M50 F47
3somes vs. 4somes
September 09 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
The dynamics can change according to the people in it.I have found that with two straight women and a guy , you all have to be on the same page or a woman feels left out. Practice with the same women, soon gets to sort out the wrinkles.Three women and a guy, well its over load for the guy, so be careful what you wish for.I have one very special play mate, that I have cup cake parties for ( my term for one guy and a bunch of women)In that there were five women, but three of them bi so that makes world of difference, plus the guy is super fit, super attentive and also has the women on a one to one basis or what ever they ask for.He is also very reliable, no bullshit stuff muck about stuff so the girls know he plays well with others.Couples I have only had a few but found the guys focus was a bit much on me at times and not his wife, but I guess thats because I am the new pussy in town. Not really into going down on a woman but then will not worry if they do it to me, so again its the dynamics of the people in the mix.I guys its good for girls in a couple situation to have extra guy, but sometimes the hubby feels left out if he is not bi. Again new cock in town syndrome.I love threesomes, cause I get to rest my old bones, and I am also very quick to cum where my girlfriends are marathon runners.So I am the snack before the main meal lady T serving up the horses douvers ever so posh.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are big believers that all of us like their boat rocked in a different manner.. As a couple we have always preferred a four way play with couples, compared to just FFM, or MFM play, as it allows us both to indulge in our desires, as we both enjoy watching each other enjoying others. Plus we are tired of the constant hits from guys that just don't understand our desire is to play with couples only..It turns us off the single guys..We feel as a couple that single guys are only out there to get runs on the board, with minimal respect..As they can't seem to respect that we don't want them! Yes, The dynamics can change according to the people in it. thats why we don't mind searching a little longer to find the right couples to enjoy..
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RHP User
11 years ago
...and that's only a handful, its been straight FFM each time. I like to share the attention around with each girl so any more than 2 demands more concentration level and less time to savour the moment. I think you have the mix right fun_flitycouple.. Inviting a guy or girl into your world a good way to stay focused on each other . Three is comfortable...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Anything greater than 1 works well for me. Love a crowded room always plenty to do. The M/F mix I don't care some MM couples can be such nut cases...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69' We are big believers that all of us like their boat rocked in a different manner.. As a couple we have always preferred a four way play with couples, compared to just FFM, or MFM play, as it allows us both to indulge in our desires, as we both enjoy watching each other enjoying others. Plus we are tired of the constant hits from guys that just don't understand our desire is to play with couples only..It turns us off the single guys..We feel as a couple that single guys are only out there to get runs on the board, with minimal respect..As they can't seem to respect that we don't want them! Yes, The dynamics can change according to the people in it. thats why we don't mind searching a little longer to find the right couples to enjoy.. So have u done FFM or MMF? We understand totally what u are saying in regards to indulging desires and dynamics does play a large part. For us we find with couples we don't get to have the same interaction with each other, even if we are all in the same bed. It is kind of like a feeling of being apart even though we are together. We find in 3somes we are more connected and in tune with each other plus we love to see each other having fun. Sometimes one of us will actually stop, take a break and just watch. Who knows, maybe we are doing it wrong ;)
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madotara69
11 years ago
We have learned with mfm, there does not need for anyone to feel left out. One time we needed to exercise patience for some time with a prize grabber, But that ceased to become a thing.Another time we had a fantastic time, as no one felt left out.It very much comes down to an even level for respect to each other. For us it comes down to the guys working together, and Tara being adored. She is a lady, not a prize.We imagine the same respects would apply with another woman or couple.Our advice to other couples interested in mfm, is if the man invited begins to exercise control to the situation, things are going wrong. It is OK to stop, and as others have expressed, a code word may be necessary for taking time out to discuss anything that is causing ill feelings. We have feelings for a reason, We need to trust them or understand them.It would be a shame if good people were put off experimenting with sharing, by fucking prize grabbers.Of course Opinions may vary, and this is only ours.Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Though when the right cpl (rarely) comes along 4,can be just as much fun. Mr Funky - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like both, just depends on the players but I really enjoy it when a certain lover is with me as we play off each other. 💦
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer if the men are bi though and the women more than comfortable around each other. I think I have only had one MMFF where the men were straight. It's was okay.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No' you're right... Taking a moment to sit back and watch each other is a huge turn on. Not to mention a moment to spike the raging hormone levels... QUOTE: We find in 3somes we are more connected and in tune with each other plus we love to see each other having fun. Sometimes one of us will actually stop, take a break and just watch. Who knows, maybe we are doing it wrong ;)
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custardapples
11 years ago
Quoting 'fun_flirtycouple' Quoting 'Luvnya69' We are big believers that all of us like their boat rocked in a different manner.. As a couple we have always preferred a four way play with couples, compared to just FFM, or MFM play, as it allows us both to indulge in our desires, as we both enjoy watching each other enjoying others. Plus we are tired of the constant hits from guys that just don't understand our desire is to play with couples only..It turns us off the single guys..We feel as a couple that single guys are only out there to get runs on the board, with minimal respect..As they can't seem to respect that we don't want them! Yes, The dynamics can change according to the people in it. thats why we don't mind searching a little longer to find the right couples to enjoy.. So have u done FFM or MMF? We understand totally what u are saying in regards to indulging desires and dynamics does play a large part. For us we find with couples we don't get to have the same interaction with each other, even if we are all in the same bed. It is kind of like a feeling of being apart even though we are together. We find in 3somes we are more connected and in tune with each other plus we love to see each other having fun. Sometimes one of us will actually stop, take a break and just watch. Who knows, maybe we are doing it wrong ;) We don't believe there is a right or wrong way .. only what makes you happier as a couple. Finding the different opinions quite interesting though. Definately into sharing each others fun and pleasing others along the way.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
The balanced 4way connection is hard to find, whereas in a 3some there's one less dynamic to get right. We've only had a few MFMs and a very enjoyable FMF so there's still time for us to have a 3way go sour but it hasn't happened yet. OP I like your take on why you prefer 3, hadn't really thought of it that way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair'We've only had a few MFMs and a very enjoyable FMF so there's still time for us to have a 3way go sour but it hasn't happened yet. OP I like your take on why you prefer 3, hadn't really thought of it that way. Too true, we also have never had one go sour and we have never had a "prize grabber" either. This would colour our opinion for sure. We've had only positive experiences so far with both singles and couples. We have heard some stories, so lucky I guess. We do talk about how we will handle it if and when we do have a bad experience, with class and dignity of course.I will say, our first time out we were a mess, we both had shit to deal with seeing our partner with another. I feel bad for the couple we were with, nothing overt but not a great vibe for the evening. Things improved dramatically after that through open conversation and communication on expectations. Now as we have evolved and shared a few experiences we feel we really need the interaction with each other. We have a date tomorrow with a nice couple and we are going to try to meld what we like from the singles experience into the couples experience. Hoping it goes well....
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have a date tomorrow with a nice couple and we are going to try to meld what we like from the singles experience into the couples experience. Hoping it goes well.... Quoting 'fun_flirtycouple' We have a date tomorrow with a nice couple and we are going to try to meld what we like from the singles experience into the couples experience. Hoping it goes well....No, didn't go well...not the couple's fault, we just weren't into it. We are now only looking for single girls/guys to play with. It became incredibly clear last night that is all we are interested in.
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
I think 3 somes with a bi guy is the best mfm.. with couples It seem to work better if we pair off and do same room sex . all though we usually get going with the guys playing with each other while the girls watch then move on to what ever happens. I guess there are no fix rules it depends on the dynamics.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
All are fun as long as the people are nice and enjoy what is happening...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69' We are big believers that all of us like their boat rocked in a different manner.. As a couple we have always preferred a four way play with couples, compared to just FFM, or MFM play, as it allows us both to indulge in our desires, as we both enjoy watching each other enjoying others. Plus we are tired of the constant hits from guys that just don't understand our desire is to play with couples only..It turns us off the single guys..We feel as a couple that single guys are only out there to get runs on the board, with minimal respect..As they can't seem to respect that we don't want them! Yes, The dynamics can change according to the people in it. thats why we don't mind searching a little longer to find the right couples to enjoy.. Perfectly said Luvnya69We prefer the couples as generally speaking our swinging is about each other having the opportunity to explore another one on one as opposed to having things get just too "busy".Our Mff meets are usually spent again, one on one time shared among the three as we have learned the "porn movie" style of threesome is way over rated, uncomfortably and awkwardly positioned.The only MMF's we have tried were as though he was out to "nail" another guys girl (fair enough of course) but once they had "shot" , their interest in pleasing me (the woman) waned like interest in a federal election. I dont expect to be pounded for three hours straight but would like to be pounded over a three hour period.Perhaps a lesson here for single guys looking to join a couple.Think about why the man of the couple likes to see his girl with another guyAnd, Why they are prepared to include a single guy.Usually its about "him" wanting to see his wife pleasured and not about having you blow your load and leaving.Just a thought!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've done some FFM which is awesome, but done some MFM and honestly not a huge fan, I just want to f--k the girl but there's some dude in bed aswell for some reason. MFMF I get a girl all to myself and i can look over a watch my girlfriend getting plowed, would take MFMF over MFM anyday. I would do MFM again but only if the other dude barely got involved and let me f--k his girlfriend 1on1 most of the time. If he watches fine by me but let me and her have the bed. Only other reasons would do MFM again is if i got a FFM in return, or I have the chance of 1on1 meets with the girlfriend down the track.- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
That was almost convincing.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it really depends on the people involved. I quite like some sort of connection and some intimacy...kissing, cuddling, skin to skin....That does not always happen be it a threesome or a foursome.
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LOVETHREESUMS
11 years ago
Hi just to say we agree totally ..our experience is just that as we find it soooo hard to find couples where we are both attracted to, and even if you do unless there is a connection on the night with all 4 it goes to crap, the stats are against getting 4 people all happy and in tuned, and we have to agree its just more enjoyable all round in a MMF when the lady gets all the attention (which I might add she just loves).. hey its also much easier to get hot guys than to get hot single ladies, as much as they talk it up the chances are slim. So yep we are totally on board and we now focus our time selecting hot singles for 3 sums
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