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A question for experienced "hot wives" or partners of cuckolds - how did it all start for you?

December 30 2013

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Hi all :) I'm new to the Community. I'm a straight female who loves the idea of being allowed to "play" - turning on my straight, male partner in doing so. My ideal scenario is that - whilst I can play, he does not (he remains faithful and monogamous)... he gets off on me either relaying the playing I've done in the absence, or, gets off on watching me in the act with another/multiple men. My question is - how did other ladies FIND someone that would fit my ideal? And a decent, clean, attractive and solvent man at that? I don't know where to start. I can't see if there are communities for these kinds of standards in my local area - so I thought I'd start here and see what advice I could get. The basic, run of the mill Adult Match Making sites don't seem to produce anything specific to cuckolding... Just men looking for NSA. Which I don't mind, of course, but isn't what I'd prefer. I'd prefer to find someone I know will like this lifestyle from the "get-go", so to speak! I'm in Australia, if that helps. Adelaide, specifically. Also I have two children from a previous relationship - which severely limits my ability to "get out" and meet people. I'm pretty much rendered to online meeting and greeting only at this stage. Sincerely appreciate responses :) Thanks!

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  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    How does HE feel about it? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am single. There is no "HE"... I'm seeking someone who wants to be a cuck... rather than find someone and try and influence them to become one ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's really fortunate for you :) I had that inclination with my previous partner... we just never got the opportunity to act on it. Which was a shame... At least it confirms for me it's what I want, however :) I just don't know how to go about finding one... It's a tricky thing this dating game! Meeting each other's sexual preferences as well as just the general "nice person I am attracted to" aspects! :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    However they may lean more towards the more kinky side of things. When it comes to me, that's NEVER a bad thing ;) ;) If you ever do feel so inclined do recommend away. I'm no shrinking violet and an open book myself :) I will add you if you don't mind, Sheila :) Thanks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sorry!! *Shells not Sheila! I'm not wearing my glasses and the text in here is so small!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hey there.. Welcome.. good luck, and I hope you find some hot playmates :)Don't be too worried about not finding fellas who WANT to be cucks..They are certainly out there I have been in a few OPEN relationships... and loved hearing the stories of my lady friends adventures..Loved the feelings of watching her getting ready.. knowing she was going to get laid..and the thoughts whilst she was out.. wondering.. :)However, I DO prefer being the bull... and LOVE it mostly when I know I am fcking with the cucks head :)But.. MAYBE I have issues myself eh..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Talk talk and talk.. It all depends on whether you are in a rush to do this or are happy waiting for gust the right type of guy. They are out there but are hard to find. So start communicating, make the first move, don't be afraid to say no thanks if you don't feel they are right, take some chances, and trust your instincts. You look like an intelligent woman so you should be able to sort the good from the bad fairly quickly. As with all things you can wait for luck or you can make your own luck and be proactive. Do not settle for anything less than perfect. No point in having a string of bad experiences, when with a little patience you can find the perfect gem (or gems after reading your profile) and save your self some bad memories. RHP is a good place to start and people here can direct you to the right circles. Its a sellers market here for women, you have the power, you have the control, and you certainly have the goods. Good luck.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am in a relationship like that hubby even helps me find the guys and comes with me to meet them , sometimes he plays sometimes not . We started off me playing with girls then us both playing with couples until one day work got in the way for hubby and he said I could go alone as this guy had travelled a long way , so I did ( was very scared ) and had fun so now while I still enjoy playing with hubby involved sometimes hubby will just watch and sometimes he leaves us to start then comes in to join in or watch and sometimes drops me off then picks me up after wards and we both enjoy our selfs as well after while I tell him all about it Hope you find what you are looking for xxxx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    She hasn't found him yet hence her question. Where can we find a man who is rich and gorgeous and is happy for his wife to go out and play while he stays at home. I will have one of those! :p

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Oh with you I would tie you to the bed first, naked and maybe with a few pegs attached to your cock and balls and a vibrating butt plug deep in your arse.... then I would get all dressed up while you watched into my sexiest come fuck me now little lingerie outfit, I would go out for the night and fuck my lovers.... and then come home and sit on your face and smear you with our cum. My new year's resolution.... stop being so vulgar. hehe

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi ya rycb. Join FetLife and join Cuck groups in your area. You will find quite a few people with serious obsessions for worship in there. Finding bulls is much easier.

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  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    But you could try fetlife

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm one - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I thought the bulls stayed at home and didn't have sex with anyone but their wife? That ain't you amigo!! :p

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I found my last cuckold relationship on a site similar to this one. I found him wildly attractive as a potential lover in general and when the subject came up as something I am into over our first coffee meet and he told me that had been his previous relationship dynamic and he was into it I was over the moon. Unfortunately we are no longer together (due to family reasons on his side, nothing to do with the relationship type) so I am looking again for another - I love Fetlife and have been on it for many many years but it has not provided me with any leads to anything real.I have however placed quite a specific profile expressing that I am seeking a cuck partner on the other site where I met my last one and have already had a surprisingly large number of responses within the first 24 hours and am getting to know half a dozen attractive guys at the moment who are into it and seem very genuine. It's definitely out there to be had, just a matter of separating the 'as seen on porn' style role players from men who truly seek it as a real relationship.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi all .Well another taboo subject lol to a lort of people that is !Any way I`ve been in the position to be the Bull and in 99% of cuckold relationships the cuck wants to see his wife being filled.And in many cases ,well those that I`ve been involved in,the woman has wanted to get pregnant to the Bull.In any case which ever way you want to go cuckolding is probably more common than people realise.And to finish,if there are any couples here in SEq who are interested ,give me a yell .that`s my bit for the day lol. Cya all.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have I told you before that I am SCARED of you????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ok.. I have hinted that I MIGHT have issues.... but.. but.. SURELY it would be MORE satisfying to TURN a STRAIGHT fella into a Cuck??

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  • adam_knows

    adam_knows

    11 years ago

    this has been my desire for some time . Iv been in a relationship where my partner was free to playand since that relationship ended i,v found it near impossible.I dont think ill really be happy till i,m in one again .

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    im try to find a hotwife style partner , most girl that are into are always out of queensland lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    having been the 'other' guy in this sort of relationship, I can tell you that it was initally ok with the blessing of the partner, but as the relationship intensified, he became increasingly jealous and would give the lady a hard time, emotionally.. we had to end it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Rycb, It is always difficult finding a partner let alone one who has the same sexual desires as yourself. When you have a fetish and one as specific as yours and my own the number of potential partners drops significantly. However you should keep your eyes open here and elsewhere there may be just the man for you. Waiting to find the right partner is the key. Cavey - everyone has issues its just a matter of joining your issues up with others. Meeka - I hope you get your new years resolution filled. sounds delicious.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am looking for a girl just like you. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • 2filthyones

    2filthyones

    4 years ago

    Hey RYCB, that is exactly our situation/ relationship! It is great. I don’t crave anything that Mrs doesn’t give me... her on the other hand.. lol she can’t get enough of man!! We have so much fun!

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