M60
Age play
April 16 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
The limits are there for a reason. When I was a "youngen" I felt better going to a party if I knew the age would top out at 40. Young people don't want older people around. It doesn't dampen it for me, it makes it better. I also think that people around a similar age group get along better. (like monkey club has 20/30s nights or 30/40's nights) it's much better because you know roughly who will be there. Not saying that a 20 year old can't get along with a 40 year old or get it on. But I'm talking a majority of the 20's age group wouldn't be into that. I heading fast to my 40's now and I wouldn't want to go to a party that had 20 year olds. I also know what I like and don't like. I like younger men, so I specifically put in my search an age range that only suits me, and I never read messages that didn't go into my "matching" box, because i knew I wouldn't be attracted to them. So in conclusion, I prefer the age limits or specifications. however I know everyone has different opinions and thats fine with me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
From a purely physical or sexual perspective, age limits have never really put any limits on having fun for me. I have never had any problems attracting younger and older women. Where it can affect things is going beyond the sexual/physical, wherin a 20 year old generally won't have the life experience of someone older and the mental connection can be a little more problematic. The problem I see with a lot of people over 40 these days is that they look, act and dress 'old'. You can't blame a younger person for feeling like they are about to have sex with someone who reminds them of their mother or father. I guess if you always try and keep a youthful and energetic approach to life, then you will not only enjoy life more, but you will be more attractive to a wider range of people. And, you can't expect to be everything to everyone........if you understand and accept that then you won't worry about what you don't have or can't get and be happier in general
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi OP, Your post actually covers a number of issues. Targeted age ranges for events I can certainly understand that as the holder of the event want to attract a certain crowd. Some people will feel uncomfortable if the is a large group of guys aged 50+ sitting around perving. Regardless of the fact that may all be great guys it is just the comfort factor for the group. As for Age being important or a factor in sexual attraction. There is no doubt it is a factor especially for "older males" the chances of an 18 year old seeing you initially as sexually attractive is remote. Don't get me wrong it is certainly possible for it to develop it is just remote. Now Age Play is another kink all on its own where the willingness to be a certain age is important. You dont actually have to be that age and in most case you wont but in this senario presumed age is critical. Do I feel that age limits are important to sexual attraction...No but that is the self serving answer. The reality is that many will and do and you have to respect that when that are open and honest. Cheers LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
but ......every single single guy over 40 we have played with has had erection issues . Limited quality time to play - I want intense quality play meets .....I don't want to have encourage erections - I want them to be unstoppable - so yes from experience under 40 is as low as I go for single men. I know it is not exclusive and possibly not general but in my experience it is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
We like what we like. And people choose age preferences becasue that is a decent guide as to the age of people some likes. They're not "missing out" on the fun with someone outside this range... they merely choose not to stick within their preference. Even you have your age limitations...... chev
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RHP User
10 years ago
somethings are better with age some good "pickles and whine" being usual examples. not too sure too many young men in thier 20s or early to mid 30s who have unstoppable sexual drive and appetite, energy and strength to go on would appreciate majority of say 45+ year old women .. yes there maybe a few that could handle some of it.. and do look great and encouraging for the man to want to keep going and giving them more of it.. the same goes for majority of women, if they are in their 20s or early 30s most of them would not be very happy and all turned on about having a group of 45 year old men or couples around them.. that being said the groups them self's can have so much fun among them self's doing all the unspeakable fun things they like to do added the rare few who do love to play way out of their age.. there is always the exceptional very fit seductive and amazingly charming person somewhere that could push anyone to break their normal rules .. however for majority of people having age limit on events is a great way to keep the events comfortable and fun for everyone saying that its good to socialize and make friends with all groups and get to know people doesn't always mean u going to want to play with them so maybe meet and greets could be an exception
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RHP User
10 years ago
But fat unkempt old ppl is an issue for us :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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CompersionCouple
10 years ago
We've had a fair few issues with people judging us because of our age gap. We don't understand or really care about it. We're together because we r best friends, training partiners, lovers & in love. We're happy if we can get people to just turn up when they say they will & that they haven't lied about themselves on there profiles. My mans in his middle 40's, is fitter & in better shape than 95% of guys in the 20's. He can get his cock hard instantly & keep it hard for hours. So what's the issue with age cause when there's attraction & connection the fun starts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
You cant count Doms/Mistress or age play...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chev, I could have sworn you were more than ten years older than me, did you change your age? Why?
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Andyjayyy
10 years ago
From what I have found from being asked to join others - age generally seems rather less important than being with someone with a sexy nature and them having the right attitude and cleanliness (told young guys attitudes generally suck especially when with a married couple). I'll be honest and say a sexy feminine shape is a big turn on. I'd rather be with a hot, sleek 45 year old than less hot 18 year old. I was recently asked to join a couple where the lady was 48 and she was dam hot in body and mind and I'd join her anytime over a less sexy younger lady. I was pleasantly surprised when a very attractive newly married couple of just 24 asked to keep seeing me (they liked that I was rather fit, capable etc) but I realise that such an age gap is not for every lady. I'd hope that everyone looked a little beyond the raw age number and judged each person on a few other attributes. PS: I', pretty sure I don't dress old and have never have needed any special encouragement to get or stay hard (lucky me :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have found that "age" is not really a factor. In fact, I believe that "age" is like a bottle of wine, "it only gets better with age" eh!? And "old wood is best to burn"!! I am only 42 and most of the "young" ladies on ere that I have corresponded with are older than me. They're wise, experienced and loaded with wisdom and less likely to fuck me around. And besides, I love my baked flour and water!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
if you have no real deal breakers.... Where do YOU draw the line??? I really think you're bordering on being a hypocrite underneath that facade..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had my best sexual experiences with much younger men xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
People over 50 aren't worth sleeping with... Aren't you also missing out on all the fun?
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chevtrek
10 years ago
What the hell does that mean.
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LifeUnscripted
10 years ago
People are allowed their preferences, and parties want to maintain a certain crowd. In Seattle there is a club that often has an older crowd, and as 40 somethings we would go and find ourselves approached constantly by people 20 years our senior. I don't mind that, but if there is no one there in your own age range then you just feel out of place. For us people around our own age are perfect. We have more in common, we are more likely to be attracted to them and also them to us. Too you and we are going to feel like the old fogies, too old and we don't find as much attraction. If you remind us of our kids or our parents it isn't going to work. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Regardless of age :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' What the hell does that mean. You're only looking for women between 18-50... I would have thought it was pretty obvious.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
But most would put 25 to 45 or25 to 50 or 20 to 30 and so on.They miss out on so much and I have played with up to 62.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Im kind of baffled at the purpose (???) of this topic. Are you suggesting people open up their general preferences ... under the assumption that by doing so.... we will enjoy the experiences? Why should I do that... if my experiences within my preferred age range are perfectly acceptable to me?!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that your favourite Bingo number Chev? XxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm genuinely curious: Are you really 52?
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Well because any one that knows me, knows I just can't help myself, when it comes to Chevs posts......oh and I'm glad I did, meander that made me giggle, I thought chev was older too, maybe he's just had a very hard life.....😝
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chevtrek
10 years ago
You should act like an adult not childish remarks,besides with the life I lead nothing you can saywould phase me.I have money , 4 homes and young lovers I evenbeat cancer.But thanks your childish attitude made me laugh.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Apparently, for every $5000 you spend on hair replacement programs, there is a legal requirement that you reduce your advertised age by 1 year. Hence the reduction of 10 years. Read that somewhere............"Advanced Hair Monthly" I think.......
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chevtrek
10 years ago
your just jealous.I don't play with both sexes yet still have more sex than you.Well at least you made us laugh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
NO NO NO!! We do not get old.. Only more experienced BTW..lascivious02 you are a youngen!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thats pretty much your age hun.... Whats your point? By your OP you are saying you are missing out? Why not start looking in the 60 - 80 yo group, then you wont miss out...according to your criteria. - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
The point is there would be more fun to be had if no age barriers.At the moment I play with girls 18 to 48 so why cant morebe like that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I suspect that your motivation for posting this is because you've been rejected by women because of your age and you take that personally. I see that quite a bit on here with some older men. Thing is though, you can't tell other people what they should like or do when it comes to sex and sexual preferences. I have my lower and upper age limits set for particular reasons, no they aren't set in stone but generally I find that the men I am most attracted to are within that age range. That's it, and I don't need to explain or justify myself to you or anyone else for that. You can't tell me I should play with someone that I'm not attracted to, and thanks but I'm not missing out on anything. Frankly, I'm not even sure why it should bother you so much, because as you keep reminding us you have your group of nubile young subs to keep you entertained. My advice is to you, is you do your thing and just let everyone else make their own decisions about who they want to get down and dirty with. And don't take it personally if you're not everyone's cup of tea.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
If you read the post I am talking about in general not mehowever on some occasions I do miss out but there loss not mine.To believe that good sex comes from your own age group is the reason so many don't have good sex and as for the girls I dohave sex with at least they were smart enough to try all age groups to get the satisfaction they were seeking.In fact it was me who avoided younger ladies for 5 years go read my old posts.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've read quite a lot of your old posts. I have no desire whatsoever to revisit them. I don't even know why I'm responding on this thread. Twice now, even. Procrastination at its best. Anyway, as I knew would happen when I wrote my comment, you didn't take any notice of what I said at all. Firstly, yes I realise you were speaking generally but I was referring to your underlying (i.e. unspoken) motivation for posting the topic. Furthermore, everything you are saying about people missing out on good sex by having age preferences is just your opinion. If I am not attracted to somebody, I will not have good sex with them even if I follow your advice and fuck them anyway. Doesn't matter how great they are at said fucking. And yes, I have no problem admitting that for me, age does come into the attraction equation, both in terms of physical and non-physical aspects. Obviously the women you are currently seeing have different preferences. A big yay for diversity hey? Basically, my last message to you - which I'm sure you will ignore - is to stop telling people who they should fuck. It's really annoying.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' The point is there would be more fun to be had if no age barriers.At the moment I play with girls 18 to 48 so why cant morebe like that. Set yourself free chev......... open your own barrier past 48....... out to 99year olds. Don't be a hypocrite.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
But in all seriousness, I thought you are an old looking 52, so I assumed you'd had a hard life, oops silly me..... As for all your money, houses and young lovers (so we are calling them lovers now not subs, good for you), I'm happy for you sweetpea, I really am. But it just goes to show that with all your money and worldly possessions you still don't have my respect, something's you just can't buy, but you could always look into a little surgery for yourself..... Now back to the OP, Chev you've posted plenty of times that you don't play with older women 40+, you've bagged us out saying we are boring, never want to try new things and this is the reason to prey on young girls.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chev, you're responding to everyone but me and I'm feeling ignored. Was my question too hard?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought you were engaged to be married to your 18 year old sub? But your profile says you haven't found love yet? What is that about?!?!?!?!
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RHP User
10 years ago
he's given up trying to intimidate me too 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I live reading the forums when ever chev post there a Crack up :)) As for age we'll I get rejected by all age groups lol I don't complain I just shrug shoulders :))
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Meander - yes I am 52 but for some reason pics make me look olderand somebody said surgery I say no way .Meeka - To be honest getting married again scares me and besidesI am having to much fun.Sir stir - To busy in fact this is being answered by me --- Susie.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am often blown away by what I see as age preference especially the older looking for younger. Sure that is their preference but I kind of see it as trying to live something you didn't when you were young. I also think ones idea of what is sexy changes as you age. You see character traits that are beautiful that may not have been as important when younger and thinking with the wrong head. I also think our past, good and bad experiences can dictate our preferences. No matter what though if you connect with someone you connect and that is the important thing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Meander - yes I am 52 but for some reason pics make me look olderand somebody said surgery I say no way .Meeka - To be honest getting married again scares me and besidesI am having to much fun.Sir stir - To busy in fact this is being answered by me --- Susie. So it's Susie who's 52? You nearly tricked me.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I am 40 Steve is 52
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Ahhhhhh the mystical comment insert....... coz that always looks genuine. Chev.... you crack me up. OOps.... I mean.... Susie
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who the hell is Susie..40 years young....Are you the uber busy Chev's amanuensis ?xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Actually Chev is into crossdressing. Chev is by day, Suzie by night........ Chevy, we need to get together. I can give you some makeup tips. Get you down to 35 years old....
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chevtrek
10 years ago
You can dream whichway
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Chev can teach you the unlimited potential for dreaming.........
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