M84
"Age is just a number"
February 05 2018
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noeleena
7 years ago
Hi , Age is a different set of details for us . if your younger you.ll have a far better chance of being with someone , Been to many swinger meets and quess what your on your own unless you have a mate with you, your an out sider ,I,m a unicorn or a wall flower most guys age,s range from 35 to 40 and 53 to 57 in the main and I have not had one bit of interest. that's here in Kiwi land I have tried to join two groups both don't wont outsiders or if your 70 they ....DONT .... wont you near them and this has been over 12 months, so I wont bother asking to join again whats the point ,in one case your ignored, age is just a what ........it,s who you are that counts its what makes you ....you . if your not accepted for who you are then age becomes the issue or in my case am I different to the point of not acceptable . I,m involved with over 2000 people with our Orchestra and Brass Bands 5 of and our communitys and other groups and don't have any issues . so I,m well accepted , Yet sexually I,m written off by most with in the swingers groups at 70 im just not worth their time to get to know. because I,m 70 plus, ...noeleena...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Better now after the rant? Wake up call. Whether you're 34 or 104, you need to show yourself. Who's going to want to date an old dude on a blind date? You would of course know this with your online experience and your lack of vision is hiding what you look like, again by your own design. Yet you expect a sympathy fuck because we women are here to serve you, free hookers? lmao
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Lifes_great
7 years ago
Your warm welcoming demeanor. Maybe the girls out there are really looking for a more resentful angry type of guy? Anyway, I hope this post works well for you. Good luck in your search LG
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Ok.... so.... I've read your topic, and also your profile, and heres what I see Topic....... whinge. Profile.... minimal effort, and no photo.....But you expect results in a very crowded buyers marketplace? And you expect results from a rather limited pool of potential people who may be accepting of your age within their general preferences? But really, the proof of the pudding is in your topic.You state that you DID manage to arrange a meet with one lady (in 3 or 4 years on these sites.... that itself may tell you something about what you're doing/not doing... but you keep doing it?! For the same result?!!). So clearly for her, age wasn't an issue.... but on meeting you..... she wasn't interested in taking things further for whatever reason. That happens. Don't be such a petulant whiny child about it. Christ man, youre 77. Surely you've had occasion in your life where you met someone you weren't into! You, were that person for her. Yeah, I get it.... it wouldn't be as easy at 77 as it would be at 27, where the pool of people is significantly higher, but from what I've seen the handbrake isn't your age. Attitude is (almost) everything. That, is why you're wrong Tough but fair love. DG
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lovebitten
7 years ago
I have dated men 20 years older and that seems to work for me. That said, they have to have all the other attributes too. Intelligence, education, kindness, humour, good grooming. Perhaps your age didn't bother her, but something else did. It's not fair to pin it on age. She may have been sincere about liking older men, but she just didn't click with you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Sorry your post really hit the mark and not in a good way. Just because someone states they like older does not give you the presumption that you are a shoe in or rather a leg over. You still need personality and charisma to some degree but from what l read here, you are just a grumpy old man. No wonder she didn't pursue the opportunity. With attitudes like yours, it's just another reason to disregard the older ones that you are in competition with. Tuck in your manners ffs
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RHP User
7 years ago
But with a caveat. Age is just a number, if you're talking about mental age. I know older women who are amazingly fun to be around and I know younger women who are about as exciting as a fence post. In terms of physicality though, I think it is bullshit. Age is almost certainly not just a number. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
Then I feel sorry for you. I have wondered if I would ever just give up on sexual pursuits at a certain age, due to the diminishing prospects as the years tick by. Having said that, reading your profile, you are after a rather specific thing (hotwifing) which narrows your potentials down to near-negligible levels. Oh, and your profile is spectacularly unremarkable. I normally think profiles are up to the individual but there is really nothing on there at all to entice.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who wants a woman to just trip over and fall on his dick. You're profile isn't good and you have no photos to personalise it. LC.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Well l bet your fun at parties 🤔
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
It’s your comments that aren’t attractive :( Exactly what are you offering a woman besides that giant chip on your shoulder? Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
7 years ago
... was in his 60's when we met. He did look old-ish but in terms of fitness, energy levels and his winning, positive attitude and joie de vivre, he'd win others much younger than himself hands-down. I think most times, we are attracted to people with similar values, outlook, "style", etc. as well as how they present themselves. In my early RHP days, I did meet one old-ish guy in his 60's but oh my gosh... he dressed like a frumpy granddad who hadn't updated his wardrobe since the 80's, looked older than his real age and he talked about grandkids, retirement, etc. He also didn't walk with a spring to his step. In his presence, I can feel my inner speedometer go from 80 down, down, down to 20. Wake me up when it's time to leave! 🤣😝 I am a very visual creature and I spend time grooming myself and would like to be associated with people who also groom themselves and take pride in their appearance. My ex-FWBs all looked presentable. It's also important to run with a fellow horse who has a similar pace. I might be battling illnesses, but anyone who sees me would never guess because I put up a good fight and hide it well. I have adopted healthy lifestyle habits to put the spring back into my step and I like to brisk walk with my ponytail bopping or with my hair blowing in the breeze. I'm not young-ish but everyone I meet thinks I am and most importantly, I feel younger than my age. Would I date someone older with a similar spritely mentality? Hell, yeah! Conversely, would I date someone who is a frumpy and grumpy old man who has let his appearance go? Hell, no way, José! It's not about coming into the site, expecting to meet people. This is simply a platform allowing people to contact those we are attracted to and those we would like to befriend. Sure we all have needs - sexual, companionship, etc. But it's not solely about meeting your needs without putting in any effort - what do you have to offer to attract anyone to you? And that's just the first step. It's not about entitlement - it's about mutual compatibilities and shared aims. It isn't about the age so much as the demeanour.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I loved your post OP. I reckon you just gotta hang in there, maintain the rage. Don't let these soft cocked know-it-alls bring you down to their level. You don't need to be personable, you don't need a poncy profile, you don't even need pics. You just need anger and a penis; get hard, get angry and they will come. Trust me. Stay with it old man, I hear 80s is when shit really kicks off around here anyway.
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sweetgem
7 years ago
...[OK "Make my day" and tell me why I am wrong!!!!]... Your attitude is why you are wrong, Wanabibull! And by attitude, I don’t mean your whinge, but rather your poor handling of other people’s preference of age and other traits, and your belittling attempt at the said woman, whom you have met, by making this line: [She was in her mid forties and "I love older man, the older the better" BS.] To say that she was bullshitting in her words and/or preference, you’re actually showing disrespect towards her! Sure, I don’t know the full story and I don’t know what reason, or reasons, she gave you when she declined your invite for a second meet. But is it necessary to go down that path and get yourself so worked up like the way you did, Wanabibull? 🤔 At your age, you should be someone that younger people would want to look up to for advice/guidance, not the other way around! 🙄 Life is too short to dwell on the failures, Wanabibull! Embrace what you have picked up along the way and that will change your vibes, which will change your luck, no doubt! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Go hang out in the bingo joints or join a knitting circle. Bet you’ll find lots of pussy your age there.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Lol. You make me laugh. You and the OP have so much in common. Both angry through failure to score. Grumpy old frustrated man and grumpy middle aged frustrated man.
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RHP User
7 years ago
the comments everybody, well I have stirred up something, but yeah it is a bit frustrating people saying "Age is just a number" thing and it is BS. Oh yeah I have changed my online name, when I wrote it at first didn't like it wanted to change it but it gone wrong, this time it did work. My profile, I have just joined today and I just put something down quick. As I said before I have been on other sites similar to this one with all different way of writing a profile but it didn't make any difference, wouldn't you be pissed of? On one site a woman (girl) looking for a man from 30 to 80 and she said to me to go play lawn balls. If this time nothing happens I may have to go and play lawn balls.
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mango69er
7 years ago
Gee what about noeleena comments. She in her 70s. And kinda agreed with him. Nothing wrong with her profile. Must be very frustrating for them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Lol. You make me laugh. You and the OP have so much in common. Both angry through failure to score. Grumpy old frustrated man and grumpy middle aged frustrated man. When I take pot-shots at the Dark Queen it's because I need to grow up, and I have admitted this to myself and everyone here. It has nothing to do with my ability to score, actually I had to shut my profile down because I was drowning in pussy. Recently though I feel like you are me and I am Meander so what is your excuse? You seem pretty mature but your profile is still up ... I'm glad I could make you laugh though Annie x
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ah your comments made me laugh a lot!! You two should go out for a few beers talk about some strategies on how to get laid LOL You could even team up as an MM and call it deep purple mature cock :)
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
How many 77 year olds does it take to change the light bulb?? None...they have maintenance personnel for that lol I’ll suggest that when you take a viagra, do what I do...take a Prozac too...that way you won’t give a fuck if you don’t get a fuck lol(Kevin bloody Wilson) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Dreaming more like 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Be an angry invisible old man. That oughta do it 😯
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RHP User
7 years ago
sorry forgot to say to throw in a few borderline psycho comments about women asking for it with the way they dress and act, that reels them in 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Drowning in pussy, someone wanna pass the popcorn 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
...how we morbidly track our time on the plan from the womb to the tomb. When we're young it gives us comfort and as we age reminds that this isn't a dress rehearsal so we better get it right! Looking over my shoulder, I still hope I'm closer to the former than the latter and it will piss me off if I go bald and keep my teeth in a jug! Just sayin'.... 🤔😉⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
7 years ago
..... so does many other things. I wouldn't get the balls in a knot over it tho. 😜 Besides you've ONLY been here a day or two. Sheesh. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
..but what were you expecting? Your situation is the same as it is for people( men, particularly ) who are less-than-appealing, regardless of age. Look around here...it's pretty clear age and sex matter. And that's just for starters..
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
There are two things going on here. The facts about your situation and your interpretation. The facts are you met a woman and after 1 date she wasn’t keen for a second. The rest is your interpretation about the situation including your age being a factor. You only have control over 1 of these so why not just appreciate it for what it was and move on? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey when someone is here crackin' the shitz that is actually one year older thus my father or mother were they still lining...makes me feel young enough to want to go chasin' much much younger women! As if I don't anyway? ⚡️🙃😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
You could just be an arsehole? - Posted from rhpmobile
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
if he understands how sometimes it is better to be kind than clever. You have an opportunity here presenting itself and I hope you replied to Noeleena... or age matters.(Ms)
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Swingingnudist
7 years ago
Interesting to see Noeleena's comments haven't attracted the same vitriol as the OP when she has said practically the same. Mind you she has a vagina and the sport on here by the nasty angry posters is to tear any man down who makes a comment. Some of you posters should look in the mirror before commenting. Must be great in here when you have a pussy as you would never comprehend what men have to endure. Power of the pussy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age is just a number to me, but only up to a point. Without knowing anything else about a person, anything from early 20s through to early 60s doesn't have tooooooooo much impact on my interest and attraction, in and of itself. Outside of this range and it's definitely a factor for me. Again, without knowing anything else. As in, my initial reaction to a profile without a clear picture or details, only age..... This is a range of 40 years though. That's what I mean when I say "age is just a number". It really makes almost zero difference to me if someone is 27 or 45 or 56. But if you're under 25 or over 65, it'll make me think. If you're under 21 or over 70 I probably won't even look at your profile. Sorry, but that's how it is. I suspect a lot of people who say "age is just a number" are like this too. They might have a generous range, but still have their limits. *shrug*
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RHP User
7 years ago
... and reading, thinking, reading and re-reading and I won't comment as all has been said by the few who stand by the OP with some truths, especially swinger, admit it ladies you know it IS much harder for a male here dammit and some rather crude and not so nice remarks. And those against with a lot of truths and just as many rude and not so nice remarks. So if you did read the OP's post to his own thread or was a sleuth like meander and he posted that story instead of his original we may well agree about the age thing and he certainly wouldn't have copped half the shit. Now maturecock4you, dude you gotta change that name it's rank. But I digress, I will tell you simply why it's wrong and why you should not have acted like a prick (awesome no pun intended) You clearly make an assumption that it was your age. I have been refused a second many times for several reasons some I still cannot fathom. You weren't her type, She didn't like your smell, voice, height reasons just keep going on and on. So that is why you are wrong. I also suggest you have a good read of EarthQueen's post and think about what she is saying. Sorry folks said I wouldn't comment but I just love to write and man was I on a roll . So in finishing and this is what I came up with after all that thinking and reading. Nobody has even mentioned to both the OP or noeleena perhaps it would be worth looking at a few extreme fetish sites, where they don't say 30 to 80 they state 60 to 80. Have to be several sites around surely.
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gazpacho
7 years ago
Your choice of avatar name does it for me. Without a profile picture of this cock, my imagination is running rampant. White bearded cock and balls to the knees. Turkey slap me you dirty old daddy! Hugs Gaz
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Time is a man made construct.... Then surely man has a choice as to whether he feels restricted by such a prison?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
just seen the "Current Polls" Question: - Where do you draw the age line? and "Age is just a number" 66%. AHA!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
It wasn't so long ago that I was still saying age is just a number. There comes a time when you realise it is more than just a number...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age means shit look at my age i can out fuck anyone and have met 100s nobody can out do me im good and i know it knowledge and experience iswhat counts - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sometimes you just gotta let it go..... As in this case. Let's not beat around the bush here, the age is probably not helping you with these RHP hornbags... Also, your username isnt doing you any favours, try taking it down 10 notches to "bad grampa" or something similar as "maturecockforyou" may not be sending good vibes to younger women... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Pity you're a guest, or I'd contact you. As far as I'm concerned, as long as your cock stays hard enough to keep a dinger on; and you promised not to have a heart attack, I'd let you throw a leg over. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SirTwistopher
7 years ago
I hope I can get laid at 77. I'm already terrified at being in my 30s... lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
Bless you biggirl, I think you just promised a Christmas miracle in February, haha! Man, this is one of the funniest forum threads I've ever read! Reading through all these responses I had mixed feelings though, some of you guys - and I won't say who but it's plainly obvious to anyone whose read this far - were straight up shitcunts in response to this guy, didn't anyone ever teach you to respect your elders? (Bahaha!). Granted, dude came off as a really crabby old fucker, (seriously mate you made yourself really hard to sympathise with by coming out angry straight out of the gate), but put yourself in his possibly out of style old-ass shoes: 3 or 4 years of trying to get your end away on sites like these only to finally get a date and then get knocked back for the second go? That's gotta sting! Regardless of why you got knocked back, whether it be your age, your attitude, shit man maybe it was your hair style who knows - you never told us what her reason was - but whatever, I can see why you might be really frustrated and disheartened by the whole thing. Also frankly I think anyone who doesn't see that hasn't really thought long or hard enough about what it must be like to get older and still be horny as fuck. Like Noeleena and Meander and a few other less uppity people said; you're right, that age is just a number line is bullshit to a degree, and like someone else said, really what people who say that mean is: "I'm open to being with someone older, provided they're not too old... And don't look old... And can still screw me like someone half their age...", It's bullshit, they're looking for a fucking unicorn. I've been with plenty of older women and I've had a great time with them, but I've only gone up to around mid-fifties, past that I find that even if theres enough physical attraction quite often there are simply limits to what they can do with someone half their age. It's just obvious that a woman in her sixties or seventies is not going to deal as well with an ex rugby player who weighs twice as much as her pounding away on top of her like she's a bloody bouncy castle, the idea that she might put her back out or twinge her hip or some shit just isn't sexy man, sorry. But she wouldn't have that problem with someone a bit closer to her own age, like when I'm 50 I'm sure I'll be more than happy to be with a woman who doesn't mind and understands that sometimes when she wants me to go faster/harder I might not be able to (I don't know that I won't be able to, I'm just speculating, sadly we can't tell how well we're going to age). But I tell you what dude, even though I think you kinda come across as a bit of dick, I have gotta give you mad props for chasing tail still at your age, damn pops! Ain't no way I'm gonna be messing about on RHP chasing women half my age when I get to 77, sheeit... My advice? Change your username (I know that's rich coming from me but mine was meant to be funny, not sure yours was), have a younger female friend if you have one - failing that a younger make friend - go through your wardrobe with you and give you a little slightly younger man style makeover the style actually probably won't help that much but it will make you feel younger if you look younger, but you don't need it, I dress like a bum 90% of the time and I don't have any problem s but then I ain't 77 so I've got a helluva leg up on you y'know? Also have someone help you go over your profile and make it a bit less... Well, shit man, I don't wanna insult you, plenty of people on here have done that already and it's not helpful, suffice to say though you may want to Google "how to write a great dating profile" or something for a little help in that regard. And finally, I know this must be an infuriating thing to hear when you're pissed off at getting nowhere... Calm your ass down man. Getting angry rarely ever helps matters, try and learn to always be upbeat and jovial and bounce back from disappointment. I know it's hard but if you had stayed friendly with that girl who turned down the second date with you you most likely would have been able to quiz her and find out exactl why she turned you down (in a non interrogation like way mind you), shit, if you'd kept it light and fun she could have even been throne to give you some pointers on your profile or date notes to help you get laid with someone else next time around, by getting annoyed and going off on one you've not learned anything useful from the experience. I've had a few dates from here not go as well as I might have hoped but man I tell you even though I didn't get laid I would still always have a fun date and I always try to make friends at least, there are two or three women here on RHP I went on dates with that didn't pan out but I maintained friendship with them anyway, I didn't need any advice from them in the end (I accept that sometimes you just don't click), but I figure why not stay friendly? Nothing to lose and potentially something to gain of you do so it's a no brained really. Whew, that ended up way longer than I thought it would be, sorry, but I figure I don't post on here much so this makes up for that :) Pro-tip dude: these forums? Apart from as a place to vent maybe they're not all that useful, they're mostly just used for entertainment and pretty well ridden roughshod over by the same bunch of like 20 or 30 people. It's very cliquey and they all nearly always agree with each other which often makes it a rather pointless echo chamber of nonsense rather than meaningful or interesting discussion, and man you'll see some of them are posting and commenting on here so regularly you'll genuinely wonder how on earth they could possibly be living a normal day to day life, work, shopping, shit shower shave etc, and also be going on dates too when they seem to spend soooooo much bloody time in these forums, it makes zero sense. The upshot of all this? Maybe get your advice elsewhere. I know, I know, listen but don't listen, right? What a load of shit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
...but my phone's autocorrect is fucking wank, haha! I think you can discern what is meant in any typos above though. Good luck dude, if I were you I'd be sending biggirl a message, I looked at her porfile and she looks like a barrel of laughs, not being sarcastic, she looks fun as fuck and is probably fun to fuck so quit wasting time and and get on that shit (and while you're there be nice and friendly and get her thought on your profile clothes demeanour etc, I'm sure she'll help you out.. definitely if you tell her to in a kind but authoritative headmaster type voice, hahahaha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
Piss myself laughing at all the delusional middle aged commenters on here that think they're still gonna be able to fuck the way they do now when they're your age, ha! Numpties. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Thanks for your dump. Not short on writing a bookish post yourself whilst having a crack at the regulars. Lol. Had a couple?? Anyway, nice to see you execute your opinion, Afterall, it's what this place is for. Beats posting on Facebook about your cat farting and how many lettuce leaves you had for lunch. Hopefully you can keep up with us in the sex department topics. Yes we have our spare time when we aren't posting in here. I'm off to a swingers party tonight. What are you up to? See you around the sandpit......
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RHP User
7 years ago
Due respect but high chance this entire topic was a windup from whoever, even mods do it on some forums to spice things up. There are also men who lie significantly about their age, yes by as much as 20 yrs from 60 yrs shown, they can be 80 or close to it. How would bigirl feel about a 100 yr old throwing his leg over (who even uses that expression?), she might have to throw it over for him, and have the ambulance on stand by. I assume this is one I outed recently and who I think has had a few different posting profiles here, the others lying about age but not limited to, this one may be more accurate all round. You did read the part about how he joined 'a few days ago? lol Either way, I would have posted the same anyway, honest as the day I was born. Go ask someone else you say? A friend maybe who'll tell you what you want to hear, blow a bit of smoke up your ass? Well that would be helpful 😏 I don't care what you think of me personally, but I'm not in the clique, I post honest comments, walk my own path. How often we're on here, it's a slippery slope, be careful 😎 I personally go hell for leather all day and use this as a way to relax in my downtime, while you're probably watching tv. I don't have a tv through choice. Sitting on the couch doesn't interest me, it's sedentary. Other activity on it is fine, I can post comments between rounds 😉 joking, never done that 😂😂 I'm now looking for a relationship of sorts though so plenty of time on my hands to grace these pages just for you 😁 Oh and break me, I worry about breaking them 😜
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just for your information 😀 when I replied to your comment, Annie's comment wasn't showing, I only saw that when I posted mine, thought you should know it's not always a master plan, sometimes is, never by me though
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SirTwistopher
7 years ago
Btw, how good is the RHP community? Like, reading over the replies and comments. There's some really insightful and useful info to help this bloke out. Most forums just have people destroy each other! It's great to see more positivity and support online! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sorry ol' timer ... But the name was enough of a turn off. I needn't look at the profile. Are you offering more than just an old cock? If so, consider getting the ladies attention with something other guys can't offer. No pic and a name like that ... It is evident that you are only after one thing. That isn't going to connect with many... as you've experienced. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SexySmart50
7 years ago
Oh dear. I would like to add a positive line here but I can't. I agree with many of the previous comments that you need to liven up your profile. No photo, spelling mistakes, very limited information, and it's all about what YOU want, not what you are prepared to offer. For me, age is just a number but what is super important is a bit of class, wit and respect. Men need to understand this is not just a 'free root' site - all the usual requirements of decency still apply. I can get on with someone beautifully by text but when I meet them I may not feel a spark so I choose not to continue. I don't think any of them are sitting at home thinking they've been mistreated!
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have my mob. no. on my profile but if you are a guest you won't be able to see it. Heart attack? My doc telling me I am in a good condition for my age, and my cock may not pointing to 11oclock more like 8:30-9:00oclock, hardness? you have to be the judge of that, but there is other ways to skin a cat, so to speak
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RHP User
7 years ago
As to the throw a leg over comment, if I can't have a joke at my own expense, what even is the point? I'm fat, so it pays to have a sense of humor lol. Something that I find can be completely lacking in this place.... We're all here for a good time, so let's make it a great time. As for 100 year olds, if that dude can still get it up, he deserves to have everyone bow before him and sit on it bahahahaha!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
did you say you fat? don't degrade yourself, you maybe big but looking at your pic you have a nice figure. My spelling? I am from Europe my English (Australian) is a learned lingo.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age is an unknown barrier for us and we didn’t even know there was a sexual prejudice to guys over 49. I have changed my age to 47 several times and received replied but once I put my real age in. Not many replies come back. I can be polite as and encouraging as but to no avail. So pic or no pic. Good profile or bad. It’s the age that’s stopping us from chatting or meeting a future partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
lol Shit, just doing the maths on the difference between that and my upper capped age limit, actually my lower cap might involve a calculator 😉 interesting though and a reminder how we're all different. Do you not care what he looks like though? 😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just because you might not be fussed on age doesnt mean everyone is. My partner is 11yrs older than me, but doesnt act like it nor looks 43yr. My last long term fwb was 17yrs older than me. But I pick these people after chating online, meeting in person. Your profile is a cover letter to your resume. No one on this site is going to judge you for being here. They are here too. I do hope these comments not just mine will help improve your profile and better your chances of an interactions with people. Miss Cherry - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I always operate on the assumption unverified profiles are fake. If someone really wants to meet someone else they will put the effort into a good profile. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
Annie... I know, I rolled my own eyes at how ridiculously long my comment got :-S As to having a crack at the regulars, sure why not? I'm sure none of you had your feelings hurt :-P About the dump though, bear in mind it's been so hot here in Adelaide recently for so long that I wrote that on basically zero sleep in the last 48 hours. I realised as well when the lady in bed next to me woke up and asked me what I was doing that I actually have only had one date from here not turn out well - by which I mean not lead to the bedroom - not 2 or 3, (I read this whole thread aloud to her and I even did OP with an Eastern European accent, haha, I just guessed because of the way he writes) what can I say though it gets hard to tell because I was also on OKCupid and Plenty of Fish for awhile (they're both free, this is the only site I've ever paid for a subscription for and I've only ever paid for a 6 month subscription here twice, once back in 2012 when I first arrived in Australia, and once just recently), I had some dates through those sites and a couple of those didn't end up in the bedroom so I got mixed up. Through this site I've only actually met and slept with 4 women if I remember rightly, but I'm not a one night stand kinda dude, it would have to be a helluva long night for me to do everything I wanted to with a woman in one night, so there were multiple ongoing encounters with each of those 4 women and one of them ended up being my girlfriend for about 6 months before I had to move to SA for my 2nd year working holiday visa. I don't think 4 out of 5 successful meetups is that bad going to be honest, that's what, an 80% hit ratio for RHP, and really I consider them all a success in a way because I had fun on all of them and I'm friends with all 5 women to this day. I_Touch_Myself2... I didn't actually mean you because I don't recall seeing you on here 5 years ago back when I was previously last active, if I had then I would have sent you a message whilst I was living in Perth. Interesting that you thought I meant you though, I take it you are on the forums a lot then. Nothing wrong with that, just mind you don't get too mean, especially with old ass folks who sound like they're having a hard enough time already, nobody needs to dole out punishment here man, life will handle that part just fine for us all. Oh and I don't have a TV either, Aussie television absolutely does my friggin' nut in, Modern Family was one of my favourite shows, but it's 20 mins per episode and here it gets shown over a 45 mind time slot... 25 mind of ass?! No thanks. Instead I spend far more time gardening then a 34 year old bloke has any business doing, haha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Seems that in some cases all elements of respect go out the window in this virtual world. It is easy to throw anonymous rocks at anonymous people to gain some sense of self gratification and a feeling of greater than thou filled with a self indulged sense of importance. Assumption’s are made which are the curse of the written word where the conceived reality is far removed from the actual reality. No consideration is given to anything that does not strike you between the eyes and thinking of anything other than what is completely obvious is obviously a waste of time or not worth the effort. Courtesy has been forsaken for sarcasm and ridicule and the anonymous scribes gain their pleasure in dishing out pain to someone they know virtually nothing about. You could make an argument that by his post the op has asked for it. Did he ask to be humiliated, ridiculed and to be treated disrespectfully? Most of the anonymous posters aren’t even close to 77, some of us/you may not even make it. One thing that is beyond doubt is that when and if you get there you will look upon the younger people with a certain level of confusion and the world will not be as it once was and you will be hoping that just maybe you will be shown a certain amount of respect even if for no other reason than you have a great many experiences in you life story. Assuming of course that the op is actually 77.............. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
when all or most of the people here will be my age I will probably six foot under so I won't be here to hear them complaining that they can't get anymore pussy or cock. Than they WILL understand. I would love to be here to see it/hear it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not having any luck either?
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PurePeony
7 years ago
Welcome to the forum! Or should I say, welcome back, since you said you've been on RHP before. I enjoyed reading your posts. Different and lengthy. I'm a lengthy poster myself. 🤣 It's refreshing to discover perspectives that aren't sung to the same ol' common tune in here. As for being on here often, not having time to date yada yada, might I remind you that some of us ladies are fabulous multi taskers. We fit in work, housework, fitness activities, dating, participating in forums, AND fucking, sometimes all in one day! Freak! We're goddesses in here! 🤣 😉 Anyway, stick around. Stirring the cauldron is fun sometimes. 😜
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PurePeony
7 years ago
Sorry to digress from the topic, OP. 😛 DPM, agree with you re. Aussie TV. I'd rather be sucking something else. 🤣😛 I lost reception to free-to-air TV for almost 2 years now, and apart from missing news, documentaries and 60 mins, I can't say I miss TV programs at all. Reality TV turns brains into mush, and you're spot on about the commercials. There is also a tendency to replay segments to the extent that I suspect the TV channels staff think the general populace suffers from short-term memory loss. 😧😖 OK, rant over. Back to watching porn. 😜😁
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RHP User
7 years ago
How about you set up a nice page, with pics of what ladies would like to see, a gentleman, who respects all sexes as equal....and .....learn how to spell....you might actually get a chance to have a coffee and meet another beautiful human being....!! Thats sexy in itself. Anton - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
... and I wasn't trying to insult with the poke about being on the forums all the time, I am just genuinely incredulous at how people find the time is all, but maybe I'm just a bit too slow and methodical with my daily routine (I'm only really on here now as I saved up a bunch of money to go travelling with a lady friend and in the mean time I'm taking a break from work to smell the roses... And do a little random perving as is my raison d'être, hehe, it's nice to be back and I'm having fun already, thanks :) I am surprised a little at the reaction to this old dude though, a lot of assumptions made about him being a fake possibly (I just don't see that frankly, the way he writes... If that's a mod or someone being a fake they're doing an incredible job impersonating the way an old European dude talks), and a lot of disbelief in his view points in general with people saying he must be doing something else wrong and jumping to the defence of the woman he dated who they don't know from Eve either. I think that's all mostly because of the way he came across in the initial post, and I kinda get that, like I said he came across a right angry dick, haha, but there was only a very few people showing any understanding as to why he might be so angry, I can imagine his situation is frustrating as fuck and I'm eternally grateful that I do only have to imagine his situation... Though I suppose eternally grateful isn't really right hey? More like 20-30 years grateful, then I may not have to imagine anymore, haha! Also all the people responding bar a couple were nowhere near his age, and the few who were all agreed with him basically, what does that tell you? It tells me that some of the people here in their fifties who bagged this guy out and claimed age is just a number might be singing a different song in 20 years time... Anyhoo, I got shit to do, but I hope you did get something from all these comments here OP, and if you have some success let us know, I'll be thrilled to know I'm still in with a shot 40 fucking years from now :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
... Your comment came in whilst I was writing my last one so I didn't see it, could have saved me some effort as yes that was exactly what bothered me here too... You said it much better than me through, wish there's was a delete post option here, haha! Laters peeps! Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I am sorry that you feel that way. It is a shame you do not see how difficult it has been for women for the last 50 years to get to a place where we are afforded the same opportunities as men and are compensated equally for the same job. I am so glad though that there are many men that have acknowledged this disparity and helping the disempowered to facilitate change :) The power of the pussy on here you say, it is/was the power of the penis out in the big wide world most say. It is always good to acknowledge what power an individual has and how they want to use that in the world....be empowered. Best of luck to us all I say :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Days of our lives... This thread is taking on Shakespearean proportions. It's one big tragicomedy, more rope young lady?
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RHP User
7 years ago
My spelling? go back to the previous page and read my post.
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RHP User
7 years ago
KABOOM!! 💥 M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Did you say there was rope? Lol. Point is some older gentleman can bring things to the table, that a younger man can't. In most cases, what someone looks like is completely irrelevant (that's what lube was made for hahahaha). What I feel most strongly about is nobody should be lonely. I've felt like that before, it's not nice. So if a man can say the right things, age and looks is entirely inconsequential to me. After that, how he makes me feel about myself is what determines a revisit. I've had bigger age gaps before, and we saw each other for months. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
if you go up a few posts you will see my comment on there future.
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
... thank you, you reminded me of that dude earlier who said that whisky bemoaning the trouble men have on these kinda sites... I agree whole heartedly with you on that one, and I do raise an eyebrow quite high at men who complain about their lot in life when it comes to things like this, I mean, were you to give them the option to switch gender and have been born a woman I would bet hard that most all of them would still rather be a man. I know I would be, fighting against the patriarchy my whole life Vs it being a little bit easier to get dates, hmm, not a tough choice, for me anyway, I'm sure most of you ladies are perfectly happy being women, and lord knows there are other benefits such as multiple orgasms, being able to continue on having sex even after you climax, literally being able to fuck multiple guys at the same time (as opposed to having to hop around between women like a guy does)... But those benefits aren't true for all women, plenty can't have multiple orgasms, in my experience I've only found about 20-30% can (though maybe I'm just not good enough to make it happen, haha, practice makes perfect though :-) and not every women is able to or wants to keep fucking after climax, or fuck multiple guys at once (that's a lot of control to give up to be surrounded by people who are all bigger and stronger than you and want to fuck you, it takes skill and confidence to handle such a situation, not everyone could manage it). Swings and roundabouts basically. I think for all the societal drawbacks of being a woman, it must be sweet fucking relief frankly that at least something is a bit easier for you then it is for men... And not even all men at that! Just some men, or most men if you choose to believe the complainers, I don't since I don't consider myself to be a Casanova by any means and I do just fine as do most of the other men I know. And even this benefit, finding it easier to get dates, comes with the drawbacks of getting inundated with shite messages from guys who haven't put any effort in at all I bet. I get annoyed from the very small handful of time wasters that I get on here (usually Dominatrixes looking to get you to sign up to some site or some such bullshit) I couldn't deal with having to filter through a whole inbox full of rubbish to find the good'uns. Nah, fuck that. I'll stick with what I got :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I didn't think you meant me, was just saying I'll post as often and lengthy as I like and like purepeony said, women are brilliant at multi tasking 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
We have found that people are ageist, but that is entirely their prerogative. It is curious that they do so before chatting or meeting. It's just a fact that we find people in our demographic lack the fitness and stamina that we possess. Guess being very active rock climbers makes us a little different that people of "our age". But that is for people to discover and we simply add to our rapidly expanding blocked list. It would be great if this site allowed some form of filter to block the single males and others who are picture nerds and/or trolls, but this site is driven by profit margins and we're realistic to realise that. Anyway, off to a naked spa with a "younger" couple and a bottle of Mumm. One thing about being "our age" is that we know exactly what we like and want and maybe that is confronting for some. They are welcome to move on as will we. Enjoy your weekend all. Naked preferably if you're experiencing the heat wave.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Don_Pervius_Max' but there was only a very few people showing any understanding as to why he might be so angry,that might be partly because once you've been here for awhile you see so many of these types of posts from men who are angry that they're not getting laid. Invariably when you look at their profiles, their profiles are - to be blunt - pretty shitty and there's so often a sense of entitlement, e.g. this guy has seemed to assume that because the woman said she was into much older guys, that he was guaranteed a sure thing. When she didn't want to meet again he's automatically gone and blamed her for lying about being into older men, when it could have been due to any number of reasons. I think some people just get a bit over that whole scenario on here and so they respond harshly. It's one reason why I tend not to respond to these sorts of topics much anymore.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Bit full of yourself Don. There are a whole swag of reasons women don't orgasm, at all let alone multi. I've been on both sides of the fence and until two things happened concurrently, I learnt what my body could do with research, self exploration and finally finding rare men who showed me what I could really do, THAT requires skill and passion and the ability/desire to listen to her, follow her guidance, something few men do in my experience. The woman's body is amazing, but a little more complex than yours. Not just a matter of whipping our dicks out and stroking away. There are also different types of orgasms, yes we're lucky that way, and the orgasms, particularly clit orgasms, are much stronger than a man's, for me making it painful to go near it for quite some type. My vaginal/squirting orgasms though, 20 in one session enough for you? 😁 But the guy has to be a very giving lover, passionate to the cause, so many are unfortunately still neanderthals and do a token effort before getting their pleasure. Look at any porn clip and that's what you see, hence why porn puts me to sleep. You think you're a legend and there's something wrong with the women? I'd suggest it's not them. Your post about your prowess would have me running in the other direction. Oh if I had a dollar for all the guys who claim to 'love being between your legs' (2 minutes tops) or 'I put your pleasure before mine.....' (yeah right) 😏
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RHP User
7 years ago
being 'mean' to the op, just another entitled invisible wannabe, throw in a bad attitude, he has two chances of getting replies 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
well said!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
You need look at your profile women will Not look at it with out seeing a photo. It's first sighn of contact .In your photos have nice face shots and be honest about your passions .If I have learnt any thing from sites is women respect you being honest. Talk about job ,if like scuba diving ,your mad about gardening. But just because she likes older men doesnt mean your a shoe in.And face or not chemistry still has to be there and you can tell in first few minutes if she is or isnt attracked to .Age is nothing in the end. especially if you have energy ,stamina,are considerate lover. Yes some people stipulate age range, but no harm in talking to them . - Posted from rhpmobile
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DarkSkinnedDom
7 years ago
...I_Touch_Myself_2, I should have added, "if they can orgasm at all in the first place," to my comment about multiple orgasms. I didn't think I was bragging about any kind of supposed prowess, in fact if you go back and look you'll see I did say that if I couldn't give a woman multiple orgasms then it could well be that I simply wasn't skilled enough. Of course I've been with women who I wasn't able to bring to orgasm through sex, or if I did it would take a long, loong, looong time, like hours sometimes working at just one orgasm, and I'm sorry but I don't have the time or inclination for that much work just so I can say I got her off myself. In those instances I'm not so insecure that I won't just say, "hey, why don't you do what you need to do to get yourself off, and I'll just help where I can?" Whether that help come from me using a toyon her, or playing with her nipples, or talking dirty to her (which I must admit is not my strongest suit because I have an accent that automatically makes any dirty talk sound very prim and proper, haha), whatever it may be, I'll do that instead. I don't think I can can ever claim to be some kind of legend at getting women off because that would generalise that all women are the same or similar and can be brought off with the same techniques. If that's the case then it certainly hasn't been my experience. I've done plenty of things that some women love that other don't care for at all. Same goes for receiving pleasure too, there are some things that some women can do to me that I very much enjoy and yet for some reason when other women do it it doesn't do it for me. So much of it is down to mental chemistry together and not just the physical actions. As to multi tasking, hehe, I'm glad that works for you, but I like sticking to one thing at a time, that way I can give it my full and undivided attention, 'cause as I'm sure you're aware, us fellers can otherwise be very easily distracted :-S - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
7 years ago
yet I am not remotely interested in catching up with someone who is 77. Prefer a lot closer to my own age. Why not pop into a local Retirement Village and offer your services as a volunteer...as a driver to the shops, Drs. appointments etc. Those places are full of single women, for some reason , men tend to fall off the perch earlier than women. And they eat the single men alive ! When I go to visit my Mum, we are often in hysterics watching the antics of some of the women fighting for the attention of those innocent men...lol
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FUCKONFIRSTDATE
7 years ago
Why every time a man writes his opinion or concerns here all the nasty man hating trolls come out and try to destroy him? This guy is correct, age is a major factor in finding sex partners and some of the haters here are getting very close to a age they are going to find that out. We would never meet a person in their late 70s my wife is not attracted to the affect old age has on the human body and for that matter neither am I. We hope everyone can find people to have fun with, but it gets harder the older you get after 50. Oh by the way we don't meet fat people or nasty man hating trolls either :) Like all the size queens here we have a right to choose who we sleep with. Hi , Age is a different set of details for us . if your younger you.ll have a far better chance of being with someone , Been to many swinger meets and quess what your on your own unless you have a mate with you, your an out sider ,I,m a unicorn or a wall flower most guys age,s range from 35 to 40 and 53 to 57 in the main and I have not had one bit of interest. that's here in Kiwi land I have tried to join two groups both don't wont outsiders or if your 70 they ....DONT .... wont you near them and this has been over 12 months, so I wont bother asking to join again whats the point ,in one case your ignored, age is just a what ........it,s who you are that counts its what makes you ....you . if your not accepted for who you are then age becomes the issue or in my case am I different to the point of not acceptable . I,m involved with over 2000 people with our Orchestra and Brass Bands 5 of and our communitys and other groups and don't have any issues . so I,m well accepted , Yet sexually I,m written off by most with in the swingers groups at 70 im just not worth their time to get to know. because I,m 70 plus, ...noeleena...
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Redux
7 years ago
I've met a range of people on here, now some they do and some they don't and some you just can't tell. And some I will and some I won't, with some it's just as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
No luck around here, been playing lotto for 20 plus yrs,won $&@“ all, haven’t backed a winner on the horses for god knows how long. You’re amazing how you could tell that from a few completely unrelated words that I wrote...... As for what you were in all probability really alluding to in that I was down on my luck in the sex/love department well I guess you would know that as well. As we ( yes there are two of us) go to bed tonight,tomorrow and the next night I will remind myself on how down on my luck I am not and that lotto is probably irrelevant though it would be nice but I wouldn’t swap lotto for MrsA who happens to be my lotto every day. So your insinuation that I’m having no luck is incorrect as are a lot of your assumptions it would seem. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age doesn't matter as long as you look young or have plenty of money lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
for your information: there is 77 year oldies and there is 77 year oldies, think about it for awhile!!!!!
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Goodvintage
7 years ago
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Twisted_Mister
7 years ago
Doesn't matter whether you're 77 or 27. If you have no profile pic, nothing to indicate your interests or who you are, and your spiel is duplicated and largely one sentence saying 'want sex' and 'hotwifing' you can't expect to be drowning in offers. You could be dynamite in the cot, take a helicopter to work, speak six languages or own your own island, but no one else will know that. They have literally nothing to start a conversation with before a meet. Give a little, get a little I say.
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Seachange
7 years ago
You are right. I agree. Hello OP. You need to put in a bit, if not a lot, more effort in your profile and some interesting pics. personally, I like to meet up a man who is interesting, lived a life of great experiences and is fairly attractive to me. That means physically and mentally. in all honesty, I am not attracted to men younger than 25 (due to their immaturity) nor older than 60 (as I find most men let go of themselves after 50). However I have not closed the door on them yet. I've met the few who have surprised me, from both ends of the spectrum. The balance I'm searching for can be tricky but I'm not desperate for attention nor sex starved. Work, family and business interests keep me fairly busy and content. I also have my regular fwbs that I spend time with. They're gorgeous physically and mentally. Emotionally intelligent men. Finding my fwbs, I went thru a screening process of reading their profiles and finding them appealing enough to meet. Then there's the issue of chemistry. Not all meet end up further than drinks as there's a massive discrepancy between the profile/messages and RL. so do your due diligence, work smart,be patient and understand your demographics so you can temper your expectations. don't make assumptions to you or the women's detriment. I wish you the best and I'm sure it's a real struggle for you.
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usemenow
7 years ago
Lucky you. I haven’t even met one. Not one and I’m only 43 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey mi owd cock!! It seems you’re a bit wasted on here, with your silver tongue 👅 you might want to check out the Personal Services for your state or town on CL (because the secret police 👮♀️ may pick me up that means cra igs list google will bring it up in the blink of a an eye 👁) Take care what you reply to, cos it’s a mine field of bots and scammers! Should find something to your exclusive taste there! Yup, this post did get booted! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yep all the time ! I'm 33 and like older women I generally look for profiles that say like younger guys and . Oh surprise ( oh your a bit to young . There's a lot of shit talking goes on in here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Age.well who said the sex was good.good sex to me is a no call back. After mutual great fun and enjoyment.i love when men in 40's say if like younger man.really 40.not that young.some 70 look younger than 40 and vice versa.come to site with no expectations. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your old and bitter and of course you won't get any responses with an attitude like that!!! Older men are supposed to be gentlemen... Or so I thought. Well you've certainly proved me wrong. Cheers for opening my eyes to how bitter and rude they can be. You can't expect to get lucky on here.... Especially not with that view that your entitled to a woman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Single_Discreet
7 years ago
Soon as you reach 50 the ladies your age want to screw the young tyre kickers, and so it goes on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thats gold! But living in a house full of cats doesnt count. Just a heads up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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