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Advice for having first 3way mmf
December 29 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
Communicate, communicate, communicate.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Im in the same boat but from the other side of the fence haha. Im a single guy who hasnt done mmf. But wouldnt mind exploring it some day soon. Though i have done a 4some (two couples) before. Id think a bit of alcohol would be your friend. Meet them first so youre comfortable. Might be worth laying out the rules or what everyone is willing to do or not do first up to avoid it during the act. I think itll only be awkward at first if you let it be awkward. But if you just all understand its your first time and youre learning as you go id imagine itd be pretty comfortable. Take your time finding someone youre both think is physically appealing (im straight, but i can still appreciate a bloke that takes pride in his appearance and id be more comfortable with someone like that rather than an overweight bald guy whos twice my age). Also if youre straight id suggest figuring out what the female is comfortable with first (anal? DP?) Thats just my 2 cents. Again i havent really done mmf. Just a 4some with another couple a few times back when i was with the ex. Cheers and goodluck! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Be comfortable and just do it - Posted from rhpmobile
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Verypicky
8 years ago
Is to just get straight into it, the quicker your friends gets inside your wife the more relaxed you and your wife will be. And always let your friend go first on your wife. With oral, pussy or anal. And your wife will feel more comfortable and excited aswell. It's MMF etiquette to let your friend go first .😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Haleakala
8 years ago
Best to know what you want from it, how much interaction between everyone, wether one of you will direct the action or it will just flow. When you know what you want from it you will then be able to see if prospective partners fit the bill. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Put a datefinder up and word it how you would like it to pan out. You will get a smorgasboard of offers. If you are after a mmf (bi), make sure you you vet them thoroughly. Most will say they are bi to get to the female. We did it successfully several times. But you will get some interesting moments. Main point is to have fun for all 3 and then share the glory moments with your partner afterward
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Sawadee
8 years ago
If you've discussed it long enough and you're ready to take the plunge .. Have one last discussion and make a pledge to each other that no matter what , you're in the adventure together . If it blows your sox off accept it , and if it doesn't also accept it. At least you gave it a go. I've had the pleasure being the other guy on a few occasions . When a couple come with a open mind and no great expectation it's usually a unreal experience.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Find a potential playmate and catch up for a drink, flirt and some cheeky banter. Be candid and open with eachother re what you're looking for and see if there's a spark. Just make sure that you're partner is comfortable too, and they're not just going along for the ride to make you happy. The better the level of comfort between you all, the more relaxed you'll be when your clothes come off. From there, the sky's the limit :) If you have any ground rules, make them clear sooner rather than later. If you have any particular requests, you should definitely voice them early too. By that stage, everyone knows the score and there's no reason that you shouldn't have one of the naughtiest nights of your lives ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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chamelions
8 years ago
I have enjoyed mmf a few times over the years as well as mfmf at all times things must be clear from the start of likes and dislikes dos and donts nothing worse than having a situation unfold in the heat of the fun, like others have daid etiquette visitors first, make sure you communicate before during and after, Enjoy have fun, we are hoping to find that elusive mmf ourselves Gish it's hard to make the right choice , Happy New Years to you all - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pfft leave the rule book at home 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Does every one automatically just fuck in a 3 way ,what about the build up to it all. We ask this as we dont fuck others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Too many rules could destroy a perfectly good experience.. If a 3 way is what you want to try , do what you need to do to make it happen. If not, leave it alone and move on.. We sometimes think too hard about these things and that makes things not happen.. Best rules are : attraction, personality , and safety..
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Missb4u
8 years ago
No rules means it's a feee for all. Every holes a goal as they say male and female. Now your talking 😍😜
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Aroundtheblock have left the building
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Haleakala
8 years ago
And are now busy lining up mmf threesomes! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Maybe wifey found out his intentions. Fell overboard......
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well I've done a few, best to be sure you get along well with the other lad, have similar interests so got something to yarn about. Mine experiences were with mates I had for a long time, we knew our boundaries etc. when I did an mmf with a couple, we had a few nights out of drinking etc before anything sexual. It actually came as a surprise, drinking one night playing poker, next thing she leaves the room for a while and me and her husband kept playing cards then she walks in naked sits on my lap kissing and touching while I had a mini freak out and her husband laughing his ass off! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'oralcpl' Does every one automatically just fuck in a 3 way ,what about the build up to it all. We ask this as we dont fuck others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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69tattoorob
6 years ago
For some time wife and i talked about partner swapping after sometime we decided to give it a go any way we placed adds looking for couples not finding any but had lots of replies from single males who rang her phone number she talked to them on the phone telling me some sounded real nice and made her so horny listening to what they would do to her one man even talked to her as she was masturbaing with a vibrator telling her how his tongue would feel on her clit as he played with her tits they talked for one hour and she cum three times now she asks if we can do a MFM okay you pick who you want thinking it would be the last one she spoke to now she tells me its hard as five men out of twenty got her excited silly me told her it's our week off so why not have them all one a day and thats what happened she sucked and fucked four of them three cumming way to quick leaving straight after before i even joined one we shared her him fucking as she sucked me now the last one she was waiting for telling me how he made her so horny talking to him anyway she prepared herself for him shaving the last little bit of hair from her pussie dressing real slutty as she laid on the bed waiting for him she said this will be the best night ever he arrived said hello then jumped on the bed spread her legs saying fuck im going to enjoy this licking her to orgasm quickly soon both naked licking sucking his cock in a 69er i was about to join after letting them play for almost one hour but he had other ideas not letting her turn to look at me smothering her talking dirty even saying he would like to bring a few friends to gangbang her i said okay thinking he was joking she even went along anyway every time i got close he moved her and she was letting him so i said yous go ahead and just fuck each other and they did kissing tongue swapping her telling me to look as he finger fucked her virgin arse another three hours past i sure i fell asleep during the time waking to her on top been fucked in the arse i mean pounded as she was spreading her arse cheeks giving him deeper penatration after they finished he dressed said he will organise the gangbang in a few days telling her she was a fantastic fuck and cant wait till next time then left asking her why she allowed him and her to ignore me the whole night said i thought thats what you wanted no it wasnt you went way to far sorry was all she could say two days later he rings her saying its arranged ten mates are coming to the gang bang she said no its not going to happen him asking if ony he can meet her again next day not sure if she ever did she wont talk about the week she was fucked by five men not a word and gets upset if i mention it [like to no what others might think about it did she go to far ]
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Sorry to read of the bad experience. The fact that you are upset by it means it went too far. Communication was lacking about the boundaries of the interaction. Consideration of you was lacking from your wife. The fact that she gets upset when it is mentioned may mean she is remorseful that way it panned out. Some participants get caught up in the act and lose their accountability and normal considerations for their partner. The number ONE rule of this lifestyle is to look after your partner first, your playmate/s second, yourself next. You are playing to enhance your relationship and making your partner safe and content is foremost. You both need to have a big conversation about what happened and how you both feel about it. That's what being a couple is about. Communication. Without that conversation your relationship will be strained and could lead to failure. It's common for these feelings to arise after dabbling in the lifestyle and even for the veterans. It's how you deal with it. Not everyone is suited to swinging but you need to talk it out to see where you go from here. Goodluck
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Deep_Love
6 years ago
Quoting '69tattoorob' For some time wife and i talked about partner swapping after sometime we decided to give it a go any way we placed adds looking for couples not finding any but had lots of replies from single males who rang her phone number she talked to them on the phone telling me some sounded real nice and made her so horny listening to what they would do to her one man even talked to her as she was masturbaing with a vibrator telling her how his tongue would feel on her clit as he played with her tits they talked for one hour and she cum three times now she asks if we can do a MFM okay you pick who you want thinking it would be the last one she spoke to now she tells me its hard as five men out of twenty got her excited silly me told her it's our week off so why not have them all one a day and thats what happened she sucked and fucked four of them three cumming way to quick leaving straight after before i even joined one we shared her him fucking as she sucked me now the last one she was waiting for telling me how he made her so horny talking to him anyway she prepared herself for him shaving the last little bit of hair from her pussie dressing real slutty as she laid on the bed waiting for him she said this will be the best night ever he arrived said hello then jumped on the bed spread her legs saying fuck im going to enjoy this licking her to orgasm quickly soon both naked licking sucking his cock in a 69er i was about to join after letting them play for almost one hour but he had other ideas not letting her turn to look at me smothering her talking dirty even saying he would like to bring a few friends to gangbang her i said okay thinking he was joking she even went along anyway every time i got close he moved her and she was letting him so i said yous go ahead and just fuck each other and they did kissing tongue swapping her telling me to look as he finger fucked her virgin arse another three hours past i sure i fell asleep during the time waking to her on top been fucked in the arse i mean pounded as she was spreading her arse cheeks giving him deeper penatration after they finished he dressed said he will organise the gangbang in a few days telling her she was a fantastic fuck and cant wait till next time then left asking her why she allowed him and her to ignore me the whole night said i thought thats what you wanted no it wasnt you went way to far sorry was all she could say two days later he rings her saying its arranged ten mates are coming to the gang bang she said no its not going to happen him asking if ony he can meet her again next day not sure if she ever did she wont talk about the week she was fucked by five men not a word and gets upset if i mention it [like to no what others might think about it did she go to far ] Fuck me. Fullstops are essential
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RHP User
6 years ago
So after four men shagged your wife, a 5th guy was with her for an hour. Then they had a further three hours together - and you fell asleep during this time??? Did she go too far? Well, I think you both let this day get out of hand. Jesus H.
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Relax be yourself Nd have fun
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RHP User
6 years ago
I had a horrid experience when I turned around and yes it wasn’t me being fu ked....
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