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Altenative first date ideas
June 26 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
tennis, mini golf, pool, cafe catchup and wander in kings park, indeed indeed, good ideas and more or a unique/quirky bar/cafe that isnt just the standard box coffee/drink place with no personality do something that creates a talking point outside of just yourselves
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nude dating? 😏 You might as well check out the full package 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
7 years ago
Nothing to energetic. At my age I might have a coronary 😜 Though fishing could be ok. As long you can throw the catch back in if it's not to size. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
My first dates are always sex, sometimes immediately, if meeting outdoors, might chat for a bit, but sex will follow 😛😜 So if I had to incorporate another activity lol I would love to do something like throw a frisbee/vortex/football but on the beach. I'm not that good at volleyball but I'd give that a crack too 👍
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Nothing like "tilting a pinny" or a game of space invaders/defender to break the ice and get some laughs happening. OR maybe that's my inner geekette being set loose Indy
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RHP User
7 years ago
than sitting across a table from a woman for the first time... making eye contact, watching her reactions, talking, laughing (if you are lucky) and assessing the person... feeling and delving into her personality.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe not this time of year, but a picnic, on the banks of the river or down at the beach. Glass of wine, some nice cheese and olives, laze, graze and chat.
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RHP User
7 years ago
..then once you've arrived at your very ''exclusive table'', toss her a room service menu. Eat in and eat out...all at the same price and on the same platter! ...bonus!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
BBQ cooking class - see how she handles the sausage; Spin class - sit on the bike right behind her and watch; or Go to the park - watch her feed the ducks.
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RHP User
7 years ago
At a whisky tasting dinner ... it was awesome! Whisky from around the world, antipasto platter, lots of inappropriate touching in public and yes he got lucky later .... It was too good to be true though, second date was at his .... but we 'played in the spare room coz he'd just cleaned his bed and I'm too messy' ... Third date ... the lovely other Hotwife joined, he chose to wank whilst she and I played ... loser lol 😂 Op, pick up hints in your discussions with possible dates and try to organise a date around that. Sadly, I have to admit I haven't been dated .... ever actually, lol 😂 Mary xx
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Sawadee
7 years ago
..the traditional dinner and a few drinks . Gives both the feel for each other before throwing a frisbee or leg.. Nuff said..
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RHP User
7 years ago
We went to a "masterclass" recently, that was interesting but very squashy with the number of people. Leg room comes in handy - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
Aaaaannnd Den A swingers club to go as spectators. Great DATE btw 😉nice smile too😆 Hole in One!🏌⛳
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
I've had coffee dates during work breaks, I've gone to dog parks with our puppies, I've gone to watch them play a game of footy, I've had first dates at swingers clubs and nude beaches. I even went on a 10km hike in Summer in the Lamington National Park in 38' degree heat once, he was 25 and l realised about 5 km in l was now not 😂😂😂.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Call me boring but a drink or coffee is fine for a first date. Who wants to sit through a picnic or a round of golf with someone you don't relate too ? Or perhaps even can't stand ! Second date ideas would work for me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is always hard because I'd ya pull the good stuff out for every first date you'll end up broke haha but once the first date hi and chat is out the way I like going and doing something that involves physical participation. Helps alleviate awkward silences. Anything that can make ya laugh or get ya excited.... whatever that may be 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
With Sailbad..coffee or a drink...keeps it short and sweet..you can always go back for more.I have spent too much time having lunches or dinners with people I just couldn't relate to..apart from a waste of time I also found it exhausting.Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't want to agree to anything until I have actually met the person.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
But l like meeting people and having a laugh. And feel kind of lucky that people would like to go on a date with me. I also like to think I'm not that shallow to not be an adult for a couple of hours and have a civil conversation with someone regardless if they may not be what l expected l certainly don't think it's a waste of time. Unless they're a complete fucktard I'm happy to at least give someone a chance if they've made the effort to meet me even if it's just for a gym session.
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RHP User
7 years ago
...at my loft in the city. And if she falls off the bike after testing just a few good vintages, I can do CPR. Complete P**** Response is entirely dependent on the woman? ...postage stamps. Lick 'em, stick 'em and send them along their way.
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RHP User
7 years ago
if you throw your leg over, then a Frisbee, I might let you take me out to dinner 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
of my first dates have been a little left of centre, very public in a sense, with people only a few feet away, but unaware of said activity right near them 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don't know. I think there's a lot to be said for the "Traditional Date.". If the the purpose of the date is getting to know each other a bit better, then a low intensity environment is probably best cos then you both can focus on what you're there for....getting to know each other.I'd consider the frisbee, pushbikes and wine in the park to be traditional too. But jumping off a bungee tower, whitewater rafting or the like, would be a missed opportunity, I reckon.You wouldn't see them as they really are...just hyped on adrenaline.
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RHP User
7 years ago
When you get to my age, there is a bit of urgency, particular with my preferences 😉 Go hard or go home I say 😂😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ok... not ultimate... that is yet to come. But best so far was... I walk into one of my favourite restaurants... it is like being in Paris... (yes the waiters are really French). I see her seated halfway through the restaurant and must walk past two of the waiters as I walk to our table... as I pass them by I hear them say (accent and all) "look at that, someone is a lucky man" (a grin on my part). A peck on her cheek as I sit across the table from this beautiful, intelligent woman I have only met once previously (for a quick drink). Conversation is pleasant, light and polite, each of us assessing the other... a bottle of Sancerre... some fine food... but she is constantly wriggling. I raise the subject of her passions and predilections... she is quite forthright about her kinks (of this I am not surprised based upon previous conversations, but it is always better in the flesh. One element at a time, quite deliberately and obviously I part bottles, glasses etc. from the centre of the table, as conversation continues... I am listening to her wonderful voice... when there is a pause I simply lean forward, gently take her chin between my finger and thumb and draw her up and toward me. I meet her part way, my hand moves to her neck... firmly grasping as our lips meet. Just as well our plates had been cleared or both her beautiful shantung frock and my tie would have been our food. She sat, blushing, wriggling and excused herself to go to the ladies. Upon her return, fully regaining her calm, she drew something from her handbag and placed it in my hand. A pair of exquisite scarlet knickers, wrapped around a stainless steel jeweled but plug. I now knew why she had been wriggling. L'addition s'il vous plait! A wonderful and adventurous... but sadly not forever... relationship ensued
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I'm a multi tasker you know.. I can throw a leg and a frisbee at the same time.. and I can't help it if throwing a leg lasts longer than throwing a frisbee.. You know what they say , when ur on a good thing .. .? After the macca's all day breakfast of course.. 😜 😄
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha but I don't eat before throwing a Frisbee 😉 you have to keep me hungry, then we can go the all day breakfast after 😋😋😋
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've just bought 2 tickets to Sexpo in Brisbane .. I think that would be a great alternative first date ... or any date for that matter 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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