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Abuse messages
June 11 2018
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
To be put off by someone else’s assessment, we must first value their opinion..... When it comes to strangers forcing their opinions upon us it’s not a judgement of us, but an advertisement of THEM. So it’s a cunt of a message that has come about from you either not replying, rejecting them, etc you’ve no justification to accept their opinion as anything more than a bullet dodged.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
This was purely first message received from the guy who I had no contact with...I’ve not seen his profile to say I’m interested or not interested...
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
This person has no involvement in your life....therefore doesn’t require any acknowledgement or acceptance of their opinion.... You know who you are better than anyone else....therefore you’ll know that their opinion is based on no knowledge of you.... So ask yourself how much do they really deserve to have an affect on you?? Your answer should be zero.... So...onward, upward, head held high, shoulders back, boobs out, and strut like you’re Tyra Banks on the catwalk.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Yes we get a few, not a lot. I've had negative shit all my life, you get used to it and learn how to harden up. But yes when you get one when you are feeling a little low, it can pierce your armour. Put a bandage on and back into the frey. Dont let them ruin your experience because they cant fet a root
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compressor
7 years ago
Hi cant see your photo but I am sure you are beautiful like all the other ladies on here. Just no need to be nasty on here
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RHP User
7 years ago
The way of the world, on line and off for some people. Ignore then move on. I was insulted in the chat room last night. Apparently because he pays and I don't I be should just be honoured and meet him. And I've wasted his time. It's a chat room!!!! And my profile is clear. Needless to say I won't be chatting with him anytime soon. Moving on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
..This IS the real world, too. Abuse hurts just as much here. That's something that plenty don't want to recognise. That it's not necessary to treat others on here like human beings because "it's not the real world here..?" Holier-than-thou much..? Couples can be the worst for this, I've noticed.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Rewording my comment earlier... meant to say byogirls has posted twice... felt sorry so mentioned this for her.... I'm not the same person as byogirls :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
It’s mrs D typing . It always is . You know that . As far as the mwah goes, it’s a kiss on the cheek which is what us girls do . I certainly do, so not patronising, inflammatory nor arrogant. Certainly not intended to be. Such is the danger of the written word - hard to tell what the emotion is and as such often gets misconstrued. As I am typing this using an iPhone, the usual emoticons don’t work and “mwah mwah” (kisses on cheeks) will have to do. Let’s agree to disagree , let’s kiss and make up and let’s move on now should we ? Love and kisses Mrs D ( and waves and tweaks from Mr D ) Lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Has anyone ever met a dude that would say mwah? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Has been removed from the site . Hmmm as we suspected someone had a double profile :)
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Nope ! Darlink!! Mwah Mwah
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well firstly thanks to Februarylove for pointing out yes i had posted twice..did this in frustration and impatient waiting...lol...no I don’t have two profiles, i have been victim of fake profiles so wouldn’t do this. It is nice to have a community of support on here..i have an outside support friend who is on the lookout of this guy to slap him silly 😂 who his location is near where she works. Well its been a couple days later and i have taken in comments on here and look at myself and ready to take on wherever comes to me...I’m ready now to put my pics back in public gallery and find suitable person/people who i want to potentially play with at my own comfort. Happy Playing :)
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Lullah
7 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36'As far as the mwah goes, it’s a kiss on the cheek which is what us girls do . as a joke, you know the both cheeks mwah, it always has us lol ingThey Love that I'm a bit of a dag :-)
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Thank you. Was that so hard? So much easier than playing games. Enough of that here already. No need to send kisses. We aren't that close in case you hadn't noticed. An informal Mrs would be perfect for all. And l know there are many others that need to show the etiquette but it should start with the regulars. Even though it's not real world for you or you don't take it seriously. Funny that you are on a fair bit though.....,
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
It’s free entertainment, in the safety of ones own home. Lol Way back, in 1996 when we met, IRC was very popular (we met indirectly through IRC) and used to spend a couple of hours daily, in the chatrooms. It was quite addictive and there would be weekly meets where we all got together at Hard Rock Cafe, Planet Hollywood etc. It’s been fun. Whilst IRC is no more, there are chatrooms on here and these are quite similar to good old IRC, albeit they are a bit more sexual. And so we dabble on here and in the chatrooms when we have time. Normally first thing in the morning , or last thing at night , whilst at the same time checking emails and catching up on Facebook. It’s entertaining. It’s not, for us, the be all and end all, as we lead very busy & fulfilling lives. It’s just a fun daily distraction. For some this is their life , or their lives revolve around RHP and we suppose that they take this all very seriously. But as the saying goes, life goes on. And there is a whole world out there. These words, written in cyberspace, are fleeting . They are here today and might be gone tomorrow. They are intangible. They will be forgotten as the next topic takes the limelight .
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Back on topic re abusive messages. We received an unsolicited message, out of the blue, from a male on here, getting straight to the point and wanting to hook up and get it on. We checked out his profile and politely replied that he did not have the attributes that we were looking for. He replied, asking us what about him we did not find attractive. And so we referred him back to our profile wording. We made it clear, in a polite manner, what we did not find attractive in people. Anyway, he clearly did not like being turned down, and sent us a barrage of abuse, telling us we were narrow minded ( simply for our preferences when it came to smokers etc) and the abuse continued. He then blocked us before we could even reply. There are no guarantees of sex on this site. People still have their preferences, likes and dislikes. If they don’t feel attracted to you, and thus don’t want to hook up , you need to respect their wishes and opinions. Flogging a dead horse and demanding to know why, will certainly not help change their minds. On a positive side , we dodged a bullet yet again :)
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Neo style - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Can you expand on this ?
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curious_72
7 years ago
Love the reference Antichrist :D Hey BYOGIRLS, I think you look fine for what it's worth, he can go stick it up his clacker :D
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twotootouch
7 years ago
Think Matrix
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bonefide
7 years ago
BYOGIRLS As people have suggested don't let these tosses make your view on life clouded, due to thier outlook on life. You are who you are, beautiful on the inside and out. The negative suggestions of these low IQ males shows their insecurity and low self esteem while being big bad and bold from behind a keyboard. Head up young lady, be yourself and take the world on when your good and ready. Happy hunting and sorting the shit from the clay.
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BeachGirl3
7 years ago
Sadly it happens on here from guys (kids) who dont bother to read ... im 57 and in no way looking for a child to train .. a 21yo twat sent me an abusive email when i relied saying .. read my peofile mate .. no thanks ... Just ignore them ... yr better than them . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
No doubt he isn't getting any & just trying to upset you. Don't let him. You're better than that. We have every right to be fussy who we have sex with, so don't lower your standards because of scumbags like him. Have fun out there and be as selective as you like, that's your right. Have fun & play safe lovely lady 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Badder9
7 years ago
Sad about the abuse you shouldn't take it to heart. Way too many judgemental dickheads around who think it's ok to give people shit . Ignore them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
To BYOGIRLS good on u girl for sticking up for urself and getting back on the horse ..there is always some one out there who is crude and rude but not all.. Just block him and move on and enjoy.. There are plenty more fish in the sea - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sexymilf
7 years ago
Please don’t waste another second worrying about an opinion of a man who has obviously been rejected a hundred times over. He is bitter and taking his frustration out on you. Confidence is key on these sites so don’t let one idiot bring yours down. Know what your assets are and work them to your advantage. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and anyone who’s can’t see that... tell them to move aside and next in line please! - Posted from rhpmobile
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jm2089
7 years ago
From what I can see you look gorgeous !
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RHP User
7 years ago
Some wanker feels the need to abuse you over things you stipulate in your profile and generally abuse you for no apparent reason that speaks volumes as to the type of person he is and you shouldn't give it or him another thought. Report him, block him and move on. I really dont understand some ppl at times.
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RHP User
7 years ago
When I get the abusive messages I simply have a giggle. The person is having a bad time and what’s to try and make me feel as bad as they do. I simply ignore and move on, because no one has permission to make me feel bad. Funniest I got was I was told I was going to be a cat lady. Oh well at least cats don’t talk lol Chin up love. Forget the negative and focus on the positive flirts and comments that you do receive xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes abusive messages are a given especially from Australian Males, I live and work overseas a lot and only get crude rude abuse in Australia as there is a complete lack of respect of females in the general society here. This isn’t a male bashing or anti Australian bashing just my personal findings from being on dating sites overseas. I’m a BBW and expect abuse now from low life Australian men but as Antichrist said it says more about them and how ugly they are feeling about themselves then what there social conditioning is projecting on me. I enjoy great sex and that only comes with great chemistry so yes it’s hard to ignore but don’t hide your pics celebrate them and you body as the men that are great for you will be naturally attracted and approach you with respect. For me what is between the ears attracts me more than between the legs first so how they communicate on that first contact tells me a lot of them . Stay strong and beautiful - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sounds like you might be encountering some of those clowns who think ‘negging’ (attacking a potential lover’s self esteem) is a valid tactic to get women into bed. Or you dented some egos by saying ‘thanks but no thanks’. From my own perspective - you’re hardly chubby. Not that it’d be wrong if you were, but I’d say the average man’s not going to find your figure displeasing! And as if short is an insult anyway, some of the prettier women I’ve known have been under the 5’3 line :D
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Six_Six_Eight
7 years ago
What a sad and sorry state of affairs - you have every right to be as picky as you like or as indiscriminate as you like, this is your life and your body do with both as you choose and with whom you choose. I hope this hasn't impacted you too heavily, regardless of this being online abuse can deeply impact you. Good on you for calling out this kind of behaviour, it is only by dragging this out into the light of day that there becomes any chance of stamping it out. Good luck and take care - Posted from rhpmobile
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mensbits
7 years ago
Your profile is great!. Some people ( such as that small minded male) would do well to check their limited egos before responding to other members profiles. Next!! 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Culturedanimal
7 years ago
Hello all.Just like to put in a "couple" of points here on how I see things around here.This site is NOT the "real" world. I myself only see this site merely as a means of possibly meeting a "real" person (voice chat on a mobile is getting close). People who see this site in any way as part of the "real" world I suggest have opened themselves up to all types of possible abuse. I'm not saying these people are flawed in any way, just that they need to realise how the world works to protect themselves.Next. When looking at possible partners we should always ask ourselves, to limit rejection and time wastage, would this person be attracted to me. The profile should give you some idea. Maybe put a bit of flexibility in there if you see you're better in some aspect than others. If you fall short generally with what others are looking for try and fix it, for example learn how to be a little more diplomatic, modify your attitude, improve your fitness etc. Also it is not up to you to tell others if they are asking for too much, just know that if they are they won't get any lol. Your abuser has failed spectacularly here.Lastly, with me normally with pic, or "fantasy" collectors, I have been able to hit back by picking up the weaknesses in their characters and basically laughing at them. Then the nonsensical name calling tirade reply comes, after which you reply that you have already covered all that, you are getting bored (which I normally am) and as such probably won't see any purpose to reply further. You then sit back and laugh at their repeated non-answered replies.
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RHP User
7 years ago
As I've only been on here a short time I've only had 1 date and with a bigger Girl people can reject you on your appearance but then they'll never get the true inward beauty. For me it's about having a connection and making friends and if sex is there well that's a bonus if not so be it. When your new to this like me after a long term relationship it takes a lot of confidence to get back out there don't be put off by one dickhead. Don't judge every guy as shallow as this tool were not all like that. Big girls rock.!!😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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BJVAN69
7 years ago
You are going to those losers everywhere unfortunately, block and report if you can. Don't let a couple of dickheads ruin your experiences! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I report then block and forget. There’s oodles of sexy fun men on here. Don’t give air time to the ones who don’t deserve your company. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Cut em and move one. It's that simple. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just a polite no thanks will do for a knock back
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NaughtyPandaV02
7 years ago
this IS the real world hereYou are still projecting the same energy towards people,just not face to facePeople think they can sit in their little bubble and treat people in a way that they would never do personally..Because they can get away with it without the usual consequences.Like a kick in the balls or a punch in the head.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am sorry you had to hear that. Sadly I know how it feels. I have had strangers in the street laugh at me for how I choose to dress, even been told I am ugly by people passing by. People can be so judgemental and hurtful. Whatever happened to being kind? X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are some very immature individuals that attempt to justify their own existence by putting others down under the veil or protection of anonymity, their relevance is scant at best! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cointreaugirl
7 years ago
I always like to keep a spare message up my sleeve for people, who despite my best efforts, turn out to be pieces of work. That way I can rip my private gallery back off them before I unceremoniously block them. No one should put up with rude, obnoxious, pushy or presumptuous people on here.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'BBW80' Yes abusive messages are a given especially from Australian Males, I live and work overseas a lot and only get crude rude abuse in Australia as there is a complete lack of respect of females in the general society here. This isn’t a male bashing or anti Australian bashing just my personal findings from being on dating sites overseas. I’m a BBW and expect abuse now from low life Australian men but as Antichrist said it says more about them and how ugly they are feeling about themselves then what there social conditioning is projecting on me. I enjoy great sex and that only comes with great chemistry so yes it’s hard to ignore but don’t hide your pics celebrate them and you body as the men that are great for you will be naturally attracted and approach you with respect. For me what is between the ears attracts me more than between the legs first so how they communicate on that first contact tells me a lot of them . Stay strong and beautiful - Posted from rhpmobile Don't tar us all with the same brush.I've actually been abused by women for being a cheating dog even though my wife and i are discussing being with other partners and i still didn't message back abusively.
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RHP User
7 years ago
This is a real and valid issue to bring up. What the hell is wrong with some of you men. This is hubby here of the couple. My wife has told me I should hold classes to teach men to be gentlemen again and just remind them of how to treat a lady. We all put ourselves out there on these pages, and we all look forward to nice and sexy responses. So when someone goes out if their way to abuse, it's always going to hurt or annoy. Wasting time reading somebody else's derogatory personal comments is something we shouldn't have to worry about. Men have issues with strong women and there's still this want with men to degrade women when they get the chance and feel ok or tough about it. Makes me sick to be honest. Grow up fellas. If she's not your cup of tea, say thanks but no thanks. Must women will be ok with this response. Because at the end of the day, it's only a reflection of your own personality. - Posted from rhpmobile
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whale68
7 years ago
Be happy in your own skin. Love yourself and ignore others. Everyone is amazing in their own way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Happens all the time, they can go fuck themselves. Oh and some people are simply here to argue and nothing else. Don't poke the bear. - Posted from rhpmobile
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WeWantYouGirl
7 years ago
We think you look fantastic - Posted from rhpmobile
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PeterNLily
7 years ago
I’m sorry to hear about the nasty messages you’ve had BYOGirls. Some people are just so miserable they’re wanting to pull you down to have company. Block all the miserable nasty people of any and all genders and hopefully, there’ll one day only be nice people left. - Paul - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your thread is the perfect example I keep pushing the idea that assertiveness is a thing that should be encouraged from the word go. Because it's unquestionable that if we are acting in good faith we are all are due respect. I also push my POV which is not a popular one because no, I don't get abusive messages from people I have said no to and haven't in the nigh on 11 years on here, so I feel like I must be doing something right. Oh, but you say this was his first contact? Who are we women to fall back on a hero in this day and age though? Ooohhh, and I read another of your posts that you claim to have an outside friend who is the lookout for this guy??? Hmmm, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'outlander' This is a real and valid issue to bring up. What the hell is wrong with some of you men. This is hubby here of the couple. My wife has told me I should hold classes to teach men to be gentlemen again and just remind them of how to treat a lady. We all put ourselves out there on these pages, and we all look forward to nice and sexy responses. So when someone goes out if their way to abuse, it's always going to hurt or annoy. Wasting time reading somebody else's derogatory personal comments is something we shouldn't have to worry about. Men have issues with strong women and there's still this want with men to degrade women when they get the chance and feel ok or tough about it. Makes me sick to be honest. Grow up fellas. If she's not your cup of tea, say thanks but no thanks. Must women will be ok with this response. Because at the end of the day, it's only a reflection of your own personality. - Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'outlander' This is a real and valid issue to bring up. What the hell is wrong with some of you men. This is hubby here of the couple. My wife has told me I should hold classes to teach men to be gentlemen again and just remind them of how to treat a lady. We all put ourselves out there on these pages, and we all look forward to nice and sexy responses. So when someone goes out if their way to abuse, it's always going to hurt or annoy. Wasting time reading somebody else's derogatory personal comments is something we shouldn't have to worry about. Men have issues with strong women and there's still this want with men to degrade women when they get the chance and feel ok or tough about it. Makes me sick to be honest. Grow up fellas. If she's not your cup of tea, say thanks but no thanks. Must women will be ok with this response. Because at the end of the day, it's only a reflection of your own personality. - Posted from rhpmobile Odd thing is BYOGIRLS profile and pics are fine. Yhe guy's just a loser.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey 😉 Please dont stop feeling confident hun because you look like you have an amazing and curvy body. I dont recall any negative messages I've received as ive found most people are polite. - Posted from rhpmobile
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3sumsParadise
7 years ago
Guys with low self esteem do this a lot. They try to drag your self esteem down with them thinking there'll be better chance you'll sleep with them. I'm sorry you had this experience 😢 - Posted from rhpmobile
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lookintoplay_qld
7 years ago
we are the same just because were on here we don't play with every person and you look lovely its typical on here some one doesn't hear what they want
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blackie251
6 years ago
So your not his cup of tea, that’s his problem not yours. Plenty of others would enjoy your company no doubt. Focus on their comments. - Posted from rhpmobile
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GenXXXLad
6 years ago
Hey BYOgirls, So I'll put my hand up and say without hint of embarrassment I've had a 'rejection' from you - hopefully my reaction was as 'positive' for you as the 'rejection' was for me, as I always try to keep my manners and respond in kind to the way I'm treated. Ladies and couples are definitely ALLOWED and encouraged to be 'picky', and deserve respect. That being said though, respect DOES cut 'both ways'. As a guy playing on his own, I've lost count of the number of ladies and couples who (unlike yourself) are arrogant and rude in their 'rejections', IF they bother to respond at all. I never message couples who have stated a preference for play with other couples only (unless they change this preference AFTER I've already messaged at any rate which can sometimes happen with people editing profiles), I don't start initial conversations with d*ck pics (in fact I have yet to open THAT PG to anyone here), and I'm not aggressive or rude in my own messages. Yet a fair number of people I've interacted with act like they're 'hot shit' and doing me some kind of 'favour' in even bothering to reply with a (rude or condescending) 'no'. The male playing on his own is often treated like dirt irrespective of his own behaviour or attitude ... which is disheartening for those of us who DO try to do the right thing and keep OUR manners - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Nice pic, shame it isn't yours!! I was just speaking to the owner and he's not happy about you using his pic 🖕 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world but there will always be someone out there that doesn't like peaches. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I still find it impossible to believe that a man went to the effort to message to insult someone they'd had no previous contact with. Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
"Men have issues with strong women and there's still this want with men to degrade women when they get the chance and feel ok or tough about it." I have issues with people lumping me in with the arseholes of the world.. 😉
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RHP User
6 years ago
have to agree that the rejections some of us guys receive can cross the like into a personal attack. It costs both parties nothing to be polite. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FunseekersAgain
6 years ago
This should be a safe place so report the guy. There are enough a$#%holes outside. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ive noticed this too since Craigslist personals went down.. its like all the ferals have come out of their holes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
It’s bull###t that other people need to down grade others or belittle them to try and make themselves feel good or try to get lady. Real people just need to stay real an talk to each other in a respectful way - Posted from rhpmobile
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SandeGiny
6 years ago
Abuse and not reading my profile notwithstanding, it's the "I loved this one thing you wrote in your profile but I don't understand what it means so I'm going to offer you the exact opposite to what you've clearly stated you're looking for and then turn into an asshole when you turn me down because you've actually got half a brain and stand by your profile and morals". And couples who say "we want to try a third and your profile is awesome, we think you're perfect" and then turn into sulky twats when I point out that I've made it clear in my profile that I'm not "something to try". I carefully crafted a nearly 4000 word bio to scare off the assholes. I think it's worked on 90% of them because I'm no longer getting as many messages or flirts. BYOGIRLS Maybe try that? Nobody wants to read war and peace when its NSA sex they're chasing... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
My cynical side comes out a lot, but people can be arseholes and a lot of men enjoy it. They play these type of games for their own enjoyment or because they are just plain dickheads. You'd think there would be a logical answer but you would be wasting your time. I had a friend who went online and met a guy they hit it off well and she thought it might progress to more. One day he stopped talking to her and she asked why? And he said all she was good for was giving head. She said he was actually a decent guy and liked him. Sometimes you have to query why some people are single.
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Beariigood
6 years ago
Hi byogirl I would not worry You are hot and if closer I would want to meet up with you Just block shit like that - Posted from rhpmobile
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batty1978
6 years ago
some people are just arseholes...you look gorgeous...own that .....don't let the negative narcasisistic people get you down ....there's definitely many of us that love the way you look xcx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ok Just checked out your pics BYOGIRLS and from what I can see you’ve got a great body! so don’t let anyone get to you! Show all the pics of yourself you have! Believe in yourself - Posted from rhpmobile
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Letsgetwhoopee
6 years ago
Abuses are not just given by men in here is what I reckon had two women respond abusively whom I have reported to the admins and thanks to the support from them. And also seen many people who judge me in response and funny part is they are so coward who block me so they are scared as I may give it back to them... but all I do if I am not blocked is wish them good times My point here is there is always a mix of people I try to ignore the rude ones and search for the good ones - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
Seems to be quite a few like that lately. Someone was using my friends photos as well. And even on this page certain single males aren't using their own photos. Are they sc8t3r13?
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jmareeg
6 years ago
You know what lovely my opinion is yes your allowed to b fussy as far as im concernd anyone who tries to put u down is a bully they dont know u and obviously have issues within themselves for them to lash out don't let them bring u down cause we r all beautiful in our own way so u stay beautiful hold your head up high and just shrug it off 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I do think you should grow a thicker skin though. If you put pics up... expect comments. Not all of them will be savoury. In regard to dealing with folks that behave poorly... adopt a well ASSERTIVE attitude and on your profile list what you will not tolerate. Straight up. :) Best of luck on your sexy travels x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I got called a creep or a weirdo all the time. Just because my profile is different and shows a bit of my personality instead of illiterate dribble about sex. I looked at your profile just before, you’re far from chubby and your profile is not too picky in my opinion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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GenXXXLad
6 years ago
Quoting '2Wild' Nice pic, shame it isn't yours!! I was just speaking to the owner and he's not happy about you using his pic 🖕 - Posted from rhpmobile Wait, you talking about my pics or OP's ? Can assure you mine are def. mine. The result of 8 months of hard work getting from slightly chubby middle aged dad-bod to generally in shape 'fitover40' dude. So I'll thank you not to talk smack about my pics there buddy if you ARE talking about my pics. Maybe your mate is confused ... there's probably a few of us in blue wife-beaters about ? ;)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Being based in Singapore we tend to only meet people who are travelling thru on vacation etc being ex pats its easier than meeting local people. However ao many people seek us out then bombard us with requests for face pics which we would never send !! Only to finally state they wont meet us because they dont know what we look like !! But you sought us out so we dont care we rarely look for anyone on RHP just wait until someone finds us and is in our area , we would always meet for a drink before anthing ekse face pics or not that first meeting is what determines if anything happens - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Same has happened to me and tonight it went to the next level. I stupidity agree to meet with a guy who has for the start been hinting he thinks Im fat. I just keep talking to him to stir but I knew it won't be a good idea to meet. I know he would look me up and down telling me no thanks, that I lied and my photo wasn't as I am. Never lied on profile ( I carry a few extra kilos) photo are me, I don't like colour so I've always taken b/w. But it's me no edits. Can't believe I actually let a guy make me feel so ugly, worthless and unwanted. Decided I just going be alone, that hurts just a bit less. Thanks guys and best wishes - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Thats shitty but you learnt an important lesson. Go with your gut feeling, it rarely lets you down. Especially on here. Don’t let that experience suck the self worth out of you xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
6 years ago
Don't like this arse wipe put u down in any way young lady, your beautiful in many ways. It's his loss, and your gain. Stand tall walk proud
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