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Airing my dirty laundry
January 31 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
.... that took a degree of courage and honesty ... more power to you Uly
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry to hear you are leaving because of someone else's poor judgement and behaviour. All the best LG
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pussywillow26
9 years ago
Hi red im very sorry to hear u were lied to an tricked by some one who wasnt brave enough to be honest with u an the other women he is stringing along an pls dont think u dont belong here dont ket the assholes of the world dictate how u roll stay ture an honest babes an pls know there's heaps of good honest ppl here just like u good luck babes hope u don't feel like a idiot for to long lifes full of surprises dont loose hope theres good an bad ppl everywhere - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've never read any of your posts or chatted to you, but it's sad that you could miss out on meeting some honest guys in here that may be exactly what you're looking for because one guy wasn't honest with you. Whether you change your mind and choose to stay, or whether you decide to leave, I hope you find someone who fits what you're looking for and is totally honest with you. xx
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Chin up. Take some time out and see you again when you are ready. Annoe
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RHP User
9 years ago
You got caught up in someone else's games... I assume that you never met either one of them . It has obviously affected you deeply ,it's important not to make any emotional investment until you actually meet in person because many people for one reason or another do this ..but there are many good and ethical men here,don't go because of one that is not ..hugs xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't leave because of this. It wasn't your fault. Things can happen that make you feel really down and ask yourself what's the point? Believe me, I've been there a few times, but once the dust settles, life goes on and you find better guys who fit better with you. I pulled my profile last year when emotions were running high, different situation but felt the same way, but regretted it almost immediately and rejoined a few days later. I'd hate to see you go, love seeing your beautiful face and reading your posts, I really mean that. Give it some time 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
that they feel the need to lie about their relationship, but as is sadly the case too often, innocent people get hurt due to others selfish needs. Give it time, as others have said life goes on, yours will be better with one less liar in it.
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lovebitten
9 years ago
People who lie are pathetic, please don't curtail your life because of the actions of others! They are not worth it! Very best of luck and best wishes! Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't leave because of this your not the only 1 to have this happen 💋 don't let what happened change you xxx stand strong and know it's him that's the idiot - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That would be disappointing..You're not a fucking idiot in my opinion. People lie. People trust..I sincerely hope you only meant you would be getting out of their relationship. That was a well put and phrased post imo. Peachy
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
I'm so sorry you are hurting. For what it is worth, I don't think you're a "fucking idiot". We have never chatted, but I've always been impressed with your contributions on the forums, you seem like a caring, compassionate soul. Take some time for yourself, you deserve to be happy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I met a man on another site who told me he was single..we saw each other a couple of times .He worked as a nurse so had the perfect excuse to cancel at the last minute. Finally he told me that when we first met he was indeed separated but he and his wife were now back together..when I asked him why he lied ..his profile still said he was single...he replied that married men rarely get roots...hence I am now cautious about men who say they are separated...xxFreya
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
Does not make you an idiot.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was sorry to read your post. I think most of us can relate on some level. At times, people seriously suck. Take some time out but don't stay "out" if that's not what you really want. Do what you've got to do and come back, ready to take on the world. Some words Don't let yourself be controlled by three things: PeopleMoney or Past experiences
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RHP User
9 years ago
is key.... Forgive those who wrong by you...they posess not the intelligence of your person.... But most of all.... Forgive yourself......for ignorance you had no choice in accepting..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
9 years ago
OP, please don't think that! You were being genuine but someone was being deceitful and manipulative. That is not your fault! Please do not blame yourself for it. And please do not leave because of this distasteful, nasty incident. There are many nice guys out there for us to meet! It's not the end of the world yet!
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RHP User
9 years ago
If Ive read it correctly, you were seeing a guy who said he was single and you both had strong feelings for each other. And you have discovered he is already in a relationship and both have single profiles on here. OK.You cant blame yourself in any way. If he has hurt you this badly, shame on him for doing that to you. And shame on him for not telling his partner. He will probably ruin his other relationship and there will be no trust. So he will loose out in the end. Hopefully if he actually cares about the people he hurts,he will at least learn from the pain he has caused.
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RHP User
9 years ago
you got played-Swallowed hook- line -sinker-fishing boatcatch- tag-release-is the sportfor steak and three veg awaits at home
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will sort it out.... Sorry to hear you have been 'played'. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
*chuckles*I very much doubt karma will sort anything out..
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RHP User
9 years ago
WHY do you call yourself a "fucking idiot"?You advertised a service in/for yourself.Someone answered.You played and found out later he was attached..she contacted you and blasted you?or wailed..?THEN you find out SHE and HE are both on here as singles?IS this right so far or am I misreading your post?tell them both to get fuckedIF he was a good fuck.. then "Excellent" enjoy the memoryIf he was a dud.. then try again for another fella.. and don' worry about his bullshit OR his lied to wife/partner..DID YOU go to their wedding and make a vow that you would NEVER try to fuck either of them?I know I never did..If a woman wants to fuck me, and I want it to happen, then hell.. it will happen..AND if her hubby finds out about it.. then he is welcome to come and make something personal about it.It is HER that did wrong.. and IF her hubby comes after me.. then it is because he is a fckn pussy with no balls to confront the real culprit .. which is his fckn lying cheating wife/girlfriend ..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very disturbing. I guess this happens more often than we care to know. The danger of falling for someone we don't see coming can happen to anyone. Someone said this will pass and it will , don't be any harder on yourself than needs be. Learn from this experience and move on . No need to go anywhere. Plz stay ..
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
OP, you must be hurting?? You have emotions and feelings just like anyone else has. You are Human! I am going to say something here that might offend some. How I see it is, you got involved in a messy situation- A drama Triangle. There's three sides to this. Some may support you, some might support the other woman, some might support the man. At the end of the day this is what happens when meeting people on the net. No one knows for certain outcomes. Please look after yourself. YOU are important and are a valuable human being. It's tough out there. Give yourself time to grieve and process. It's ok to feel what ever you feel, doubt yourself, get pissed off, feel remorse etc, remember memories. Just look after yourself- that's really important to get through this. Ms Foxy xxx
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I agree. Karma will not sort this out. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
there MAY be another side to the story....Another explanation maybe?I don't know.. BUT.. there USUALLY is...and old saying.."The HIS side... the HER side.. and the REAL side"*shrugsWe as humans attempt to gather allies around ourselves when we feel we have been wronged.. or feel we have in fact fckd up ourselves..We NEED validation on where we stand.OP...IF you have been TRUELY wronged.. then I Am sorry for you..But... IF..."Ah.. wtf.. who gives a fck what this old caveman thinks....?"
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't let anyone dull your sparkle 💋
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