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Alterior motives...
October 26 2013
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Alterior motives Mes ??? Just how much of the bubbly dwalf have you had " Or are you just having a crack at my name ? Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes you regret it because you were not doing it for the right reasons.. For me trying to please someone else but that only lasts for like a minute. Then it's all good. It's only sex after all.... Not like you killed someone or something.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It was a serious question.
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RHP User
11 years ago
suspect Tall might have been referring to the spelling...although I could be wrong.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
My only motive is connectivity, fun and pleasure...... shared positive experiences. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've did the mercy fuck once or twice, and had sex because I was restless more than a couple of times. The only experience I regret was having sex to make someone feel better about himself and boost his confidence. Bad mistake, as he then thought I had feelings for him too and cried when I ended things.
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'suspect Tall might have been referring to the spelling...although I could be wrong. It was an in-joke. Yes I should have written ulterior, though alterior is often used meaning an alternate motive (incorrectly). But my answer remains the same.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fuck anyone to try and get someone else out if my head :( Didn't work, in fact because the sex was not very good it made things worse! I have also done it just because the opportunity presented itself. Both situations left me feeling pretty worthless :( I now realize I want quality over quantity And great quantities of quality would be a bonus - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrJingles
11 years ago
How cool would that be if all you had to do was have sex with someone if you made a mistake - Id be making a lot more mistakes :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why would anyone want to have sex with someone to get material things or out of pity??? I work my arss off, am employed in a secure job, I can buy my own things...I don't do 'mercy fuck' for anyone or anything..To me its unethical, so wrong...When I have sex with a person it is because there is mutual/physical/mental attraction...FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now come people I think everyone would have given at least one pity fuck out. Or have you been in situations where half way through you realize it just isn't working but you see it through to the end out of politeness. If you say no... I will show you a liar.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think lots of women do that don't they? I have known women to go on a paid holidays and they don't see anything wrong with fucking the guy in payment. What about all those princesses? They want to be wined and dined, flowers, shows, nice hotels.... At the end of the day the guy expects a fuck in return.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mesmerised so you had sex when you were feeling restless? Well sometimes I masturbate cause I can't sleep. Restless = need to come usually. :P Who cares, it's normal and natural. I don't think there is anything wrong with having sex cause it's a fun thing to do. As for fucking because it will impress others. Do you mean have sex with a particular person? No haven't done that. Or do you mean put a little performance on for a crowd of people.... Oops guilty as charged. Somebody spank me!! ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Mesmerised so you had sex when you were feeling restless? Well sometimes I masturbate cause I can't sleep. Restless = need to come usually. :P It's how I ended up at the CC on Sunday. As for fucking because it will impress others. Do you mean have sex with a particular person? Yes, as in sleeping with someone very hot, because you know your friends will be impressed. I'd like to hear from the guys about this one.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'suspect Tall might have been referring to the spelling...although I could be wrong. I was having a shot at Miss Mes as she has a penchant for correct spelling, but also as Mes said it is a play on my (real) name, so I was just having some fun with her too. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
ohhh sleeping with someone cause they Hot and telling friends about it...I call that boasting....ewwwwww turn off! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'Luckdragon23'suspect Tall might have been referring to the spelling...although I could be wrong. It was an in-joke. Yes I should have written ulterior, though alterior is often used meaning an alternate motive (incorrectly). But my answer remains the same. for butting in.
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RHP User
11 years ago
None of the above
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chevtrek
11 years ago
On occasion my exes want sex.How did I feel well I am a giver so I felt okafter all it was just sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
All good. You weren't.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nobody has ever thought. Hmm I could do the housework or I could have sex? Meh lets have sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
going through the list i realised at some stage or another i actually did them all i didnt really feel bad about it cause i kind of knew each time the situation and was kind of well defined in my mind...not really like achieving a goal, more liek getting a job done you have kind of accepted you will do lol I didnt do it to obtain something material, but something emotional from someone who has hurt me in the past and suddenly a couple of years later the tables magically turned and i couldn't resist.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me, fucking someone requires some form of chemistry... if there is no attraction, mental or physical, then I just won't do it.Never have, nor ever intend to have sex based on the questions posed and would hope my partners are of the same thought process when being with me. (won't judge their actions with others since you never know the motives)Sex is about mutual pleasure and thus requires trust and respect... there can be little or no respect in the scenarios you have listed.Sorry but that is just me.(Lets see if this post gets through... the filter monkeys mustn't have liked my last rendition )SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Now come people I think everyone would have given at least one pity fuck out. Or have you been in situations where half way through you realize it just isn't working but you see it through to the end out of politeness. If you say no... I will show you a liar. I wouldn't consider this a Pity Fuck... to me a Pity Fuck is where you start with the intention of having sex with someone you initially don't want to have sex with but do it anyway because you feel bad foe them.Deciding you don't like it half way though is more a "Misjudged Fuck" and then you have the moral dilemma... to finish out of courtesy or stop out of respect. Thankfully/Luckily haven't been in this situation yet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes...was the sex good...no...Would have enjoyed masturbating more...but she smiled and thanked me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have certainly had sex with a few people just because I we were both horny and both wanted sex...but I was not attracted to them. So just used them for sex. I did not feel guilty because we both wanted it and I always like to give pleasure. But it certainly was not great sex for me as there was little attraction or connection. So I have learnt I like to have some attraction/connection with a lover from these encounters.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' As for fucking because it will impress others. Do you mean have sex with a particular person? Yes, as in sleeping with someone very hot, because you know your friends will be impressed. I'd like to hear from the guys about this one. Yep... have some very alpha friends who think "scoring with a hot chick" makes them legends and gives them "street cred".... to me this is just shallow advertising and disrespectful to said "hot chick".SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
True! That reminds me of a lover doing me against the sink as I was trying to do the washing up.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Amicus.... Nobody said that those scenarios where not with somebody you may be in love with or someone that turns you on so much you forget yourself. Are they? You could still have a mercy fuck, or I am bored lets fuck, use sex as a bargaining tool to get what you want (I believe couples do that all the time. No?), or a OMG I am going to fuck you senseless until you forget that I forgot to water your favourite roses and now they are dead for example. I love the procrastination fuck myself. Hmmm housework or fuck?, grocery shopping or fuck?... Well you get the idea. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
But with the possible exception of "Because you had nothing better to do and were bored?" I still wouldn't do the rest with someone I love.Is there a procrastination fuck? Isn't this just prioritizing?
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' True! That reminds me of a lover doing me against the sink as I was trying to do the washing up. I just absolutely love that - coming in hard and deep from the back with your hands free to roam all over the girl (dribbling now)....kissing her neck and shoulders.... playing with her hair (OK gotta stop). Tall
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madotara69
11 years ago
I don't think there is anything that should have you feeling sorry for a guy helping you do the washing up.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
You never say "if you do his for me I will give you a blow job later" *wink wink* You know as a bit of harmless flirting fun? Wow. Sex is serious at your house then.
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RHP User
11 years ago
His = this. I remember I asked a long time ago why all those sad fucks went shopping with their girlfriends/wives and just stood around IN THE WAY looking bored to absolute death, well if they are lucky they get to sit in the "poor bastard" chair and look bored instead. Why do they do it! A lot of RHP blokes said.... So they could get a fuck. So maybe slightly different to Mes's question but to me it's still the same. You are either doing something to get sex or having sex to get something. Same same.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex has rarely been serious... deeply romantic and straight faced erotic sometimes, but usually more cloths flying, destroy the room fun with the occasional giggle at a ticklish spot or a running joke. Am all for the flirt, but flirting is one thing and doing is another. I have flirted quite a lot but don't ever remember using sex as a trading card (don't have that many tickets on myself).As for the BJ... any woman I'm with learns pretty quickly my stand on that.Maybe I should lighten up and get laid? (nearly 14 months and counting... does that qualify me as a Mercy Fuck?)SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
God, it's just sex!! Stop taking it so seriously peeps! I think I did all of the above during my marriage. Because I was sorry, because I knew he was sad, because I wanted him to give in to what I wanted, because I was angry with him (I know, if anyone figures that one out let me know), whatever! Since being single I've had sex out of boredom, when I've only been marginally attracted but needed sex, because I didn't want to hurt feelings and it seemed easier... Rare but it has happened and I did regret it afterwards, it just doesn't feel good/right. I think the longer I've been on here the wiser to the ways of my own best interests I've become. I certainly don't put myself in the position of having a mercy fuck anymore and I have a 'go to' or two if I'm just horny as all get out. Those who protest their 'pure' motives are just blowing smoke up their own arses. Time to get honest with yourself! Btw, never had sex to get 'something', willing to start a bidding war... My garden needs a lot of work! Lol 😜
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you referring to your lady garden? :P I think I have probably promised sex numerous times to the first person who brings me a huge chocolate cake. But it's got to be a good one, with a good topping. To me that it is a good exchange. I mean someone fucks me while I eat chocolate cake.... Doesn't get better than that people. ;-)
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Chillymofo
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Now come people I think everyone would have given at least one pity fuck out. Or have you been in situations where half way through you realize it just isn't working but you see it through to the end out of politeness. If you say no... I will show you a liar. Absolutely been there on more than one occassion haha.Have always taken charge and in many cases, partner will then become fully submissive.problem is, there is a big difference between, submissive and lazy!
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
So I suppose a BJ while I watch the footy and rest the beer you brought me on your head is a fsir exchange then.... lol DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ah no.... What am I getting out of that DG?? Sheesh! Well DG there has to be a fair exchange... And a lot of fun thrown in. But make all the fun you like... I am sure most of us can only aspire to be so perfect. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now bring me some pie, boy! LOL ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Misjudged fuck.... You stop in the middle of it out of respect? Well. Maybe but I have had a few misjudged fucks or at least times where I have decided a few minutes into it that it's going to be okay but my preference is probably to walk out. But I never would. That's just rude. Something that is totally my fault... I am too lazy to screen potential lovers and I don't like the online dating thing at all. Lately I have decided to meet new people at the CC but that is dumb as well because that is unlikely to lead to anything more... Which is what I want. So, for me I am not going to bother with it anymore .... The online thing that is. Don't most misjudged fucks turn into one night stands? If those are your feelings Amicus, lightening up I mean, why do you want to go to a swingers club? I am not sure I get it. And I thought I needed to lighten up about sex, which I do really as 99% of the time I am only with the people I know when I go to the clubs. Although, do you think it's weird that those people I fuck with my Strapon... I don't count them as people I have had sex with? Well kind of I guess...... Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71' God, it's just sex!! Stop taking it so seriously peeps! I think I did all of the above during my marriage. Because I was sorry, because I knew he was sad, because I wanted him to give in to what I wanted, because I was angry with him (I know, if anyone figures that one out let me know), whatever! Since being single I've had sex out of boredom, when I've only been marginally attracted but needed sex, because I didn't want to hurt feelings and it seemed easier... Rare but it has happened and I did regret it afterwards, it just doesn't feel good/right. I think the longer I've been on here the wiser to the ways of my own best interests I've become. I certainly don't put myself in the position of having a mercy fuck anymore and I have a 'go to' or two if I'm just horny as all get out. Those who protest their 'pure' motives are just blowing smoke up their own arses. Time to get honest with yourself! Btw, never had sex to get 'something', willing to start a bidding war... My garden needs a lot of work! Lol 😜
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75'Sex has rarely been serious... deeply romantic and straight faced erotic sometimes, but usually more cloths flying, destroy the room fun with the occasional giggle at a ticklish spot or a running joke. Am all for the flirt, but flirting is one thing and doing is another. I have flirted quite a lot but don't ever remember using sex as a trading card (don't have that many tickets on myself). As for the BJ... any woman I'm with learns pretty quickly my stand on that. Maybe I should lighten up and get laid? (nearly 14 months and counting... does that qualify me as a Mercy Fuck?) SGyou definitely qualify for the "What are friends for" fuck
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Misjudged fuck.... You stop in the middle of it out of respect? Well. Maybe but I have had a few misjudged fucks or at least times where I have decided a few minutes into it that it's going to be okay but my preference is probably to walk out. But I never would. That's just rude. Something that is totally my fault... I am too lazy to screen potential lovers and I don't like the online dating thing at all. Lately I have decided to meet new people at the CC but that is dumb as well because that is unlikely to lead to anything more... Which is what I want. So, for me I am not going to bother with it anymore .... The online thing that is. Don't most misjudged fucks turn into one night stands? If those are your feelings Amicus, lightening up I mean, why do you want to go to a swingers club? I am not sure I get it. And I thought I needed to lighten up about sex, which I do really as 99% of the time I am only with the people I know when I go to the clubs. Although, do you think it's weird that those people I fuck with my Strapon... I don't count them as people I have had sex with? Well kind of I guess...... Lol Had a few of these recently!! Just wanted to walk out after a few minutes into it!! And yes they turn into one night stands because there is No way you would go back for a second helping!! And Meeka its impossible to screen and know if some one is going to be a good lover just as the ones you think will be mediocre and turn out to be great lovers!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Since 42 isn't the answer... I will profer this... why do I post what I do? Why do I want to go to swingers clubs?... The simple answer is to open up and lighten up... to explore new and interesting things that have been subdued and hidden in the recesses of my mind since I was young. Eventually I may do things that I say I wont... that is the joy of evolution. 2 years ago you wouldn't have caught me at a Meet and Greet... now I cant wait for the next one... who knows what will be next? And no... it's not weird fucking a guy with a strapon. Also I would count a misjudged fuck as an unintentional ONS... there is nothing wrong with that, was just wondering which way people would go... continue or leave or a third option. . . SG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mr Trusty here.Years ago at a swingers club on the Gold Coast there was this awesome red headed sex goddess all dressed in leather walking around.She was about 40 and I was probably 30 or so.She was ticking about 3 of my fantasy boxes at once.She was going to go off like a rocket!Older woman,red head (go figure huh) and wearing leather.Checked with my partner and she said go for it.After a bit of a chat and some flirting we retired to a mattress with me still not believing my luck.Some kissing and foreplay as we get naked together..I nibble on her pussy for about about a minute or so and then she grabs my face and says "fuck me".Ok,bit sooner than I wanted because I like eating pussy but whatever, she is the bomb.I soon as slide into her she grabs me around the small of the back and holds me close and whispers "go slow and grind me" Ok,feels good and after a fair while try to pull out a fraction so i can pump her..but no, she hisses in my ear "go really slow and grind me,it's the only way I like it" all the while having me in a deathgrip so i can hardly move.In the end I got so fed up with it I just stood up and left her there with her mouth open glaring at me.So much for the fantasy.Maybe I was wrong to do it but I still remember it clearly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guilty of many mercy fucks. I'm still not sure if they're a show of arrogance and patronising or something sweet and chivalrous. Was put off them after a mutual mercy fuck, though it wasn't realised til after. A BAD experience. The details of which could lead to the subject of another thread: HIPSTERS AND GOOD SEX DON"T MIX!! At least this is the feeling from my research.Other than that, never had sex purely for personal/material/emotional gains.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Disclaimer; I (MrsParadise) was VERY young at the time. A girlfriend tried to sleep with my boyfriend. He told me in graphic detail how it played out. Months later the relationship with him was over (still friends 25 years later) but she was still around my social circle. She couldn't shut up about this guy she was hanging out with, who wouldn't go there because she was too young. She was even younger than me... When I met him I made sure I got what she couldn't have, not my kind of headspace these days at all but back then I was as self-centred as you would expect a teenager to be. That one night stand evolved into a friendship, and later a marriage.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can appreciate that. :)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'trustyntru' Mr Trusty here.Years ago at a swingers club on the Gold Coast there was this awesome red headed sex goddess all dressed in leather walking around.She was about 40 and I was probably 30 or so.She was ticking about 3 of my fantasy boxes at once.She was going to go off like a rocket!Older woman,red head (go figure huh) and wearing leather.Checked with my partner and she said go for it.After a bit of a chat and some flirting we retired to a mattress with me still not believing my luck.Some kissing and foreplay as we get naked together..I nibble on her pussy for about about a minute or so and then she grabs my face and says "fuck me".Ok,bit sooner than I wanted because I like eating pussy but whatever, she is the bomb.I soon as slide into her she grabs me around the small of the back and holds me close and whispers "go slow and grind me" Ok,feels good and after a fair while try to pull out a fraction so i can pump her..but no, she hisses in my ear "go really slow and grind me,it's the only way I like it" all the while having me in a deathgrip so i can hardly move.In the end I got so fed up with it I just stood up and left her there with her mouth open glaring at me.So much for the fantasy.Maybe I was wrong to do it but I still remember it clearly. You.... ignored her preference for pleasure.... and.... got up and left her?!Dude....... very petty.
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madotara69
11 years ago
who said the answer is not 42, you are tearing my heart out. I suppose next you will say Darth Vader won the saber fight with old Ben Kenobi, Or Buck Rogers rode with Astro Boy, Kimba The White Lion rooted Skippy.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didnt say it was weird.. Just that I don't consider them in my tally of people I have been with. Not that I really keep count. By the way, I have only fucked women with my Strapon at CC. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Now there is a picture that will burn in the imagination for a LONG time... Kimba The White Lion getting stuck up Skippy... there are some pretty weird and wonderful B-Grade "Sharktopus" type films getting around atm... just think, a cute fluffy white joey hopping around going Kujo on a small country town populous a'la Razorback whilst saying in a cute Penelope Schweetz voice "I just wanna be your friend".Too far?How about I just buy you a beer and we can forget the whole thing and go back to trying Jedi mind powers on the other forumnites... "These aren't the droids you are looking for, you will take off your knickers" ;)42 is my standard answer to the numerous 'I should know better but I'll ask ... cause I'm lazy' questions at work when people piss me off... and am still amazed by how many nerds don't get it!SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I didnt say it was weird.. Just that I don't consider them in my tally of people I have been with. Not that I really keep count. By the way, I have only fucked women with my Strapon at CC. ;-) Sorry, I took the "Although, do you think it's weird that those people I fuck with my Strapon... " bit as part of the question too.. my bad
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
I think the majority of us have done one or more of what you mentioned OP. Made me feel good n bad at the same time.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'Meeka100' I didnt say it was weird.. Just that I don't consider them in my tally of people I have been with. Not that I really keep count. By the way, I have only fucked women with my Strapon at CC. ;-) Sorry, I took the "Although, do you think it's weird that those people I fuck with my Strapon... " bit as part of the question too.. my bad One day I'll learn to read the whole message two or three times... must be slipping.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The sympathy fuck: nope I'd rather wank. To impress: what?? What's to gain?? Credibility as a male?? Meh I'd rather wank. Bored: I'd rather go flying. To get something in return: nope. I'd rather wank Revenge or to incite jealousy: well this is just pathetic in my view as it clearly means that I would be more invested in someone than they are in me. Or.....I've just simply over invested to what was on offer...... To gain forgiveness: nope. If I've fucked up, I say so. Though make up sex is kinda hot. You might call this all negative and shit. But at least it's honesty. I don't see sex as something I do.....I see it as something I share. Yes it's a high moral ground speech, but, sex to me IS special. Sex to me is a sign you've been let in to the inner sanctum of me. I don't give it out freely. - Posted from rhpmobile
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Mate you must be so bloated . 14 months !!! You are too nice a guy to torture yourself like that . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've walked out on a guy at the club, because the way he was fucking me made me feel uncomfortable. Would you say the same to me? I should have indulged his preference?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Yep. im very real. :-) If you told the guy.... and he didnt adjust.... ok, walk. But thats not the circumstance of the member I replied to. He was excited, living a fantasy, she invited him in, he wanted X, she said she 'needed' Y.... he wasn't happy..... and wasn't prepared to compromise for both. Perhaps SHE should have walked! ........& @ sirlurk.... well done that man. DG
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madotara69
11 years ago
I make Tara a cup of tea and toast in the mornings, that sure helps me get a root.Mado, Tara xx
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Yep. im very real. :-) If you told the guy.... and he didnt adjust.... ok, walk. But thats not the circumstance of the member I replied to. He was excited, living a fantasy, she invited him in, he wanted X, she said she 'needed' Y.... he wasn't happy..... and wasn't prepared to compromise for both. Perhaps SHE should have walked! ........& @ sirlurk.... well done that man. DG Being completely fair to Mes. Also you have made an assumption in your story that has not been stated by MrTryst. There is nowhere in his story where I can see that either agreed to any particular form of action. To me it appears three was the classic form of unclear communication between the two of them - neither perhaps was explicit enough in what they were both after. I believe an adjudication by MrTryst is in order to clear what exactly was communicated between them before certain assumptions are made. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Everyone has their own idea on right and wrong in this lifestyle.I'm not really much of a story teller but i did put in the facts.I'm not proud at all of what happened and I would probably handle it with way more finesse these days.Yes i did approach her and we decided to play and yes she seemed very desirable to me.Put simply for the first 45 minutes or so she got absolutely everything she asked from me without question.However when I tried to get a little of what I enjoy she basically told me it was her way or the highway....So I chose the highway.A few of the regular guys there told me later she was well known for her 'needs' and most avoided her.Rookie mistake i guess :)Yes I let the male side down by not being a gentleman but it's what happened and also from my understanding what the OP. was asking for,stories good or bad. We all have our choices to make and once made cannot be taken back.Have a great day.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Unfair to mes? 'fair' really has nothing to do with the comments made as they were not directed at her. In any case, you'll recall it was she who responded to me, t&h and .. questioning my 'realness' would be less 'fair'. Making assumptions is forming opinion based on the unknown. We can only work on what is presented. As was presented, he was invited to enter her. She made her preference clear. She wanted to grind. He accepted her 'terms'... They were in agreement....to a point... then he wanted to change those terms and 'pump'. Yes, the communication which, as I've often stated is vital, is not entirely unknown in this case. I've offered further explanation to my comment.... It is, how it is.... and even mrtryst suggested he may have been wrong at the time. I agreed. :-) DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
By the way MrTryst is a completely different person. You are both talking about MrTrusty who probably doesn't even know Mesmerised. DG's comments had nothing to do with Mes all. Have to say though at a club it's easy to just get up and go if it isn't happening for you. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sexy isn't something you do? You only let special people in. Yeah I used to feel that way and as a result spent most of my 30's celibate. Then I woke up to myself.... My cunt isn't paved with gold. Sometimes people need to lighten up. And as my mission I plan to corrupt as many people as possible. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sexy is something you do... And so is sex. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just disagreed with DG's statement that's all. I've never met Mr Trusty, and I'd rather be pumped than grinded. Just sayin'
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mr Tryst and I have not been to a swingers club yet, unless you know more than me? x Ms Shout- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A little bit of grinding is good though. *slurp*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well....I guess that's where you and I differ eh?? I am all for sharing someone's journey, not steering theirs :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Knew there was a 'y' in there somewhere. But to DG, the OP only said " After a bit of talking and flirting..." - we do not know the context of that conversation, so we do not know what forms of contact were discussed. The grinding part only came about after the conversation took place, so you're assertions about talking about X and Y do not come into the fore, as we don't know. As noted, we need the OP to clear up what the deal was. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Faaaaar out.. I must be with the wrong lover...I have to make my own coffee when I stay..they've cooked a scrupulous breakfast...does that count?? FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Upgrade to Courteous 2.0 ...Comes with:- Eggs Benedict, pork chipolatas, fresh coffee and a mimosa... all served in bed.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I guess they must have been feeling good, if it was a scrupulous breakfast. Plus why go to the trouble of making you a coffee, if all you do is spit it all over your computer, each morning.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I always make TWO cups - just in case.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Clearly it wasn't mention in the conversation preluding the play time. No clarification needed me thinks. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
of 1982-1984..Friday night pub crawls in Carlton...started at Jimmy Watson's Wine Bar...ended at the The Provincial around 3am...much drinking and drunken sex with friends and or strangers....sometimes it was whose house was the closest...I think we all had fun....bit of a fog really.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But I do enjoy a bit of sausage in the morning
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'Clearly it wasn't mention in the conversation preluding the play time. No clarification needed me thinks. :) - Posted from rhpmobile what I conveyed initially. Maybe have a word with your mate DG about it as he doesn't seem to understand. T.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75'Upgrade to Courteous 2.0 ... Comes with:- Eggs Benedict, pork chipolatas, fresh coffee and a mimosa... all served in bed. Just... Oh. My. Gods. What's chipolatas?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' But to DG, the OP only said " After a bit of talking and flirting..." - we do not know the context of that conversation, so we do not know what forms of contact were discussed. The grinding part only came about after the conversation took place, so you're assertions about talking about X and Y do not come into the fore, as we don't know. As noted, we need the OP to clear up what the deal was. TallLast time I did it....talking, while shagging... is still taking. You know.... when she says things like "kiss me"...."harder..... faster.... deeper........ or even "I only enjoy grinding"Pop quiz... what do you do..... lol PS>.. its rhetorical
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RHP User
11 years ago
They are teeny weeny fresh pork sausage...Tom Thumb size.FOXY
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madotara69
11 years ago
Getting the lady into bed before she gets out of bed..... Smooth work AmicusMado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who cares?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Getting the lady into bed before she gets out of bed..... Smooth work AmicusMado Hardest part is getting it all together without waking her too soon...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pork on ya fork with a good spoon afterwards!!! FOXY
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madotara69
11 years ago
We will have a beer one of these days. Looking forward to that day.Mado, Tara xx
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Your story makes a bit more sense now. Your explanation of events from yesterday must have been still "in approval" when I was trying to workout what was going on. From what I can make out in your story is that she didn't put all her cards on the table initially, and you only found out after the fun began she had particular desires. I wouldn't quibble so much about not being a gentleman in those circumstances. As you said, you found out later from others she was well known for her 'peculiarities', which you didn't know about. Don't think I would have been much of a 'gentleman' either in those circumstances. If you wanna have fun, you both gotta be in it. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Feel like shit afterwards because it's not a conscious decision.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ya poor bastard. You must be feeling like a pack of crows are picking at your corpse. Lol I have my own take on things but I think you're unfortunate experience has been picked apart enough already. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
WOW! I've been reading your letters, I love this girl Meeka100, great stuff you think like me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope that's a good thing. :D
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Plain
11 years ago
We have testicles and a penis and will have a go at anything once, in a mindless fashion and think of the cosequences later, that was in our youth at my age where you got the girl pregnant and were escorted down the aisle with a shot gun at your back. Happened to a friend of mine and the marriage is solid as a rock, kids, grandkids holiday house, the works and still very much in love so go figure.I on the other hand as I grow older will never do the sex thing for mercy or anything when there is no connection , because I had to, one experience where the chemistry was not there and we went ahead anyway and it was horrible, nice lady we enjoyed each others company OUT of the bed.There has to be a two way connection. I admire the ladies for attempting it out of feelings, and I sense the frustration and reasoning behind the attempts turning out badly. The swingers thing, hmm, you pays your money and you takes your chances, but you still have to do basic groundwork to see if it will work out. See the testicles and penis got in the way of reasoning again!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just hope I'm not on the receiving end of one, Mesmerised...S'nP
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've done the mercy fuck and the fuck because I got sick of the whining. I've also had the I've got nothing better to do fuck!
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