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AGREED One night stand, your thing👍
May 01 2018
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
My view is..... if you are selective and choose the right person for a sexual adventure.... then it SHOULD. be a good experience. (Unless, you’re looking to waste your time, their time or don’t care where you leave your next orgasm) And if it’s good why wouldn’t you both want to do it AGAIN?!!! Therefore, to me, the idea of no-strings, or focus on single night stands makes absolutely no sense at all and seems a little sociopathic 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Prefer a night stand on each side of the bed. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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Xxalex
7 years ago
Prefer a connection rather then a relief. And if it's there and good then I couldn't see why you'd stop at once.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
Is definitely my preference, get to know them well please them well and vice versa. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
I see no point in a one night stand.... I enjoy making those passionate connections with my playmates. But i understand the attration to a ONS for some people. Just not enough in it for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Becomes many nights stand😉
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Prefer multiple nights ;-) I tend to find a certain mindset amongst those looking for a one night stand...and that mindset often does not attract me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' Prefer multiple nights ;-) I tend to find a certain mindset amongst those looking for a one night stand...and that mindset often does not attract me. Haha, you took the words right out of my mouth! (Sing along if you feel) I've always thought of trying the approach of "you don't like one night stands? Sure, stay two nights!" :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe in different settings, a one nighter is quick and easy for some people to achieve. But regarding the massive amount and duration of effort put in by others, why would you not try to make a repeat circumstance of it, if you get at least that far?
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RHP User
7 years ago
But you do have to have that first time, and sometimes even when you are sure you have established a rapport beforehand, it ends up being a one night stand anyway. I'm more careful now. 'ONS' = bad for my sex goddess wellbeing.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' My view is..... if you are selective and choose the right person for a sexual adventure.... then it SHOULD. be a good experience. (Unless, you’re looking to waste your time, their time or don’t care where you leave your next orgasm) And if it’s good why wouldn’t you both want to do it AGAIN?!!! Therefore, to me, the idea of no-strings, or focus on single night stands makes absolutely no sense at all and seems a little sociopathic 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile ......and yet it's what most men on every dating/sex site want. Gets boring very quickly.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I call them my auditions. Sometimes they'll get callbacks other times they don't. I have (what supposedly was to be a one night stand almost 4yrs ago), now turn into something really amazing. My good friends don't judge me after a drunken one night stand, cause great friends, do exactly the same thing. Nowadays, I like them, like I do my champagne, gone in the morning. It's been a very very looooong time since I've had a regretful one night stand. Ms Foxy
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Thanks - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Thank you. I have no shame what so ever in admitting having one night stands here and there. My body, my choice. I know that there have been quite a few who have posted in the forums they do prefer ONS and have been publicly shamed and ridiculed. Truth be told, the same shamers, have probably had one nights stands themselves, at one time it other in their lives. Ms Foxy
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megz85g
7 years ago
More ongoing, but only seem to attract the one-nighters Maybe being in an open marriage they see me as an easy opportunity for a root and nothing more? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Gr8distraction
7 years ago
Who cares, why not. Is it your thing? Not ideal. Ive had first dates where there's been a sexy end to the evening. Some frown upon that as well
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RHP User
7 years ago
Imagine how you’ll feel after the cum has gone. Will you want to be away as fast as a thief, or will you want to chat about your pets, kids and your forthcoming holidays over a cold glass of bubbles? I hope for bubbles! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Had my fair share Intense encounters usually while travelling, where itches needed to be scratched, without complications You’re with a stranger sharing in the most amazing experiences and intensity of travelling. The awe of it all The connection is usually very strong, lust, chemistry , is in fact at times out of this world and then, you get off the plane, train, leave the hotel room and move on, with no regrets And then they find you on Facebook three years later
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've never had one, not including the odd once off play private play event with couples. Never was into the casual idea growing up as back then I believed it was only using women and could not be a completely mutual, beneficial thing for both parties. Also the most likely opportunities if any involved alcohol, b & s type events perhaps, and drinking wasn't my thing either (now or then). - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
They were mostly great TBH. Some are planned, others, I hadn’t planned on them being one night stands, but sometimes, as much as I liked the person, I didn’t feel enough sexual chemistry to do it again. That’s OK, we had a fun night, almost always got on well, got our rocks off and we are often still talking months down the track so all good 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I thought a ONS was when that was the only main meeting and you never really see/talk/hear from them again? Just because you've only had sex with someone once, doesn't make it a ONS. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
OK I had sex once with a number of people in an undefined manner 😉 There was a couple that I knew I wouldn’t see again because they were travelling 😛 There was also that guy I banged after a night out at the pub because I was horny. That one wasn’t the best. Too much vodka. I guess he was an authentic 1NS in the purest of forms. There was also that one guy.... oh...., hang on, it’s ok .... I’ll stop now .... - Posted from rhpmobile
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
We’ve both had our fair share of one night stands when single and loved it. There’s an awesome excitement that comes with the first time you meet with someone. More importantly, we’ve met some great people along the way with some becoming much more than temporary acquaintances. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is for more than a ONS, and to be honest, due to the fact that I meet play partners pretty much exclusively through this site, there tends to be a certain amount of back and forth communication and arranging to meet, I think this kind of eliminates the ONS possibility??? Counting on that being a pretty much anonymous physical encounter. I have had occasions where an encounter wasn't repeated due to various reasons, but ideally I do hope to find regular friends, so I admit I tend to avoid those that state they are looking for one offs
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RHP User
7 years ago
Megz85g....I agree with u nd I would love ongoing!!! It’s very easy to say bt it’s hard to get...If one is still waiting for a First chance How can he be able to do an ongoing thing?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Magicmicah
7 years ago
Do guys on here just say what they think women want to hear ? From here it looks like they do . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Magicmicah' Do guys on here just say what they think women want to hear ? From here it looks like they do . - Posted from rhpmobile Yes, yes they do lmao
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have had one night stands in the past. Some have been great and progressed......some not so great and they remained a one night stand. Love the term 'Auditions' SuperFoxxy. Would I have one now? If the mood takes me and I'm single then yes.
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