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June 14 2015

Quick question: We know men will be (generally) tittilated by photos of sexual activity posted on profiles. What about women/couples? Is this a turn-on or turn-off for you? Better to keep them to a private gallery unless asked? Hardcore or softcore?

Comments

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    some are just really bad photos. I personally prefer cum shots rather then a pic of a cock in a hole. Now if you had some light bondage (because rhp won't allow hardcore) I would be totally into seeing them to see what kind of technique you have. in general though I don't find the boring old pics of a pussy full of cock a turn on cause it's not my pussy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I find many aren't appealing to me personally, mainly due to bad lighting. I've seen some very sexy ones too though. I must add I'm talking about couples photos here. When it comes to pics of single men fucking a woman I tend to wonder what they're trying to convey with them. Enlighten me, fellas?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sexy when its in a couples profile. But a single guy..... off putting to be honest. And it also makes me think if the lady involved knows her intimate photos are on an adult dating site for all to see?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There would never be identifying photos. Maybe some that show sensuality, like a tongue on a breast etc. Yes I would also run it by the other person/s. But I don't see how it would be different from couples that show photos of them in a group, especially multiple guys. Do you think they've asked all the guys, even if it just shows their peckers?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    +1 To what Koko said. This single woman, would find it a turn-off to see sex / interaction photos in a single guy's profile. And I can't imagine a situation where I'd ever ask a single guy to show me photos of him fucking another girl? Mmm ... let me ponder that one. Yeah ... nope, came up with nothing. Completely different expectations for a couples profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    With single guys I find it a turn off , especially when the action shots are unprotected sex......yes it could be a previous partner yada yada yada ....I just find it a turn off. Actually now I ponder it I find ita turn off with couples also, I am not sure why? Maybe It makes it seems too much about the sexual act itself, a little show offy - and less about them as normal people looking for fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    I have some action shots of the blow job kind in the private albums. Yes I have permission. Men love them and find them a real turn on. But if a man showed me those kind of photos of his cock and some woman's face around it I wouldn't find it a turn on. do you think that's because woman don't want to know about your previous encounters? mind you if the photos were of a guy sucking your cock that would be a massive turn on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    MissB ... Personally, like Koko said - I'd seriously wonder if he had that woman's permission to put her photos on a public site. And secondly - I'd wonder if he was really single. I've had FWB's (not all of them) where I enjoy hearing their juicy stories about their dalliances and they the same - so for me it's not simply about knowing about previous encounters. Most people have had an encounter or ...few, before I've met them.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    10 years ago

    We would not post action shots of us - certainly not in a public gallery. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I find many aren't appealing to me personally, mainly due to bad lighting. I've seen some very sexy ones too though. I must add I'm talking about couples photos here. When it comes to pics of single men fucking a woman I tend to wonder what they're trying to convey with them. Enlighten me, fellas? I believe they are trying to convey that they got laid atleast once. So they have photographic proof of being a 'stud', and you should consider yourself lucky that they're interested... Why don't I have any action pics?!? Damn...not stud enough..... *sighs*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree with you all, much prefer cum shots then just of the cock, and it does nothing for me when I see a cock in another girls pussy either... it makes me feel like there a little desperate, and Koko im with you, does the girl know there in a some guys gallery - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I seem to be admitting guilt here a bit lately... I have one in my PG2, which hardly anyone sees. It's a friend and me, and she knows I use it, and there's no way you could identify her. It's there because it shows some perspective - I thought a tongue was more interesting than a can of deodorant. And I thought it was a pretty hot (and well lit Meander), but each to their own. I wasn't sure about including it here, but it is hard (hehe) to know sometimes what might work and what may not. PG1 has the face pics, and that's all I generally get asked for. I don't show dick pics unless someone asks for them, or they have already seen it in person. Let's see if there's some consensus here...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks, those were my thoughts exactly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Put that pic up as you main profile pic and find out if there is consensus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think it's sexy if it's done half decent and doesn't break any rules. If everyone made their own porn - imagine what would happen to porn. Interesting, imo.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I'm with koko and MissB..... I don't have actions shots in my PG's, have some pretty amazing ones on my phone tho.....😍 Come on Simon gives us a looksee.....😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Put that pic up as you main profile pic and find out if there is consensus. I'm not shy about whipping it out, but we don't want anyone losing an eye. Best to keep it request only so there's some advance warning.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Mhmm. So far it's a no for the girls, and a yes from the guys. Are you all bi? How about a lil pic sharing get together - make sure you take some pics and send on - then we'd know you have others permission.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    More then happy to review all the action shots if required ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'luvboys' I agree with you all, much prefer cum shots then just of the cock, and it does nothing for me when I see a cock in another girls pussy either... it makes me feel like there a little desperate, and Koko im with you, does the girl know there in a some guys gallery - Posted from rhpmobile I've only just come back here after a long break and want to put some decent shots up, but haven't yet got around to it. Too much time getting side-tracked and reading the forums. I'd personally prefer to avoid selfies and cock shots. I would have thought that cum shots would be in the same category as other cock shots? I guess they are fairly wide ranging. Cum in mouth? On yourself? On someone else?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'HennaJay' Mhmm. So far it's a no for the girls, and a yes from the guys. Are you all bi? How about a lil pic sharing get together - make sure you take some pics and send on - then we'd know you have others permission. A photo session sounds like fun! All get together, take some photos then everyone share to Dropbox.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'newts76' More then happy to review all the action shots if required ;) Great pics you got there newts....they almost look too good to be true...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Google can't decide if he's a "handsome nude male" or "hot guy with brown hair". Busted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was it something we said?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I disagree that they are viewed in the same way. Couples are here to swing, so it's a given but a single bloke with action shots of other people - is a player and gets around and probably is a bit of a slut. Not all women go for blokes like that. Just saying. Or maybe that is only my perception, but if I think it, I am sure other people would as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'HennaJay' Mhmm. So far it's a no for the girls, and a yes from the guys. Are you all bi? How about a lil pic sharing get together - make sure you take some pics and send on - then we'd know you have others permission. Not ALL the guys! Personally, I'm not a fan of action shots for single women (or men) at all. Couples I think are a little different, they're together, they're expressing a side of themselves they enjoy together, its all consenting, and it can be quite arousing. It's also showing just how comfortable they are with each other, as well as others. I'm fine with that. But singles, not so much. Just like the comment I made before referencing Meanders post, it's really about what you want to portray. Now I'm not going to use any derogatory names in this post, I firmly believe people should have the ability to make their own choices without my judgement. But for me personally, if I saw action shots in your profile and you were single, I very much doubt that I would be taking any kind of 'hook-up' talk seriously. I'll chat and flirt with just about anyone, but if thats what you want to portray on your profile, you're not the type of woman I'm looking for. Damn. So now I'm not bi...but a girl!! Jeeez...seems I was bound to cop a dicking one way or another...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When did you get all goody goody on us? Hmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Oh I haven't necessarily gone all goody goody. I'm still as big a deviate as I've always been. But, I just prefer to share and play out all the twisted, kinky, deviate things that I conjure up in my head with a select other. And feel like I'm the only other. Not feel like I'm the only other this particular hour. I'm no saint myself, and certainly not naive, but I do think some things should be left as memories, or shared selectively. And if you're the type to flaunt that visually to anyone and everyone, you're just not my type to bed with. Thats all... Now, as for waking someone up in the morning by tapping them on the forehead not using my hand... I'd still do that...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think you have to be careful that action shots are not tacky. Beautiful erotic photos are always a pleasure to view but are they really appropriate to have on your profile. I not convinced it is a good idea. Particularly close ups of bits... nope! Percy, I think it probably depends on what sort of hook ups you are after. From memory you do like the classy women I know, but it does seem odd that you are after a "hook-up" which to me means a sexual meet but you wouldn't go there if they had some shots of themselves having sex. Do men what to feel special too and not just another number?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...that I was actively looking for a hook-up. I just said that I wouldn't take the idea seriously with someone who flaunted action shots. I'm always open to the idea, but as you know with me, quality has ALWAYS been more important than quantity. I'm not here to collect numbers, and I don't want to feel as if I'm just another number either. I can't speak for all men with this being the case, as I'm sure most men on here couldn't give a damn. But, I'm different... *shrugs* I'd rather a connection, than a whittled away bedpost. And as you well know, I'd rather fly halfway around the country for 'special', than take the next 10 from around the corner... Oh. And it's good to speak to you again Meeks...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Aww I thought I was the only one you woke up with your magic staff. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...in that very special way. I still claim that it wasn't my idea. Almost wish it was though....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    love a great action shot, bigger the better...especially being the inspiration......best kept to the PG though, even sexier when you ask and receive......

  • xxxcreated

    xxxcreated

    9 years ago

    Everbody has their thing and I've never met two things exactly the same. Every part of a person is eye candy to someone out there. A magnificent cock, although not my thing. Is something that all can, at least appreciate. When taking a photo of your cock. Put some thought and effort into it. Turn off the fucken flash. Get an led torch, move it around. Try as many angles with it and your camera as you can. You can make your cock look bigger, smaller, wider, thinner. By just using your, other head. But any photo no matter how good, is a little lost without allure. I recommend a less is more approach. Tell a story. Start with a hint, then show a bit more. Build it up, play upon our natural curiosity. Make them beg for more.