A little help please

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I would go the swingers clubs and meet real unicorns (this is how single women looking for couples are referred to) in person. Why waste time online?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Also the Atrium Batlr at Jupiters is known for a swingers hook up spot. You may have some luck there.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'm guessing that's Nick talking? I agree with Meeka, and seeing Mike's Place is on your friends list, I'd start there. The reason bi women looking for couples are called Unicorns is because they are so rare they seem mythical. We exist, but due to the number of couples looking for us we are able to be crazy picky. My advice if you do want to keep looking here: make sure your profile is clear about what's in it for the girl (why should she pick you over all those other couples?) and upload several pics of Nick as well. Good luck x

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting your OP: "I don't even have to get with her id be more than happy just to watch." I'm guessing that's Nick talking?

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  nikkiromero

  9 years ago

  awsome thanks for the tips guys, yeah that makes so much more sense now. appreciate the help. any swingers clubs in particular are they different are they some that tend to attract a younger audience ?

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  madotara69

  9 years ago

  G'day Nick, Hailee There is plenty of couples looking for a woman to join in and play up and there is plenty of couples writing in for the hope they can find a common denominator, a clue, something, anything that may help, fresh coming into the swinging scene and the razzle dazzle of folk with naughty pictures, stories, validations, all looks fine and dandy. The thing is in this digital gallery the swinging thing is a lifestyle and social adult naughty fuckery fun and all sorts of different kinds of fun, kink, lovey dovey stuff in the eyes of a new found sex partner, couples looking for a unicorn ? now there is a common denominator and no offence intended, it's Nick that wrote up this topic and from a personal opinion, finding a unicorn is different than finding a man for the chances. You will be relying on the messages to women for a hope they will reply, ain't happening? Women finding women would be the suggestion, especially in written form and there is too many stories of couples where the men dominate the play, put restrictions with the wife as far as other men keeping their hands off, only girls can play with her and the hubby can play with both because that's how he wants it, she sort of does and often that is a dead set give away for a flare up and jealousy, Unicorns have written about unpleasant encounters, so it's quite a cautious lead up for a unicorn to even consider joining a couple, doubt chances if it is the male of the couple leading the communications. Unicorns are if not more for the female than also the man and men don't think of it just the same. If you seek a woman then it's more likely if Hailee runs that side of things.You could try a guy and all that goes out the window, they don't even talk much, little to ask, just on the ready to go. It's a lifestyle so going to meet and greets and other social events will be better for chances if people can see you both and how you both have a sense for the idea, or a thing comforting and arousing in persons. Your profile could serve better if you wrote in as much you understood of the person and unicorn in person and something of why she joins with you is important, because she is. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  The events on here.always something happening on the goldcoast. And you can see who has shown interest in an event, go to one that has the age group you are interested in. Network.Meet people there, talk with them and socialise,get invited to private parties and you might find your unicorn there. It doesnt always end up a single lady. Could be half of a couple that will be your elusive unicorn.

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  The catalogue of RHP "couples" is crammed with profiles clearly written by the male, using his lady as bait for other ladies. They say things like they're very "open minded" (but only seek girls for her) and "he doesn't have to be involved, but might like to watch.... "....(which we all know is total bullshit)...... and they all read like they're treading on eggshells trying not to scare off the women they're trying to attract by referring too much to the bloke who very much wants to do more than just watch. Your profile and this topic smells like that. Just sayin. Now.... it doesn't need to be that way. As has been mentioned... offer BOTH of you as a couple, show pics of him, and be fucking proud of the fact that as a pair you offer double (to the RIGHT) people.... (Woman)... than just her as the bait. Sure.... you won't appeal to as many, but you shouldn't be after the many who won't find you both appealing.... only those who do!..... also, the world outside of RHP is far larger. Sure, RHP etc is aimed at the more social-sexually liberated (to put it that way).... but it's also crowded full of hopeful undesirables and pretenders to be filtered out...... and that includes those couples using the female as s lure while hiding the bloke in the wings waiting to show his real intentions. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  nikkiromero

  9 years ago

  haha micscheviouslad yeah ive heard about stuff like that happening but yeah no i would be pleased to see someone please her hey. but hey like if i could get in on it obiously it would be 100 times better but i would never force myself into a situation like that and i have always put other peoples feelings before my own desires. But yeah i do appreciate your advice and i can see what your getting at and why it is bad to come across like that thanks willow tree where are some of the better places to go ?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi Nick, We were able to find an amazing woman here online and had so much fun a couple of times. She is now in a committed relationship and we are very happy for her. I guess the best way is to leave it to your woman to communicate with girls, as my husband did, because we understand eachothers' feminan way of communication better. Be honest with them and very clear. Upload photos and let them see your faces so they can make a wise decision. And finally be patient and respect their devision whatever it is :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You should head out to Chateau Vino a few times. We're sure you'll find what you're looking for.

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  I nailed it. lol

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I dipped my toe in the uni pond once, but jealousy got in the way. Most come to the lifestyle in their 40s & 50s after the kids are grown up. So good luck finding someone your age. Your only young once. Have fun and be safe.

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