choosenottotell

choosenottotell

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Age experience

September 27 2021

Is sex better with older more experienced people?

Comments

  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    3 years ago

    Sometimes..though the best lover I’ve ever had was of average age and experience. I think selfishness is more of an issue that age and experience.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    3 years ago

    I personally don’t think sex is better with an older person .It depends on that individual persons maturity . Many many factors go into being a good lover , irrelevant of age . Attraction is of course of paramount importance. My thoughts on good lovers - -Confidence without arrogance . -A person that can communicate. Listening to others wants , needs and boundaries, whilst expressing their own without demanding overtones. Picking up on other people’s cues. -Someone relaxed , playful and willing to open themselves up to experimenting . -Someone that isn’t self centred and only interested in their own pleasure not others . That’s just the tip of the iceberg. Age is just a number . Ax

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 years ago

    No. I've only had negative experiences with older people...... and very young also. The sweet spot (for me) is 25 to 45😘

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    This is a open ended question with 2 answers.. Both younger and older both have things to offer the other doesnt. Obviously the younger have the energy and willingness to try many different things.. .. whereas the more mature know the meaning of prolonging the pleasure of both.. so as far as im concerned ' jury's still out...

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    3 years ago

    Yes. Sex is unbeatable with old me. At least that's what they all say.....

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    3 years ago

    Maintaining your standards is what makes sex great for all involved. Do not under any circumstances lower your standards to get your fix. You’re disrespecting yourself and using them. I’ve had great sex with guys in their 20’s (mind you I did teach them what I liked). Guys in their 30’s I don’t see many of simply because I don’t find many in that age bracket that meet my standards. 40’s are great guys and have usually been deprived of sexual expression for most of their life. Where as guys in their 50’s & 60’s are on an entirely different next level. Like I said it all about maintaining your standards and they will eventually surface.

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    3 years ago

    Ive only had lovers younger than myself, but I dont think age would matter. If you have that sexual chemistry then its always going to be good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Well thanks for asking, yes it's better if you are an oldie too. Sexual gymnastics are what they used to be, chandeliers are off the playlists. Nowadays my girlfriends are mostly grandmother's and I did go out with a great grandmother but that wasn't going anywhere. Inhibitions are minimal and fear of pregnancy is a distant memory. I certainly do have a better sex life than when I was younger, it's way less complicated.

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    3 years ago

    To paraphrase a certain other member here, a young person can potentially be an empathetic and knowledgeable individual, while a much older individual might be a complete C**T. And vice versa. So it might be a rule of thumb but certainly not a defining factor.

  • Misscheeky

    Misscheeky

    3 years ago

    For most of the older guys I have slept with I have been satisfied with sex. I slept with someone a couple of years ago it’s not till after it happened I realised he learnt from porn so it makes a little cautious with the younger ones

  • Throathugs

    Throathugs

    3 years ago

    I've had a few virgins who were a bit older (in their twenties) and honestly it's quite jarring how bad the sex can be until they've had some experience. I wouldn't say age is so much a factor as I've had young partners that were amazing and older who were horrible. There's a lot to be said about learning and meeting your partner's needs and then trying to apply those skills to new partners.