs to either grow the fuck up or find a more sexually suitable partner. End rant. :-)
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LittleGiant
8 years ago
Why are people getting so uppity about a little terminology? I took that to mean 'real women' are women who have sex for pleasure rather than 'fake' sex for money. The OP even SAID that he knows it's not real life so quit jumping down his throat and chill out already. To answer your questions OP, no no and no. None of the above appeal to me. I have a really bad gag reflex when it comes to sperm so even having it near my face makes me gag...which I try to avoid because I think it could seem offensive to a guy, so I avoid both 1 and 2. Number 3 does nothing for me and I honestly don't get the fascination with it for 'some guys' either. Each to their own but definitely not for me. AbnormallyNormal THANK YOU! Your post is pretty much everything that was in my head and you've said it perfectly. Women don't owe many ANY of those things, not just anal. And I hate feeling inferior or 'frigid' because I'm not into crazy porn star style sex like that. Sex doesn't always have to be kinky, crazy and out there to be enjoyable. Consider ANYTHING you get a blessing and you're lucky than some that aren't getting laid at all. Miss Little xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Keep in mind, not even porn stars always like everything they do on camera. Yeah some of them do but I can guarantee that there will be those who aren't really into facials, or swallowing, or unprotected anal, but they're doing a job and so they do it and put on the act that they love all of it. I know you say that you realise porn isn't real life, but a lot of the wording in your OP suggests to me that you have built up some unrealistic expectations about these sort of acts from watching porn, and you'd be far from alone there. I'm not saying it's bad to want to try those things, it isn't at all. Just keep it in perspective and try to really understand the very valid reasons why a lot of women don't like them.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A lady friend loved me to cum on her face...so she bought a paior of "Spunk Specs" she called them.She used to get turned on by looking at my contorted face and my spunk spurting from my purple knob eye, hitting her face n open tongue flicking mouth...then lick n swallow my cum from the glasses.Yummmy she'd laugh...xSteve
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RHP User
8 years ago
Abnormally normal I agree totally with everything you said. I have a daughter and a son and am very concerned that they will think all the things they see in porn eventually, and they will think these things are normal and are expected from them. Which isn't further from the truth. Yeah I agree boy will expect a girl to do these things and the girl will think shit maybe I have to do it tomkeep him interested in me which isn't the case at all. So many documentaries on this already teenagers being asked their opinion on sex what they like and they have no idea. They just say stuff they see in porn and they think it's the norm. Which it's not. I did not mean that I expect a women to do these things for me, I was just curious to see if there was women out there that enjoyed them and not just in porn universe I'm sure even porm stars hate some of the things they do. I defiantly don't objectify women at all I defiantly didn't mean to make anyone angry or offend anyone. Everyone has the right to choose what they want to do and what they don't want to do. I've always been a outcast because I don't drink. The amount of people that think there's something wrong with me because I don't drink is enormous but I don't give a fuck what they think it's my choice. If someone chooses to do certain sexual acts that's their choice. They shouldn't be made to do things they don't wanna do or try. I don't think I should be shot for asking questions like these especially when some of the answers here kinda say there are women out there that like some of them. Not cracking it just stating a point. Their just questions no harm intended. I think I'll read over my questions before I post next time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I reread your original post - you said you "honoured their wishes and didn't force them to do it [anal]". So, you didn't rape them? Well done, you!. Are you looking for praise?
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Well written. You have hit the nail on the head exactly !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Well written. You have hit the nail on the head exactly !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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cat_n_the_hatter
8 years ago
Let me state clearly that I don't think all porn is bad. Are you addicted to porn or have a fetish? Maybe you find power games to be a turn on? Sex is so many things to different people. Porn industry aspires to be our sex educator. Watching porn might contribute to men’s inability to relate to women in an honest and intimate way despite a longing to feel loved and connected. This is because pornography exalts our sexual needs over our need for sensuality and intimacy. The reality is that many porn videos online now have titles that include demeaning words like “bitch” or “slut” and showcase controlling behaviors that are rooted in a culture of subjugation where women are nothing more than sexual bodies to be exploited and dominated by men. Answers to your questions.No.No.No. Because REAL men don't look at porn for inspiration. It's not that you had bad luck but real life sex is so much more than porn industry would want you to know.(Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I get that you may have not expressed yourself well. I would advise reading over your questions too - imagine if your daughter was reading it (and you weren't her Dad!) - how would that read to her? Would it make her think that men do have expectations of women based on what they see in porn? You might really want to rethink the the phrase "forcing them to do it". It really, again, suggests that those acts are seen as "givens" in sex now and anyone who doesn't do it is somehow letting you down. Also, the sentence "Do real women do these acts or have I just been unlucky?" strikes me as self-entitled, too. Also not attacking you - although it might seem I am. I just want you to understand what's it's like for women.
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Home_Eric
8 years ago
I'm definitely not a real woman OP! But I get where you're coming from. I have enjoyed porn but bristle when I think it is at its most exploitative and when it presumes that casually humiliating women is the normal sexual mode of men. I've never come on my partner's face - I've never wanted to because it seems inherently selfish and it's not really the way I like to climax anyway. I'm sure there are women who like it but I certainly would wait to be ask .However I have been with partners who have wanted me to come in my mouth and who ask me to do it. That has always been in a situation where there has been familiarity, comfort and trust (especially where you are departing from really safe sex). You like someone, you tend to like tasting them, taking them into your body and carrying them away with you! I feel the same way about going down on my partner Never done anal (top or bottom). Never crossed my mind to. If I take up a partner who wants it from me I'd certainly discuss it, but it's not at the top of my mind. Anyway, who cares what I think? You're asking the dames!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thankfully I also read it as real world woman and not the plastic, porn versions that live well outside the realms of normality.....I thinkAs much as I love sex I think the idea of cumming on a womans face (or males for that matter) is degrading to that woman. Sex should be something enjoyed by both and neither should be made to feel like an object. As for swallowing, if that's the choice then great but like anything should form part of a greater sexual repertoire rather than something that is just expected. Cant comment on the anal one as never experienced it so will leave that to those who can comment from experience
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' 1. Nope, hate it2. Hell yes, love it!3.With a trusted partner - bring it! If you are not real you are the best dream ever.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If women like it, they like it because, well... they like it. They may or may not have been influenced by anyone or anything they have seen, and they may or may not see it as degrading, they may even see it as empowering. As for yourself, you just have to decide whether you are being influenced by someone or something you have seen, and if so, how that affects anyone you are with. We all have likes and dislikes, kinks and naughty interests. These interests will also change over time. We might grow to like something we didn't, or stop enjoying something we once did. Sometimes our activities have been inspired from porn, sometimes from other erotica, sometimes from seeing them enjoyed in person (ie at a party), sometimes from reading other personal accounts (like the forums), or other educational material (kama sutra). Porn features pretty much all activites possible between consenting adults, and every intention about how they are presented. We tend to stereotype porn by what is typically "hardcore/degrading" activities, yet porn is also a film with a couple making love in the bathtub surrounded by candles. Some women will hate the idea of cum on her face, yet love it elsewhere, like the breasts. Guess what, finishing elsewhere as such is also regularly in porn. So are both places degrading? Or just one of them? (The answer is, it always depends on the person/s. Both are skin, different sections of the same body organ, but our feelings and level or attachment/detatchment to different areas will vary). Even if the activity being done is common in porn, the way porn presents it may be quite different to how it is usually undertaken off camera between other consenting, if not loving, adults. The point is, there are two people (min) involved, and "real women" or more correctly "real couples" will do whatever it is they both enjoy. If either person does not enjoy it, it won't be done. It is not about either person asserting their interests over the other, it is about mutual satisfaction. But whether the activites being done are commonplace in porn or not is really irrelevant. What is relevant is whether your attitude and relationships towards women as free thinking individuals is affected.
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Flirtychick
8 years ago
I do not like cum on my face but I really like it when my husband cumes all over my breasts and stomach.I have only once ever tasted cum - and I disliked it immensly.I do enjoy anal sex with my husband without a condom but with another man there will have to be a condom on.
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cat_n_the_hatter
8 years ago
I don't think that some people ( men and women), understand how porn industry is trying to determine what is a norm, and what should be expected when two people “are together”. It is a pressure, especially for young women to conform and oblige. CONSENT is not enough. Consent does not include mutual pleasure. Porn industry is trying to posses our intimacy and turn it into commodity.The consequence is that we are selling our intimacy, it's position in our lives and sometimes even affirming misogyny as a norm. People having sex is not pornography.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Very well said. Well thought out comment and so true
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' I reread your original post - you said you "honoured their wishes and didn't force them to do it [anal]". So, you didn't rape them? Well done, you!. Are you looking for praise? I think this comment was very harsh and rude. The op didn't mean he was going to rape someone, putting thoughts into text form isn't easy and is quite often done in a hurry, things get lost in transalation, so a little understanding is needed with slight miswording of some things, such as this. You kind of jumped on it. Well he's now gone so well done everyone, great job and it appears I'm the only real woman here who likes to be 'degraded' sorry if that makes you all feel inadequate
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RHP User
8 years ago
firstly, my last comment was angry, because I get tired of reading comments deflecting the real issue for those people. I don't have a problem with those of you who came in here and said 'yeah, nah, definitely' or 'nah, nah,.........' comments about why you're not into it, fine, that's great. But those of you who imply there's something wrong with copying porn or wanting to have sex that way, very much a part of my play with the dom/sub thing btw, why is that wrong? The truth is it's not wrong at all, and you worry about your children being influenced by it? Why? Are you afraid they'll have an amazing sex life and know how to pleasure men, that they might enjoy it, get off doing it? I'd be more than happy for my kids to do exactly that, to have the ability to let themselves go and not be contained by old fashioned ideals and sexual 'formality' if you like If you feel inadequate, then just say that, but don't follow it up in the same breath putting others down who do like it, and suggest it's wrong. Be happy with yourself and your sexuality but don't put others down for their choices. I get turned on by role play, rape role play etc the whole lot, group, individuals, whatever, but it's about men having control over me, and much of that is the mind, the physical is only a small part of it. It's a fetish and it's bloody amazing, so I'd suggest you go and enjoy your sexuality, and leave those of us who do enjoy it, to do just that, without stereotypical views based on your own insecurity. A harsh comment, yes, but I've been reading these comments and it's typical, exactly what happens in squirting threads. Can't just say, no I don't do it, have to make fun or put down people who do. Porn has absolutely influenced my sexuality and thank God for that, bring it on, I'm only scratching the surface. Have you considered that the bi/gay community, along with bdsm and kinks, have actually benefited from the influence of porn, because it becomes accepted, and exposes all of us to exploring parts of us we never thought we would, pushing the boundaries. Nothing is weird in this sexual lifestyle, what one likes, another doesn't, why not just say whether or not you're into it, and leave it at that?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' I get that you may have not expressed yourself well. I would advise reading over your questions too - imagine if your daughter was reading it (and you weren't her Dad!) - how would that read to her? Would it make her think that men do have expectations of women based on what they see in porn? You might really want to rethink the the phrase "forcing them to do it". It really, again, suggests that those acts are seen as "givens" in sex now and anyone who doesn't do it is somehow letting you down. Also, the sentence "Do real women do these acts or have I just been unlucky?" strikes me as self-entitled, too. Also not attacking you - although it might seem I am. I just want you to understand what's it's like for women. it hardly suggests that they're a given, he means "I didn't badger them about it". " are these things done by real women of the world if so I must have bad luck." I think it is only fair to classify that as self-entitled if he had used "real women" in a manner where "real" was a superlative and implied that women who did not do something were inferior... but we know he didn't use it in that manner. If asking questions was going to lead his daughter to think that men have expectations of women in sex, and this is a bad thing, if we take that position then almost ANY question about sex is verboten as some poor numpty might feel that it creates an unfair expectation on them? If you ask "Do women like men going down on them?" isn't that creating an unfair expectation on men to perform a certain sex act that they may or may not like. I'm not entirely sure that I care if something is considered an expectation - expecting something doesn't mean you're entitled to it.I much rather take the benign view that his questions can all be dealt with as data gathering and then comparison of numbers to determine how common/uncommon it is that RHP people would to do the things he was asking about.
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Blaze..... given your other topic, is your partner a real woman? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' If asking questions was going to lead his daughter to think that men have expectations of women in sex, and this is a bad thing, if we take that position then almost ANY question about sex is verboten as some poor numpty might feel that it creates an unfair expectation on them? If you ask "Do women like men going down on them?" isn't that creating an unfair expectation on men to perform a certain sex act that they may or may not like. I'm not entirely sure that I care if something is considered an expectation - expecting something doesn't mean you're entitled to it.I much rather take the benign view that his questions can all be dealt with as data gathering and then comparison of numbers to determine how common/uncommon it is that RHP people would to do the things he was asking about. the main issue was the wording he used, which he admitted wasn't the best. The way a question is asked carries a lot of meaning in itself and I don't think anyone here is saying it's wrong to ask about that sort of thing per se. Also, expectations can be an issue when they become ubiquitous enough that people feel pressured to conform to them even if they don't want to or are unsure about it. It's all very well to say 'oh people don't have to do anything they don't want to', but it's really not that simple when you consider knowledge and power imbalances in people's sexual interactions (am thinking particularly involving younger girls and women here). (Before anyone has a go at me and tells me I'm just jealous or feel inadequate - I like some porn and watch it myself, but I think that it's a complex issue and that porn has both positive and negative aspects to it.)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Be happy with yourself and your sexuality but don't put others down for their choices." Yes! That's what a fair few here have been saying to you for some time. You got it. thanks, just so I'm clear, can you clarify what choices of yours or others I put down? thanks
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RHP User
8 years ago
when have you ever seen me go into a topic about something I'm not into (sexually), and suggest the people who are into it, are wrong, giving the wrong messages blah blah, I never do that and you know it, because i don't feel insecure and don't need to do that. How does it affect me if I'm not into using a strapon for example? So there might be a topic about it, do I go bowling in and bag out on people who are into that? Absolutely not, why would I, only a jealous or insecure person would do that, get the difference would I blame porn for having guys expect that or suggest it's degrading for the man? Maybe I'd even be concerned he'd feel like a slut lol thanks for your thoughts though, always so insightful
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'LittleGiant' Consider ANYTHING you get a blessing and you're lucky than some that aren't getting laid at all. ...This sums up my opinion pretty completely, too.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Be happy with yourself and your sexuality but don't put others down for their choices." Yes! That's what a fair few here have been saying to you for some time. You got it. No you see you very cleverly worded this. My comment was bang on, a fitting response to the lame comments, and you know it. Very big difference between me commenting within a topic about a sexual activity I'm into and getting put down for, and responding to that, as opposed to me going into a topic about a sexual activity you or your friends are into, and bagging out on you/them, which I never do. Get it? I know you do, don't worry, I won't tell anyone so I fail to see your comparison. Maybe you can explain further, thanks
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RHP User
8 years ago
into or 'not into' would be more fitting
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cat_n_the_hatter
8 years ago
The truth is that after watching porn I find it clear that I enjoy sex so much more than majority of porn actors in porn movies. Love making is far bigger adventure than a sequence of predictable cliches offered by porn industry aiming to appropriate our masturbation. This reminds me of the fact that these films are representations, imitations of sex without ambition to represent real connections. This makes the difference between erotic and pornographic representation. Porn is a copy of sex rather than other way around. Poor copy. In this sense I am certain that real people could be far better sex teachers than any porn. (Ms)
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Seachange
8 years ago
like banging one's head against a wall.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with ITM that porn will open up a whole lot of new ideas to people and lots is people will identify with it and allow then the freedom to indulge. I know I like certain porn which would totally freak out a lot of my friends. Public shaming for instances. But it has to be said that kids are learning a behaviour because they think it's the norm or its should be done that way which is not a good thing either. It may influence them into accepting things they are not really into. I don't have kids so I don't have to deal with that. What about those 12 yr old boys and the 6 yr old recently - apparently they were mirroring what they saw online. That is not good. Not good at all. Recently had this discussion with a friend with were a young boy she knows said to the mother that he saw something online and why was the man hurting the woman. My friend is concerned about her sons and what they may see. In her mind she believes the kid saw "normal lovemaking" and that would be traumatic enough for a child. I tried to explain to her that quite frankly - she is so vanilla that she has no idea what sort of kink is online and available to view for free. - I don't think she was able to comprehend what I was saying. It was all too horrifying for her.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hope my son doesnt take from porn that rape play and degradation is normal. I watch porn and it serves a purpose but fetish porn shouldnt be a young persons intruduction to sex IMO
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RHP User
8 years ago
For the usenofnthe r$&@ word! Double standards here much dear moderators? Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry about the typos :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can't be bothered going back and name checking whoever it was that made these comments about my original post - you'll know who you are... 1. I never, at any point, criticised anyone for their sexual choices. What happens between two consenting adults is entirely up to them. Different strokes for different folks and all that. If facials make you sploosh, happy days. If facials make you feel kinda icky, that's ok too. If facials make you feel different ways on different days, that's still fine. 2. The discussion was really around the way he worded his original post. I am absolutely tired of the kind of expectations porn has set up for some men and the kinds of pressure that can be imposed on some women. If you, as a free woman of stable mind love everything about the kinds of sex you see in porn, more power to you! A person's individual turn ons was never the topic of debate. 3. Thanks for the assumption that my words were so powerful and offensive that I drove him to deactivate his account. However, I think you'll find he's done that because he was outed as a cheat and a liar on another thread. Again, no judgement with the cheating but his BS was intolerable. In case you missed it, he's been married for 20 years but he wife won't put out due to "pain issues". He reckons he's never cheated but has a single profile on here and in this thread cried about all the women he's fucked but won't do the kind of porn acts he wanted. And, just to be 100% clear, I give no fucks what people do in their sex life. I do care about how women are treated and the messages that are being sent to our young girls.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' I reread your original post - you said you "honoured their wishes and didn't force them to do it [anal]". So, you didn't rape them? Well done, you!. Are you looking for praise? I think this comment was very harsh and rude. Well I noticed that comment and thought it was unnecessary, at best. I chose not comment at the time, still not sure it's worth commenting on but will any way.
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
Not the first... won't be the last.(That type typically deactivate, and rise like the phoenix under another new profile.) Quoting 'blaze023'Have I fucked on the first date. We were set up, we clicked , we fucked and have been married for 19 years. Was it the right thing to do at the time. Maybe, maybe not. Did we use protection. No. That was probably the one thing we did wrong, not that she got pregnant or anything. I wasn't expecting to be fucking anyone that night so wasn't carrying condoms either was she. Now would I do it again. Id say yes I guess. but there has to be an attraction to the person. - Posted from rhpmobile That person won't be his wife of 19 years.... I'm guessing
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RHP User
8 years ago
Real Women as opposed to Women as portrayed in Porn is what I got out of that. Sorry to see you go OP. Peachy
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Seachange
8 years ago
Quoting 'AbnormallyNormal' I can't be bothered going back and name checking whoever it was that made these comments about my original post - you'll know who you are... 1. I never, at any point, criticised anyone for their sexual choices. What happens between two consenting adults is entirely up to them. Different strokes for different folks and all that. If facials make you sploosh, happy days. If facials make you feel kinda icky, that's ok too. If facials make you feel different ways on different days, that's still fine. 2. The discussion was really around the way he worded his original post. I am absolutely tired of the kind of expectations porn has set up for some men and the kinds of pressure that can be imposed on some women. If you, as a free woman of stable mind love everything about the kinds of sex you see in porn, more power to you! A person's individual turn ons was never the topic of debate. 3. Thanks for the assumption that my words were so powerful and offensive that I drove him to deactivate his account. However, I think you'll find he's done that because he was outed as a cheat and a liar on another thread. Again, no judgement with the cheating but his BS was intolerable. In case you missed it, he's been married for 20 years but he wife won't put out due to "pain issues". He reckons he's never cheated but has a single profile on here and in this thread cried about all the women he's fucked but won't do the kind of porn acts he wanted. And, just to be 100% clear, I give no fucks what people do in their sex life. I do care about how women are treated and the messages that are being sent to our young girls. You just said what a lot of us has been thinking. You will find that your comments will land on deft ears though. However, bravo. well said.
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Seachange
8 years ago
*deaf not deft.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Another topic overrun by The moralists. I have confidence in my children who know I'm here and have some idea of what we used to get up to as adults on the site. They as adults (as any who are here should be) are perfectly capable of applying their own filters IMO. It could be a great topic idea. How much we fear the effect of sites like this one could have on our children. That said, I/we are quite vanilla in our tastes and the private details shall remain ever a memory. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hate cum on my face ,love swallowing cum..it's very good for you,it contains phagocytes that help fight colds. So if you feel a little sniffly ,reach for a juicey cock 😈. I am not a fan of anal...and like Peachey,my family know I am here. My daughter calls RHPers,"Those sex people " ..bless her 😇Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Everyone has their different take on this, that's great. The key thing here though is we're talking about consenting adults who make their own choices. Hard to explain in text how I feel, because souch gets lost in translation, and the same for others I know. We do the best we can to explain how it is for us. Mary, just so you know, I don't know what you said in your post, but I didn't report it. I uttered the same, in a role play scenario, but maybe try again. I am very pro choice, meaning many of the problems associated with gay phobia etc the awful experiences that gay and bi men, women too I'm sure, have had to deal with, largely parents and families treating them badly, enforcing their own narrow minded sexual path on their children. I haven't done that and see that as the problem. Who are we to say what is right or wrong for our children sexually? I'm happy for my children to play sex out however it works for them, and would never advise them or be concerned about it. Pretty sure they'd be revolted at the thought of me having any opinion on their sex life or what influences they follow. Entirely up to them. They are consenting adults. Why would I care whether porn influences them or not? Perhaps they'll like a squirter or perhaps they'll like to role play, big deal, shock horror, I'd be disappointed if they followed my exact layout of how I do it. It's up to them, surely, and the suggestion that porn will make them do things they don't want to do, well that's just ridiculous and another attempt to deflect the sexual repression. My 2 cents 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
There are some posts that can't be replied to because they make no sense whatsoever. 👌🏼 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I loveeeeeeee a guy cumming on me, I find it so sexy (it gets me going thinking about it) and I always swallow, if i miss any, I always clean it up. Until i got a little more adventurous with my sex life, and started talking to people more openly, I found out how different it is for women to like both of those things, apparently not many people are interested in it, each to their own though!! For the record, cum in eyes is a disaster, I don't advise it if you need to see for about an hour after so gents who havent been lucky enough to give someone a facial, make sure you aim elsewhere
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RHP User
8 years ago
if people are conditioned to think that having cum on their face is the normal thing to do, and a fun thing to do... isn't it more likely that they'll actually find it "the fun thing to do"? We argue that exposure to porn has a desensitising effect and and people become acclimated to seeing and potentially performing acts depicted on screen - but when an act is not damaging to either person in and of itself, does it matter if the exposure to pornography influences what they do? That an expectation changes isn't necessarily a bad thing. On the argument that you should never do something you don't want to do, I agree... but there is also that grey area, where doing something is not damaging to you, but you do it anyway because your partner enjoys it even though you do not. Such as keeping the lounge room tidy, or picking up socks. Many people have no desire to keep a room tidy, yet they go through the hassle because they're badgered by their partner to do something - it isn't enjoyable, but it doesn't hurt them, and it inexplicably makes their partner happy, so they do it. i think that rationale has applications in other areas than just ironing or picking up socks.
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RHP User
8 years ago
interesting reading this topic in my sordid reality of past numerous women from all walks of life have wanted me to come on there faces but its not something I enjoy providing ,perhaps I'm truly a prude or it reminds me of porn and makes me feel dirty but lots of those women believed that raw sperm was beneficial to there skin so for all those men wanting a womens face to come on perhaps you could perpertrate this information to the woman you want to cum on,lol cheers
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RHP User
8 years ago
The one and only time I went to a club .the owner who was a forum poster described watching people having sex as just as interesting as vacuuming 😈 Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Watching straight swinging coupes? Yes most of the time not that interesting. And I agree with S_Onthelooses last comment. 👍🏻
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RHP User
8 years ago
IMO, there are some people not worth replying to because they show a decided lack of understanding for the topic at hand and respect for the people whose opinions they consider aren't worthy of so much as the recognition of acknowledging who they're speaking to. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm all good with in my mouth... More ask you to let it drip back out these days (that's interesting). I'm not really into having it on my face... I guess because I prefer not to feel like a porn star. And as for anything penetrative with a cock, condoms are the go. PS and lots of lube and foreplay for the anal! Just sayin' ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Clearly it wasn't necessary 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't had a guy come on my face, but I don't think I would be into that. I actually love to swallow and I don't have any objection to a guy coming in my arse.
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Katkat
8 years ago
Either my breast or my bum or just everywhere if it taste good I'll eat it 😋 What's more turn on if he slathers it all over my breast wipe it like lotion all smooth 😉😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This girl came over tonight.. Anyway ny d is really thick and long we started slower then I started going hard she told me to stop but I didn't lol she came all over me tho is that mean? That rude? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Aldo haven't you ever heard no means no? Unless you're in a special relationship where that has been discussed earlier and safe words are used rather than no. Yeah it's rude more like rape in my book
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RHP User
8 years ago
If this is not just a troll... Rude is nowhere near enough the derogatory term I would use to describe the fact that you did not stop when told to. MissB got it spot on. I hope the Woman is okay emotionally after that. Creeped out, feeling sick to the stomach Peachy. *retch*
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