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AMWF - Asian Male White Female
August 20 2014
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madotara69
10 years ago
But we did play with a Fijian guy and Tara thought he had a lovely cock, like a bar of dark chocolate. Mado Tara xx
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
Good to hear you're open minded enough to try out different things and not limited to stereotypes
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good friends of my parents, she is an ocker Aussie and he is Chinese. A girl who I worked with and was good friends with marred an Asian dude. Her Maltese grandmother wasn't too keen at first....... but it was an awesome wedding! One of my oldest and bestest friends is Indian and is married to a whitey. Actually all her boyfriends were whiteys. I have two really close Chinese girlfriends who always go out with whiteys. Meh, it happens all the time dude.
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RHP User
10 years ago
SORRY........... I can't read. LOL. You were asking about the other way around. Hmmm okay. Nobody comes to mind. Maybe Asian dudes prefer Asian girls?
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
It's a rarity to see AMWF couples here in Melb. I did see more in Sydney when I lived there. I still think there's somewhat of a stigma still though younger women are more open to it as they're influenced by the media (e.g. Walking Dead) and such things as Korean pop trends etc
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' SORRY........... I can't read. LOL. You were asking about the other way around. Hmmm okay. Nobody comes to mind. Maybe Asian dudes prefer Asian girls? Your first two examples fit the bill don't they? You just changed tack halfway through. I've got a good friend who's chinese and his wife is white. And another Chinese friend whose girlfriend is white. I think the difference is white women don't necessarily fetishise Asian men, whereas a lot of white men fetishise Asian women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My brother married an Australian, much to my parents' dismay and he was disowned. But when they had kids (I love the mixed race features of their children), my mum invited them back into the family because she wanted to see her grandkids. I'm currently dating a gorgeous Aussie man but contemplating telling my family :| - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Yep I have seen shit loads of women who are white with men who are Asian heritage. Take Kuta beach (Bali) for instance....they ain't called Kuta Cowboys for nothing. ;) I've seen many couples here in Australia as well, Australian women who are white, with men who are Asian heritage. You'll be surprised if you really look around. :) Sort off.....I have had a lover who was 1/2 Asian (Chinese) and 1/2 Egyptian. Does that count? Not going to bring his cultural heritage into it, as it has nothing to do with why I was attracted to him in the first place. I liked him for who he was as a person. HAHA will keep the size of his willy to myself. Foxy xx
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
Eurasian babies/kids are definitely very good looking. My nephews are all Eurasian. I think in big part that's why a lot of asian women date white guys cos they want Eurasian kids
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
SuperFoxxxy I agree with you. It shouldn't matter at all but unfortunately first impressions or stereotypes do play a huge part in it. There are some AMWF couples but most mixed couples are WFWM....like 90-95%
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
But she is a whitey and with an Indian man. She currently lives in Fiji. So there you go...not Asian but another race. Do I care....nope not one bit - she's happy and that's all that matters. I'm currently in Fiji (visiting) and I've seen heaps of whitey chicks with Fijian men. LOL I keep getting asked if I am married... Some men here are just so divine and handsome that I want to sneak a few home in my suitcase to share with my girlfriends. Orders anyone? Foxy
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
I have two Caucasian Australian female cousins that ended up marrying Japanese men. Unfortunately like the story from Tulips4U; they were disowned and disinherited from their respective families. We have reconnected somewhat in recent years since all of us having children. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
Sounds good Foxy. Yeah there are plenty of great guys out ther. Why stick with Vanilla when you can try all the other flavours right? :p
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Circe
10 years ago
I've dated Asian men, I find some Asian men really attractive. Some Caucasian men too, and Europeans, I like some European men... It's all to do with the package... Looks, personality, spirit, confidence... Tulips is right though. Lots of Asian men don't date outside their cultural group.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Since from a little kid, I/we have grown up with some close family friends, A Japanese man and his Pakia NZ wife.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not the cock size . For me I am usually not turned on by Asian guys due to their smaller frame and stature. I am curvy and 5'9 , I like big guys who make me feel feminine. I'm open to it though if I find a 6'2 gorgeous Asian guy ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
what I read its not the white woman who doesnt like the Asian men its more the Asian men is not going against the wishes of their clan......so really the stigma comes more from the Asian family towards the whites.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm very rarely attracted to Asian men. When I am they tend to have a mix of Asian and Anglo features. The lead male character from The 100 Foot Journey comes to mind. Incredible eyes, smile, height. Some very tall, buff Asian body builders have caught my eye in the past. Ethnicity isn't the issue for me. Attraction is. I'm either attracted or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
married a Japanese man, they spend their time living alternately between Australia and Japan so that their children (adorable) can have the benefits of both of their heritages and cultures. Their friends are all mixed asian and australian, with many mixed couples amongst them.
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Bideas
10 years ago
I know plenty of asian mates who have or have had white female partners. I think you'll find these relationships form for different reasons. As an example, I know many white males who have an asian female fetish. Where as I think most white women who partner with asian males, do so due to personality as opposed to fetish. This is not to say that white males are unlikely to hook up with an asian lady for anything other than fetish, quite the opposite. I know some lovely asian women with personalities of gold, it's just than alot of guys love asian women regardless of personality.
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totallygenuine
10 years ago
I'm attracted to and dated all white Caucasian and Euro females but never dated an Asian or Fijian. I guess it's each to their own. Since joining on here a few years ago I get that asked a lot what my background is due to my looks n physique lol. It's a common mix in Fiji. TG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have been divorced for 8 years, was married to Japanese man for 10 years...Have Eurasian kids. I can tell you first hand, he had a big cock, great in the sack, clever mind ,& an honest loving heart . His family i& friends n Osaka are amazing, wonderful & kind hearted people...We did have people comment quite frequently in NZ that it is usually the woman who is Asian .(this is def true..!!). Our kids are beautiful, & he's a good, supportive father... He broke my heart when he left the marriage, but I must say, he has always been more than fair in regards to custody,mortgages etc . No spite, no greed....Never needed lawyers or negotiatrs...And his family still love us all, & are devoted to the grandkids. I would encourage you to try Asuan men - hot, smooth tanned bodies, considerate lovers, & generous with love & money - tho not with time...xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey Pussyeater, we checked your profile out and yep you are Asian. Great promotion mate, you are a marketing guru!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' But she is a whitey and with an Indian man. She currently lives in Fiji. So there you go...not Asian but another race. Isn't India in South Asia? I've not been with an Asian man, but certainly wouldn't rule it out. Like Missblissbomb says, it's all about the total package. And they have to be tall.
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Seachange
10 years ago
The mix in our family is so diverse that when we have a family getogether (massive numbers...yes we copulate like rabbits..), it seems like a UN general assembly meeting. And my mom the head of the Assembly. My sister married an Englishman and she moved to UK and I was married to a French Canadian. Yes, we have mixed blood children - soft features, handsome faces (one of my sons look like Enrique Iglesias, who is half Asian, and chased by girls at his high school and it scares the shit out of him) and dark large almost eyes with Olive skin. My older brothers are a mixed lot - The eldest has married an Asian woman, the second brother married an Italian woman and the third brother married a German Swiss woman. All ahve wonderful looking and well behaved respectful intelligent children. Just to give you an Asian perspective to this issue... Growing up in Asian a predominantly white neighborhood in a country town, there were not that many asian guys for us to choose and be paired with so we are used to date outside our race. No dramas. from my mother's point of view, she wanted for us children to marry within our race as she believes that there is less misunderstanding and conflict of ideas and lifestyle. and that culturally, we will remain 'pure' as our tradition will remain intact and will be passed on to the next generation. There is also the thought that when she gets old, that only the asian partners will understand the resposibilities of caring for elderly parents and multigenerational nuclear family home will not be an issue. We were shocked with her thinking at first and thought it was racist but reflected more on her fear of being thrown into the 'life's dustbin' in her old age. We told her that whomever we end up marrying should not be an issue for her and that most likely the people we will marry would have a deep appreciation of our views on strong family ties and culture. My brothers were at first conflicted but reassured her that she will never be abandoned by her children as we were not raised like that. She then relaxed a lot as we all got together. And she never was and will never be abandoned. Our choices in our partners proved to her that her fears were unfounded and that she is loved and adored and respected as the elderly stateswoman of the family. She lives in a granny flat at the back of my oldest brother's house (with Asian wife) so we can all keep an eye on her shenanigans (no partying after midnight Mom and no hot men younger than 60. Lol) without cramping her style. She comes and goes as she pleases. All of us call her everyday to check on her (she pretends she is annoyed but loves the attention) and drop by her place for dinner or weekend lunch, usually unannounced. We have never grown up. The selection of partner will always start with the familiar, usually the family being the only point of reference. Not intentionally malicious or being racist, but one works within the limits of what they know. In time, as we experience life outside the familiar, we expand our views and eventually our tastes, and determine to put down stakes based on what suits us the most, hoping that it will not disrupt too much of our current lives and marginalize people we care about. Asians living in a western society, live a dichotomous lives at times, but we reconcile that differences with our ability to be more open, accepting and understanding of our surrounds without prejudice and work the system and be selective of people we interact with, those who will enrich our lives more, rather than drag us down to the path of negativity and despair. Who wants the latter? Right?
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'PussyEater23' Eurasian babies/kids are definitely very good looking. My nephews are all Eurasian. I think in big part that's why a lot of asian women date white guys cos they want Eurasian kids WTF!!! No, I did not set out to date western men so I can have cute Eurasian kids!!! It's not like shopping for ingredients to make fruit salad. That may be true in some instances but I think that is a very sad in that case. That is insulting and offensive to me to say our relationships are contrived, manipulative in its intentions and shallow, dismissing our intention and ability to find love and contentment with a soulmate based on shared experiences and life's goals. Maybe you mean something else but that is a totally ridiculous argument to present that this is a main drive in finding a life partner. You have a long way to learn about Asian women... or women in general if you think that way. Ask your family members if this is the case. You will be surprised, and learn a thing or two...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said...You took the words right out of my mouth...!;! II have very beautiful Eurasian children,. The younger children are pale skinned, & look mixed race, but the oldest boy is a clone of his dad.. When my first born & I would go out shopping etc, I would occasionally be asked "Is yr baby adopted??". I would say "no, he's mine..'. A few people even had the cheek to say "I thought half-breeds were cuter!!" WTF !! Or " Do u wish he looked more like u?",,, He's gorgeous, handsome & mine!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
There is a whiff of anger, desperate frustration and dare I say ... mild racism about this topic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This not an uncommon mixed relationship in Darwin, quite often see Asian male & Caucasian female.Actually I can think of a few Darwin couples in their 70's & 80's where the male is Asian and female Caucasian and have been married for well over 50 years, now that would of been an uncommon mix back in the day.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's called the 'open leg route' into Australia. But by the by. I had a Chinese boyfriend when I was 15, an Indian and Japanese one when 19 and 21. A Tibetan one not that long ago.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' But she is a whitey and with an Indian man. She currently lives in Fiji. So there you go...not Asian but another race. Isn't India in South Asia? My daughter says...He is pure Indian in Fiji - calls himself "Gujaratis" not Asian. That is what state/province he is from in India. Some are called Indian Fijian - those born here in Fiji. It's hard to explain - but he does not call himself "Asian" Hope that makes sense? Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Foxy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' There is a whiff of anger, desperate frustration and dare I say ... mild racism about this topic. I disagree. to me it is a genuine question.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I don't know about others? How I see Asia ( and when ever I hear Asia) I see it as one big continent made up of individual countries that make that continent. Each country having their own individual own cultures, as religious backgrounds, ethics/values etc that type of thing. Which makes Asia very very interesting to me - as I love a lot of the culture, food and diverse people. :) So OP can I ask, what part of Asia are you from, as in your family cultural/heritage background? Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think different countries have different ideas of who is Asian, although I believe in Australia we would see Indians as Asian due to the location of the country. Foxxy if he is saying he is Gujarati he is saying he associates with being Indian....... which we see as Asian. :D
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RHP User
10 years ago
That is a personal question Foxxy!
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
Sorry the intentions of this thread is not to offend you. It's just to give you an insight into a Asian Male's perspective and get people to start talking about this topic and consider AMWF relationships. I've grown up here in Australia and these are just the things I've observed. I agree. Not all Asian women date white men to have Eurasian babies but i have personally found this to be a contributing factor with many Asian women when it comes to choosing a partner. Perhaps it's the people I've encountered along the way, but this is the general trend I've come across. Whether it's just cynicism that's come from getting older or whether it's a culmination of life's experiences, I do feel Asian men are marginalised when it comes to dating (and being viewed attractive / desirable) and being portrayed within the mainstream media. As a younger guy I didn't always see things this way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'PussyEater23' Eurasian babies/kids are definitely very good looking. My nephews are all Eurasian. I think in big part that's why a lot of asian women date white guys cos they want Eurasian kids WTF!!! No, I did not set out to date western men so I can have cute Eurasian kids!!! It's not like shopping for ingredients to make fruit salad. That may be true in some instances but I think that is a very sad in that case. That is insulting and offensive to me to say our relationships are contrived, manipulative in its intentions and shallow, dismissing our intention and ability to find love and contentment with a soulmate based on shared experiences and life's goals. Maybe you mean something else but that is a totally ridiculous argument to present that this is a main drive in finding a life partner. You have a long way to learn about Asian women... or women in general if you think that way. Ask your family members if this is the case. You will be surprised, and learn a thing or two...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Dont mnd the line of questionong as it seems he wants to understand how some choices for partners will affect his chances and setting level of expectation. All can be answered objectively And intellgently. What I take offence to is his coming to the table to discuss the relevant topic and having a close mind rather than and inquiring mind. Blatant ignorant generalisations thrown flippantly about a race or culture, white or otherwise, is.not an indicator that one seeks knowledge. His intention is then questionable in my eyes. I would like to.hear his side. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I think different countries have different ideas of who is Asian, although I believe in Australia we would see Indians as Asian due to the location of the country. Foxxy if he is saying he is Gujarati he is saying he associates with being Indian....... which we see as Asian. :D No Sorry I was brought up to say where a person's cultural background, not continent. So I don't see Indians (from India) as "Asian" I see them from Indian, as in country. Like I said, Asia is one large continent to me, not a country. To me when I hear the word "Asia" it groups all countries together. I see a person as being an individual first, then their country or cultural/heritage back-gound. Most of the time if someone is from say Thailand for example, I will say "The persons "name" first, who is from.... "country of origin". Hope that makes sense? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I agree. That is why I ask questions. I would dislike this forum to be canned as I find it rather interesting. I love all cultures that's is why I have a passion for travel. LOL Think my daughter has got that from me. ;) So different from her dad. I love that she is so open minded to many many cultures. She does not want to come home. :( Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
what are you talking about? It is a collective term. It is the same as saying Eastern European or Middle East. It is just a collective term for a people living in a region. Nothing wrong with that you know. So an Indian person is from India and is comes from the Asia region. You seen to feel there is something wrong with this? If you want to be picky there are loads of different cultures and ethnic groups in Indian. So you should be calling them Indian either.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry typo, you shouldn't be calling them Indian if you apply the same logic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' what are you talking about? It is a collective term. It is the same as saying Eastern European or Middle East. It is just a collective term for a people living in a region. Frankly, I only say I'm European if I don't want people to know where I'm from. Otherwise it will always be Dutch.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But there is a European culture. When you fil out forms or even RHP has European, East Asian, Asian, Black, etc as an option you are supposed to pick. Actually Black is an interesting term for race background. But then again I never have had this hung up on all these distinctions. So I am Australian, who lives in Asia who has European background. Hmmm what should I call myself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But Meander, you are still European though. I bet you come from a particular region in Holland that has another distinction again. Everyone is part of a group, which is part of a bigger group, which is part of a bigger group, etc, etc.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' But there is a European culture. When you fil out forms or even RHP has European, East Asian, Asian, Black, etc as an option you are supposed to pick. Actually Black is an interesting term for race background. But then again I never have had this hung up on all these distinctions. So I am Australian, who lives in Asia who has European background. Hmmm what should I call myself. Same as me. I call myself Australian because I am and that is the culture I most identify with.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Playing with a girl from Estonia. Can I advertise? (Giggle). We are looking for our first three some together. ;) wink. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
One of my best friends is a white female and her husband is Asian 6 feet tall quite handsome. They're expecting twins soon can't wait they're going to be gorgeous. I'm a Eurasian mix used to hate it as a kid but now I like it. I've got a few guy friends that are Asian just not ever been attracted to them. But most of them are married to white women now that I think about it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' But Meander, you are still European though. I bet you come from a particular region in Holland that has another distinction again. Everyone is part of a group, which is part of a bigger group, which is part of a bigger group, etc, etc. Holland is a region in The Netherlands. Of course we're all part of a bigger a group, but I would like to be defined by a bit more than "European". I do prefer Australian now, as I've been a citizen for years and I don't identify much with The Netherlands at all. However, based upon your post, aren't we all just Citizens of Planet Earth?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I call myself Australian too but I am first generation and there are huge differences in the way I was brought up compared to the ocker Aussies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' But there is a European culture. When you fil out forms or even RHP has European, East Asian, Asian, Black, etc as an option you are supposed to pick. Actually Black is an interesting term for race background. European is not a race. Caucasian is.
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RHP User
10 years ago
yes that is right. Foxxy told me I was wrong to say a person from India is Asian. I am just saying that I don't agree. A person from India can be both. Indian and Asian and part of planet earth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oops sorry they don't have European there. It is Caucasian, true.. Sorry PussyEater we are have gone totally off track. Will shut up now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' yes that is right. Foxxy told me I was wrong to say a person from India is Asian. I am just saying that I don't agree. A person from India can be both. Indian and Asian and part of planet earth. I understood what Foxy was trying to say, but a person born in India was born in Asia, full stop. Whether they identify with being Asian is of course a different story. I've met many English guys who are black. I've never asked any of them specifically, but can imagine that when asked about their ethnic background they might just say "English". An ex was both African and Caucasian. I like how it's possible to be a bit of more than one thing. Sorry, OP. Well, not really. Fascinating discussion!
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I call myself Australian too but I am first generation and there are huge differences in the way I was brought up compared to the ocker Aussies. Meeka, I can relate to you as per my background, albeit I am of mixed Asian background. As I have been raised mainly by my single mother , my formative years with her have shaped my views in life with an Asian slant (pun). At the end of the day, since I have been raised in Australia with no real bonding with her culture except for the stories of her youth, I identify myself as Australian. My humour (too brash and dirty for her culture ), my mannerisms (too straightforward apparently ), the lifestyle and my fines for not exercising my compulsory voting duties definitely seal the deal that I am Australian. But not Ocker. But I can live with that.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' There is a whiff of anger, desperate frustration and dare I say ... mild racism about this topic. I disagree. to me it is a genuine question. The topic has "some" merit..... the way it was written.... is what I refer to.
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Magik_Munk3y
10 years ago
Hi All, The main reason why I started this thread is because there is another thread in this forum which is focused on Asian Females White Guys and Fetish vs Preference etc, which is a commonly discussed topic. I thought the AMWF topic is one less discussed and should get more attention frankly. Also it's 2014, AMWF should be more mainstream than it currently is. No ulterior motives. Just great to get other people's insights on this and get people talking.
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madotara69
10 years ago
To all sit around a Yum cha, mmmmmmmmmmmmm
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' To all sit around a Yum cha, mmmmmmmmmmmmm haha, , I'm in. You cooking? or you walking around with a tray full of goodies? Now we are getting off topic. Back to the topic.....
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madotara69
10 years ago
The only thing I got an "A" for at school, was in cooking class, where I master chef'd a five course Chinese banquet. Now that came about from when mum and dad use to take us and friends too china town, there was heaps of all these combinations of folk Yum cha-ing. You betcha I shall cook. Can do a Steam-Boat too, Khan of Khan and Papidums. Deep fried Ice cream. So we are still on topic. As ya all would be welcome, I think we all identify as dirty fuckers.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthelonggrass'Asian women chase white guysIt's called the 'open leg route' into Australia. But by the by. I had a Chinese boyfriend when I was 15, an Indian and Japanese one when 19 and 21. A Tibetan one not that long ago. Wow. Interesting propositon, yet shallow in my opinion. I should ask you to qualify your comment, in what context and your experience. Otherwise, in my opinion, you are being obtuse, which I am sure you are not as you are dating Asian men. So please enlighten me. I will not dispute it has not happened, as the proliferation of mail order brides in the early 70-80s from the Philippines and other South East Asian countries has meant tht the presence of mainly older men(above 50-70s) walking hand in hand on the street with their young brown brides and their beautiful caramel babies has become commonplace in the country town we grew up in. My mom was a senior nursing sister in the local hospital and being the only Asian nurse in the town, it meant she gave up a lot of her afterhours in helping these women - acquianting the women with the customs, laws of the land (most were not aware they had rights), helped these women escape violent relationships (domestic violence) and showed the women how to get into english language schools and get jobs. It was a tireless thankless non-paying devotion to help but the satisfaction she got is that she gets to instill a sense of pride and see them develop self respect and be good contributors to society. She taught them that it is not a sin to have an opinion and voice theim if they feel they are in right. And it can be done respectfully and intelligently. Nowadays though, there is a paradigm shift in the mixed marriage coupling in that the socalled 'open leg route' into Australia as you have lmentioned above. extends to more frequent partnering with women from Russia, eastern Europe, South America and to a lesser degree, Africa. so the term is now obsolete as the premise of your argument is that it only applies to Asian women chasing White men. Or am I wrong? Please explain. So,tell me wise one, what derogatory term should we use for white old men (usually retirees 50-70s) who go to resource rich countries like the Philippines, Indonesia (Bali inparticular), Thailand, etc, marry a local young lassie (usu in their early 20s) so they are able to buy properties to develop into their business empire and/or retire in relative affluence on very little salary (usually pensions) and enjoy the nubile young bodies at their discretion? White dick capitalist route?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' My brother married an Australian, much to my parents' dismay and he was disowned. But when they had kids (I love the mixed race features of their children), my mum invited them back into the family because she wanted to see her grandkids. I'm currently dating a gorgeous Aussie man but contemplating telling my family :| - Posted from rhpmobile Eurasian girls (particularly) are known or their looks and wonderful complexions and also their worldwide beauty. More power to the mixer of races and what wonder the human race perceives ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I believe it is rare to see more mature Asian men (>40 years old) with a caucasian woman because men in that age group still value their culture and like to stick with their 'kind', as lilyorchid so eloquently explained (and also for the reverse, AFWM). But I think you will find that the younger generation are like a mixed bag of lollies, all mingling together, seeing past their friends' skin colour, race, religion, sexual preference....etc... the way it ought to be. I am just wondering if the aim of the OP was to get women who have dated Asian men to come forward and dismiss the 'claims' that all Asian men are small? From my experience, I have dated men of different races and yes, size varies for every race. I will also dismiss the claim that all black* men are big. And I was looking forward to my first BBC. DAMN IT! *Apologies. I don't like to distinguish people by the colour of their skin but didn't know how else to word it to get my point across. Spank me please
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthelonggrass' It's called the 'open leg route' into Australia. But by the by. I had a Chinese boyfriend when I was 15, an Indian and Japanese one when 19 and 21. A Tibetan one not that long ago. Of course its not possible that these women fell in love with their Ozzie bloke. Regardless of your follow up comments, I find your first comment racist.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Oops sorry they don't have European there. It is Caucasian, true.. Sorry PussyEater we are have gone totally off track. Will shut up now. Its annoying wading through comments that are simply not relevant to the topic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find good conversations often come from tangents but I understand some people are very strict with the rules. Cheers for your comment. It was very helpful.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was not unusual for a male of Asian ethnicity to be with a female of Caucasian ethnicity when I was at university in the 80's in Queensland. There are many such mixes amongst the parents at the inner city school my child attends. Maybe because those are more melting pot environments with more tolerant values. And I agree with Lilyorchid's remarks. Although I am a white capitalist with a dick who is yet to find a route. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not all white Australians are ocker. Australians get very stereotyped too. Interesting discussion to be sure with everyone defending their own positions as usual. Why is there a special category on RHP for Asian (female) hotties? Why not Fijian or Spanish or Tasmanian? Hmmmmm!? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's based on loads of experience within my own family and many friends. One brother was rejected by Chinese girlfriends family because of his race.you Pulling out the 'racist' card is also shallow and often just plain vindictive and naive. Had a Chinese lady stay with me for three months earlier this year looking for 'love.' She used and manipulated me and various vulnerable single older men. She was after the possibility of a monied man and a visa. I have a world of experience on the matter. I could go on... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I knew that was what I was doing Cause sometimes it just has to be said
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't make the comments. And especially as you admit you knew what you were doing. And me stating I find your comment racist is neither vindictive or naive. It is a statement of opinion, just as yours is. Enjoy a happy life.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'PussyEater23' Eurasian babies/kids are definitely very good looking. My nephews are all Eurasian. I think in big part that's why a lot of asian women date white guys cos they want Eurasian kids WTF!!! No, I did not set out to date western men so I can have cute Eurasian kids!!! It's not like shopping for ingredients to make fruit salad. That may be true in some instances but I think that is a very sad in that case. That is insulting and offensive to me to say our relationships are contrived, manipulative in its intentions and shallow, dismissing our intention and ability to find love and contentment with a soulmate based on shared experiences and life's goals. Maybe you mean something else but that is a totally ridiculous argument to present that this is a main drive in finding a life partner. You have a long way to learn about Asian women... or women in general if you think that way. Ask your family members if this is the case. You will be surprised, and learn a thing or two... Sorry for late reply as your post was not visible until last night. Why the distinction? Easy. The OP stated a generalisation the reason ASIAN women partner with western men which is totally false and unfounded and totally ridiculous. It is racist in behaviour but in his explanation, I have taken this into account that it is his experience and experience alone or the few times it has happened, it does not maketh the truth. As you know, just because you have a valid experience, it does not make it universal. His offensive generalisation (which he has since further clarified his intention, thanks OP) implied that Asian women are manipulative and opportunistic in nature to the point of genetic pool manipulation - also commonly known as creating 'Designer Babies'. Totally abhorrent in concept. My rebuttal to his argument was from an Asian woman's perspective first and foremost, because I am. However I also believe that ANY blatant generalisations about women's true intents and motivations without supporting evidence, much less from the oppposite sex, regardless of race or upbringing, is more a reflection of their little understanding of the subject hence is subjective in nature. Hence the extension or corollary (refer to Spanglish's comments from a western woman's perspective). For me, vile racist comments/statements has no place is our evolving society, totally not acceptable, dehumanising and disrespectful to the mix of race and sexes. People should learn from the bitter events in history and not tolerate small minded ignorant accusations. To condone by not speaking against it is as much as fault to the person inflicting the pain and suffering. My mother told me that my voice may be singular in nature but every little voice, when yellled together, makes a roar in the jungle. It makes a difference.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthelonggrass' Not all white Australians are ocker. Australians get very stereotyped too. Interesting discussion to be sure with everyone defending their own positions as usual. Why is there a special category on RHP for Asian (female) hotties? Why not Fijian or Spanish or Tasmanian? Hmmmmm!? - Posted from rhpmobile Of course I will defend my position against stupid generalisations thrown flippantly into the fray which is supported by few experience which serves as evidence. It is my race you are degrading and labelling as manipulative,. Do you expect me to lie there like a starfish and get fucked by the ignorant stick you waiver in the air and be grateful for it? No. What do you expect? Unlike some people you may come across, I am a more vocal Asian woman, not violent but vocal. With regards to RHP's decision to have a separate category for Asians, well since you are very clever, I suppose you should contact them directly (try the help desk) and ask them why they discriminate. Maybe there is just more fetish or interest in Asian women than Fijians (which is really part of the Islander group? Find out yourself and propose that to them and if there is a substantial demand in the market, they will accommodate you. this may satiate your curiousity or put your frustration in perspective rather than rocking yourself silly in your little dark room, thinking there is a bitter bigger conspiracy going on from the RHP and Asian community. Ridiculous. As to the Tasmanians... well, last time I checked, Tasmania was still part of Australia. Are there special attributes about Tasmania that warrant special category? I would like to know.
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
*guiltily does another google image search for asian porn star Peter Le* xx Sarah
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
It's that the first film I saw him in, he was being dominated by two cool punk girls. First impressions hehe
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RHP User
10 years ago
BDunks=lilyochord - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You see asian looking guys with Russian white women quite a bit in places like Moscow
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Peach30minx' BDunks=lilyochord - Posted from rhpmobile Wot??? . Que?
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Cinnamonnsilk' I knew that was what I was doing Cause sometimes it just has to be said so Cinnamonsilk, Inthelongrass and who ever you are. Why the constant name change? You for real? You just keep changing names everytime you get found out? Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have 6 or more sets of friend "couples" who represent for AMWF. It definitely happens, and I understand why... I've met plenty of sexy tall charismatic (and yes, well endowed) Asian men, you just have to open your eyes and look, if not, travel into Asia and you will see! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' SORRY........... I can't read. LOL. You were asking about the other way around. Hmmm okay. I love that in my first foray back into the forums I see this post from Meeka. pmsl!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
One day, I was walking past StarCity Casino in Sydney when an Asian guy driving a purple Lamborghini Diablo convertible was parked at the lights- as I crossed the front of the car, I pointed to the blonde STUNNER (defiantly a 'pro') and asked her if she was alright. She laughed because even she knew it looked seriously weird and simply replied with a smirk, 'Yes'. --Sometimes you have to make your own fun folks-
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