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Accoutrements

June 30 2013

There was a man in my life once who loved it when I wore girly sandals, bangles and other bling, and pretty colours. He was all for femininity. Another preferred a more athletic, casual look - leggings or jeans, a chick's hoodie, sneakers etc. Gentlemen, do the accoutrements of femininity make a difference to how attractive you find a woman?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    that was a big word, I was thinking at first it meant something out of my pantry   I am a long skirt, plane top and then little bit of bling.   less is best for me   I just am not into the mutton dressed as lamb thing.   I get a lot of my skirts from the op shop but spend more on good shoes and boots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Plain shirt not one with a virgin logo on it aarrrrh if only I could spell my life would be complete

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    About the woman inside the clothes and other accoutrements. I have known women who can make 4 layers of clothing look sexy and I have known women with stunning looks who can make an LBD look like a potato sack. I often like the contrast with a woman I am attracted to, daggy clothes sometimes and dressed to the nines on others. It is the woman who makes the clothes and accessories look sexy :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A Girly girl. I'm very much into beautiful shoes, jewellery, scarves, makeup and nail polish. I've often wondered if men even notice so I'll watch this thread with interest- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For me there is two sides to the coin on that front. Firstly there is the image of her look. I like the sexy feminine look, also the sporty/fit look. The way a woman projects her beauty through items of clothing definitely has a big impact on men's desires. Secondly there is the psychology of her look. What her threads say about her head. Under dressed and daggy my hint at a lack of confidence and in experience. Over dressed or trying to pull a look that does not work, the opposite. If she looks too good I might feel intimidated and not even try out of feelings of inadequacy. So, dress for the kind of man you want. CBF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like to dress up on weekends because all week im in very little.....cossies that is, .. right justforfunisall? But I have a friend who loves me in tights and tank on the tennis court, i guess each guy has a different "look" they like

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think this is an emotional throwback to my first love, Tracy ("oh my" even 35 years later) Tracy used to wear white cheesecloth skirts and I still to this day think cheese cloth skirts, and white pants look hot on ladies. recently and due to the weather girls wearing black stockings or leggings under a skirt or shorts to keep there legs warm, hmmmm very nice. And of course there is also bed room wear phwaaaa. But that is another tale LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well I can't vouch for it personally Ding but I am told so :). I have a weak spot for one pieces too, but it is still the woman that makes the clothes sexy or not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a clothesaholic,hopefully not a fashion victim cos I don't follow fashion ......I am very tactile and love to wear silky or velvety fabric...... However I tend to think that most men prefer women in their birthday suits

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    prefer us naked. So do I. Less washing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I dress more to please myself, if my clothes make me feel good and comfortable then I think i give out a more approachable, even sexy persona!! Obviously wearing clothing that suits your body shape size etc. I loooove my bling - I have been wearing silver up both arms for many years now, it's kind of a trade mark & always a conversation starter!! There have been occasions where I have been out in shops and have had another woman say to me. "I like your style". Off I walk feeling very pleased with myself!!!! Hummmmm I've got "a style" cool!! Gypsy💋- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    can and often do adorn the chassis, number 1 is the connection, anything else is a bonus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For myself jewellery, scarves, hat, nice painted nails....it doesn't have to be over the top bling, just enough. It speaks about the woman, her style and can quite often give an insight into her personality. Also getting to take some of it off during the foreplay is such great fun. Nothing sexier than taking off a large necklace and letting it run over your lovers more sensitive areas whilst you take your time to make her feel beautiful.......my opinion anyway.Great question three wise words, and pity you live so far away from me !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I actually had to Google that word! I can't say I have a particular style - I'm equally as comfortable dressing up in skirts and nice tops for work to jeans, knee-high boots and leather jacket on weekends to my regular branded gym get up. For me it's practicality and what I'm comfortable in that's important for me.Likewise, I find women who are comfortable in what they're wearing attractive, whether it's their pyjamas or gym wear. One of the most stunning women I've ever had the pleasure of meeting in my life was covered head to toe in mud (Tough Mudder obstacle course race) the first time we met and she was equally as stunning the next time I saw her in an evening dress. It's all in how she projects herself, confidence and posture.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'terranova17' For myself jewellery, scarves, hat, nice painted nails....it doesn't have to be over the top bling, just enough. It speaks about the woman, her style and can quite often give an insight into her personality. Also getting to take some of it off during the foreplay is such great fun. Nothing sexier than taking off a large necklace and letting it run over your lovers more sensitive areas whilst you take your time to make her feel beautiful.......my opinion anyway.Great question three wise words, and pity you live so far away from me ! while you wipe my nail polish off of my toes ... If you paint them in glittery red I'll suck your cock.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    he's gone. Oh well ... *shrugs*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ....still lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Shit Yeah! Give me a Woman with Style and Panache with an air of sophistication.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    may grab my attention but it is a woman's natural beauty, smile, curves, confidence, the grace with which she moves that will hold it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    comments from men. Bummer.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Three_Wise_Words' comments from men. Bummer. ...sorry i was laughing at paintme's comments , very good topic and does deserve male input, heres mine may be long , grab a coffee......you may not realise but we men ARE all different, what excites some is ho hum to others, although we are guilty of saying what we think you want to hear so bear that in mind, i could give you the blah blah of what i think you want to hear but that achieves nothing , heres what i REALLY think.....theres many types of 'accesories' that attract and excite me but that also depends on the mood, occasion and place im in, for example im against smoking BUT find it extremely sexy if i see a woman, with bright red lipstick blowing smoke out of the corner of her mouth, note wearing daggy trakky pants with hair in rollers and smoke dangling from mouth doesnt really do it for me women wearing glasses is a huge turn on, especially the buisness woman, teacher and librarain looktousled, windblown or bed hair is really sexy to me so is different colored hair (purple streak etc just a dash of color)shoes, big turn on, sexy high heels stiletto's but having recently been to a 60's themed party all the women wore knee length white boots! wow make a comeback please!..perfume does work ladies love the hint, will make me turn and look tattoos , in the right places are very erotic, however thats more of a pleasant discoveryi wont mention clothes as thats a whole different category, these are just a few that come to mind i have many more, they do make a difference though, a naked woman is sexy, a naked woman with bright lipstick is sexier, a naked woman with bright lipstick, stilettos is even more sexier...it all works , we do appreciate the efforthope this is what you were after Three Wise Words, once again good topic, Trev

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    11 years ago

    The shoes, clothes etc may grab your attention but it's the smile, eyes and conversation that irresistable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm a bit of a chameleon who can wear just about anything, depending on my mood and I never follow fashion. But I do have my favourite things that work for me. I absolutely love, love, love, jeans! They are my go to staple for confidence.

  • Wedgey

    Wedgey

    11 years ago

    I personally am a big fan of ladies who dress in clothing that makes them feel good about themselves. This seem to usually be clothes that fit well and looks feminine... but not always. If the lady feels confident she will usually come across as drop dead sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Aren't you Trev ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I must say I'm bit of a sucker for a lady in knee high boots and jeans. It brightens the day and makes me look twice, maybe three times. And I must say that I usually compliment when I feel its warranted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Three_Wise_Words' Aren't you Trev ;) .... no thats my weakness im thinking.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "NounAdditional items of dress or equipment, carried or worn by a person or used for a particular activity.A soldier's outfit other than weapons and garments."I can now answer your question .Yes it makes a huge difference for me. I am genuinely attracted to women who reflect their personality in how they dress/present themselves. And I think femininity can be expressed in a number of different styles/fashion. Whether it's to celebrate the sexy, elegant or beautiful side of the female form.I do not however have a preference in how they choose to do this - and if it's done well, then mmmmmm sexy :) - but that's the hardest part.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    For some time we had some really heated sex to the ways we imagined another guy would feel to be the way I was for Tara's energy and passion for us, then how we could work to give her two boys to play with and her feel how she does. Fuck it, lets do it. And we had a profile to build, I destroyed Tara's neat and tidy chest of drawers then what took my fancy in her wardrobe, and while amazed at how much clothing a woman can collect and to the ability to fill a space. Like emptying a match box to fill an ice cream container. And when striking the lingerie draw then another and another, if not for being such a sexy moment for finding some outfits for the photo shoot, the working seven days a week for months on end, is looking like where it had been invested, and the penny dropped for her love of going shopping with her mother was surely time spent in the underwear department.Well I was tickled pink to see that hard slog working, had been invested here, and then absolutely assured when giving Tara my choice of the sexiest bits and pieces, to see her enjoying the fitting, and to seeing her in that type of ware, is saying that type of what she would be waring it for. She was pleased with the artistic way her outfits were pieced, and I was looking at the sexiest woman, yep she toppled Kylie Monogue.All night and into the morning we had spent for some pics, next thing Tara took off out into the yard for some sunlight, and she she does not sit still for long, especially when a little excited. I had been chasing her around looking for the best pic spot, the camera was full of pics and to take one now meant deleting one in sacrifice, and waiting for me to get my shit together, she found the lawn mower a comfortable seat, and I got my pic, and she did not know it, they are the best ones.We launched our profile and to their credit the fellows started to fill the message pages, one stood out, pressed the right buttons and Tara was feeling a little bit like her nervous and excited shyish self had tended to, when could you meet with us, and he said now, and she said, she didn't say she just inhaled as I typed some directions, and when he arrived she looked hot and comfortable with her atire and for the entire time we all had, a few times. And I am sure the ladies who may read this would understand just how important it is to be comfortable with all that stuff.Such an adventure and we had found the fun with the sex, and for when we had to fuck her, we had to again soon after that first night. .Sexy and seducing clothing that a woman feels comfortable to fuck in, is by far the favourite accoutrements of femininity. Three_Wise_Words, just like what you are wearing, and you look comfortable too. what is felt for how you are looking is kept in reserve.This is Tara's kind of topic, so when I share my reservations for that little number your only just in, she will see the same and we might even have a fantasy naughty, simply for principle sakes to honor your courage to be saying what you want in the picMado

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' A Girly girl. I'm very much into beautiful shoes, jewellery, scarves, makeup and nail polish. I've often wondered if men even notice so I'll watch this thread with interest- Posted from rhpmobile That stuff you are into, It is what you are showing men with your pic, and the primitive instinct to breed, the male begins to feel the urge to do all kinds of sexual acts with women, because it is curves that tell the brain to recognize a female to carry his seed,and she brings the safety for survival.It ,I see fair to say, that with credit to the pic you have for us, you're thoughts for what is being noticed are not so, though what curves do for us men, puts you in the most attractive type of woman to man, possibly to the level that may be seen as to much woman for men who fear the challenge that life would be a continious task of fighting of the challenge with every bloke that sees you looking like you do in your pic, going a bit nuts, because the brains getting the signal that your a woman and hot for the curves that most mens brains will heat, even over heat from having so much processing going on, and that may have the effect to you as seeing them a little doughy, stupid, generally unsuitable for your intentions, that is part with being top in the breeding order. But mens brains are going to fry up when they look at you, and the level of damage, still does not mean they don't care for you.I have on nearly every occasion needed to use tremendous self discipline for when your pic scrolls into view for the forums, The reminder to not get stuck again staring at those wonderfull tits, because my eyes got strained for my brain just needed to feel what being around such a woman gives.Oh, don't worry, I was always stupid, well before i fried a bit thinking about you.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think you just paid KarynB a very sexy compliment xx

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Three_Wise_Words' I think you just paid KarynB a very sexy compliment xx now we have paid the compliment and spirits are dancing, they have been quiet too long. It does not take much effort to raise the spirits if you are listening for them when they call out.Thankyou for complimenting my crazy thoughts, I just type what they tell me to and hope they don't get me into too much strife, but I trust them.Cars used to be black and white, then this man Tucker, thought lets give them some color. He must have been listening to his spirits, because he also thought for seat belts , indipendant suspension and a whole bunch of "features" that so many others were not thinking about. he was inspiring! And yes karynb is sexy, I wish she feels that way, we all can dance and feel the music if we just listen for it.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    MOST MEN LOVE IT WHEN WOMEN MAKE AN EFFORT,WETHER IT BE IN OR OUTOF THE BEDROOM.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A lady that knows her sexuality and wheres it on her sleeve by wearing sexy items such as a scarf, necklace and jewellery along with a stylish taste in clothes is the sexiest thing ever. It speaks volumes of a womans style and gives a great insight into her personality. Undressing during foreplay is only heightened by the fact that there are so many things to take of and to explore over her sexy body. Slowing removing every item until she is completely naked and turned on is the sexiest thing ever. Dragging that necklace over her sensitive parts whilst I remove her clothes and slowly tease her is the definition of building the anticipation..its all about the journey as they say

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wife:"Would you like me to slip into something you'd really like tonight?".Husband: "Yeah, how about a coma"