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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Please, please, please don't put a pic of your cock up. I see so many cocks now that I just skip past the profile when I see one. You call it 'ending up with the short straw' but some women go for your type of body. I actually liked you profile but can I suggest that you look at a few other guys profiles to see what they have written. So many profiles are the same now that when you come across one that is different you sit up and pay attention. Also, there are many more males on this site so it may take some time for you to get noticed. Don't give up, you are still young. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I thort short, untanned and not all that muscular was in since that Twilight series came out. Personally, I think that indian dude is mighty fine... but then I am kind of fond of armpits... what would I know. In any case,this web site just provides opportunities... I suggest you spend time int eh chat room, on this forum, at social events listed in RHP.. make yourself known... get on somebodies, "hey.. that guy is interesting.. I'd like to meet him" list... this takes focus away from a profile which is really just a shopfront... there has to be a reason to buy from there. See.. your profile is like mine.. your very young and I'm on the other end of the scale... we've got a limited market... to your credit... your shelf life is a lot longer than mine though! :pHugsStalky

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You have one validation on your profile and that's probably one more than most men on here...   Your height is stated at 5'10"- I don't understand why you perceive that to be short...   Take out the negative comment of your body on your profile...there is nothing wrong with your body...it is much more Athletic than the majority of men that tick that option on here...the ones that never look sideways in the mirror or notice their man boobs...   And please take a couple of minutes to read your own profile..and correct the spelling mistakes

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ...you know, like when you say virtually no luck at all and have a validation on your profile? Could be something like that...the hot chicks tend to notice stuff young or old. Timing is another thing...there is another guy running a similar thread about his profile and what gets the hot chicks to click "Buy It Now". Circumvent the competition...that always helps too. | Other than that...what Stalky said helps as long as it doesn't seem like it's just the only reason you want to meet women. Some like to go shopping for shoes and sex toys too you know...just make sure you shag them first so it's worth the price of admission. | Hang in there.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Couldn't work this one out either - lovely validation and all those 21 "friends"? The only thing I would change is the part about your body not being impressive - just leave that part out. Apart from that it is a decent profile. But honestly, at your tender age, I wouldn't be too worrried about being on here - go and enjoy yourself down the pub or nearest club with your mates.   Pusscat xxx

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  wannabyummymummy

  13 years ago

  Ok first of all the positives:** You have some great pics on your profile (you don't need cock shots to impress just pics that show you as yourself)** You have a sense of humor in you profile and that is always a good thing** You point out your good qualities** You have a lovely validation now the things you may want to look at:* read through your own profile and check for errors (there aren't many but some will pick them)* Take out any of the negativity about your body, and anything else that can be perceived as negative* maybe elaborate a little more on the kind of girl you are looking for.The reason you haven't had much luck? well that is anyone's guess really I wouldn't say it is entirely based on your profile but it could be a little to do with it. Also what kind of messages are you sending? (if they are one liners not going to get you very far) Are you reading the profile of the lady you are interested in? do you fit at least most of what she is looking for? do you mention in your message the things that you appear to have in common based on the profile? this tends to indicate that you have actually read the profile and are interested in her for something other than her pretty pictures Some girls are turned off by lots of 'friends' i also am interested in the fact that the one girl who gave you a validation isn't actually on your friends list for me personally i reserve my 'friends' list for people that A) i have met (played with or not) B) people i liked when i met them C) people i know from the forums i wont add people who send me random friend requests that i have never met or spoken with. I know that everyone on here has a different view on this and i am in no way saying who you should and should not have on a friends list just making note of it.Anyway best of luck, hope you get lots of helpful tips on this thread that lead to loads of fun, failing that, you are young and attractive get off the computer and get out in the real world and meet some sexy ladies that way WBYM

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Darling everyone knows that i like me a bit of young flesh but you're just too young. I had a date with a guy your age but he looked a lot more mature. Don't worry, as yummy mummy has stated, you have lots going for you. But most hotties your age aren't on here, they get all the attention they need "out there" and the few that are have to go around a LOT of other young studs. You are going up against a lot of other guys your age and older. You are just suffering what all the other single guys go through here in RHP land. The competition is just too fierce here. I wish you all the best, sure stay here by all means. A saucy cougar may snap you up and teach you a thing or two and blow your little mind but hit the clubs like Pusscat said, hang with people your own age and remember, confidence is everything, if you don't have it; fake it till you make it. Women LOVE a confident man. Happy hunting! xx Kitty

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  playfulminx

  13 years ago

  I think you look cute :) Having said that, I would not approach you as you're only seeking women. If you're thinking about experimenting though, cast a wider net and include couples.Being self-deprecating is endearing mostly but probably not the right tactic for profiles on here. I don't want to know if you think your body isn't hot. I might think it's hot regardless of what you think.Talk yourself up. You're by no means the most horrible thing I've cast my eyes over so give yourself some TLC and sound like you like yourself :D

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  lil_bit_rusty

  13 years ago

  Your definition of luck could depend upon what your expectations are of this site.Best advice I can give is, just be yourself and it looks like you're doing that already. .Accept that there may or may not be people on this site that will like your profile and want to meet with you.It's just like the real world. People have different likes, wants needs and you may or may not fit what they're looking for at a certain time, or ever..Take on board the advise you receive here, see RHP as another opportunity to meet different people but not the only one, fix up any spelling mistakes and if you're going to criticize yourself then downplay it or do it in an amusing way. .Unfortunately the odds are stacked against the single male here but you're already standing out from the crowd with the profile you have and now posting here..Cheers and good luck. .Rusty

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You're 21. So supposedly, you're now a "man". Act it and grow a pair. There are less fortunate looking guys on here making it work for them without having to look for the sympathy root. Unless, that is how you truely wish to get noticed...And now you have been noticed by a few due to this post, I wonder, is it really in the light that you would've hoped for...? All the best...

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