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M39

Am I wasting my time?!

July 29 2014

Hey all! I've not been on RHP overly long but I have found that almost irrelevant of who I message I'm seriously struggling to get a response! If I put time into writing a message after taking the time to read your profile is it really that hard to reply with "I'm sorry but you're not what I'm after..." As a minimum? I could imagine there are a lot of girls/women that get countless emails saying "do you wanna fuck?!" Which is understandable to flick pass to the deleted folder, but if I've shown some element if decency and taken some time to write something out to grab your attention am I expecting too much?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I totally agree with you. The very least is a quick response "thanks, but no thanks". Courtesy doesn't cost you anything. Hope things improve for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi As a mature fit male I have found that the majority of women in my age bracket all are looking for younger guys. What's wrong with the older men? Most of us have been raised to respect women and treat them with respect and to a good time wining and dining. Ladies we have experience and old school values (well I do) .So ladies if you want to be treated like a lady try the older guy. We may have age but we are still able to please you and treat you with the respect you deserve. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • playwithus742

    playwithus742

    10 years ago

    I'm going to come right out and state that we are guilty of not getting back to people in a timely way, or sometimes ever. This is often because we get contacted by a lot of people who don't read our profile and "requirements" but also because we have been overwhelmed by responses at times and it is difficult to get back to everyone. It's often hard not to be rude to people who clearly haven't read what we absolutely won't accept (married & doing it behind partner's back, smokers, or being downright crude and cocky). I know that at times, we want to say "did you not look at our well written and clearly laid out profile?" - that just comes across as mean, and it's not what we are. I also find it difficult to reply to someone when their profile is non-existant, or "template" so I have no idea about them at all! However, I take your point, and I will make the effort to reply to everyone, even if it is a thanks but no thanks reply.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    10 years ago

    are the people who don't hit any of your dealbreakers but you're just not into them. I struggle to know what to say when it's not a definite 'you aren't what my profile clearly says i'm wanting' and there's not actually anything wrong with them, it's hard to say no but you can't say yes to everyone (and nor should you)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    What is everyone's favourite drink? Mine would have to be either XXXX pale ale or Coronas.

  • Badsitefguys

    Badsitefguys

    3 years ago

    Spot on.Nothing you can do to change human nature.