F52
A companion thread to "what does someones profile pic tell you about them".
January 23 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
But Saskia, everyone perceives themselves differently. Some will tell you I am forward, crass, argumentative, a pain in the ass and others like it when I get feisty (thanks Shuckme, Heil Hitler) Very revealing isn't it, this question?
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GezWouldGo
12 years ago
Well I used to be indecisive ....... but now I'm not so sure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
do an online Myers Briggs personality profile.There are other tests you can do,but I found this one useful.I am INTP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Driven , stubborn, materialistic , I am an introverted extrovert - I love to party , love good company but on my terms and not always , I am confusing , and occasionally thoughtless - my strengths are sometimes my weaknesses - loyal , open , trusting , funny , sexy , affectionate . .............I would find it hard to live with myself as I do not often express myself well in emotional times and go inward, plus I am a little demanding :) but ultimately I like me , i worked hard to find balance in my good and bad .......happy place in self acceptance , no yearning to be perfect - a lust to always grow .....old age is a wonderful thing ! MrsD
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't understand how sharing our personality traits will help you decide on how you wish to reinvent yourself? Also, who are these others who's perceptions that you are worried about? I would change about your self what doesn't seem to be working for you. It's what I do. It's simple and it works. I'll tell you how I perceive you. As an attractive woman with long dark hair and a top that sits too high on your body. (Profile pic) personality traits, I can be kind, caring and considerate. Passive/aggressive, cold and manipulative. Depends on people I'm with, their behaviour towards me, and how long it been since my last ejeculation. Secrets
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Micksecrets81'I don't understand how sharing our personality traits will help you decide on how you wish to reinvent yourself? Also, who are these others who's perceptions that you are worried about? I would change about your self what doesn't seem to be working for you. It's what I do. It's simple and it works. I'll tell you how I perceive you. As an attractive woman with long dark hair and a top that sits too high on your body. (Profile pic) personality traits, I can be kind, caring and considerate. Passive/aggressive, cold and manipulative. Depends on people I'm with, their behaviour towards me, and how long it been since my last ejeculation. Secrets for the record... Im driven, ambitious, argumentative, anal, professional, determined, headstrong, wilful, pain the ass, direct, cynical, passionate, vocal, restless, dogmatic, ...slow to temper but once I get going.... this is how my male colleagues would no doubt describe me.... .......seriously do I have to go on ???? Redeeming features....gracious, compassionate, dedicated, kind, quirky, loyal, friendly, empathetic, forgetful, studious, thoughtful, considerate, caring, decisive...................... My eat,pray,love word is : stoic..... Just reviewed list and can so see why I spend most Sat nites alone !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you Mick, I am not asking for your input into what I need to change about myself, I am in the process of doing that myself,( I am in the present going from a stay at home mum to a productive member of society - in a more direct way - again) just thought that since a few of the posts on here have made me REALLY think about certain topics, others may want to reflect on their personalities not just the airy fairy crap, but the bad stuff too. Thanks Freya, I did do a Myer Briggs a few years back, will dig it out this afternoon. See if it still applies, that should be interesting. Meeka, if it's a little too personal I apologise, in the scheme of other topics that have been done I didn't really think it would be a problem, yes others perceive us in different ways according to personalities they can't deal with it's true, some may like upfront and honest while others may find it just too much, but how we perceive ourselves is unique and what I was hoping to draw out. Your confidence and honesty will probably punch people in the face at times, but I like it, I know when I read your posts it is what you feel and it's great that you don't seem to worry about what others think of you, it's healthy, time spent dwelling on what others think of us is time wasted, as long as nobody is hurt by our actions that should be all that counts. Mrs Delicious, thank you so much for your candid input into the topic, some of those qualities may be seen as not good traditionally, but in the present world I think we all need a bit of backbone, a voice and self preservation. It's great to see women embracing and celebrating those qualities usually referred to as good if possessed by men, but not feminine. You seem wonderfully fulfilled, so it's definitely working for you. Shinas, as above. relationships can be hard, but you do have some great qualities, your postings are always very articulate and honest, yet sympathetic (with a good sprinkling of humour) and sounds like you've lived some fantastic experiences, any man would be crazy to miss out on what you have to offer. Me? I am very sensitive, can be highly strung, stubborn, tend to overthink things at times when I should perhaps just jump in and go for it, can be cynical and distrustful of peoples motives, and a perfectionist, on the flipside I am very loving towards my family and those who earn my trust, have a good SOH, am clever (most of the time), resilient - not much offends me, creative and highly motivated if something takes my interest. I have placed the perfectionist in the negative because that is what (I think) I am struggling with, I feel I need to let go of trying to have everything perfect all the time and am having difficulty in this area, I can see myself having a meltdown when it comes to trying to juggle everything when I move back into the workforce very soon and need to learn to prioritise better. Anyway now I am just waffling... thanks to those who responded.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I remember my Personality and Professional Practice classes from uni, the Myers-Briggs is not the most reliable personality test available (it's not got the best test-retest stats and is pretty easy to fake socially desirable answers on). If you're talking about personality traits the "Big Five" Openness to Experience, Conscientiousness, Extroversion/ introversion, Agreeableness and Neuroticism, those are pretty stable over time. Personality seems to be part biological, part the world we grew up in. What we can definitely do is be mindful of our traits and control our reactions to other people/things/stressors. But I don't think you can change your personality.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And that result is accurate!!! No wonder I get up to so much mischief!
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I'm chaste, temperant, charitable, diligent, patient, kind and modest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And remember, whatever journey you are on at present, I know that you will remember to be true to yourself at all times and be kind and respectful to all that you encounter...(which Im sure you do anyway :)..) Also remember being a stay at home mom, is the toughest job ever !! - I know this after looking after the besties kids for one week..my god, give me a warzone anyday .Being a mom, fuck me, your already a super hero !!! (you and every other woman..sheesh !) I assuming that you are re-entering the workforce in some capacity ...I wish you well in your new endeavour..and if I may say, Women that rock, rule and run the world, dont necessarily have to wear power suits, amazing what you can achieve wearing trackie daks, Good luck hon...remember - YOU ARE AWESOME !!!...:) btw: Myer Briggs - Im a ESFJ - The Caregiver.......yep..this is so me...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are wonderful, I just feel like I am drowning in shit at the moment, and I know I have to get rid of some of my anal tendencies and stop sweating the small stuff... prioritising does not come naturally to me, preferring to just go with the flow, but if I want to avoid a meltdown in the near future I am going to have to be more structured, once again just not me at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just breathe..take a step back and breathe......every problem is solveable (yes except one) ....................let it go..the easiest and hardest thing in the world to do...believe in you...it will happen.....:) and keep us updated !!! :)
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I'm changing all the time! I'm not the same person I was 20yrs ago! People perceive me differently to what I actually am. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy!
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RHP User
12 years ago
My personality traits good and bad.......well I'm sweet but can be nasty when pushed. I'm honest sometimes brutally because I don't have tact. I'm feisty if I think you're are worth my trouble even sometimes when you're are not. I think everything and one can be laughed at, yeah sorry but there's NO political correctness here. I believe it's better to laugh than cry and I piss myself off ALOT because I cry at stupid shit lol. I like to push people's buttons just to annoy them when I'm bored. Actually I'm just annoying because I think it's funny, stiff shit if you do or don't :-) I can be bitchy. I'm very loving and will do anything for those I love.......I think I got it all lol good luck with your self discovery Saskia :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can be ditzy, stupid and a totally clueless moron ;-P
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1playfulcpl
12 years ago
i am me dnt no if id wana change much or anything says wat i think an if im wrong happy to say sorry im just me
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madotara69
12 years ago
I like to see people at their best, and finding the best with people is something I enjoy very much.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I look at your profile pic I'm reminded of the James Boags add where the dude goes over the waterfall in a barrel. And comes out "better"..In the thumbnail you look like you're standing in a barrel. Post waterfall I might add.~smiles~
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RHP User
12 years ago
If others have a problem with that then they can get nicked!!! Lol!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If people can't love and accept you for who you are and you have to change to please them rather than just be yourself then it is their problem not yours.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wasn't focusing on what people thought of me in the other thread about profile pics, that was mainly physical and a fun thread. It just got me to thinking about and having a laugh about what some people had said, no offence was taken at all. But it jolted my mind into thinking what my personality traits were, and I'm having a shit week, inundated with assignments, household and family to take care of, my return to study 2 weeks before kids go back(finding babysitting), organising for kids to go back which also coincides with the start of practical placement for study, So I started wondering what I could change about myself to make things easier, the looming problem with me is thinking I have to be able to do it all... perfectionism, anal tendencies, call it what you will, anyway have decided I have to get out of this way of thinking. Then I thought it might be useful/insightful for others to analyse themselves. I don't even know if I am getting my point across here, but off I go on de analising my personality... LRE, you always make me PMSL...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had a fairly unusual life and have always had to be very strong and independent. Even now I am a single mum of 4 little boys, run my own business, receive no financial support from my ex or the govt as I earn too much, and live on the other side of the country from my family, so basically I do it all on my own. When my marriage broke down 18 months ago I thought "I'm the strongest person I know, I can do anything, I don't need help from anyone and I certainly don't need anyone in my life."But as time went on, even though I was handling day to day life okay (kids, work, bills, school, etc.) I was getting more and more down and I realised I was really lonely. I actually do need someone in my life. I'm not quite the ice queen I thought I was.Yep, I thought life was teaching me how to be strong.....now I realise life is teaching me how to be vulnerable. And that is some scary shit when you've never looked at yourself that way...
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
I get what you are saying because my worst personality trait is the same as yours, being too hard on myself. It is a hard habit to get out of, it led me to depression for a while. The learning is that for most things, if you dont feel like doing it, dont. Obviously there are things that everyone has to do. The trick is what you do with the rest of your time. The other tip is dont take the soul searching all on yourself. Find someone that gets you to talk it over with. They will be able to point out the times when you need to lighten up on yourself. Hope that helps. xxx
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Sorry to be frivolous but now I am just picturing you in the shower. Yummmm
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Another great tip is just before going to be think of 5 things that made you happy/grateful that day. It sounds mushy but it works. Puts all the other things that you arent happy about or still need to do out of your head just before you say naughty nights. Sorry to go all Doctor Phil here. I can see a kindred spirit and would like to help.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are getting me!! Loud and clear!! I am proud of myself for recognising that I need to change some things, just trying to work out if I actually can, is this trait (perfectionism, analism, being too hard on yourself) part of my personality or is it a learned behaviour, because it is pretty ingrained, I really can't relax while watching tv if there is a mess around me. But as explained I need to just get over it, do what I have to do until things are settled again. Thank you for your kind advice, I will take in what you have said about focusing on the good stuff at the end of the day. PS. I pee in the shower, hope this doesn't turn you off. lol.
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72' PS. I pee in the shower, hope this doesn't turn you off. lol. No, its scary, but for some strange reason it has absolutelt turned me on. Would love to chat more as I think I can be of help. Unfortunately, inthis case, experience is a good teacher.
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