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A Great Kiss

September 14 2012

Ok I think I am a good kisser and have never had any complaints lol. But I know of many guys who can't kiss so I am putting to the world my kissing technique. It’s not perfect I am sure, I spend a lot of time trying to prefect it and always looking for women to practice on lol. Wanting feedback of how other people go about it and more importantly what women and guys like from a great kiss. I find by being a good kisser you greatly enhance your chance of getting laid and very often a second date. I find it like dancing, because you can dance women think your great in bed. Because you can kiss, you have great chemistry. Neither is strictly true of course. Unfortunately after some amazing make out sessions some women also lose the plot and think because there was such chemistry your meant to be. I find it's all about being adaptive, just forcing your lips/tongue on someone is bad and you just force them away. Neither do you want to sit back and let them do all the work. Start with small gentle closed lips and part them slowly with theirs. And when you put your tongue out don't do it in spite of the kiss but with it. And gentle, don't push past and all the way down there throat. Gentle and softly press in, let them push their tongue further out by pulling yours back and as they retract push yours out a little. Pull back a little to make them come in closer and then come forward. Feel when they want to pull back and let them. You can adjust the firmness of the kiss to the situation and preference. But don't forget the game of cat and mouse. Nothing worse than a tongue that's just trying to do its own thing and force itself on you. Also don't forget to kiss, just because you involved the tongue now doesn't mean I want to sit and play tongue tennis, lips are sexy, use them. One last thing about the tongue, don't firm it up too much, you can move and even be forceful with it without making it too firm. A technique I learned of many hours of eating out my ex-wife. I find I like to place a hand on the side of their face/neck, experiment see what there more receptive to. I don't like to control with it, but you can control the tone of a kiss a lot with it. Hold the side of their face kind of firmly and you take control a little. Still playing the cat and mouse game. If you want to take a softer submissive role, let your hand be more relaxed and just more softly touching their face. Anyway that’s my approach to kissing may not work for everyone, but would love some discussion on the matter.

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RHP User

12 years ago

hahaha you are right Lill, your technique sounds great. Some men you have to put a hand on the top of their head and a hand under their chin and hold their mouth shut to save yourself from being swallowd whole. Others you have to pinch at the corners of the mouth to break the suction cap seal! It is the lips that are the real turn on for me, nibbling, sucking, licking tracing with my tongue ~~~~~~ aaahhhh. Mmm'waaaah

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RHP User

12 years ago

Meh... too hard... rather have a wank

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12 years ago

If you kissed me like that I would just....melt.

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12 years ago

it is..... the taste ,the smell,the technique...indeed it really is chemistry... it is not......,the open mouth gobble,the tongue tickling tonsils ,the taste of stale cigarettes,or the smell of stale sweat. when it works it is in a word...SUBLIME and endless.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Hi! LillyCD :) Thanks for the Interesting Topic...My style is similar to yours..but For me the pleasure of kissing is in the titillation before you get to the act..I always build up to a very Sensual erotic kiss by holding a Lover close feeling his energies and sharing mine as I slide my hand down his Torso onto...His breathe becomes faster his excitement, Interest is more focused.. He moves his head down we kiss softly ..Then slowly deliberately like you our lips part soft moaning always makes it more intense... I move my hand over the back of his head pulling it back by his hair if I want to be Dominant..He has to look up into my eyes ..I'm thinking I've got you!! Ha!ha! I hold back as he moves forward to claim more kisses.. he has to reach for my lips.. I smile for he is mine.. Finally I return him to the former Position we continue as equal Lovers ..Our warm moist lips, meet soft flat tongues doing the dance of seduction..each making a move to pleasure the other in such a simple but effective way... The tip maybe firmer too just darting over each other... holding his head turning it slightly a little.. moving my mouth to his ear... licking, around the rim flicking it inside..sucking his Lobe to intensify his arousal.. After sliding my tongue over his neck.. back to his swollen sensitive Lips pressing firmly.. More intense kissing insues .. Stopping looking into his eyes then I move over to the other ear.. pleasuring it as before mmmmm...He's aroused even more his hard cock pressing against me,,, His waiting Mouth eagerly wanting more .as does mine ..Sucking his bottom lip gently, moving my tongue along the inside so sensitive..He proceeds to do the same with mine mmmmmmm Repeating it once more as I move my hand over his chest embrace him.. Pressing his mouth firmly as I return to kissing him deeply .. he returns the kisses we moan in unison... This simple act has become so Intense Sensually Erotic..Oh! YUM!! It's such an Amazing feeling We Continue to ..kiss lick suck until it's time for us to pleasure other places.. mmm You Like Baby he!he! Haaaaaaaa! that felt so good Enjoy Cheers Lu :).

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RHP User

12 years ago

If the kissing is hot thats all the foreplay I need sometimes.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Never, kisses and tells Great topic though.. Chris

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12 years ago

Im going to have to find out personally about your technique.

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RHP User

12 years ago

always up for perfection :-P totally bring it on :-)

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RHP User

12 years ago

mmmmm bringing back wonderful memories....of a very special man, who kissed beautifully....never failed to make me breathless and longing for more. Isn't it amazing that you just have that incredible chemical reaction with some people......and i wonder how hard it is to recreate....

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