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50 ways to lose a lover
October 14 2013
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
With guys, and would love to hear their response, it is the broken nail scenario ie that's all it takes and we're ditched, no question or explanation........Girls have no idea of trying to understand that! For me it's hopefully never as shallow, I like to think we all make mistakes and if the person is special it's definitely worth a second chance...... The usual criminal, drugs, cheat, racist or other values lost or lack of of concern for self or others.......mental health issues (did that for 10 yrs for a guy), moody or violent people, smokers are all a no no....... :))
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Drama.....of the manufactured type. DG says next!!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
And Misogynistic comments about previous lovers or the Ex. NEXT!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Plaited armpit hairs... Especially with the marble at the end... Everytime she moved, I got donged by one or the other... Needless to say, I didn't see her again... :-( S'nP
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On_Safari
11 years ago
And "I just wanna talk about me" or they always have to have a yarn bigger and better than the next person. Vapid and self-absorbed, rude and arrogant with entitlement issues. "Picachoo" behaviour, you know, you're not as pretty as my last girlfriend, your boobs are saggy, that kind of demoralising shit. Oh and you can't trust any man who spends more time in front of the mirror than you do, being proud of your appearance is fine; being obsessed with it isn't. Ummmm yup that is all I think.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just got sick of giving and giving and getting nothing in return :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pound pound pound!!! That's for you Superfoxy!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
On the outside, ugly on the inside... Next
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RHP User
11 years ago
Small mindedness. Lack of perspective about what really matters. Shallowness. Judgment of others without the ability to recognise and acknowledge it as judgment. Lack of curiosity about the world. A no man - has to be talked into adventure. The blame game - everything's everyone else's fault. Excuses. Lack of authority. Indecisiveness. I could go on ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
generally for one offs when there is a mismatch in expectations, which generally leads to one or both parties not being satisfied so why do it again ?for ongoing is generally a matter of timing, people move on and meet someone else so cant continue the arrangement, move of location which makes it impossible or too hard to maintain... those type of life changing circumstances that just makes it not what if was before i guess.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had so much to say , But then I realised I hadn't read the Title correctly ...;) GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
For me it would be my partner becoming a overly religious . I don't care if its Christianity , Islam, Hindu.. Religious people in general drive me crazy.. I just want to strangle them when I hear them go on about heaven and jesus etc. lol Also if my partner was overly conservative and/or asexual ...or overly jealous. I wouldn't care too much if she cheated or even lied to me , I can forgive that. But No religion !! lol
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Bunny boilers , just way too possessive . Girls that don't like jack rabbiting lol PMS 364 days a year- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with all that... But you wouldn't go there in the first place though. As for established lovers, I suppose you fall out of lust and into friendship. :D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Short term lover... if there isn't any chemistry then I'll break it off... I'll give anyone a fair chance but if it isn't there then it is better to gently break it off and stay good friends. It isn't fair to lead someone on if it doesn't have a real chance of working.Long term lover... inequality is what kills it for me. If I'm with someone for a period of time then I would hope that we would be equals, nothing is more off putting than giving with no return respect and care. Or maybe I'm too sensitive?I do agree with some of what lilmiss_fussy says however some things I will happily deal with as I'm sure the other half would see in me. Nobody is perfect, least of all me :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
you try to converse and nothing craps u.No umpf I call it.live lesshumorlessno spirit
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RHP User
11 years ago
A few early tests can yield great insights. A first date dining at a pasta restaurant. Insist she orders the spaghetti bolognaise. Observe the reaction to getting sauce on her clothes. Does she make her way to the bathroom, or surrender to messiness and offer you one end of the spaghet in her mouth? The ugg boot test. Meet her in public wearing uggies. Observe her response. Does she backpedal, or pay you out? The fart test. I once met a guy who decided his relationship in its early stages needed to pass this crucial stage, and when he farted in front of her, she gave him a score out of ten. He decided then & there he would marry her, and he did. The dog sleeping on the bed test. It is still debated at what stage to introduce this test for reliable results. Oh god! My account has just been hacked by a teenage advice columnist!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sick of giving and never get back is one of my most break up reason. At least one who make me put a definite end. The last one, i got sick of the whole drama queen act...- Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
11 years ago
But we had some good communication via here, and then I found out he is married, not divorced. Couldn't do it, I don't want to cheat anyone...and I felt I couldn't trust what he'd told me. :( Me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes you just go off them... Can be a host of reasons... One being more interested than the other then either feeling hurt or feeling pressured.... Political views that I don't respect - just to clarify... I can disagree and still respect your view... Shit attitude can be off putting, sometimes these things take a few meetings to discover... Sometimes the chemistry is just ok but not mindblowingly fab and you're just seeing if it gets better for a bit cos he's nice but it doesn't ... Next... Sometimes it's just not worth the hassle to meet up... Too far away or whatever... It's usually a combination of things too, not just one thing.
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013' Girls that don't like jack rabbiting lol I'm still new - what the hell is jack rabbiting?!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me' Quoting 'wingman2013'Girls that don't like jack rabbiting lol I'm still new - what the hell is jack rabbiting?! I believe it is akin to your lover utilising your body like a pogo stick, or like a jack hammer.
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Unrushed1' Quoting 'him_and_me' Quoting 'wingman2013'Girls that don't like jack rabbiting lol I'm still new - what the hell is jack rabbiting?! I believe it is akin to your lover utilising your body like a pogo stick, or like a jack hammer. Ahhh... is that fun? Maybe you can show me one day, Unrushed?
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RHP User
11 years ago
As well as someone demanding more than I'm prepared and or able to give.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me' Quoting 'Unrushed1' Quoting 'him_and_me' Quoting 'wingman2013'Girls that don't like jack rabbiting lol I'm still new - what the hell is jack rabbiting?! I believe it is akin to your lover utilising your body like a pogo stick, or like a jack hammer. Ahhh... is that fun? Maybe you can show me one day, Unrushed? Invent me a teleporter, and I'm there!
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