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Age stereotypes...
September 15 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
From my perspective, although I am still attracted to younger guys at my age, all of the really young guys I have had over the past few years have been immature and inexperienced, but that is only from my experience. These younger guys tend to not have what it takes to pleasure me, and although I prefer mutual control, I find myself dominating to get what I want from the experience...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know your thread is requesting answers from younger guys but I'm afraid the majority of them message me requesting me to please teach them a thing or 7.....I'm sure there are many experienced and skilled young men around but the fact is they do not have the sexual experience and maturity and life experience they will have in 10 or 20 years time..I don't assume you are immature or sexually inexperienced, I just assume your 40 year old counterpart is likely to be more mature and more sexually experienced. I make this assumption from my own experience as I have had plenty of sex with young men, back when I was young myself. The reason my sex life improved as I got older is that the men were getting older and more experienced too, alongside me..It's a catch-22 situation for you young uns, and I sympathize with you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had sex with plenty of guys your age...when I was that age as well. The young guys do seem to ask for me to teach them a thing or seven and it is not a case of maturity at all. I am sure that some 18 year olds are very mature. I know of men in thier 40's who are extremely immature. It is not about having to take control as there are many older men who are submissive as well. Plenty of older men have only been in one relationship thier whole lives and have little to no experience when it comes to women at all. I just could not see myself with someone of your tender years I am sorry. My oldest child is 34. Had she given birth at 16 my grandchild would be your age and that is just a little creepy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm glad you picked up on that Macky DJ. There was an undercurrent of discussion planting the suggestion and whilst I'm pretty sure there's a lot of lads who will just get on with it and do what they're told... there's also a lot of cock sure adventurists out there teasing the fuck out of these wily old cougars with their magnificent bodies, sharp minds, deep blue eyes and delightfully dapper black and white photograph avatars. Well done.Well spotted.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Many of the young guys requesting me to teach them the ways of BDSM have enough sexual maturity to want to experiment and explore their urges. One of the compliants I often hear from these guys is that the girls their age view anything kinky as bad and they don't have the confidence to experiment. If I was single I wouldn't take on someone of your age. Not because I don't think they would be good in bed but because they would be young enough to be my son and that is not something I find a turn on. That and the fact that it would make me feel so bloody old....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Misstress they are completely correct hahaha, girls my age are usually terrified, although saying that one allowed me minimal experience with tieng up haha. Thanks for the sympathy but i dont believe it will be too bad, seem that i get alot of attention from potential cougars, so ill tease the fuck out of them ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think if you really want to learn more... You should have MFM on your interests. huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't mean to sound silly, MFM is 2 Blokes and a girl isn't it?Never really tried any of that but i spose it'd be an adventure haha.:)
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41' I think if you really want to learn more... You should have MFM on your interests. sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Watch, Learn, Practice ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well in my experience, the younger guys don't really do it for me. It's not that they want to be controlled, its that they are just too inexperienced and want to be taught a thing or two. At my age, I dont want to teach a man what to do.... I like a man who knows already.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not at all the "younger guy" but one of the commonalities of the younger person may be a perception of themselves, their actual maturity and what it all means. Your life experiences, be they emotional, intellectual or sexual are going to be highly relevant to your age albeit that "gap" lessens over time. The three words again come to mind..."compared to what". A young person that describes themselves as "dominant and taking control" would be very much different to a male or female in their 30s or 40s...and the age/experience paradigm is enormous. I could, by example meet a woman 10 years my junior or senior and we would most likely be on the same page...that would be very different and highly improbable amongst other things for a young person just barely through high school. Be patient and enjoy where you are now...I would almost bet one of those "old" 25 year old women might just teach you a thing or two. | Good luck and enjoy the journey.
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RHP User
13 years ago
is like any other variable... depends upon my mood at the time as to which flavour I feel like... consuming ;) Having said that, anyone more likely to hang out with my son or my parents is less likely to get in my pants! There are lines lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quote' ' seem that I get alot of attention from potential cougars , so I'll tease the fuck out of them.'......tsk tsk,.....your immaturity is showing, making a comment like that show's you still have a long way to go..
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missangelina
13 years ago
Hi,I actually joined here expecting to meet guys within 10-15 years of my own age. However because most of the guys who contacted me were 20-40 I decided to be adventurous and chat with and meet some. Having had most of my experience with guys 20-30 years of age now on RHP (who seem to be the main ones who often contact me) there is a big variety in maturity and experience in that age group and there certainly is a percentage who seem to want to be taught by an older woman and probably do need lessons. But I have not found they want to give over control to me at all nor do I have any desire to train them. Most men are very independent open and assertive about what they want sexually regardless of whether they are 20 or 50. Possibly the younger ones are more flexible about trying new things but this is not the same as giving control to the woman.However that said, the best lover I have ever experienced is a a 21 year old - 32 years my junior - I met this year and had an ongoing relationship with for a few months. This made me rethink all my perceptions about age. He was incredibly mature for his age and an amazing lover and did not need to be taught anything. He was a very perceptive guy physically and emotionally - we spent hours in bed together. The lucky girl who gets him is in for the orgasmic ride of her life! I have decided how turned on a man makes me feel or how good a lover he is - has little to do with age or experience - it is about the person and how open you both are to having a great experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get quite a bit of contact from younger guys, and unfortunately the majority tell me they are inexperienced and want to learn some new skills. This was the reason I increased the minimum age in my "looking for" to 30. I want someone who is confident in their ability, is experienced, can last the distance , and is able to pleasure me. In my experience younger guys, especially inexperienced ones, are only interested in getting themselves off I am not saying that all younger guys are like this (my "looking for" age is now 25 becuase I was pleasantly surprised by someone), but the majority are. I cant speak for other women but this is why I personally wouldnt see someone your age.
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RHP User
13 years ago
YOU milady are a shining gem......... Quoting 'missangelina' Hi,I actually joined here expecting to meet guys within 10-15 years of my own age. However because most of the guys who contacted me were 20-40 I decided to be adventurous and chat with and meet some. Having had most of my experience with guys 20-30 years of age now on RHP (who seem to be the main ones who often contact me) there is a big variety in maturity and experience in that age group and there certainly is a percentage who seem to want to be taught by an older woman and probably do need lessons. But I have not found they want to give over control to me at all nor do I have any desire to train them. Most men are very independent open and assertive about what they want sexually regardless of whether they are 20 or 50. Possibly the younger ones are more flexible about trying new things but this is not the same as giving control to the woman.However that said, the best lover I have ever experienced is a a 21 year old - 32 years my junior - I met this year and had an ongoing relationship with for a few months. This made me rethink all my perceptions about age. He was incredibly mature for his age and an amazing lover and did not need to be taught anything. He was a very perceptive guy physically and emotionally - we spent hours in bed together. The lucky girl who gets him is in for the orgasmic ride of her life! I have decided how turned on a man makes me feel or how good a lover he is - has little to do with age or experience - it is about the person and how open you both are to having a great experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
new is not always better and older is very seldom colder each to their own depending what you are looking for.
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RHP User
13 years ago
He was quoting me.... oops.HUgsStalky Quoting 'justjuice' Quote' ' seem that I get alot of attention from potential cougars , so I'll tease the fuck out of them.'......tsk tsk,.....your immaturity is showing, making a comment like that show's you still have a long way to go..
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