RHP

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Agelessness

July 11 2012

Do you find that as you get older you find yourself attracted to people you wouldn't have found physically attractive when you were younger? Or are you still attracted to the same physical types?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That is because with maturity USUALLY comes wisdom. I find the mind a far bigger turn on now. Not really interested in the posturing of the little-boy-neanderthals any more. Although...they are always good for a laugh and a good hard fuck every now and then.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have found I am more open minded to older men.   I used to have a problem with men closer to my mothers age than my own (especially considering my mother isnt that much older than me). Now though I am a bit more flexible with these things.   Kisses Focus

  • blkcapricornday

    blkcapricornday

    12 years ago

    When I was 18-25 I tended to avoid girls my own age, preferring that older sex appeal. Lately however I seem to be developing a desire for that cute young thing, who has a secret want for the company of an older guy - the dynamic of age variation can be so yum! - still have a soft spot for older ladies though ;)I guess that's what makes the journey interesting. You change along the way and so do your desires.Great topic!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've always been attracted to guys 5 or so yrs younger or older but never interested in the toy boy.....way to young and inexperienced for my liking.The more mature experienced guy is my choice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    most definitely changed...now i go for the "whole package" rather than just looks...

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    As ive got older i find i'm more turned on by the mind than to a degree the body. Yes the physical is important but the chemistry is far more stimulating.So yes as ive got older the taste has improved.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When I see a pic and a profile of a lovely man, AND he's in his mid to late 40s, oohh lah lah ... heart all aflutter!   Younger men are gorgeous, but it's impossible to imagine what they'd want with an old chook like me, other than a casual f**k, which I'm not interested in.   I cottoned on to the confident, mature man a few years ago. Before that, it was all about the youthful guy with the gorgeous body.   Funny how things change :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Then and now. Not just a nice buff body (which is nice), but full-on, hard-core bodybuilders. Then, it was all about the body. Now, it's more about the focus, discipline, dedication and knowledge that I know takes to achieve those results. And I'd be lying if it's not still about the body too...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its the other way around...alot more attention by younger older fems and males nowadays.been told and approached by totally different types.one couple half me age got it together and explained how they knew what could be delivered by older man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Definitely...an I'm not even 30 yet. When I was younger I was only attracted to the looks displayed by the media. I'm starting to find that each women have their own attractiveness.

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    12 years ago

    And here I was thinking this was gonna be something about the fountain of youth.......lol Or perhaps a chat on the Aes Sedai......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is indeed the fountain of youth, or fountains of youthsx Hugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09' And here I was thinking this was gonna be something about the fountain of youth.......lol Or perhaps a chat on the Aes Sedai...... is coming out Crazy. Sadly I know exactly what you refer to (and I own them all)   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Age isnt so much an issue for me,   If the Girl / Women is sexy it doesnt matter her age, aslong as she is 18 and probably not older than 50.   Sexyness can be alot of things, doesnt have to be Media types.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Anyone with a pulse. ohh yea and tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    makes one look forward to one's mid forties......

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    12 years ago

    And cant wait for the final one......hehehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I understand perfectly....no one had better even think about talking to me when its out...Im hibernating that day   Kisses Focus

  • Culturedanimal

    Culturedanimal

    12 years ago

    The horniest lady I ever knew was 50. Knew what she wanted and made sure there was no beating around the bush. Then again there are ladies like Lost_Focus who give her a run for her money. I suppose both are border line crazy when it comes to sex but like they say the brain is the sexiest organ.   Culturedanimal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i think i am looking for more "soulfulness" nowadays, in a man...a beautiful, 25 year old male body...all toned, tight and bronze...can be very yummy indeed...but if that's all he has going for him...but no charisma...no personality...style or intelligence..i find nothing stirs in me...

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    12 years ago

    We both still have the same lustful sinful tastes :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When I was 21 I liked older women just because they knew how to get the best out of me Now it"s just because I find they can hold my attention. I love a woman who can get you interested just through a look, or laugh like they mean it. Mike

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I do have the option to be selective - if I choose to be- When I was younger I was happy to enjoy whatever came my way lol And it is that "total package" that generally will get the extra points, sexy & wicked attitude - yum - td&h

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    actually...just about exactly the same....blonde busty and athletic types have always done it for me... but at 15 i had the hots for one particular miss..... who eventually became my wife...albeit some 35 years later......and she looks as good now, as she did then...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In her younger years a friend of mine sought out the company of tall, young, buff, blonde men. It didn't matter how they treated her as long as they were good looking. I recently came across her facebook profile and found she had married and divorced a couple of handsome blondes and is now seeing a shortish, overweight, nearly bald guy. It got me thinking about physical types and characteristics and whether they matter as we mature, things like grey hair, the odd wrinkle or a bit of a belly. Or are there still some that are looking for their perfect physical type?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i think a verse from a song best describes our journey   " On Raglan road on an Autumn day, i saw her first and knew that her dark hair would weave a snare, that i would someday rue i saw the danger, yet i walked, along the enchanted way and i said let grief be a falling leaf , at the dawning of the day !     no matter whether you are 30 or 60 its all in the heart the beauty will away ? and its always in the eye of the beholder regardless of age.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have always said younger guys being with older women are training to look after their younger wives. :) Quoting 'blkcapricornday'When I was 18-25 I tended to avoid girls my own age, preferring that older sex appeal. Lately however I seem to be developing a desire for that cute young thing, who has a secret want for the company of an older guy - the dynamic of age variation can be so yum! - still have a soft spot for older ladies though ;)I guess that's what makes the journey interesting. You change along the way and so do your desires.Great topic!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sensualtimestoo'i think i am looking for more "soulfulness" nowadays, in a man... a beautiful, 25 year old male body...all toned, tight and bronze...can be very yummy indeed... but if that's all he has going for him...but no charisma...no personality...style or intelligence.. i find nothing stirs in me...Charisma, is like milk with the cream. Indulgent!