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Am I weird
August 27 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
that does seem a little weird.If you're not bi / gay then surely the fantasy would include a woman sporting a strap-on and not another guy ? Who knows... also sounds very unpleasant
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes you are weird, but we all have a bit of weird now and then. I had big cup of weird this morning and its no problem. Explore what you want to explore, be who you are. Weird is not necessarily a bad thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
rather be normal ?Or worse, average !Fuck it mate, live your life and celebrate your individuality.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems like you have issues accepting your sexuality. You might be more bisexual than you think.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
The expression of hman sexuality is wide and varied So no..... you're not weird....... But your advertising is about to make you popular.... LOL DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are tops, bottoms and switches. I would say you are a bottom. I am no expert but I have been to a few clubs and parties with my bi mate and we have been in numerous group situations with bottoms. They are the same as you. They want to be fucked, most of them will give oral and maybe receive but they can't fuck another guy... Can't even get hard over it. Maybe you are a submissive? Want someone who can dominate you? You won't really know what it is that turns you on until you experiment. No you are not weird at all. Lots of guys like you... I have known quite powerful men in high positions who live a straight lifestyle.... But are bottoms and love to be fucked by other men.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think fantasies are for trying, as long as they are legal and no one gets hurt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As its your thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fantasy is not always realitythink of the rape fantasy for an example, people have them but that does not mean they want some random guy to break into their house and rape them.the only way you know if its for you is to give it a go , with someone you trust
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RHP User
11 years ago
I dont think its weird at all. A lot of people on here would regard me as bisexual, but i don't. I am not attracted to men at all, i dont want to cuddle them or kiss them as it does nothing for me. I dont want a relationship with a man either. But, i do enjoy giving a guy anal (yes it does feel the same as a woman) and i enjoy giving them head. It turns me on knowing that i am doing something that is not just an everyday thing. The ultimate part about doing it with a male is if his partner watches.
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RHP User
11 years ago
in our own particular way...that is normal...I have a particular ''thing','it involves some risk taking on my part and shocks some people.Those people usually have a paricular''thing''which involves a different kind of risk...and so it goes on...indulge your fantasy,
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it's being fucked you're after , there's a couple of Women here who would be capable of indulging your Fantasy (with their attachments). Then you wouldn't have to worry about being Gay or Bi . Or do you want to be Man-Handled ? GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hmmm would love to help fill it
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Curious1965
11 years ago
I am still on the journey of openess and I think the hand brake is still applied but everywhere you look and see it seems to me that the majority of the population thinks in their mind like rhp members but keep it in the closest. So I would doubt whether your weird at all just that you have the balls literally to discuss it. There is so much porn, websites like rhp,etc it must be mainstream. What do others think?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
For the hell of me , I can't understand a guy who is obviously bi or homosexual just facing it for what it is. I would imagine ' the moment you take ownership of your needs ' the sooner your fantasies materialise. I'm appreciative I know myself in this way.. For me it's females or fresh air... I don't have that dilemma.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think there are a lot more men who are bi-sexual but never admit it. Or at least men that like playing with men. Straight men that go to the gay clubs, men that hang out at the known gay hook up places. It happens all around you all the time. A friend of mine is in the known... he even told me that the male toilets at Bunnings have lots of action. We walked around the city and he pointed out gay spas that I never even knew were there! He logged onto grindr and showed me over a 100 men within 5 km radius of where we were who were willing to hook up for sex there and then.... well not sure exactly where as we were in the middle of Sydney CBD. Public toilets? The one hour hotel? Us vanilla people are clueless I say. I bet there is a guys sucking another guy off within 2 kms of you at any one time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I should add that there are lots of "straight" and married men at the gay and bi-sexual clubs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To be exactly truthful I've had the opportunity to be with a guy and couldn't do it but I've had women use there fingers and toys on me and loved it but have never had them use a strap-on on me, maybe what I need as men don't turn me on at all. Oh well hopefully I find a woman that owns a strap-on one day.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get out and do it hurts like hell 1st time but Christ it rocks bigger the better - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You just are experimental. All you can do is try and see if that's what you really do want- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ask meeka
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RHP User
11 years ago
no your not weird that is for sure you just need to take your time to find the right person and just have some fun your fantasies might never happen but its good to have some thing to dream about.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Apparently in this town it's weird if you DON'T have kinks or want to fuck like rabbits ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gee. Thanks pimp Daddy. :-/
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think I am with Lady Tuscan on this, fantasy is fine but reality rarely lives up to it. The biggest issue is always finding the right person to share the dream.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My first time was with a fmm, it was nice the woman was beautiful and just made it feel "safe" if you get my drift.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I fantasise about being intimate with other women but don't consider myself weird. It's just another sexual experience - be it an exploration, an experiment or a lifelong journey of discovery - as long as you're enjoying yourself, I wouldn't care what people think! I've actually been quite fascinated by male on male action lately. I've yet to experience my first MMF(bi) encounter. Any volunteers are welcome to sign up
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you weren't so far away I'd be interested. Just checked out your photos and you are gorgeous
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with Meeks, It sounds like you're more of a sub, and need to be dominated, but not necessarily with a man, a woman with toys can do the trick, nothing better that playing with a guys arse!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't discourage him!! He wants a big man in his fantasy.. AND, I reckon he has had a LOT of offers in Private messages ... Which of course.. possibly was the original hope *grins* Good luck fella... Not ito it personally, but, I know fellas who fckn love it.. from males AND females. AND.. damned if I dont have a couple of "Funny as fck...' stories about it too
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RHP User
11 years ago
No I thought I'd have plenty of offers but none of yet. Oh well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Weird implies there is a normal and as such excludes all else. Don't think you should frame it in such a way. Explore and learn more about yourself. Good luck x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey ya, if you have sex with both men and women then you are bi,,, simple as that, I often see ads saying straight guy wants to have a sexual encounter with a man, they are not straight they are bi... Now I see you have a fantasy involving a man, that would make me believe that you would be bi but haven't actually acted on it. I am bi and I feel no shame in it and I suggest that you don't as well, I found that denying or trying to repress only did me harm mentally...
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RHP User
11 years ago
that was a comment from Dash not Angel
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RHP User
11 years ago
I guess we all have to be something, don't we?.Further the enquiry and fantasize all you like, or leave it at that. A label of sexual orientation can apply or not and be a weirdo if that fits. It's your fantasy and "Nothing is wrong - lest thinking make it so. (Mark Twain)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry about about labels am I bi, gay or str8. Who cares!! It just feels gr8 having something long and hard up your butt so don't let women have all the fun. If its my mrs with a strap on or a guy with a cock either way it feels nice. I don't ask "who am I enjoying htis and what does it mean?" nope I just enjoy it
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RHP User
11 years ago
....but weird is normal. Hasn't anyone ever heard of straight men who have sex with men? It's not about the gender of the person you are engaging sexually, it's about sexual identity, and its common. Talk to any gay guy about straight men. They will tell you that some/many men who identify as straight are still up for it. They have no romantic attraction nor sexual attraction to a man, yet are still open to and/or actively seek MM experiences. This is not denial of bisexuality. They genuinely are hetero, just with a twist....
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
Life is too short - so do what makes you happy! Don't label it, just live your life the way you want too!
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
I would say you are a bottom when it comes to boy sex. people call it being submissive. but I often think being so called sub whether it is in slave /master or a gay bottom or a bi bottom or a women who likes to be controlled are usually people who are in control in there normal lives most are bosses or lawyers. they enjoy giving up control its like stress relief. so they role play thus giving someone else control. its very normal to want someone to fuck you, so you can relax and enjoy the moment. either boy sex or a woman with a strap-on. bend over and take it like a man enjoy your weirdness
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do not make you weirdNor do your feelings or what goes on inside your head.If you know you're not bi or gay, then whats the problem. Its a fantasy is all. don't stressp.s If it helps....we're all fcuking weird in our own lil wayxo
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think we all at one time or another fantasize about sex with someone of our own gender. I wonder what it feels like to touch a woman intimately but I don't question my sexuality for it. A man penetrates a woman, its a natural curiosity that he would want to know the feeling of penetration himself. Curiosity is what makes us try something new ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To me it sounds like something taboo to you and you enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with it , weird maybe but there's a lot more weirder things out there. Just have a good think about it and whether you're comfortable doing it. It what makes life interesting you don't sound like a boring person.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A man desiring his anus and prostate stimulated to enhance his orgasim is not necessarily bi or gay, desiring sexual contact with a male is more so tho, and to desire sexual contact with a male with the exclusion of sexual contact with women is very more so.Then there are those who are drawn to sex with the same gender as it is "taboo" in their culture-society-mind
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RHP User
11 years ago
My brother is gay and has had many " straight guys " You need to realise it's just a bullshit label most ppl are concerned about ;) Bend over baby and take your time you won't regret it ;) Jump in with a couple that's keen another awesome expierience head between her legs with your arse in the air ;) Love mmf - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Definitely nothing weird about you, classifications are irrelevant it's just your thing. Even if you are hiding from your true self many people do that everyday. So certainly not weird at the worst constraining. Had our first couple experience last weekend and for the first time in my life saw an erect penis up close and personal, I thought it would be 'weird' but it really wasn't :).- Posted from rhpmobile
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GezWouldGo
11 years ago
You're weird. And you can forget about being bisexual, there's no such thing, if a bloke sucks a cock ... he's gay. Period!
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RHP User
11 years ago
No you are not weird. I find people who want sex in the missionary position with the same person on a Thursday for a hundred years weirder than that... So, relax...think about if you really want to do it or if it's just a fantasy based on wild imaginings or maybe something that happened in your past...it doesn't matter. If its safe, sane and consensual...you have every right to fantasise about it or realise it as you wish... Peace.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're not weird, not gay, not bi. Unless you like one of those labels and you think it fits. If you wanted to love another man, have a relationship, get married etc then it might be time to think about yourself as gay/bi. Wanting a dick in your butt just makes you a guy who wants a dick in his butt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No one is really weird as what is normal for one is down right dirty for another So it comes down to ones stat of mind and who they are with I love to wear knickers stocking and suspenders under my uniform to work and every day wear Though my wife finds this strange she happly accepts this I do not hide this and my under cloths go in the wash with every thing else We have a young female house mate "non sexual" who is more than happy to bring in my washing fold it and put it away Her only quireie was the first time she folded washing (as it was all mine) as to weather it was my wifes or daughters when the wife explained that they were mine she folded as normal and just put them away she has never asked or quireid me on my choice or had a weird look at me But just accapted and let things be So have your thoughts ideas and or fantasy but at the end of the day do wha you are happy with and only hope others will understand and let you be
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RHP User
11 years ago
No, I don't think it's weird. Fantasies are an individual thing. If everyone is consenting adults then go for it. I've opened myself up to things I never imagined that I would enjoy. Life is too short to have regrets.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does that mean if a woman likes to give and receive oral to another woman sometimes she must be gay? You are entitled to your opinion but maybe being flexible in your thinking would be a good thing too.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
like cumcm69 says get a lovely couple to play with head down between her legs and bum up. but dont bite her when his cock opens you up. I guess her wet pusy will muffle your cries. like Chrissie Amphette said there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. we miss the queen of ozzie rock
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mate your a straight guy why you even wasting your time in these threads?, Anyway get ya head out of the dark ages and sand. I am BI, I suck cock and surprise surprise not gay I live with, married to and love a woman. Think you have issues with your sexuality with such bullshit views. Mr Funky (.)(.)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree, be weird if that is what you are...seek out those to be weird with. the more the merry!
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are a lot of men who sometimes have sex with other men who only like this or that. Most don't kiss, some don't give head, some don't want head either. For some it's all about the anal. And then for some anal is definitely off the menu. So it's not as weird as you might think that all you want from a man is to receive anal. There are as many men who only want to give it, or only want to get sucked and go home, or who want to put on panties and unload in them, or who just want to be watched, or who want to be spat on and called names, or....
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RHP User
11 years ago
What is one person's weirdness is another's normal.exploring one's sexuality is normal, it doesn't necessarily mean you are gay or bi, in fact you maybe able to get a woman to put a strop on and that may enhance the situation, just have to find someone that understands your need to fulfil your fantasy.
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