M71

Age is just a number.

August 13 2019

Age comes in three packages. Chronological age, which is our age since birth.Biological age, which the medical profession can assess and assign to you. This is the vehicle equivalent of mileage and condition.Psychological age, my new T shirts states that the first 70 years of childhood are always the hardest. I've noticed that some of my lovers are, like me, not as young and supple as we used to be. To get to the point we can't always manage the swinging from the chandeliers with finesse any more... I guess that if you're still saying age is just a number then things are still going well for you. Less than a decade ago I was still saying while coaching the under 15's at Rugby. I had to rethink that after I got a cracked rib Anyway I have every reason to believe that we remain sexual beings for quite some time, well some of us do. I reckon there's a fair few variables in that mix. There's plenty of stories from the staff and residents at retirement homes! Something to look forward to, I guess.

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RHP User

5 years ago

has extended lol men's sexuality for sure

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Phoenix_Rising

5 years ago

I’m 37 & have sex like a cripple some days, some days I can’t even bare the thought of it...yay for endometriosis!! Mostly I love to enjoy sex but it can be really difficult, so rest assured, you are not alone, it’s not even just older people in that boat, can you even imagine how much it sucks to be there at 37? I feel SO betrayed by my body! Hopefully surgery will help but we just don’t know & with the state of the health system I may well be retirement age by the time I see an operating room, lol. I’m glad you got to enjoy many years of lovin’ before your body started to fail you though, that’s definitely something to be thankful for 😉

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RHP User

5 years ago

To an organisation for people over 55.Its sometimes almost impossible to guess people's ages .its not always the physical that ages you,it's sometimes your mindset. I don't think that age is just a number ,with every year we change,physically and mentally.We can slow the ageing process down by paying attention to diet and exercise ..also by keeping our brains active,by being curious and learning something new everyday The thing that ages us most IMO is having a negative view,choose positivity and be happy. Great topic Mojo ,thanks. Hugs Q

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The_Antichrist

5 years ago

Phoenix... Have you considered claiming on your warranty ??

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Phoenix_Rising

5 years ago

Someone’s going to be claiming on your life insurance shortly 🖕🏼😂🖕🏼

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

Biologically still in my early 40s but fully aware that an injury from my extreme sport activity could quickly change that. Roll the dice l say.....whilst l still can l will. I will say people's head space will age them faster than physical stuff. Put the cue in the rack, may as well pack your balls away as well.....

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On_Safari

5 years ago

Whilst the flesh may be weak, the mid is still willing and able even with advanced Dementia. Mum wants him medicated 😂 I don’t see how age plays any part in an individual’s sexuality. The ladies in a retirement home still check out certain male residents and vice versa, some even find love and companionship which becomes more of a heartbreak which can lead to death if the families deem Mum or Dad too old and the retirement home derelict in their duty of care for that friendship to deepen into something both elderly people now live for. Even when neither of the respective families have anything to gain/lose in a will for allowing this happiness which is extending their loved ones life. I guess it begs the question though: If your elderly Mum or Dad fell in love with another in a nursing home, noticeably improved in health, well-being, social interaction, cognitive function and overall happiness would you risk their lives and their health by taking it away simply because you think they are too old for those emotional connections and underserving of having love that kind of love (even without sexual interaction) again? The best pick up line I’ve heard in an aged care facility: Early morning rounds, She says in the hallway to a passing gentleman on the same wing after exchanging greetings, “I’ve got bed hair.” To which he replies, “I think you look windswept and interesting.” 😊 I loved being witness to this harmless fun.....knowing She found Him attractive and he is a cheeky sweetheart. Trust me, mature matriarchs don’t mind checking out the younger tradies when they come through just as much as staff do and there’s a lot of laughter, winks and innuendo. As for the age only being a number.....it’s nice to note I’ve caught up to a few profiles and am now the same age after 9yrs on site! 😂 ~ Ageing Disgracefully Indy

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RHP User

5 years ago

About to click over the big 6 0, still on the tools but have to take the occasional back care day. Have a feeling my reckless youth (motorbikes, pot etc) is about to catch up with me, I’ve always had a baby face that made my age hard to gauge, that’s over too. Such is life. I remember Billy Connolly looking down at his groin and saying “I outlived you you bastard” perhaps that’s when men truly get wisdom ? In the meantime ........

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Mischeviouslad

5 years ago

Age may well just be a number...... but there’s something else to remember ...... I forget What were we talking about??

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Obi1kenietzsche

5 years ago

A great topic Mojo. My perspective as a RHP Male, has always been that age, although often used as a screening mechanism by many ladies, can also be somewhat irrelevant in context to physical appearance, again with the ladies given considerably more latitude in this regard (given the disproportionate M:F ratio, the amount of MILF hunters out there, and also taking into consideration those guys who will happily fuck anyone of any age as they have a pulse). Given this competition, and if one looks at it from a linear graph perspective (with increasing age on one axis, and decreasing physical appearance on the other), then the intersection point of those two lines is where one (particularly if one is a bloke) might decide to remove oneself from such sites as this. This tipping point (perceived or otherwise) has always been the moment where I think I will hang up my RHP boots (if I’m still about that is). Of course, age is NOT everything, as women of substance DO consider other more unquantifiable factors, such as personality, intelligence, deeper interaction, maturity, stability etc etc, all of which may present a person as being a pretty good fit in terms of general compatibility. And let us not forget those with “sugar daddy” requirements, and of course, the odd “silver fox” fetish. It’s an interesting consideration, this growing old thing, and it’s both relative and subjective, but one day, for all of us, both women and men, those two lines on the graph will eventually meet. But until then, one happily wanders along. That is, unless one’s knees give out in the meanwhile! Obi1 xx

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Sawadee

5 years ago

If you listen to all the dooms dayers.. Anyone above 50 already has one foot in the grave and that couldnt be further than the truth ' but your post just put everything in prospective. I know ppl of my age who look and behave like their 20 years older, so one hat doesnt always fit all ?

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Obi1kenietzsche

5 years ago

Exactly Sawadee, I would also think that many here (both men and women) have engaged outside of the stated age criteria as set on our profiles. And I’m equally sure that there has been many a time that the result has been great for all parties concerned. Age (and the assumptions that come with it) unfortunately has both its positives and it’s negatives. It’s up to us as individuals to embrace the positives and portray ourselves as who we are, not what some mundane society based, expectation driven text book says we aught to be in respect to age. There will always be those with whom age criteria will be insurmountable, and there are also the doom sayers as well, and there will also be reasons for that (it’s their business after all), but there are plenty of wonderful, sexy women out there who appreciate us older gentlemen, and for very good reasons I might add. Obi1

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

Maybe your elderly years has affected some memory functions.....

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0z_boy

5 years ago

Age is but a number, but aging is not. Ive always looked, felt and acted a lot less than than my number suggests. Someone once said to me that I was entering my second childhood to which I replied "haah I havent left my first" :D

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Obi1kenietzsche

5 years ago

Oh fuck! Is it your birthday AGAIN my dear Annie! 😉. But NO, I have not forgotten my promise, as you will soon see (sorry Mojo.. a slight “deviation” here I realise). 😊. Obi1

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RHP User

5 years ago

Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' has extended lol men's sexuality for sure Different all right, so what was it you were saying here?Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'btw I never said anything about age affecting the use of one's appendage. The appendage wasn't the main concern. But that right there highlights the problem. Just a different page, hell a different chapter

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