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A rant about responses ....

February 27 2012

I have been a semi-regular contributor to these forums for quite a while and whilst I still enjoy reading some of the threads, it is becoming very evident that once I see who posted I can nearly pick what they will say. Some can turn any topic into a boast about sex, wanting sex, pleading for sex, offering to pay for sex - even if the topic has nothing what so ever to do with sex.And guys, if a woman posts that she likes oranges, don't launch into a one handed, cross-eyed piece of prose on how you just love oranges as well, and since you have that in common you should get together so he can lick orange juice from your navel! It really comes across as someone trying too farken hard, if you want to make contact with them, send them a private message!Look I know that these forums are relatively light hearted but most turn out to read just about exactly the same as the rest, have a bit of originality about yourself.I know I will get flamed for this, but there use to be some very good threads here, now most are just the same responses from often the same people saying exactly the same thing.Mooka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Welcome back xx Have missed your no nonsence approach. I do get what you are saying. In reality to the size of RHP it only seems sometimes very few people respond to forum topics. This can lead to well basically all you have said above. "Same ol same ol saying same ol'same ol'."   That's why its always good for newbies to come in here say hi and start a topic up no matter that it has been done before and peeps should be free to say what they think without personal attacks thrown in but logical arguements on oposites sides of a fence be debated about. You'll always get the odd one mistaking forums as advertising themselves lol..I find sometimes banter taking over a thread a bit of a yawnfest but mehhhh I move on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    but I get very little response with most of them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have only been on RHP for a while, but I totally agree with you mooka. Perfect example is a new thread about woman with tattoos, since the person posting the thread has heaps, everyone states how fantastic they are! I also noticed that there are domineering types in the forums, that will shut down another person's opinions just because they have a seperate opinion. I had to laugh though I posted a quote from a person's profile which completely contradicted what she said in a forum. A few days later that quote was removed from her profile. I reckon that everyone has the right to post their opinion, otherwise things would be boring. I love people challenging my ideas as it gives me alternative ways of looking at something, why don't others?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I agree. These forums make me laugh, the utter crap people go on with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I post a fair bit, so do tend to talk too much at the dinner table. However I try not to talk over peoples heads.   Its like a new person posts, but as they are not part of the purple circle then no body responds to what they say. Or they get shot down in flames by the post Kings and Queens   then we get the talk fest from a few that stroke each others ego as they go way off topic into the land of cyber myth and legend in their own lunch box.   It does bother me at times as I wonder if those people actually know each other off line To watch the posts you would think they were around fucking each other every Friday night.   I am also a bit guilty of the over post, so here is a stone thrown from a glass house.     I am a big fan of the wowow sarcasm posts, gets it all in perspective

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mrs P, yes of course it is my perspective, I wouldn't be writing about someone else's would I!Agreed, I was mainly aiming at the sleazy male who uses the forums as a cheap method of trying to impress a woman who would probably not read a message he would send. What gets me is there are some women here who seem to thrive on the attention, yet at the same time often proclaim about unwanted crude attention via messages.As for my comments about threads turning into sex, yes this is an adult site and for some, sex is the only thing on their mind (damn what pitiful life they must live) but still manage to turn any thread into a sleaze fest. I think they just see a woman has posted in a thread and start one handed typing, often I suspect without reading what the woman actually wrote.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That is an interesting observation Mooka. I also have noticed that my penis is totally awesome.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Given I contribute on these forums regularly, I'd be curious as to which camp you might place me Mooka.I enjoy posting in the forums and do get bored now and then. I'd be rather surprised if anyone can find any two of my comments which are very similar (excluding one line "thank you or some such").I'll also be the first to admit I have written quite a few inflammatory responses on here. I do love a good argument and am quite happy to toss out a little bait just to see who jumps on it and what they have to say. The "Tattoos" thread is again a good example. One thing I certainly did not expect from posting, was people contacting me. Even more unexpected were the highly complimentary comments in those contacts. I won't quote anyone lest I say something they'd rather keep private. Safe to say though, those comments made me feel very appreciated, liked and encouraged me to continue posting my opinions. So, to those who sent me lovely messages, I know I've thanked you in private but I'd also like to do so publicly, thank you :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Fancylips...wow that is amazing.. because I noticed that your penis is so totally awesome too. Hahaha Sorry Mooka I couldn't help myself!!!!!!!!!!!! xxMeekaWatch out for the trouble maker in the leather pants... he is bound to turn up sooner or later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Have you two still not kissed and made up?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...then why not offer up a solution and see how or if everyone agrees with you? It might just begin with the words "I feel that" or "I believe in"...those are positive affirmation statements, any time you generalize or spray paint everyone and everything the same (in this case, not suited to your liking) people simply shut down. It's like when a child could say "When you have time could you fix my compute, I think I stuffed it up" rather than quite poignantly stating "You always fix your computer but you never fix mine". I statements take ownership and offer a solution...so please do proceed. | I'm glad where here to talk about sex...if any or all of us wanted to talk about golf or bridge or air hockey, they have forums for that and really if a topic starts out "in chaste innocence" and ends up somehow relating to sex then I guess that's a part of what we're here for, right? Some of the best threads from days gone by that I remembered started out in the southern hemisphere and ended up in the northern...so who makes the rules and do we all have to play by them? | Too, I would love to see more of the folks that just read along and don't post in jump in and play...and I think there are "cliques" here albeit a term loosely used but maybe they are just friends whether doing the horizontal boogie every other day or just over time have gotten to know each other. What's the solution...the only one I can think of is ignore your friends, the downside is that perhaps you have a similar sense of humour and actually "get" each other which may be a result of your conversations offline. I've been to a lot of parties, events and social functions where there are some folks that know each other and may have a few inside jokes or secrets that they share...sometimes I even enjoy that just for the humour that I can see being shared between them. So to start finding the solution...come on you lurkers and lurkerettes, at least say hello and please do let any or everyone know why you don't post in? | What worries me are the more organized or almost unionized card carrying clubs that are starting with the sole purpose of trading info about others here...that seems really odd as I for one never view any two individuals as being the same and would both hope and expect that acted differently toward me than they may have with someone else. | Anyway...there you go. What's the solution? | | Pssstttt abrisvegasgirl......I looked at your profile! Wanna talk about sex? Please.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    of the seemingly inside joke between a select few...sorry...boring as batshit...I just skim through the crap and search for a reply that adresses the Opening Post...don't really care if I get flamed for that comment...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ms Saturn65, if I told you once, I've told you twice...you sometimes annoy me! Not much and rarely but sometimes...ohhhhh you really do. | Quoting 'Saturn65'... kissed and made up? | Well, hell yes! As a Gold card carrying member of your fan club...I think that's a great idea, and the sooner the better! | Can we get naked first?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm the boring fence sitter you know that....but am happy to see peoples opinions coming out.   I Love Gold cards..VIP cards..Black American express cards..anyone anyone??     ..Back to topic? (send thu card details to profiles lol..)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have moved on from our disagreement, what was it a year or two ago? I rarely if ever respond to a topici or response of yours, not through anything other then disinterest in subject matter ( not having a go by the way please don't misconstrue my words)     It just seemed funny that I remember last time Mooka was an active member in the forums and correct me if Im wrong Mooka/Mrs P but it seemed you two crossed swords on regular basis. Not too sure if sometimes in here people choose and disect a persons words and twist the content..too close to the bone sometimes me thinks..   Seriously though everyone can add spice to a forum, think some of us are saying, don't spread it across the whole board!   now who else has a grievance with me? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ok, i'll watch out and offer comment.I'd also like to see some varied stuff on the forums. chatting about sex is all well and good, but sometimes talking about other stuff can give you some inkling about peoples stuff. the sort of stuff that makes them fun to have a drink with.. Quoting 'jennylee1903' but I get very little response with most of them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i love how everyone stays on...oh look a squirrel.... i like squi...will you be my friend? its monday, isnt it? i had icecream on sunday..........lol.......my brain hurts.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What's a guy got to do to get just a few naked kisses and spill wooded chardy all over your body? I'd clean you up...you know that, right? | Quoting 'Saturn65'Ha! CM....annoy you? I Love Gold cards..VIP cards..Black American express cards..anyone anyone? | So then, what's up with putting your bra back on the minute I mention getting naked? Come on...flaunt 'em if ya got 'em. Please. Geeee-awd I hate using that word....makes me sound desperate, although all the details so that you can freely use my Titanium card are now in your in-box. I'm sure you can easily predict my next one liner from here on in....? | | Quoting 'Mrs_PeachyPear' Pssstttt MRS P......I looked at your profile! Wanna talk about sex? Please. | No more talking, Mrs. P.......let's doooooo it! | | Back on topic...I guess the important thing is a bit like what the lovely caitsidhe (okay so you too...can we talk about sex?) said in her post, we can read the OP and scroll right past those that either might or usually do annoy us. It's really not that big of a deal but in this case....so far I've had a chance to blatantly and patently hit up four very lovely ladies for sex, or at least groveled a bit hoping one of them will keep talking to me. | There's really no such thing as a bad topic or really, annoying posts...just like real life, it's all in what you make of every opportunity that counts. It's like a brilliant sunset...wait around too long and you will miss it. | ....thanks, for letting me play.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I really lurrve oranges *using best purrr voice whilst down on all fours sashaying across the floor *hugs Minxy x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What worries me are the more organized or almost unionized card carrying clubs that are starting with the sole purpose of trading info about others here...that seems really odd as I for one never view any two individuals as being the same and would both hope and expect that acted differently toward me than they may have with someone else.   well Midnight you have a fan club   I have a womans club, and you are right we never view any two individuals as being the same. That is the point of the scarlet women.   We are just a bunch of women that meet of line for coffee. We are about as threating as the cwa.W are card carry with a logo that says fuck me please.at rhp.com   The men we know are loving it. No complaints so far. Like you say we act according to the principals of on line and offline, interaction, a little bit of class and discretion go a long way.   No need to be concerned we are over in the west, your safe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i just bought some oranges...   and thought i coul cut them into 1/4 for half time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    mooks wrote SEX seven times,,,,,,, xxx peeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... so what was the question again??? ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am wearing leather pants as I type .........Ahhhhh Mooka just like old times !!!! .Agree agree agree .................. Sadly there are an abundance of suck holly men who will like anything some of the regular - and (not so regular but posters with a nice butt) female posters will say. From oranges to waxing to the fact that men should be submissive to women ... They run to the defence of a forum women in distress ....... again on any topic...it matters not they get themselves in an absolute slobbering mess just to see if they can get themselves a little attention. It is sadly a revolving circus of men popping in and slobbering then off they pop to the next forum ...........Boys get some bollucks ! You look like a turkey's. .Ahhhhhhh I like you will get a bevy of boys standing tall to defend ......... please oh please .Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So there i was just crossing the road when all of a suden it just fell from the balcony of the 3rd story appartment Block   I couldnt believe my luck how often does that happen ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If females take the bait and you get responses then why stop. Knew I should have done that marketing degree, who would have know it would help getting me laid.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Who cares about the oranges. I want proof of fancylips' totally awesome cock. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ..dribbling with jizz. No but seriously on a rhp forum, what do you want? I'm a simple man with simple pleasures. If I was after a serious debate I'd be ..somewhere else? Help me out, where do people have intelligent discussions about people not having intelligent discussions. I say "It is you Mookow who is trying desperately to impress the ladies with your high horse-edness and I udderly find you GUILTY of bringing this forum into dissomethingorother" and my penis will now please the court

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well well, I think I could have written quite a few of these responses when I started this thread lmaoMrs P - How strange for you to disagree with me (again and again and again), but you do it in the most politest way lolSaturn - Ah the delightful Mrs Saturn, how I have missed you, sorry for disappearing last year but when work calls, it calls loud.Meeka and Stalky - you two crack me up!!Tuscanred - I do like the way you communicate, you could be the shining light of these forums.Midnight - The esteemed doyen and superior wordsmith of the forums, I thoroughly enjoy reading your posts, even if I sometimes don't agree, they are always a delight.Brae - Mate, sorry to steal your thunder but well great minds do think alike don't they :DOne of the reasons I started this thread was the forum topic: Profile Accuracy. The OP created a quite interesting post yet the first response just left me bemused to say the least ....

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    I'm SURE I've read you saying that thing about the oranges before.. fucked if I can find it now but I'm almost sure I didn't imagine it!!xx Sarah

  • MegaSin

    MegaSin

    13 years ago

    Love the New Picture Minx!! ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Feel any better, Mooka. I am, most definitely, one of the sleazy males of which you speak. I'm a proud, card carrying dirty old man. I always flirt unashamedly with women. I always make inappropriate comments and ......hang on a moment, this is a sex site, isn't it? Maybe it's not so inappropriate. ....And, jokerza, I was on the tattoo thread complimenting tripps on her artwork. I genuinely like it. In fact, I would genuinely like to see more of it. So, bite me, bitches.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    back then Mookas (Whole) paragraph was...   This last group is quite select, I call them the 'try-hards'. These are the ones that will post on any subject, on any threat but all they say is something nice about someone. Seriously a woman could point to an apple and say that's an orange and some guy will jump online and agree with her, then suggest how much fun they could have dripping bits of orange over her and he brings her to the most mind blowing orgasm every recorded in the history of sex. I would like to think most (if not all) women see through this and just have a chuckle at the guys expense.   Now sounds to me, hes saying same thing..   And guys, if a woman posts that she likes oranges, don't launch into a one handed, cross-eyed piece of prose on how you just love oranges as well, and since you have that in common you should get together so he can lick orange juice from your navel! It really comes across as someone trying too farken hard, if you want to make contact with them, send them a private message!   No Hypicracy I see but looks like things in your eyes haven't changed much in a yea hey Mooka?...   Gotta say though that forum topic to read again was a Hoot!!! This place is positivily civil now compared to all the little infighting going on back then....Those were the days...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Fancylips'That is an interesting observation Mooka. I also have noticed that my penis is totally awesome.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    shit is this another cooking program? god I hate those programs and they say things that are so sexual, like Flange! bloody disgusting if you ask me.   if some guy compliments me on my flange then he sure as hell has not been in my kitchen!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting Mooka"And guys, if a woman posts that she likes oranges, don't launch into a one handed, cross-eyed piece of prose on how you just love oranges as well, and since you have that in common you should get together so he can lick orange juice from your navel!"Navel Oranges Hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    a self fulfilling prophesy.Onya!!BJ

  • Kampalina

    Kampalina

    13 years ago

    At times am amused by some of the misinterpretations of one person's comment to another, and quite frankly get a little excited when there is a little attack and defence (picturing a boxing ring with jelly wrestling to sort through those issues hehehehehe).   Personally I rarely comment myself, but at times have a strong inspiration to. The forums are entertaining indeed. There are a lot of members that read these every day yet never comment at all. The forums also provide alot of factual information that can be helpful, and we can all learn something new or gain a different perspective in our lives.   It is documented, that effective communcation skills comprises of 60% of actual content/dialogue and the remaining % of a combination of body language and vocal tone. Its any wonder that any medium of written corro (email, text messages, letters) are so easily sidetracked, misreading the writers intent. If you take the visual and the audio out......the result will always be open to a wide range of outcomes. Fortunately we are all adults and can cope and adjust. However, I have growing concern for kids and teenagers today, as there are increasing issues and problems resulted from the missing 40% in their world. You just have to ask a police officer what they think of high schoolers with facebook!!!   Now back to the jelly wrestling!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have to admit to enjoying fancylips querky lil contributions to this thread. He manages to put everything into perspective by simply alluding to his throbbing hard on. Who can think clearly under these conditions!! hehe.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The Bells of St Clements You owe me five Farthing say the Bells of St MArtins Here comes the chopper to Chop of your Head     Dont you just love Oranges

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Like most social media, forums like this quickly descend into the gutter. The internet is littered with simpletons without the abilty to gain employment, guttles people that are too pathetic to lend their name to their posts and worst of all, now having a place to voice thier banal and pathetic opinions on all things to the world. What better subject to voice their opinion about the one thing they can't get.......sex!. Morons complaining "why can't I get a root?", I sent a picture of my dick to 50 sheilas and none want to fuck me. Or some poor girl says "hi" and you ask when you can cum on their tits. Mooka makes a point that few men can turn a metaphore from a straight conversation into a sexual one and still be seen as articulate and witty, without being crass. Guys do not over extend yourselves, most are not able to impress but most are able to depress. Well had my rant now, better go post on some other site about shit I know nothing about, to people I don't know so I can feel better about a sense of pride I don't have........lol....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Agreed Kamp, they're missing out on a lot....I'm just thankful I came along on the front end of it some I got some degree of human interaction before the internet became the be all and end all....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We can't help being a bit dull. Anyway, Gettinjiggynow, I think you make some very valid points and I agree with everything you say. Can I cum on your tits now?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ..between cutting edge third rate gutter humor and stoopid

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Interesting observation but how can cutting edge be third rate ??????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    'I feel that'- It is acceptable for regular posters to chat and get off topic a bit in the interest of social banter, so long as somewhere in there they make a relevant point- they invest a lot of time and effort and if they lose interest then there is no forum at all.'I believe in'- The evolution of a forum topic....yes there is the OP (Ha I just worked it out 'original post', I hope! I'm new.)Then it grows and to me in which direction/s is insignificant what is more relevant is that it stays dynamic and doesn't stagnate- for every stupid post....a well constructed enlightening retort is inspired-(probably for the edification of someone other than the ignorant party involved) Whether overtly advertising, fishing or subtly displaying one's attractiveness (intentionally or not) through intellect and prose- much sexier than a "totally awesome penis" is inconsequential to me. I think people have a right to use the site in a way that works for themselves, being noticed and achieving there intended outcomes. (I feel for single men in that respect on here.) I am tolerant of insider/ off topic conversations as well as self advertisers.I am a fan of Tuscanred, CM's quirky depth and that hot guy that everyone likes.Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I was out of line

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes Mooka it's round and round and round and round.... .   No -one can stay on topic......if a poster replies with the same answer they have given numerous times ...it's because it's the bajillionth time it has posted gaaahhhhhh ...give them a break, at least they've stayed on track for as long as it's humanly .fucking. possible. without hurting their eyes from HUGE rolls at having to answer the same question. They answer it...it's a no brainer...the person is only asking to get a comment on their cock, these threads deserve 3 on-topic answers then it deserves a big fucking hijack !!!!! . Then there's thread where someone is quite obviously having a go at another thread because it was closed down....jeez who can be arsed? let it go for chrissakes . And then another thread asking where the first and following one went because it went the same way....again CBA . Every now and then an interesting one will pop up, we get to see what the forums were originally designed for and it reminds why we all still hang around shooting the breeze with the others while waiting for a good one . For every interesting thread there are ten shithouse ones.....that's ok too, the peeps who want to have a light convo or laugh can do it, right up until an 'On topic' nazi , who by the way is obviously getting no sex and has a bad case of the 'Shits on" comes in and wants everyone to line up neatly and quietly while they suck the fun right out of their life to those people I say , Fuck you!! and really badly too, like a starfish/crap oral/the works type of fuck you LMAO you deserve it you little rays of sunshine. To everyone else, I say.....have a great day you sex lovin gorgeous freaks

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I wasn't offended. The way you worded it just didn't quite seem right to me. I agree that there's a fine line between gutter humour and stupid and I take great delight in trampling that line at every opportunity. Ah, shit. What topic are we discussing again?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Or not. *shrug* I guess it's the difference between high scool debates, where one was spoon-fed information and asked to perform like monkeys to a script on a subject.... vs an adult conversation, with twists and turns, tangents and tidbits... an organic creature with (hopefully) a brain and (inevitably) genitals. Personally, I enjoy the second a whole lot more. But hey, whatever floats your boat. Who am I to judge if monkeys are your thing? ;)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    D_G_T"Fuck you!! and really badly too, like a starfish/crap oral/the works type of fuck you LMAO "PMSL very funny indeed :D (ha still laughing)VagabondeLet's talk about sex, baby..."Or not. *shrug* I guess it's the difference between high scool debates, where one was spoon-fed information and asked to rm like monkeys to a script on a subject....vs an adult conversation, with twists and turns, tangents and tidbits... an organic creature with (hopefully) a brain and (inevitably) genitals. Personally, I enjoy the second a whole lot more. But hey, whatever floats your boat. Who am I to judge if monkeys are your thing?" Objurgate me if I am wrong.......that just sounds damn sexy to me- Big words, Little uniforms, Braids, Blackboard Pointers, stationary (oh how I love stationary.) Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I like LEMONS Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Did we get a like button for a little while? More importantly, and totally riding the coat tails of fancylips I noticed today that I have amazing breasts Anna xxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    then I got distracted be Anna's amazing breasts and fancylips' raging hardon, and putting them together like mental Lego... :D *gigglefit*

  • MegaSin

    MegaSin

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Saturn65' I'm the boring fence sitter you know that....but am happy to see peoples opinions coming out.   I Love Gold cards..VIP cards..Black American express cards..anyone anyone??     ..Back to topic? (send thu card details to profiles lol..) Here I thought you were saying your the boring FENCE Sitter... haha ;)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Listen to Mooka-wan-Kenobi (Obi-wan's brother from the forest moon of Endor). . Learn you will.