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Am i missing something

July 29 2022

With the attached/unattached in the bio and people list attached/unattached as part of there profile. I am one of the lucky few who's wife does know i am here and is ok with it My understanding of attached is someone who is in some type of relationship now does being married put you into a different category of attached. I have messaged a number of couples and singles that list attached/unattached and when they find out i am married they are not interested any further i keep my messages honest and up front to avoid any awkward issues later its even on my profile married.

Comments

  • wanderlustQLD

    wanderlustQLD

    2 years ago

    My interpretation is "attached" means you're in some kind of relationship. Whether that be married or otherwise, with or without permission - it doesn't really matter to me. Attached is attached. People can engage in a process of discovery and make their own call from there... will be fine for some and not so fine for others. I don't think a wedding ring makes any fundamental kind of difference to the definition of "attached".

  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    2 years ago

    You could drive yourself crazy asking “why?” but you’ll never have all the answers.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    No, being married does not put you into another category of "Attached". You are attached. That's it. Singles and couples have heard the same old, same old "My wife knows I'm here". It's tedious. If we want that, we will choose. Now, Having safe sex "when required" on your profile, does put you into a whole other category on its own. Does your wife approve of that or was her choice removed?? You know, No glove, No love. 😉 Ms Foxy

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    2 years ago

    Attached, Married Complicated.....not single, regardless of whether your partner approves or not. I had a message from a guy on a single profile who is also part of a couples profile on here. He couldnt get that I was looking for single men only and wouldnt meet him when he was " messaging me from his single profile"

  • oppositesattract

    oppositesattract

    2 years ago

    you have raised 2 issues. 1. We are attached as we are a couple who are not married. Its that simple. 2. Meet someone and their marital status., We don't mind what their relationship is as long as it is not going to cause issues. We tend to be careful with married singles. Ee like to meet people socially in public places. We also do not want any drama from an angry partner who finds out. We know people this has happened to and its not nice for any one. Like most we keep our sex life private, especially when being in this scene can be judged. So we are careful about who we meet.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    They're more than likely just not into you; irrespective of attached status.

  • AlwaysSassy

    AlwaysSassy

    2 years ago

    It’s worse when their profile says “Single” and their not !!