RHP

RHP User

M35

3somes

February 23 2010

ive been really keen to try a 3some with the kinda missus but she says maybe all the time.... how can i bring her round to thinking its a good idea and she might like it???   secondly would it be better trying this with a stranger or person known to us??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    With another guy, or with another girl?   Generally maybe means no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    preferably another girl. ive even brought up trading parteners but all she wants is plain jane sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'll answer the easy question first.... Better with a stranger.. first timers should engage the services of a stranger... you can tell them to piss off if you need to without all the long term issues that would cause a friend.   The first question... there's no convincing anyone. She either wants to or it just won't happen. You need to think about why this is a good idea anyway..... apart from teh benefit of experience, what benefit does it bring to your relationship with her? .. for example.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    didnt push and i think she's found a chick wooooooo hoooooooooo

  • BriteLite

    BriteLite

    15 years ago

    Your 19... You need a lot more practice and maturity before you will understand both your and your partners sexuality. But, heres my advice. If she is not keen, its not pleasant for either of you to push the issue. Also, if you are not finding sex with her fulfilling, sooner or later you will have big problems. Dont worry about "loosing" her. If you "loose" a partner cause you werent compatable, its better than being together resentfully for a long time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fjshitbox' didnt push and i think she's found a chick wooooooo hoooooooooo I do miss living out west....NOT!