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Am I bi or what?

September 15 2011

sex

I love women - when I get a chance to date one, which I admit, is quite rare.But one thing that turns me on a lot is the idea of giving a guy oral sex while his girlfriend watches.I don't know how gay that makes me, because I probably wouldn't do it by myself with the guy.But the idea of the woman watching me, and also me watching her get her guy off, turns me on incredibly.Any other bi guys have this fantasy? Does it appeal to any couples on here?(I did do it once with one couple, they both enjoyed it, and I ended up getting to have sex with the girl as well, though I had never insisted on it!)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wouldn't be too quick to label yourself. Do what feels good to you and don't worry how other's will view your sexuality. Good luck with finding someone to join in your fantasy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    being 'experimental' doesnt make you bi. enjoying some male/male play doesnt make you bi. especially if its as an adjunct to the 3some you are enjoying........ going out and deliberately seeking contact sexually with another guy.....on your own....might indicate you are bi.......if you're happy to 'go with the flow' or open minded enough to explore sex as sex, then its all good, and theres absolutely no point in worrying yourself to sleep about whether you are tagged as one thing or another............consider yourself 'sexual' and 'open minded'. in other words......'normal'. we play with guys, and yea Shels fantasy is about male/male play with her assisting.....its fun to explore and if it feels good and doesnt cross anyones boundaries, everybody wins.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Of Course what you describe is Bi, Why does it concern you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm not sure that you would call yourself bisexual if the idea of being humiliated turns you on. You sound like you need to find yourself a stern mistress to obey... She might make you suck other guys dicks and lick their arses and that. It's not your sexuality causing this to happen then is it.Really who cares what motivates people to get off... as long as it is safe, by mutual agreement and legal.HUgsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lick 'em, stick 'em....whatever, as along as your happy with how the envelope is addressed it's your mail. | Just have fun...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Does it really matter if you are bi anyway? It is just another label to hang on our sexuality and what turns you on. Just have fun....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I agree that you shouldn't worry about labels just do what ever feels good - well if you are lucky enough to get what you want. Stalky has mentioned a humiliation factor - but is this really being humiliated? Not too sure about that. Have fun and root oftenxxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Question: - Had both? Who gives better head? Men or women? A poll on RHP   And it says men give the best head.....not that I would know. So OP, we dont see why you are reluctant to admit your bisexuality. And Ladies.....I think the result is seriously flawed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It is a little disconcerting when someone keeps telling you men give better head... makes me little shy about it. HmmmJustenough I am sure there are lots of men who would love to suck your cock and finger your bum... come on, you are just being modest now. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok Flirty .. I meant to say enthusiasm is the key. Maybe that is what I am missing, the S in suck! LOLxxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    men do give better head...........gay men that is....and its no different than saying women do the same when discussing f/f oral..... its just a fact of life, and nothing to feel all 'threatened' about...............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What a tease only going half way...Heard its best to give up corn for couple days. Appears to be a great interest in my arse around here Quoting 'Meeka100'Justenough I am sure there are lots of men who would love to suck your cock and finger your bum... come on, you are just being modest now. xxMeeka