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A closer look

May 01 2013

So after I finished reading Tuscans profile I still had 5 mins to spare before the guards locked me back in my cell for the evening and decided to check out the women on line. I noticed that there is an increasing number of profiles that have multiple photos that just don’t add up …! So what happens when and if you go to meet these people and they don’t resemble the pictures used in the profile , would it not be best to use up to date photos or do we use ones we think we look best in regardless if we have aged, changed body shape and size or not.. are we convinced that if they just meet us in person our wit and charm will win them over ??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've put on a few kilos since some of my photos. My boobs are bigger now ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have seen it a few times myself when looking at men's profiles. Look, I know Instagram is hot right now, but I can still tell that picture was really taken in the seventies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    look at this one Q= Italian a female lover or woman with whom one is in love; a mistress Answer = Profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I suppose i shouldnt say anything as i dont have a photo.   But we recently made time to meet up with a couple and on a seperate occasion a single girl.   I must say the couple well one of them looked like the photo and the other not even close , he did she looked about 10 years older and 3 dress sizes larger it was very awkward as we declined and left after just 2 drinks.   The single girl was the complete opposite she looked sexier, fitter, healthier and far more attractive so we all left together just after the one drink

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yep I have put a few kilos on too. But this is my real arse even if it is fatter and juicier. So fat in fact you could bounce your balls off it Wowwow. ;-)

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    My bod shots range from now to 10-15kg ago.....again I reiterate I am not a petite or average woman. I'm a big curvy woman bearing the scars of my motherhood and life's excesses out there for only a privileged few to see. I can wear snything from a size 12-24 depending on where I'm buying from......grrrrrrrr........and if anyone has a problem with that it's YOUR problem not mine. Take me as I am or watch my 100ac arse waddle away, unperterbed by your shallow misperceptions. Lol on a lighter note: we all like each other many shapes and sizes and the camera whacks on about 10-20kg depending on how sexy you feel at the time. My camera hates me (so I gotta take 50 pics to get one usable one) so do my scales. Especially when I binned them for telling me I was the correct weight: for an aircraft carrier!!! Like Fat Amy says, all you skinny people are ok because inside I think you all have fat hearts!! Lmfao Safari. xx

  • jensta

    jensta

    12 years ago

    I'm a Woman of course I put my best pic's up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow11' look at this one Q= Italian a female lover or woman with whom one is in love; a mistress Answer = Profile Outing someone on a public forum is not cool, no matter how cleverly you do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and a God damn reality check is always the best policy.I always keep my photos up to date and don't sugar coat anything. I'm more than happy to spell out just how saggy my arse and tits are and cannot for the life of me work out why people would display anything but recent photographs....there is just no excuse in this day and age where everyone has access to a camera or phone.If I lured a man by showing photos of me years ago, or many kg's ago, then met him, only to be rejected based on how I look now - I would be mortified, but he would be justified in doing so as I had misrepresented myself.I have had a few shocks, from meeting people from RHP and how a couple of kg's in their mind, might be 30+kg on the scale - or a few extra wrinkles might be 20 years in the sun worth. Now before you have a go at me, I personally think everyone I have met is beautiful in their own way regardless of their size & for me, sexy comes from within.However I am often left feeling sad that people feel the "need" to hide behind old photographs and not embrace who they are now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But you obviously worked it out

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissPoppins'and a God damn reality check is always the best policy.I always keep my photos up to date and don't sugar coat anything. I'm more than happy to spell out just how saggy my arse and tits are and cannot for the life of me work out why people would display anything but recent photographs....there is just no excuse in this day and age where everyone has access to a camera or phone.If I lured a man by showing photos of me years ago, or many kg's ago, then met him, only to be rejected based on how I look now - I would be mortified, but he would be justified in doing so as I had misrepresented myself.I have had a few shocks, from meeting people from RHP and how a couple of kg's in their mind, might be 30+kg on the scale - or a few extra wrinkles might be 20 years in the sun worth. Now before you have a go at me, I personally think everyone I have met is beautiful in their own way regardless of their size & for me, sexy comes from within.However I am often left feeling sad that people feel the "need" to hide behind old photographs and not embrace who they are now. I feel like I've been spanked, I uploaded some new pics in my public gallery today, they were all taken TODAY. Not everyone is as pretty as others with a rocking body and well sometimes it's nice to reflect on how nice one used to look before they started eating thier feelings!! ALL of my pictures are current to 18mths. I always let epople know inadvance I'm a big girl. Sorry to have taken this a wee bit personally but if I had Lady Tuscan around I'd have one hell of a portfolio!!! What can I say......sorry if anyone feels like I've fibbed and if anyone who has actually met me felt robbed I apologise for that too.   ~skipping away contented~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm so sorry if I have upset you On_Safari, My post wasn't directed at you or anyone in particular and only based on the many observations I have made over the years. Actually, you know what, I did have someone in mind and it was a Gentleman I met some years ago. His photos were jaw dropping gorgeous...6'4 dark hair, chiselled jaw, piercing green eyes, tanned skin - seriously delicious. We had been messaging and one night after a few drinks, we decided to meet. He drove to my house (the one and only time I have met a man at my place)....it was a long hour waiting for him, I was so damn excited and nervous, pacing the house, checked the mirror every 3 minutes....until knock knock knock I actually squealed as I raced to the door, ripped it open and before my eyes was a man I had never seen before...same height and eyes...that was it. This man without a doubt would have been easily 60-70kg heavier than he was in every photo....so 180+kg. He almost had to turn sideways to walk through the door, he couldn't walk properly due to his size and was soaking with sweat. I literally didn't know what to do and I don't have a very good poker face at all. I was shocked, confused, but most of all very very sad for him. He was obviously in pain physically, but the emotional pain was enough to break my heart. Speaking with him was the same and he was lovely - a really beautiful person who I was very fond of. There is much more to this story that I won't go into as it is very sad - but my point is....I wish everyone was true to themselves and honest with others......always.People may feel more comfortable, confident and attractive with who they use to be.......but by displaying those images, they are denying the people that are attracted to them NOW, the opportunity to meet, fall in love, lust and have mind blowing kinky fucking dirty sex....Quoting 'On_Safari' I feel like I've been spanked, I uploaded some new pics in my public gallery today, they were all taken TODAY. Not everyone is as pretty as others with a rocking body and well sometimes it's nice to reflect on how nice one used to look before they started eating thier feelings!! ALL of my pictures are current to 18mths. I always let epople know inadvance I'm a big girl. Sorry to have taken this a wee bit personally but if I had Lady Tuscan around I'd have one hell of a portfolio!!! What can I say......sorry if anyone feels like I've fibbed and if anyone who has actually met me felt robbed I apologise for that too.   ~skipping away contented~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow11'But you obviously worked it out No. Nor did I try.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I will tell you what happens when your pics do not match. It is one of two things...... a. You only meet for coffee and make it perfectly clear that nothing else is happening Or b. you are that horny you really don't care and race him off anyway. After all....if you close your eyes a tongue still feels like a tongue. I took my pics about one month ago and have been recognised by them in a pub car park! I guess they are a fair likeness then!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    well i have to do my own as I am picky as to what I put up   yes I update and have a shit load on there but no shots of my flabby white flat arse none of my double chins   you know why cause guys dont give a shit once they are inside you so the cake needs to have some iceing on it and they take a bigbite and go ohhh not bad   i have meet guys that look way better than their pictures, but some guys pictures their face does not do it for me and I get cross with them for keeping on insisting to meet with no face picture   though I do get that its hard for people to get connected and its all based on looks, just as it is in the real world   but if your going to put up fake or old pictures then you dont really want to meet people or your delusional self delusion is in all of us   besides when your like me punching way above your weight , you have to put up pictures to lureeeeeeeeeeeee them in then serve them shit loads of beer, that way they may think fuck I am out of here...but six beers later I can look just like my pictures     and wow wow you look so cute in prison greens. When I worked in the jails they guys told me you like to take it up the bum but I saidnoooooooooooooway, they said yep... how do you think he got that name?   he kept yelling owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I think you're hot. Guilt was moreso my own because I know some of the pics are old. Weirdly enough some of them are recent snd I look skinnier!!! Lmao. Go figure? Love your story, my oldest bro' is exactly 185kg and very lonely, so I can relate a little to your story. At the end of the day being true to who y'are I guess is what's going to win friends and influence peeps err people 😉 Still I always point out I'm 88kg, have an apron and chins to my belly button (not to mention I'm a vertically challenged amophrodite with a 12" weapon!). Love and kisses, Sexy Sultry Super-sized Safari (and yes I'm feeling VERY cheeky today!)

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    12 years ago

    I am the one on the left.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mine were taken in the last fortnight, I'm going blonde this week lol

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    There have been quite a number of obviously fake female profiles added in the last few weeks. They're not so hard to spot, even for the not-overly-skeptical. Not being in the practice of looking at guys profiles unless a comment In the forums warrants it, and having only met a few blokes at RHP drinks nights, I can't say how their photos differ to real life.... but I don't understand the point of lying about yourself. You're going to get caught out if your purpose is to seek to meet those you feel the need to deceive, just to get them people interested, right?!! Then what? They say...."well, your pics looked like Don Draper but you look like Danny DeVito... ah what the hell, I'm here now"???!! I guess they do think like that. Im no photo collector.... But I have a policy... If in doubt, ask for more. If they won't help themselves by helping me.... I let them go. On internet social websites where photos do carry a lot of weight of attraction before seeing that person face to face.... the more information, the better. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My Pics are all me , as I am Now . What you see is what you get ! Take it or Leave it ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ..... the answer is yes!   We all have witty and charming poisonalities   The moresome bodies are just a bonus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Tat on my back and even the little bling on the belly.Now if you're lucky and I open my Gallery..you'll get to see my real teeth, eyes and hair! AKA SilverFox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have put weight on since my pics... and I make it clear in my profile what I'm like.... if ppl don't like what they see that's fine...I am who I am....plus you can't say I'm not my pics...tattoo gives me away lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh thank goodness, so we can kiss and make up...mmmmm you have such soft lips Quoting 'On_Safari' I think you're hot. Guilt was moreso my own because I know some of the pics are old. Weirdly enough some of them are recent snd I look skinnier!!! Lmao. Go figure? Love your story, my oldest bro' is exactly 185kg and very lonely, so I can relate a little to your story. At the end of the day being true to who y'are I guess is what's going to win friends and influence peeps err people 😉 Still I always point out I'm 88kg, have an apron and chins to my belly button (not to mention I'm a vertically challenged amophrodite with a 12" weapon!). Love and kisses, Sexy Sultry Super-sized Safari (and yes I'm feeling VERY cheeky today!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My pics are all me I do have some from a photo shoot I use in conjunction with recent ones lol just cause I like them. Let's face it it's all about chemistry!!! Physical appearance has a lot to do with attraction...... And obviously everyone has their own pre-requisites. Me I'm a bigger girl - I paddle Dragon Boats & go to Gym. So I would also say pretty solid!!! I'm not into guys that are too skinny no matter how much I like chatting - I would be afraid of breaking him. So would feel really disappointed on meeting someone and finding out they are smaller than me!! An honest recent pic is with a thousand words and even 10 fold if when meeting u feel u have to say no!!! Did I stay on topic ?!! Lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    All I can say is mmm You wont like what Im doing to you :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    hey listen ladies.... "IF any of you want to meet me, based on that photo of me doing weights in a G string?????" "I do NOT look that buff now....."   You should STILL be able to recognise me by the long hair and long beard though...

  • subgal_gc

    subgal_gc

    12 years ago

    That i look better in RL than my pics, one gentleman was apparently sceptical of meeting me based on my pics :-( but he took the time to meet and we have had some great times since as a result. I only have a few photos up as i generally don't like having them taken. Of the ones i have up only one is over 12 months old and the only real difference is i am a few kgs lighter and my hair is a different colour. In fact my hair is not strictly blonde currently either. But i don't see the point of having old or misleading photos for the reasons pointed out already, best to be yourself in personality and in photos as you can't really hide either when you meet in person.

  • Tool1983

    Tool1983

    12 years ago

    Always get comments on looking more appealing in the flesh lol doesn't help trying to initiate a meet though!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can understand some people are so scared showing photos they have to post old once on here. But really when you look at the photo and then look at the age it doesn't match. I try to get more photos of the male, ok its not always possible because they wiggle out with I cant do photos don't know how its done. For me it is such a terrible feeling meeting someone and then saying you are not a person I will meet again sorry go home please. It must hurt them a lot and also it is a very shitty feeling for me to do this. I have done this to some and I would not like being on the recieving end so I would never never show photos which are not me now.I have to say all my Photos are just a couple of month old. Yes I show my best features, or what I consider my best, I don't show pussy that's just me, and I don't show my legs because I don't have nice once, lol. but the rest is Ok to show off, and the men who contact me know I am not a slim athletic person its shown clearly on my photos.And I am sure who I am, becasue I don't have anything against me, I like me, and when you like yourself then you show yourself. Its simple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Know that my photos are as recent as late feb early march as they were taken when I went to clipsal....and the other is from the truck driving competition from November last year :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I do believe you give someone a chance based on all aspects but I learnt the hard way the first man I met looked nothing like his pic it was definately 15 yrs old he was much heavier and scruffier, we had been chatting for awhile and I was expecting an adonis an exceptional man and lover....it wasnt what I got. But cest la vie.I have a fair few shots and weed them out everynow and then I do think us women do keep the ones that favor us either way were just that way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you are trying to attract people now you should put up recent pics my own are less than 6 months old in my PG I am interested in getting some more put up but it's difficult to take selfies any one interested in taking my pics drop me a message. any way back to the subject you should not judge people by the way they look you take people on their values , honesty and most off their ability to pleasure each other in all ways of life You don't judge a book by the cover So why judge people by the way they look If you don't put now pics hou are HIDING something

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sick of seeing great body shots & asking for pics & not getting them but organising a meet up to find out "your just not that into them". Sorry, but I need to have some attraction to fuck you! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Noooo I thought it was your lips that were the soft ones. Hang on....which lips were you referring to? 😝 lick ya later. ~cheeky wink~

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' hey listen ladies.... "IF any of you want to meet me, based on that photo of me doing weights in a G string?????" "I do NOT look that buff now....."   You should STILL be able to recognise me by the long hair and long beard though... I thought that was taken yesterday

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Mine are 3 months to a year old. Time flies when you're having fun.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    bet you'll still let me suck you cock...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    I always use my most recent photos whether to put online like this site or to show to friends in real life. However, having said that, I do not take photos as frequently, especially if there's no special party or social outing to attend or when I'm not travelling. Hence, I only have photos taken every 3-4 months throughout the year. So, my pics in my PG are up to date plus I don't usually change much anyway as I am becoming more and more image aware as I'm marching on into my 30s

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...its the body that is :-P. My photo was taken in march, the night I joined and ny face was too. I have even worn the same shirt on a date and to work this week- Posted from rhpmobile

  • ArtemisLuna

    ArtemisLuna

    12 years ago

    ....soo I only put up pics of myself that I like.....Ive been told they are really good... In fact Im surprised they turned out so well as i do find it hard to believe I can look that nice.. (until very recently I hated every photo of me)Having said that Im not going to have perfectly styled hair and make up when Im hot and sweaty in the bedroom (or even meeting up for coffee first) with people I meet on here so perhaps I should put more casual less styled pics up? Just a thought.......And yes, they are all me (and MrLuna) and all within the last 12 months, most within the last 4 weeks.MrsLuna

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Our pics are fairly recent, we have a smattering of older ones in there too but mainly recent (as of a few weeks ago). I need to take some more though because I now have a different hair style. I don't see any problem with having older photos up if you also have recent pics. It's really rude of people who present themselves as one way but in reality look quite different (whether it's age, weight, photoshop etc). I think it's important to have photos that represent reality rather than a fantasy version of yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lol you speak of our thirties like we're old or something lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Before I unlock my pg for someone I always explain that the pics are recent. I also state that if you are looking for someone with a supermodel figure I'm not ur lady, I'm a curvy lady that always looks after herself. My body is no longer the body of a 20yr old but a woman who has lived life, is a mum and has stretch marks to show for it. I'm straight up and honest about my body and looks. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I check out a lot of profiles.. (rest easy... I have never grabbed a single image)   As I "READ" the profile.. I have noticed a lot who refer to themselves as "Ample" - But in many cases, the girl (and in some, the male) photos DO NOT show anything near what I would call "Ample"   So, one wonders if it is a personal Image issue, OR old photos? *shrugs* either way, it doesn't bother me..   I once did see a girl photo with a smoke in one hand and aa drink in the other, obviously at a hotel type venue... and her profile said "Non smoker" "I don't drink at all" Could of been a number of things I guess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I check out a lot of profiles.. (rest easy... I have never grabbed a single image)   As I "READ" the profile.. I have noticed a lot who refer to themselves as "Ample" - But in many cases, the girl (and in some, the male) photos DO NOT show anything near what I would call "Ample"   So, one wonders if it is a personal Image issue, OR old photos? *shrugs* either way, it doesn't bother me..   I once did see a girl photo with a smoke in one hand and aa drink in the other, obviously at a hotel type venue... and her profile said "Non smoker" "I don't drink at all" Could of been a number of things I guess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mine says ample cause curvy ain't there and I don't think curvy is average, curves are curves- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    12 years ago

    Hi all... Never written on here... Bit nervous... But met paintme and ms devious in a club in Sydney and have built up some courage lol :D I am always putting up new photos here because I love doing photo shoots.. When I'm playing and if I put them on Facebook my parents would kill me!!! 😋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Misk2'Hi all... Never written on here... Bit nervous... But met paintme and ms devious in a club in Sydney and have built up some courage lol Please keep posting! Can't wait to see some more pics of you.

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    12 years ago

    Thanks for the encouragement! :) you will need access to my pg - much better ones there!! Lol :D X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My last pics were taken 3 weeks ago but believe me they were thoroughly inspected before uploading. Be realistic 40 year old month of two, chances are I'm not going to be perfect, but I don't feel the need to show you my imperfections straight up. If that's false advertising, sue me.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Rach, there's seriously nothing you have to hide.... *smiles*

  • smo669

    smo669

    12 years ago

    Meeka, I'd bounce my balls off your arse any day;-))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mmm...why thank you, guess you would know, you did make a thorough inspection. Rach;)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    With my little camera on timer and balancing on the edge of the bed. Selfies don't always have to be taken by aiming a phone at yourself, and I'll happily admit it took me about ten attempts to get it right.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Cavey, you followed through twice ... Next time. I'll watch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' With my little camera on timer and balancing on the edge of the bed. Selfies don't always have to be taken by aiming a phone at yourself, and I'll happily admit it took me about ten attempts to get it right. Misk2, Heelllooooo darlink!! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love: Tall women and short women Long hair and short hair Blondes, brunettes and red heads Asian, Caucasian and Negro women Heavily tattoo'd and clean skinned Hairy or waxed Ample bodied or bony Prefer non smokers but not a deal breaker But I don't like bullshitters...i know it's just supposed to no strings attached sex, but a little trust is hardly too much to ask...marketing is marketing (ie., present you best pictures, showing your best features etc etc that's to be expected...do it myself) but misrepresentation is lying....a cheap assed attempt at trying to get your foot in the door...my profile, and my photos are honest....if I don't make it to the 'first round of interviews' so be it.. I would want to - and should - crawl into a hole and die, if anyone ever said " you are shorter, fatter, older, less endowed" etc than, what you said you were. In my view, if someone has lied or misrepresented themselves in one way...what else is bullshit too? For me personally, honesty suggests confidence in ones self, and confidence is pretty fucking sexy!