M34 F30
4some
September 10 2016
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Paradisepair
8 years ago
It took 5 months here before we had our first date. My advice 5 years later, get on out there either in the swinging social scene or get straight to girls chat on the phone to work out who is serious.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
They are probably not a couple at all - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Or teens at home could have an impact on them not being able to do Cam. Try for a girl to girl chat on the phone...verifies its not a single male....and easier for some - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The amount of blokes sneaking n creeping behind wives back is crazy... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pardon me if this comes across as harsh, but here are our thoughts after meeting a couple 2 weeks after joining: a) You don't have a profile. Your 'about us' section asks a question and says nothing about you as a couple in the 21 words you scribed. Beef it up. WHO ARE YOU?b) What are you looking for section? "Mature, educated, and clean" you say... That's it? Nothing more?c) You have no photos. You have a profile pic that's verified - great. But you have no private gallery photos to share. Sure, you'll webcam, etc... but you're asking for the next level of a couple's personal information before they've even seen your photos as a couple.d) This might be our issue, and pardon us if we're close minded. But when we see somebody... seeking (as you are): Man,Woman,Couple,Groups,Couple (FF),Couple (MM),TV,TS it just gets us thinking - "Wow, they'd fuck everybody out there in any scenario." Maybe it's us, but we'd shy away from such a profile as newbies. Be specific - what/who do you want in your bedroom?e) Pay. If you're serious, upgrade the profile and pay for a membership. Statistically speaking, paid couples are no doubt having more sex than guests.f) Don't pay. You guys sound open. Don't pay, and use the dough to go to a swinger's club or a private party... it's a guaranteed experience.g) Screw the webcam, Skype, etc... Prefer to meet over a wine. Just our thoughts. Have fun, and good luck and happy fucking and all that other good stuff...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Was Entitlement...... Oh and whining....yes I'm harsh, but is it honestly that big of a deal?? If they can't cam, then they're not suited to you...move on. No point dwelling on it. Once you've run out of potential couples that can't cam then you'll learn something else.....one of those may be that not everyone feels the need to cam up. Because whilst you may see it as a screening process, others may see it as "just another couple that are probably fake, that wanna beat off in front of us before disappearing into the ether like the others before them did" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That you've got about 3-5 couples already friended, so you're not really that hard done by.... Unless of course you're just adding random people that you've never met to inflate your popularity a tad...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wow they'd fuck everyone out there in any scenario Yep that's me !!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't have a problem with people listing all combinations of ppl to meet, some ppl are interested in a variety of situations, but in those combinations I'm extremely picky, yeah sure looks are important but they kinda still need to offer the experiences I'm seeking. Wittysex explained everything perfectly. I'm a guest to, and I'm still considering membership, but as a single female, I struggle to reply to the people who contact me, never mind me going to seek out others. But if a profile has nothing on it, or a generic one, I just close it, without looking further. And the cam thing it's not like ppl are trying to avoid it, I'm a plug in things kinda girl, I don't like to read things to set things up, just click a button, I'd have no idea how to access my cam let alone use it, and skype I really cannot be bothered learning to use cause I'm busy doing other stuff that needs doing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's right. If you are all attracted to each other and Into it. Why not? Some people are very bound by rules and of course some swingers are very conservative funnily enough. I think they mean that if someone is open to the person regardless of their sexual orientation or persuasion then they must be easy with no standards. Wittysex, that's not true. Not true at all. Expand your horizons and who knows what might happen. :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I guess there are lots of fakes out there but perhaps people are also concerned about being recorded - from what I here anyway.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The couples I have met are always wanting to have an intro in person. Being a single male it is near always necessary. Nature of the game. Play by the rules and the results will come. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am finding it hard to find women wanting to talk at the moment , I'm new to the site just a couple days - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am finding it hard to find women wanting to talk at the moment , I'm new to the site just a couple days - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wittysex. By your logic am I to assume you'll fuck any woman and couple? Sheesh. Agree with your other comments. But I disagree wholeheartedly with that particular one.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fair question. And the answer is no. I just find a disconnect when one ticks every (they'd be keen to meet) box like that then writes less than the default words given by RHP.
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RHP User
8 years ago
WittySex, I can appreciate that point.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your profile: a) You have the default RHP text... therefore, you don't have a profile saying anything about yourself; b) You are an unpaid member. On RHP, a single male with no visible pic, no text on their profile, and no paid membership? I wouldn't stock up on condoms if I were you.
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WineAndFunTimes
8 years ago
Some great pointers have already been said by others but I'll reiterate because we've had heaps of success on this site. - Becoming a paid member will let people know that you are serious. You can't expect others to always chase you. - Add more than 1 pic! Have pics of both of you and have pics in a private gallery so you can show people what you look like. - Write more than a few words in the free word section. How would I know if I want to meet you when you haven't really said who you are or what you are really looking for. -Why cam when you can meet face to face? I hate webcam chats. Internet can be slow, a webcam adds 10kg, setting up yet another account e.g skype is just annoying. I already have RHP, AMM, kik, facebook, twitter and email. -If they make excuses, move on. There are so many time wasters and imposters on this site. Above everything else just remember that being on a site like this or even going to a club doesn't guarantee you get action.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We hate that, as we do look for guys to play with us, but say wife does not know, They should join other dating sites for that, as we not here to please men that are not happy in there marriage, And not here to destroy other marriages, respect for couples when playing is the first thing in swinging, And men that r married r the first onces not to care, as all they want is there fix,
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jenniecruising
8 years ago
Don't always discount the "No Cam" excuse we in particular choose not to cam based on we don't have high speed internet. Yep in this day and age of ultra fast super dooper speeds we stand at the end of the line to be connected to the modern world. Our only internet access is via mobile wireless via one tower provider and that signal is weak to just workable. It costs us a fortune averaging around $300 a month to keep social, keep our business running and stay connected to the world. A cam uses extra data we cannot afford. Holding our breath for the NBN (next year), or a neighbour keeling over so we can get an ADSL port at the exchange.
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naeknickers
8 years ago
For us, and other genuine couples, doing an online cam / skype session is just a no. Maybe its an age thing! But if there is an initial connection there, then you meet up for a quick drink or a coffee. Maybe thats old school now :) We make it clear (as most other couples we know do to) that the first meet is never a play meet, you always know within the first 5 mins. Make a connection, catchup for a drink/coffee/go away and think/ play or not. Not much more to it than that.
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