sahzpete

sahzpete

M66 F65

Age Gap

October 20 2019

Just wondering what is too bigger age gap when playing with other couples , we are a couple in our early 60ts and we get contacted from time to time by younger couples in late 30ts and early 40ts and they wont to meet or hook up, we are flattered , but think the age gap is too much , What do you all think. ?

Comments

  • charlie99

    charlie99

    5 years ago

    I’m 34 and would say my lower limit is 25 and upper limit is early 60s. Some of my favourite experiences have been with couples and singles who are a fair bit older than me. Connection more important than the number.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    5 years ago

    For us (mainly at my insistence) ..... we have a very small window.... our age or 30 to 40. I have no attraction to older at all. And none to under 30s for that matter. When hubby plays solo he doesn't mind tge older gals (50 plus). But its a definite no go for me.

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    5 years ago

    We have over a decade age gap between us. We find it does limit our joint appeal but then our most intense experience so far was with a 20yo woman who I never thought would get off so much on the old fella so you can’t always judge. Mrs S doesn’t gravitate towards younger guys but I’m hoping one day she gets to experience a buff young buck! Just go with mutual attraction when it occurrs :)

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    5 years ago

    1. Age is not important 2. An age gap can also be part of the appeal 3. A maturity & sophistication gap can be attractive 4. The clit has no idea of the age of the stimulating bit ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    While I don’t have experience in this, my personal opinion is if you’re attracted to them and connect on the level you need and it’s all about having fun anyway, go for it! As they say, age is just a number!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    If he is kind, funny, a bit cheeky and respectful as well as experimental then he could be any age from 30 to 60......I really dont care. I prefer younger guys though, always have.

  • sahzpete

    sahzpete

    5 years ago

    I guess As twowithnolimets said the clit has no idea what age tongue is licking it , and I guess if the couples younger than us want to take it further after we have meet who am I to say no ,,, lol ,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    There's 20 years between my boyfriend and I. We're both incredibly attracted to each other and are both having the best sex of out lives. As long as there's a connection there and you can communicate, I don't think the age matters. But we have noticed that in this community there aren't many people who want to swap with a couple with such a big age gap, so I understand that it is a big deal for a lot of people

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    Hmm, our default search setting is 25-60... Most have been around our age, although we've played with people closer to 60. We've been surprised occasionally when we've had people in their early 20s message us. Age is never been a thing for us, but like everyone an initial attraction still needs to be there. We like the social side of things, so finding people with similar interests seems to steer us towards those our own age, but honestly we could care less if you can hold a decent conversation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    IRL I've met people who old and boring by their 40th,,,

  • D_Light

    D_Light

    5 years ago

    Since being in this Scene it has cemented in my mind to not care, look at, seek out, or ask anyone about age.... I've always had large age gaps in my last 20 years relationship... with me being senior..... But this year I can say comfortably that 24 - 72 has been the range and none of these occasions from my perspective was their or my age brought up only the 2 oldest did cause they were concerned from their issues I was too young..... good on em for caring and sharing xxxx