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  MsJonesy

  7 years ago

  Not being fussy, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You want to meet people you are attracted to, and that is your right. There's a number of people on the site who do not handle rejection well, and do their best to belittle those who decline their advances as a means of saving face. Many believe the hyperbole sprouted in the site advertising and think that women are just going to meet anyone at anytime and drop their gstring as well their standards. Believe in yourself, believe in your standards and live up to them

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  curious_72

  7 years ago

  When I first joined, albeit not long ago, I got a message from someone and even though I made it clear I was just having a look, he was ultra persistent that we meet, and when I said no I was accused of being fake and a time waster etc.. I nearly closed my account then. There are twats everywhere, on here and in person, you have to take the good with the bad. Just think of the bullet you dodged as he was obviously not worth your time.Don't play with just anyone as a way to feel better, you may miss out making connections with people who are right for you. You are allowed to be as fussy as you like, it's your body, your mind, your soul :)

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  There’s plenty of weirdos on here and guys with issues because they can’t get laid. Unfortunately in this instance you were probably bearing the brunt of this losers last rejection by someone else. You deserve every right to be fussy about your partners, so don’t start doubting yourself or lowering them. Don’t let one nasty piece of work get to you! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  People can be assholes.. they use words to belittle others whilst in the meantime trying to boost their own egos. People can also be extremely judgmental behind computer screens and type things that they would never have the balls to say to your face as they know they’d probably get a swift kick in the Crown Jewels (well they would from me anyway) Sad thing about words is that they hurt. They can bring down confidence that is hard fought for. Count your blessings you never met these assholes/people in real life and put faith in the words of people who see you as a real person and take time to get to know you. M - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  7 years ago

  Is your last question even a serious question????!!!! 🤔 If someone thought you were worth considering enough to send you a message.... but then they abuse you for being denied or rejected..... that should tell you that you’ve dodged a very self absorbed bullet that’s likely to have only offered a very self interested experience - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Problem was I hadn’t chatted to guy at all...first time he message me with abusive message, I hadn’t even seen his profile or said I was or was not interested...just all happen was I posted a new pic and said I was a joke etc etc...

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Thanks guys for your comments

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  bonefide

  7 years ago

  Believe in yourself, believe in your standards and live up to them. That comment nails it on the head. But as a wise man once said on this site, we arn't all c#=€°~\, Some of us gents look at the whole package not just the outer casing. Stand tall walk proud young lady.

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  curious_72

  7 years ago

  You hadn't even talked and his first message was an abusive one.. what a waste of oxygen he is ☹ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  lindos

  7 years ago

  He's just one of those trolls that go around insulting people and gets his kicks from upsetting you. Unfortunately it's hard to not take it personally, but just remember he's some sad pathetic person who does it to try and make themselves feel better. Sorry you had that experience. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  And don't have to be greatful of whatever we can get. He's a twat and twat's comments do not count. Love yourself hunny, you are beautiful. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  madotara69

  7 years ago

  Ask a counter question, tell them 'thanks you like kinky shit like that' or whatever tickles your fancy, you're a sexually liberated woman, how's a sexually frustrated anyone get the better of you babe xx Mado Mado Tara xx

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  Freaky_Fun

  7 years ago

  If I'm not getting blocked then I'm not doing my job well enough. Yes I've been blocked many more times than l have blocked people. Love it. Don't expect to send me a fucktard of a message and not get one back that made you wish you never did. Women just need to realise they are stronger than they think and can handle anything that gets thrown at them. It's really quite easy to have fun with messages like that 😂 Or maybe l just have too much time on my hands 🤔

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I haven't had any messages like that and should it ever occur then I would block. If that type of person can say it on here, then I reckon they would be worse in reality. A bullet dodged thankfully for you. As long as you feel good about yourself then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. Don't give up because of the f#@kwits out there. Dee xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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