Am I too young or unattractive for this??

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  The_Antichrist

  5 years ago

  Attraction goes beyond the physical....whilst it may play a role in, it’s not the only factor. How many times have you been to the pub and see those whom seem to be the life of their party, and also the one person over to the side on their own looking bored shitless?? Most people would notice the different energy being projected by both these two individuals and desire the person that seems to be the life of their party....And not always are they gonna look like fabio... Choose who you wanna be, without deviating from who you are individually, and I’m sure you’ll attract those whom are most compatible with you....

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  FeistyFatty

  5 years ago

  Definetely not too young... you're closer to 30 than 18. As for attractiveness.... thats SOOOOO subjective to the individual. One person's yum is another person's yuck. Just always stay polite and respectful when messaging women. Actually read their profile and make sure you are what they seek because just because you're interested/keen om first inspection doesn't mean they will be. You also need to remember that we're ALL mandated to social distance atm so there would only be a VERY small number of people meeting new people atm. if they don't take their (and others) health seriously.... probably best to avoid those ones anyway. Hang in there. There's so many wonderful members here; socially and sexually 😘

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  2EssesExploring

  5 years ago

  Hey mate, Mr S here. Had a good look at your profile and it seems a very honest portrayal of yourself. From the first photo I thought “that guy needs to get rid of the mo” but looking at the other photos it’s not too bad. Ok so you’re not a Brad or Clooney (neither am I) but you are far from ugly in my opinion, wife thinks you’re kinda cute! We have been on here as both guests and paid and find all being financial did was waste more of our time, it did increase the number of chats we had but not actual meets. I would think for a single guy though you might have next to no chance without it on here. For us 98% of actual real connections and play have come from other places...seems swipe left/swipe right is as good as anywhere and free. Suggestions? I’d have some photos to show how “cool” you are too, ie clothed full body to show your style and maybe some semi-nude ones if you’ve got some nice physique even if you’re a little chunky. It will show potential dates more of your honesty and you might not find your inbox overflowing but you may just find one or two awesome people who you really connect with. Other than that you can try and make your profile super good by over marketing yourself but I don’t see the point in trying to be anything you’re not. It’s just part of society now that people are so damn fake and I just can’t see the satisfaction in living that way. Also include more about your interests and what interests you in women, be specific as it will appeal to certain people. Being unspecific just doesn’t make you stand out. A simple thing like “I really like frogs” will have 99% of people saying “what the” but 1% might say “oh he gets frogs too” and 1 in 100 is probably way more than you can expect on here no matter how hot you are. Oh a final note, we tried to find a hot single guy for an experience, we found the hotter they were the quicker they turned us off when we got chatting to them so don’t be too discouraged as I’m sure others have had the same experiences and many will come back to realise the Average Joe can be a better lay 😂. Good luck, try other avenues and while you’re here don’t over try it but just be really honest and respectful and you might just get lucky but if you don’t then know you’re in the majority. 🍻

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Quoting from your profile ‘ Due to the saturation of men (much better looking than I at that)’ Don’t ever put yourself down. Be confident in yourself. Remove the negativity.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  There's no such thing as ugly and age had nothing to do with anything. What are you expecting here? All the women here to throw themselves at you and get on their backs, opening their legs. Mate, it's not going to happen as you have to earn that privilege and honour. Not only that, we are also social distancing. You know what that means, yeah? Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  (most) Women don't come here to meet timid men reeking of angst and doubt.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  No mate you’re just a single male on here. Don’t take it personally just the nature of this site lots more guys then girls. I’ve been approached twice in all the time I’ve been here and only one has turned into a conversation. All the messages I’ve sent have been ignored except one reply which was a “no thanks.” Hard not to take personally but don’t get down or doubt yourself. I’ve personally stopped messaging others now and not renewing my premium membership not worth the money to be honest. I think if all the single men stopped paying memberships this site would fail financially. Good luck I’m sure everyone on here are great but remember we outnumber females and couples by quite a lot. John

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  LittleGiant

  5 years ago

  You're not that young! Here is my take on your profile - safe sex 'if required' is a no to me. If that's how you roll then good on you for being honest but that would be a straight up no for some on this site. 'Ask me' under smoking would make me assume that you do smoke, which is also a no for me. Your photos don't seem to do you justice - the second one is too dark, the third one looks like a mugshot. Personally I don't like the mo, it looks like you have a nice face hiding underneath it, but you do you! Take some nice photos of you smiling and not just headshots, full body so people can see your full shape, chuck on some of your favourite outfits. Agree re the negativity about calling yourself less attractive, I would ditch that. Keep in mind everyone is looking for something different on here and are attracted to different things in a profile and a person. Also we don't know what you're messaging people - I doubt you would be doing this after reading your well-written profile, but make sure you aren't sending out one liner 'how are you' messages or generic templates. Good luck! Miss Little xx

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  bianca_dd

  5 years ago

  what are you concerned about I am double your age lol. As a suggestion I would get rid of two of the pics, the one you have now as main pic and the one that looks like your last police mug shot and run with the one of you in the black t shirt. I would guess that one is more representative of what you actually look like in the flesh.The rest of the profile is ok but I would remove the "fisting" bit from your fetish list as that scares lots of women away (like me for one). If that stuff happens it happens but I would not labor the point.As for there being a saturation of men, that is not necessarily a bad thing. Most profiles are frog shit anyway and you are competing with guys who have far more dick in their personalities than they do in their pants.Good luck and don't take life too seriously babe, you are going to be dead for a bloody long time, so enjoy the life you have, as much as you can, while you can.Bianca ( . )( . )

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  Mischeviouslad

  5 years ago

  If theres something I've learned in my experiences, its that while people can have a “type” (also called preferences) ... but petsonality overrides it almost every time. Someones preference in height/looks/build/wealth etc may initially appeal, but it is their personality connected to that which determines where the interaction goes. Preferences with a toxic or repellant personality for example wont be very appealing In the same way, an appealing personality can see preferences become significantly less important by commanding attention in a positive and appealing way. In short i believe most people start at Zero and either go forward or backwards..... your job is to not screw things up and go backwards. There will always be taller, fitter, better looking etc etc.... so be the best and most authentic version of Brand You. That said, RHP is not a normal world...... but it the same rules apply in a different ratio

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  J_B4503

  5 years ago

  Thanks for all the feedback everybody, kind and not so kind, it will all be taken on board. I appreciate you all taking time out of your day to write to me! At this point I have decided this site is not for me, but maybe I will see you all in the future! Have fun and stay safe!

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  PartyOrg

  5 years ago

  Hey man, your profile is very well written, so kudos on that. But yes I would definitely get some better pictures sorted asap Another thing I would say is ensure your message to the girl or couple is well thought out, put some effort into reading their profile and what they are looking for. Then write send them a nice message, instead of hey how are you going, or some other two line message. Give them a chance to get to know you a little through your message. I feel those two things are very important, good pictures, a well written profile and a good opening message. Hope that helps

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  There’s plenty of fish 🎣

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Some comments bit harsh no wonder he took off.

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  BigLovers

  5 years ago

  L❤U All！

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Mate I'm in the same boat, I've sent messages and get nothing in return, not even a look at my profile. I'm thinking it's male saturated. But I'm sticking around and not taking it personal. Good luck bro

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