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ANR/ABR relationships

May 11 2015

I think this has been done before but i'm reviving it. Is there anyone here that is interested in Adult nursing relationships? I know what you're thinking straight away, and i did too. The more i thought about it and read about it, the more interested i got in it. Thoughts?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    something on TV just on Sunday, and I found it not to my liking. I thought most of this people had big issues. However it is what it is and for some it is the way to go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My thoughts, simply; the combination of age and incest play, would make it a big no for me.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    But to me..... it runs contrary to my views on living life as a Man..... Kinks know no bounds..... maybe you'll find that person who is into it. But don't women already complain about doing everything for their man? hahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    can you explain what this is? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not sure on this one. I am still lactating, and love breastfeeding. It releases some nice feel good chemicals. And being sucked on during foreplay is kinda hot! Totally different to feeding a baby. A baby breastfeeding has a certain latch, and the ability to feed in that way is lost during childhood. Breast play is much more arousing than when I wasn't lactating. And yep - some milk does come out 😝 But to do it as an actual ANR/ABR is a totally different playing field. I guess for the woman the payoff would be release of oxytocin and being connected but I don't think it would be for me. I would want a guy to be into me for me, not my milk. I've fed for two years now and let me tell you it's nice to be getting my body back and not having someone dependent on me. And besides......I don't want to be tucking my tatas into my belt any earlier than necessary 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why do mention incest with this?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As long as its legal and not harming anyone in my opinion is perfectly fine..there are websites and groups devoted to this topic..it's not my thing,but I can imagine that it could be mutually satisfying for a number of different reasons OP xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't see ANR/ABR as incest anymore than cougars sleeping with guys half their age. So, not at all. It's not my thing, and I won't claim to understand it, but if it's a legal activity between two consenting adults I don't see a problem with it either. Softandcurious, thanks, I found your post very insightful. :-)

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Sheesh. So much for speaking plainly. Meeka ... I said incest play … not incest. It's different. It's Role Play, and ANR tends to be an immersive, very specific RP scene. It's not just having someone play and suck on your boobs. Incest play and age play are not illegal. It's RP. I'm sure it's not uncommon, I havent' looked in the Role Play section of RHP, but I bet I'd find some sort of incest RP even there. And all I said is ... it's a RP I've no interest in. I made no judgement call on the OP, nor the act, or other participants who enjoy this play, other than saying … it's a no from me. Personally, I see a big difference between ANR and younger / mature people playing, as ANR is RPing a very specific scenario / relationship. But … that’s just my opinion. What I find curious is that the only other time I mentioned age play in the forums, Meeka jumped in with a breast feeding comment. I found it odd at the time and even odder now. I’m sorry if I touched a nerve.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just from a simple question!?!? So I think I have figured out for myself, you are saying that because it's a mother child thing.... Nursing that is. I suppose to me that hadn't occurred to me because the two people aren't related. Never even crossed my mind. Interesting view point tho. Disturbing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've only seen one doco on the subject, but the adult babies in it were cared for by "nannies", not women pretending to be their mother. I must say the thought hadn't even occurred to me. Vaque, I'm curious, would you be looking for a nanny or a mummy?

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I've never met or heard of any wet nurses in Australia. Other cultures for sure. And maybe that is why I've only ever heard of ABR as part of incest RP. I'm sure there is variation, and I didn't consider other RP relationships. Would still be a no for me, though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I've only seen one doco on the subject, but the adult babies in it were cared for by "nannies", not women pretending to be their mother. I must say the thought hadn't even occurred to me. Vaque, I'm curious, would you be looking for a nanny or a mummy? It's not about a mother/child thing. That's something different altogether. It's just about a bond between two people .... from what i read. Let me state, i haven't actually done it, but i just found out about it and it did spark my curiosity. Thankyou all for your interest and comments ..... still keen to hear more

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Yes this topic has been touched on over the years - I opened a forum on it in 2013. I think it is erotic as do others. If your remove the "Child/Mother" emotional equation from it - think about it.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    Can you remove totally the Mother/Child image?

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    then yes I do believe I could. It is not an easy task though to begin lactating again at an older age. However it can be done and is done. I personally do not see anything wrong with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' then yes I do believe I could. It is not an easy task though to begin lactating again at an older age. However it can be done and is done. I personally do not see anything wrong with it. OH yeah. How do you do that? As someone who has never had a baby I find the whole nursing thing a totally alien concept.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' can you explain what this is? - Posted from rhpmobile I assume you have figured it out by now. ANR = Adult Nursing Relationship. As in the woman breastfeeds the man. I assume probably a few times a day so that the breasts continue to produce milk. I always assumed that this was linked to wanting to act like a baby, wear a nappy, etc. But I am not sure about that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    thanks, none of this would do a lot for me. I don't like milk, Thatcher took it off me in the 80s and I haven't drunk it since lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    How do you fuck arses? There are some people who are totally turned off by that kind of play. However, when I am with some one I do not see my breasts as utters for babies and should not be touched or sucked on. They are fun bags for adult fun and in this instance for me - would be erotica and that is where my mind would be at. Breasts are one of the most talked about sexual parts of out bodies, EXCEPT when a woman is breast feeding a child. Go figure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Inspirit gets what i'm talking about. Meeka, no ..... it's not about acting like a baby for the guy. As i said, it's a bonding between the two adults, just in a different way. As Inspirit mentioned, it could be quite erotic and very personal Meeka and Inspirit .... if you'd like to chat with me more about it, feel free to email me at badders04@hotmail.com.I'd like to hear from you both.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well I take it you don't know how it is done then Inspirit since you didn't answer my question. And I find breast feed anyone adult, baby, animal or a fucken Martian an alien concept to me personally. If that pisses you off. Well woopdido.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If it's not about the guy acting like a baby, aren't you just talking about Adult Nursing Relationships and not Adult Baby Relationships at all? I'm confused. Ps posting email addresses is not allowed. I wonder which mod wasn't paying attention this morning. 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My bad. Maybe I should clarify. By ABR I meant adult breastfeeding relationship. Not baby, lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Well I take it you don't know how it is done then Inspirit since you didn't answer my question. And I find breast feed anyone adult, baby, animal or a fucken Martian an alien concept to me personally. If that pisses you off. Well woopdido. I never said I have DONE it - Did I? Read the posts and stick you woopdido up your clackylacky. While you're at give get some sausage into ya.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' It is not an easy task though to begin lactating again at an older age. However it can be done and is done. But you just don't know how. *eye roll*

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    *Shakes Head*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Play nice ladies :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Meeka there are drugs and natural therapies you can take to lactate/re-lactate, sucking on the breast stimulates it as well as power pumping with a breast pump. For some women they may never be able to produce milk this way. There's lot of info if you google. But it's basically feeding on a strict routine/schedule to try and make the body produce milk. Not easy and requires A LOT of commitment by both parties. Either that, or you start when a woman is already lactating/recently stopped and that's pretty much it in a D cup 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You seem to know a bit about it Softandcurious. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lol! Only because I've been feeding for so long and it was a long hard road with lots of research. And I watch discovery home and health haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    To me adult breast feeding and adult baby are totally different. Breastfeeding to me is in no way a mum/baby thing, to me it's a breast loving thing. I love tits and lactation is an extension of that. I can say when my ex was breastfeeding I would regularly suck on and drain both breasts especially when they became really full. I loved it and miss it a lot. I also love it when they leaked during tit fucking. My understanding of adult baby is that a grow person wants to be treated like a baby, to whatever extent appeals to them . That's not appealing to me AT ALL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Understand everyone has their own personal preferences ie Henna.....BUT thank goodness were not all the same. How boring would that be! I'm in a deeply committed long term relationship with a wonderful man who started sucking my nipples when I was PMT time. I found that relived my sore breasts then we would have great sex where cumming lowered any pre-period pain. I found this act calmed both him and I also allowing us to connect on a completely different level. I'm not sure if you could do this without that trust and deep respect for each other. We haven't kept to a regular schedule that would bring about lactation but morning and night does make my breasts respond with alittle clear fluid. I find my nipples hardening in anticipation of my boyfriends mouth just from reading an email from him...that I found crazy. I have to say I don't view him as a child or infant like but a man I deeply love and I want to give my whole body to him. We both enjoy the effects suckling gas on both of us. At one point we did discuss finding a third person, a wonderful woman who likes to feel desired and wanted by more than one person. Unfortunately that hasn't happened but maybe when yr not looking the right pieces of the puzzle fall into place