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Always trust your intuition..
October 15 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Giving us good blokes a bad name.....Burn him at the stake lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well if its me i wouldnt worry/ care too much after all it is as easy as saying piss off !! never contact me again , and it would be NEXT !!.. hopefully , next one will be single not attached but to be honest if i only want them for one nite i no longer cared too much if i found out they are infact attached men , unless i want more than a nighther maybe mite up set me, btw why you had to look for him on FB ? do you like him that much and want more and upset finding out he is actually in relationship ? Welcome to RHP ! this is the reality of this site it is not pretty at times but it serves the purpose for the ones genuinly looking for fun ,sex fun ...so just have fun and dont worry about the rest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Clearly you do care what others do and are quick to pass crude judgement according to your own narrow point point of view.." your disgusting, dishonest, scumbag way of life" It is obvious why people would hide the truth from you ... when all they can expect in return is summary judgement, condescension and insults what possible motivation do you leave them to be honest with you ?Answers.1) Nothing ... always back the horse named self interest .. it will be the only one trying.2) My guess is you're put out because you allowed yourself to be lied to trying to get what you want (sound familiar)"I had a feeling that something was off but I convinced myself that it was just because I'm new to this and I was just subconsciously making excuses"3) Not that I am aware of ... I don't pass arbitrary judgement on a person simply for holding a different point of view hence they have less to no motivation to fib.4) Buy bigger shoes.
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inspirit
11 years ago
I would really love too comment here though your comment"If I knew someone was attached, I wouldn't initiate contact or communicate, in any way. That's just me, I don't care what others do but if you include me in your disgusting, dishonest, scumbag way of life, then I have a real fucking problem"just blew my head out of the water. Picking Jaw up Floor.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Inspirit and Alius said it all. Maybe trust your gut and drop the judgement?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
However,how did you find him on fb?He must have been open with you about his name etc,perhaps he is in an open relationship?Did you ask him all the right questions or just assume, because his profile said ''single'' that there was no GF...If he said clearly that he wasn't attached and he is, well I can understand why you are upset....particularly if you were hoping for more than a one off...People will often obscure the truth to get what they want..not just men.Just put it down to experience and move on,next time follow your instincts and good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep you live and learn. And it's shithouse if he lied to you. Quick, post on his FB page about the wonderful time you had together. Lol. Just jokes. Think of it as learning experience and now you know which questions to ask for next time. Don't you? ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
He maybe in a relationship where he is allowed to play on his own. You just never know about people and their relationships. Since I joined RHP and started reading the forums I have come to realize that there are so many different ways of people being happy and they aren't all conventional. Just because we may not understand it doesn't make it wrong. I don't condone lying though, if he really is in a LTR and he didn't tell you. That's pretty low in my opinion. Off with his balls!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Judgemental enough? She was only stating how she doesn't appreciate being lied to (who does?) And if people were upfront and honest with each other that would allow others to make informed decisions. So she doesn't want to play with someone attached. Good for her. Neither do I. Other people may not care as they're just after sex and could care less about other people's morals. Each to their own. Do you need a step ladder to get down off that high horse? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What a shame... she has closed down her account. Nice way to make new forum posters feel welcome!
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RHP User
11 years ago
ya just need to invest in a better poo detector ... (and no I'm not inventing a new superhero called ScatMan although each to their own)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72'Judgemental enough? She was only stating how she doesn't appreciate being lied to (who does?) And if people were upfront and honest with each other that would allow others to make informed decisions. I disagree, that's not all she said. She stated: "I don't care what others do but if you include me in your disgusting, dishonest, scumbag way of life, then I have a real fucking problem." I would never play with an attached man either, but I would never speak to anyone that way. Chosing the moral highground does not have to mean acting like a rude cow. Curvicious, I hope you come back and that you will be in a good place when you do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I totally understand her frustration and anger at being lied to and deceived. And so she believes that cheating on your partner and lying / deceiving others is disgusting and dishonest.... can't say I disagree with that....I didn't read her post as acting like a rude cow, but that's just my opinion...
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have too agree with Mes . There was no need too name call. What a person does with their own life is their own business. I did notice a few 26 year old young woman having a hard time with men that day.
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RHP User
11 years ago
She wasn't name calling an individual. She was commenting on a 'way of life'.So this guy she met was not only cheating on his partner, but lying to her as well. And we are criticising HER for calling it "disgusting and dishonest".Yes, what a person does with their own life is their own business, until it affects other people, no?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's her opinion, isn't she allowed to have one? If he is in a relationship and lied about it... Isn't he a scumbag? Yep he is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Her opinion of him is valid... Her generalisation and condemnation of every other man on the planet is the problem. It's probably fair to assume that the op has a couple of issues around trust, honesty and fidelity... A bit of time to reflect is probably what she needs. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Disagree HP, I think when you are younger things are often more black and white, seeing shades of grey comes with maturity and age I think. I was hugely anti cheating when I first joined RHP. I now can appreciate that people cheat for numerous reasons and it takes two to tango, so the wife is also partly to blame. I still secretly don't understand why people stay in relationships when they are not being sexually satisfied to the point that they cheat. Money? Kids? Meh... My first reaction is you only live once show some integrity and leave what isn't working anymore.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tend to agree with you on all the above, but I think she's really unleashing some venom that's HER baggage... She needs time to think it all through... Ultimately, we can "control" no ones attitudes or behaviours, all we can do is say "this is or isn't acceptable to me" Stimulus...response... The response is always ours... Life is better with truth. hp xo because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I once had a guy take me out, in the back of his car there was a baby capsule. When I questioned him about it he told me it was his brothers vehicle. Pure unmitigated bullshit, they are full of it. As my good friend said to me today, they are blokes, of course they are gonna do it. Not man bashing here, just stains the facts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just stating the facts.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
11 years ago
Ive been bullshitted to as well, he came up on my face book cause his number was in my phone. I played along for a while got him really worked up set at date.... then message him to let him know i knew his wife ...old friend...and she would have to be told if were seeing each other. Stopped him in his tracks real fast.. explained to him it wasn't cool to me or his Mrs....What if someone had an STD would it be OK to lie about that? Or if his Mrs just had a baby is that OK to lie to your new lover about? Or that you have no intention of seeing you only in his lunch hour? I want the truth then i can say yes or no to playing up ... its always a no from me. I stopped him for about 12 months off this site but when he moved to another suburb he started again... id just send the odd poke or flirt thru just to scare him. Were all adults here its really not ok to lie... your ok if we lie about rape or being pregnant? Dont lie to us just to get your cock in.....no wonder no one trust the opposite sex and isn't keen in a relationship....And that goes both ways if someone has a partner and you know that don't start chasing them like its a game. It doesn't last and to many get hurt kids as well.. sorry that got a bit heavy but ffs why LIE no body's got time for that
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