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Anal
July 08 2020
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Rlee552
4 years ago
Welcome to the first post in the new format. Anal is one of those amazing sensations when done right is incredibly powerful. When done wrong though ... eek. It is one where particularly if new to it - slow is best, and with lube which is more than I have used a little saliva. The other part of it is mental. As you mentioned you had a bad experience and that took some time to get over. If you don’t have the right mindset you won’t relax into it. Porn hasn’t helped in that regard portraying it as either something you go to extremes or something where there is joy in causing pain. Final point. At some stage as well you also may want to experience DP with people you really trust. Enjoy the new journey.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I think its so good because its very primal. I personally find plugs dont help me get ready. I have a pink dildo that helps. Lots of lube too. I will lie around with it in for a good 20min to half an hour playing with it in my butt. Then im very ready! If you are trying to find an anal position that isnt too deep, you might find it easiest to be on all fours in doggy. Then once hes in, slowly lie down on your front. Happy butt play! X
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SpicyKale
4 years ago
Preparation is the key! Buy yourself an anal douche, 500ml works great, any more and you're into enema territory. Get used to it by yourself before you do some self loving, rinse, repeat, body temp water, nothing else required. If you can get over the yuk factor, the prep alone feels awesome. If you're trying to push things back up there it's going to be uncomfortable, maybe painful, so prep first. Try different toys, glass and stainless ones come to body temp and the extra weight works a treat, try stepping up a size at a time. Massaging, even a general massage helps relax everything. Get your partner to start with one finger first, take your time, then take some more time and step up to two. Remember what you're trying to push through is effectively a muscle, so the more relaxed it is the easier things are going to be. Oh and cut your nails and lots of lube! Clenching contracts the muscle, pushing does the opposite, play around with toys by yourself and find what feels comfortable for you! Get to know what feels good when you're alone to get comfortable and maybe then go to pound town with your significant other😊 If it hurts, stop and try again another time, it's not something to push through. Never use numbing lube, you want to feel what's happening, if it's hurting you want to know about it! Have fun!
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
Following for an update AA (After Anal)😋
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
@Spicy.... there's only 2 ways this path can go...... pleasure OR pain...... at least with these AA Meetings, you can grab a few beers afterwards and make some bad decisions 🤣
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teamaj2
4 years ago
Spicy kale Are you a sex therapist ?? Wise words . I’ve no more to add .
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curiousnhorny05
4 years ago
at first for me it was a total no go zone. Then after over a decade of marriage we run out of things to try. Take your time, plenty of lube. It is a pretty amazing experience. Always best with people you trust that little bit more. You can't get too much lube. Using a butt plug beforehand can help get things prepared beforehand. Best of luck and enjoy.
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LittleMissSTFU
4 years ago
No AA just yet! I'll explore myself as suggested first :) I dodge the parts in porn with anal as it's off putting 😂 definitely psychological 100 percent
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zzzyyyxxx
4 years ago
regular practitioners here, both love it. adds whole new dimension to relationship. lots of lube & go slow lol
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verago250
4 years ago
Question please . I know for guys the prostate is just inside but what is it for ladies ? Is it all mental ? please be nice I just want to educate myself . Thank you
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wildcrazyloving
4 years ago
Small vibrating booty toys can be great intro to anal- Use it simultaneously while ridding him. 'Cowgirl' position allows female to control depth and tempo. As per vaginal sex, alot of females require clitoral stimulation with fingers or toys to orgasm with anal. Personally I prefer not to douche, I prepare by maintaining a healthy diet. Black coloured condoms and keeping a box of tissues close by for quick clean up can reduce the stress of mess- If there is any.
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sweetnyorkshire
4 years ago
The first experience I had was really painful even though my partner was very slow with lots of lube. Because I've literately never inserted anything in that area , it was too much challenge having a full size cock in my ass.He bought a butt plug set with 3 sizes and I started to practice with fingering before putting the butt plug in. I realised the more horny I am the more I can relax the anus. Try to get really horny and relax your ass when trying to put anything in. Keep playing your clit if it makes you feel relax. LOTS OF LUBE! All the time. And now I really enjoy anal!Hope it helps you and you can enjoy it too :)
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gdevil
4 years ago
Can anyone auto anal
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RHP User
4 years ago
I have nothing but good things to say about anal but I love the initial pain as it stretches around a big thick cock and then the intense pleasure that follows with orgasm after orgasm...
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like2watchNplay
4 years ago
One of the products my wife sells in her business is an anal cream that helps to relax the muscles, works extremely well... 😉
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RHP User
4 years ago
Heya. I’m not after muscular relaxants. Nor lubed. Nor butt plugs. When’s lover has entered me, it feels great. But then the thoughts flash into my mind that he will see something on his cock. Then I hv the sensation of wanting to relieve myself even though I’ve already done so and douched. Is this feeling normal? R there different positions to avoid this feeling?
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pestyformore
4 years ago
Mmm yep, straight away. I haven't been on rhp for almost a month. Just logged back in now and of course its Tina going right on about prepping for anal. I said back then and now I'm gonna say it again, I'll consume you now 😋
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RHP User
4 years ago
I've had lots of anal, mostly giving and a little receiving. If you are regular and you feel empty, then the chances are that it's clean. I've found it something that I enjoy more with someone I know well rather than just a hookup, so if there are cleanliness issue, there is no awkwardness about it. Lots of lube is the game changer, especially is you are new to it. I truly love anal sex, the pleasure that it can give to everyone is amazing, I think it only works when the giver is very sensitive and takes time, and the receiver feels trusting and can deeply surrender. I'd truly love to explore DP with the right people in a MMF or MFM, I reckon that would be the ultimate...Quoting 'ConsumeMeNow' Heya. I’m not after muscular relaxants. Nor lubed. Nor butt plugs. When’s lover has entered me, it feels great. But then the thoughts flash into my mind that he will see something on his cock. Then I hv the sensation of wanting to relieve myself even though I’ve already done so and douched. Is this feeling normal? R there different positions to avoid this feeling?
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funfindersxx
4 years ago
Came across this risk tool with regard to the risk profile of being infected with HIV during various sex acts.Viginal sex receptive sex no condoms has a risk factor of 8, with condoms that risk factor drops to 2, and with no condom and Prep the risk factor drops to 0.5 Compare with anal sex receptive, no condoms the risk factor is 138, with condoms the risk factor is 38, with no condom and Prep the risk factor is 1. Compare with someone who is known to have HIV Viginal sex no condoms risk factor 58 with Prep no condom 1 , with condom only risk factor 1 anal sex no condoms risk 1001 with Prep 10. no condom , with condom only risk factor 280 https://hivrisk.cdc.gov/risk-estimator-tool/#-~mb|rai.con.ahi Our thoughts is maybe look at Prep on demand for casual sex, we are very aware of the higher risk with anal sex but each to what they like and what risk they and are happy with.Education on whats out there to keep us safe must be a good thing.
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0z_boy
4 years ago
I tried anal once but it hurt like buggery :D 🏃 💨💨💨💨💨
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Mid_nite_blue71
4 years ago
Had a bad experience with it and swore I would never go there again. With the right partner, trust and a bit of patience I love it. I wouldn't just do it with anyone though as it took a while to go there and try again. It was very much a mental thing. I actually initiate it now because I love it. Note: found some lubes I had a burning reaction so make sure you find one that is comfortable for you. Nothing worse than having a reaction as it will put you off even more and also douche. For hygiene reasons and I found it makes it a lot easier. I have scar tissue as well so I have to be really careful to a point
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