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Anal Sex
January 12 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Namasti ganga . Lube use lots of lube do it slowly and only do if you really want too ! . LC
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RHP User
14 years ago
Choose someone with some experience particularly the first time and someone you are very relaxed with. Oh and yes definitely lube the first time anyway. hehehe. . . Definitely only do it if you want to because once you have tried it you will never go back
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RHP User
14 years ago
To do it heaps of lube you use a vibrator on pussy to excite you, Best position we found you on back, knees pulled up close to tummy with husband beside on his side slow slow get him to inch it in and test / let you get use to little bits at a time..... It cant happen quickly, him rimming you with his tongue will help to, a bit of foreplay to final anal penertration I would suggest 30 to 45 minutes otherwise he is moving too fast and may end up hurting you for your first time. We dont go there anymore suggest you visit a sex clinic and they will explain all the sex and general health risks for you to then make a informed decision. Also do a google search "health risks anal sex"
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buttman6969
14 years ago
HI Ganga, I am buttman as my profile name suggest and love anal and if its hurts then someone is not doing right. anal sex will never hurt if do it right. come to Melb for some crash course and will show you do's and don't. The man should be very patient and take his time to arouse you and use plenty lube, make sure you move, dont let him start pushing in, you take yout time and move as slow as possible and take half an inch or inch at a time. Plenty of TLC and patient, I trained an indian also from Frankston. so come to Melb and will give you trade secret. mike
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' .... It cant happen quickly, him rimming you with his tongue will help to, a bit of foreplay to final anal penertration I would suggest 30 to 45 minutes otherwise he is moving too fast and may end up hurting you for your first time. ................ Really? Anal foreplay for 30 -45 minutes !!!! I am being gipped!!! Not happy Jan.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Choose someone with some experience particularly the first time and someone you are very relaxed with. Oh and yes definitely lube the first time anyway. hehehe. . . Definitely only do it if you want to because once you have tried it you will never go back Hehe... how sensible Meeks... I would have thought your first bit of advice would be for her to practice on him first :-D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Namasti ganga . Lube use lots of lube do it slowly and only do if you really want too ! . LCAnal can be verrrrry nice, however, if it's done in a rush...it will hurt!!! For the first time, take it slow, have him start with a well lubed finger, then two. After that is feeling nice try something a little bigger, as it is slipping in, have a little push and you will find it will just slide in....once you get a taste, you will never look back!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' I LIKE This! New Standard boys!!!! 45 min forplay on the arse before you venture in !!!! Alright! Finally a good deal!!!!! woot woot!!!!! heheheheAnal forplay for 45 min!!!!! SIGN ME UP ;-0
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RHP User
14 years ago
45 minute arse foreplay???? y'all must be joking
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RHP User
14 years ago
Truth is Jean_Girard I am a natural taker not a giver. .Now I hope you were paying attention there Mr. 30 to 45 minutes l!!!!!xxxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
My Indian partner and I have evolved to become lovers of anal sex as part of our sex life. Having been on the receiving end (strap on) I can't do anything but concur with time / patience, lots of lube (& rimming) and communication. He (or she) must listen to what you are saying to them...everytime because whilst it gets 'easier' with regular anal sex your partner will always need to take their time. And frankly that is part of the enjoyment of it, the intimacy associated with a slow penetration. Hope all your experiences are wonderful.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would say a half an hour of foreplay is not asking too much. Who would want to rush it, anyway? I mean, it is a hell of a lot of fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi thanks for the nice tips, sure i would follow this tips for my experince
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RHP User
14 years ago
Really?? Sheesh I think I need to do a revise thanks for the tip guys . All of the above advice is good...for me you need to start off small....maybe try some digital penetration or small vibes/dildos to strat with..if you arent comfy having your first few tries with someone you know and trust then use toys to see if you are going to enjoy it or if it isnt something you want to do...and never ever do it because someone else wants you too...like anything you MUST enjoy what you are doing otherwise whats the point? . Kisses Focus
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Chillymofo
14 years ago
Got to take it real slow, start with small smooth vibrators, and gradualy work up to bigger ones as your forplay! Heaps of rimming also helps and is hell fun for both parties!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Ganga! anal sex is quickly becoming a more accepted part of people's sex lives.That said, there are certain things you can do to ensure that your backdoor fun is the best it can be, regardless of whether you're giving it to her or she's venturing into your region.Now then, here are six tips to make anal sex pleasurable and a memorable experience for the right reasons every time you engage in the deed. 1- Don't Insist On PenetrationAlthough it's hard to believe, you don't need to stick your fingers or penis inside the rectum for the pleasurable sensations associated with anal sex. And although it might be a bitter pill for some guys to swallow, when you're receiving anal sex, you don't need to have anything put inside you either.By simply rubbing the anus or even licking it, known as rimming, the receiving person can derive awesome sensations. 2- Make It Feel Good All The TimeMany women have told us that their first anal sex experience (and sometimes their second and third) hurt like a bitch, but ladies, it doesn't have to. We're serious.Now, if she isn't calm and relaxed, it's going to hurt. If you insist on shoving your penis inside her (like ripping off a bandage -- one shot), it's going to hurt. If you don't use lubrication, it's going to hurt.You need to talk about it and both of you need to agree to do it happily; no one should be coerced into it. You also need to be patient and let her lead the way. If you are going to engage in anal sex, let her hold your penis and guide it in slowly. Go in about an inch, then pull out completely, then go in about an inch farther and pull out completely. Keep going in and out at one-inch intervals and pretty soon you'll be in. 3- Understand That There Are 2 Sphincters There are two sphincter muscles in the anus (if you place your finger inside about inch deep and press against the side, you'll feel them), and they are less than an inch apart.While you can control the external sphincter at will, the internal sphincter is not the same. It reacts more in a reflexive way. So while your partner may assure you that she's relaxed and willing, her internal sphincter may prove otherwise.The point is that you need to be patient and give your partner time to learn how to relax and try different positions to make it happen. 4- Stimulate The Anal Region While Doing Other Things The sensation of touching the anus or rectum alone may feel uncomfortable for your girl or even yourself, but couple it with penetration or oral sex, and suddenly it'll feel much better.For example, while you're engaging in vaginal sex, you can insert a sex toy into your girl's anus to give her the sensation of DP, or double penetration. And she can insert a toy into yours while you're penetrating her or she's performing oral sex on you. It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with. 5- Change Your Diet For a pleasurable anal sex experience, it's important for both of you to eat a diet rich fiber, raw vegetables and fruit rather than processed foods.Regular bowel movements are conducive to both comfort and confidence when it comes to anal sex. Adult film stars about to engage in anal sex always undergo enemas beforehand to ensure no "slip-ups."So make sure that your diet is a healthy one and, although fiber is recommended, try to avoid eating it for a few hours before you're set to engage in anal sex. 6- Obey The Rules Of Hygiene There's a reason why women have to wipe from front to back when they do No. 2; trace amounts of feces may cause infection. The same rules apply to anal sex.If you put your penis or fingers in or around her anus, you cannot simply revert to her vagina afterward. There are ways to resolve this issue, however.You can always discard the "anal sex" condom and put on a new one for vaginal entry.As for your fingers, you can always keep baby wipes close by and wipe your hands before you use them on her vagina.Remember; you can go from the vagina to the anus, but not the other way around
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you want practice get a dildo (allforme.com.au has some good starter ones) and just play with yourself. If you let a guy in make him go in slow and build up - but dont do it because he wants to - do it because you want to otherwise it will never work and you wont get into it which is half the fun!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'bendpebblesover' Anal forplay for 45 min!!!!! SIGN ME UP ;-0 Hey Pebbles - are you knew? Haven't seen you around the forums. xxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' I LIKE This! New Standard boys!!!! 45 min forplay on the arse before you venture in !!!! Alright! Finally a good deal!!!!! woot woot!!!!! hehehehe 45min.... how about hours... or... hours and hours.... Im in....who wants to play :Ptaking your time is sooo much fun :DLS
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
but may I suggest a vibe/massager for your clit at the same time?? I find that working up to a good hard screaming orgasm really helps keep my mind focussed on the positives rather than fear of mishaps. Being warmed up with his fingers while he gives you oral may also work, it really helps me to relax and I stay laying on my back for the main event, occasionally aided by a pillow for height/angle adjustment
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RHP User
14 years ago
Great list.Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'Also do a google search "health risks anal sex" I followed that advice, alas:Your non-STD-related risks are minimal and can easily be further decreased.To prevent other infections, avoid any oral or vaginal (if applicable) penetration involving your partner's penis after he has penetrated you anally -- unless he puts on a new condom or cleans his penis carefully in between. There are germs that are harmless in an anus but very dangerous in a mouth or vagina.Anal sex can involve friction leading to abrasions within the anal cavity where the membranes are quite delicate. Using plenty of lubrication such as Probe, Wet, or ID will help you avoid this -- as will a slow, careful entry into the anus. Remember, never use an oil-based lubrication such as lotion, baby oil or Crisco with latex condoms.If his entry or thrusting into your anus causes you severe pain, this is a sign that injury is being done and you should consider slowing down, using more lube or trying some other activity. This is one reason why using drugs that decrease your awareness of pain during anal sex is a bad idea. It's also a reason why good verbal communication with your partner decreases risk of injury during any sexual activity. In addition, keep in mind that sexual arousal will make it easier for you to relax your sphincter muscles for comfortable entry.Stories of people permanently damaging or weakening their anal sphincters through frequent anal sex are myths. Anal sex does not lead to an inability to control bowel movements.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Last time we looked at your profile you say you like to watch only.Cant remember your prefences you have us blocked. You do appear to have a strong passion and preference for anal sex with either sex with a prefernce slanted male/ male.Are you really just a watcher or a doer? Or is it a fantancy you are living out on the forums? No intentional dig at you all is cool but curious, what is reality for you? Are we reading you right? Our posts and profile is our reality.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i love anal, if done right... the three tips i would recommend if you are positive you want to try it is.. Lube, lots of WATER based lubeRELAX, it you are tense it IS going to hurt..and i found that laying on my stomach really helped to keep me relaxed and just go SLOW, if it hurts, stop till it doesnt, then continue, also a vibe in your pussy helps ( and feels great hehe ) good luck and have fun experimenting :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmm I have to admit I find it more shocking when people haven't done anal than when they do! I have to admit its been part of my repertoire since I was 17. After about 2 years of not having any I still found I could relax my muscles enough to not need copious amount of lube, (I found too much lube had me dashing for the loo after anyway), but you do need a partner who is patient and relaxes you. I agree with the vibrator in your pussy, it does relax you until you learn to relax yourself. Also make sure it is YOUR choice and you're not being forced into it. I was drunk the first time I did it and I asked HIM hehehe. Enjoy!!
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jummy
14 years ago
i try it with you???
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Last time we looked at your profile you say you like to watch only. Yep Stalky likes to watch alright - watch it going in and out. Yeah baby! MEEKA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Stories of people permanently damaging or weakening their anal sphincters through frequent anal sex are myths. Anal sex does not lead to an inability to control bowel movements. Hugs Stalky Heheheh thanks for that Stalky. But you know the people that always come up with this whole thing about weakening muscles are always health care professionals or pple in the health industry who insist that they know what they are talking about So is it really a myth or not? Yours truly, One Concerned Citizen
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RHP User
14 years ago
Youre blocked Badromance? Huh. How about that! You must really have pissed me off at some point! Of course I've been known to watch. Would I lie lmfao!! As for the rest of my sexual activity discretion is generally speaking the better part of valour and you either know me or you don't. You can believe or not believe a word I say. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'funtymbundaygal' i love anal, if done right... | | Are you going to be home next weekend? I would be happy to "listen" to any words of advice and happy to take you out to dinner first?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jummy'i try it with you??? Good on you jummy. It won't hurt a bit !!!!! Just remember to relax, calm your mind, take some deep breaths and use plenty of lube. Woo hoo!!!!!!!!! LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Youre blocked Badromance? Huh. How about that! You must really have pissed me off at some point! Of course I've been known to watch. Would I lie lmfao!! As for the rest of my sexual activity discretion is generally speaking the better part of valour and you either know me or you don't. You can believe or not believe a word I say. Hugs Stalky We were asking about your extreme passion for anal sex.You have advised heaps on these forums, now tell us please what your recommendations are based on, we have no problems our forum posts are fact! Fact Research Fantansy
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
I agree with everyone...only do it if YOU want to...don't let anyone talk you into it if it doesn't feel right for you! I myself cannot do anal...it hurts wayyyy too much!!!! Oh and before everyone says "you haven't found the right guy to do it" or "you need someone that is experienced at it" blah blah blah...I have tried many many times..and EVERY time was a fail! Some of us are just not built for anal at all.... All I'm saying is...not everyone does it... And.... Only do it for YOU...not to make someone else happy or to make them stick around! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I started thinking about those times when my lover would start sex by slow kissing, you know the type where he drags your tongue into his mouth and suddenly the concern about the deficit in the budget is lost to the sensation of fucking his mouth with your tongue. The type where you feel glued to him and find your body melding into his and your breasts start to tingle with wanting. The type of kiss that enlivens every erogenous zone and your body is humming, humming with desire. So when he touches your breast with his tongue every pore starts to ooze. When he slides his fingers across your skin, your cunt burns with wanting. And then he kisses all down your body and by the time he open your legs to eat you, you are screaming to be fully consumed. I'm remembering the sensation of totally opening when he his lips met my clit, dripping as his fingers entered my vagina and then, as he feasted on me, he slowly opened my anus with his finger. It felt so right! And after some time of this bliss, the slow and gentle entering and the building fire and all consuming orgasm. Hmmmmmmmmmm Be creative, be gentle, be blissed WILDly remembering
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I agree with everyone...only do it if YOU want to...don't let anyone talk you into it if it doesn't feel right for you! I myself cannot do anal...it hurts wayyyy too much!!!! Oh and before everyone says "you haven't found the right guy to do it" or "you need someone that is experienced at it" blah blah blah...I have tried many many times..and EVERY time was a fail! Some of us are just not built for anal at all....You're right of course. Like licking armpits, it's not for everyone. However involving anal sex, tension is definitely not your friend. As revolting as it might sounds to say, with a clean back door, all you need to do is, at the moment of penetration, push like you are straining to take a dump. This causes your sphincter muscles to relax. When people say you need to be sexually excited, they mean arousal helps you to be relaxed. Your bum hole has a natural tendancy to remain closed... and for good reason that's how it should be... but that's also why bums feel sooo nice!Speaking of relaxing...... Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'You have advised heaps on these forums, now tell us please what your recommendations are based on, we have no problems our forum posts are fact!You don't seem to be relaxed. In point of fact, you seem positively uptight. In keeping with the topic of this thread my advice to you is that "fibre is your friend".HugsStalky
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I agree with everyone...only do it if YOU want to...don't let anyone talk you into it if it doesn't feel right for you! I myself cannot do anal...it hurts wayyyy too much!!!! Oh and before everyone says "you haven't found the right guy to do it" or "you need someone that is experienced at it" blah blah blah...I have tried many many times..and EVERY time was a fail! Some of us are just not built for anal at all....You're right of course. Like licking armpits, it's not for everyone. However involving anal sex, tension is definitely not your friend. As revolting as it might sounds to say, with a clean back door, all you need to do is, at the moment of penetration, push like you are straining to take a dump. This causes your sphincter muscles to relax. When people say you need to be sexually excited, they mean arousal helps you to be relaxed. Your bum hole has a natural tendancy to remain closed... and for good reason that's how it should be... but that's also why bums feel sooo nice!Speaking of relaxing...... Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'You have advised heaps on these forums, now tell us please what your recommendations are based on, we have no problems our forum posts are fact!You don't seem to be relaxed. In point of fact, you seem positively uptight. In keeping with the topic of this thread my advice to you is that "fibre is your friend".HugsStalky But I do love the thought of anal sex....love watching it on the porn sites....turns me on sooooo much! If I have a finger slipped up there whilst being licked or fucked...OMG...I cum so hard! Just can't get the whole cock in there...no matter how pissed/horny/comatosed I am! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx'But I do love the thought of anal sex....love watching it on the porn sites....turns me on sooooo much! If I have a finger slipped up there whilst being licked or fucked...OMG...I cum so hard! Just can't get the whole cock in there...no matter how pissed/horny/comatosed I am! xFunlovingx Slipping a finger in? Oh please stop. With that kind of dirty talk you're turning me on!HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Understand that anal sex is a dead end. Also cocksucking is a dead end. To experience sex as it can be you need to forget everything you know. My website will be up soon. But if you ask specific questions then I'll answer. Anal sex means that your partner does not know any better. But no one does so it's nothing personal to anyone. People need to relearn what it's all about. Which is unlocking the mind, and completely removing every trace of anxiety. It's very difficult I know but it's worth it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
No... I mean... damn. Of course, I've known all along that I've been doing it wrong for the last 45 years. I'm ever so glad you are going to put all the answers up on yet another website so I can ask questions. I can hardly wait magic! It will be worth it.... whatever it is.HugsStalky
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oralalot
14 years ago
My best tip is lots on gentle forplay. If your partner will, then rimming workks well. And slowly for the first time. Once its in things soon become more comfortable. Try it for a short time at first.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'magicianandwife'Understand that anal sex is a dead end. Also cocksucking is a dead end. To experience sex as it can be you need to forget everything you know. My website will be up soon. But if you ask specific questions then I'll answer. Anal sex means that your partner does not know any better. But no one does so it's nothing personal to anyone. People need to relearn what it's all about. Which is unlocking the mind, and completely removing every trace of anxiety. It's very difficult I know but it's worth it. Hey Majic sounds right like it !good stuff! Stalky Would not a Happy little vegemite be more keeping with thread? or peanut nutter? rather than fibre? Ganga: Warning Warning Warning Serious health Warning: Any toys etc placed in your Bum must be securely attached or tapered as it is possible to lose it in your bowells and am sure you dont want to see a Doctor to get it out.....it has happened more often than you would think....serious.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'magicianandwife'Understand that anal sex is a dead end. Also cocksucking is a dead end. To experience sex as it can be you need to forget everything you know. My website will be up soon. But if you ask specific questions then I'll answer. Anal sex means that your partner does not know any better. But no one does so it's nothing personal to anyone. People need to relearn what it's all about. Which is unlocking the mind, and completely removing every trace of anxiety. It's very difficult I know but it's worth it. They're all dead ends... which is fine, because I can only drive up those streets a certain distance anyway. . Was I right to read that post in a sort of dreamy tone, Dude? Now.. where did I put that bong? Ahhh there it is.. man.. coool. gurgle.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you don't have a truly experienced partner, you will never enjoy it....and don't let guys tell you they know what they are doing if you are not 100% sure.......Quoting 'Meeka100' Choose someone with some experience particularly the first time and someone you are very relaxed with. Oh and yes definitely lube the first time anyway. hehehe. . . Definitely only do it if you want to because once you have tried it you will never go back
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would be interested for you to expand on what you mean by your post above....as I am tempted to be critical....but I would like some more detail of exactly what you mean...anal is a dead end...(is that a gag ?) and cock sucking is a dead end etc.... I'm guessing we are talking Tantra or something similar...and whilst I am very open to different philosophiesand all kinds of opinions...unlicking the mind, releasing all anxiety...yep all sounds good but why does that make for a beter sex life ? Why does it mean that if My partner asks Me for anal (often) I don;t know any better by giving it to her...? So please, expand, explain...as I am all ears....I'm sure we all are... Kama...I thought your advice was sound... Ganga...please also consider a regular colonic irrigation (enema) both for your health and as a method of relaxing and being less uptight prior to anal sex...in my experience the reason for being unable too relax is for fear of an "accident"...and whilst its not a problem for me...my partner is able to completely relax knowing that she feels clean and unlikely to have any issues that need tissues ! lol Anyone else who is feeling down, lethargic, blocked, bellyaches, bloated...give yoursefl a good ol clean out and you will bounce out of bed and meet the day like a new person... It is popular in other cultures...(and amongst pornstars !)...so don't be a prude...and if you dont like prunes...do something to get that shit out of there !!! BadDoggy. Can we talk abut something sexy now ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' I LIKE This! New Standard boys!!!! 45 min forplay on the arse before you venture in !!!! Alright! Finally a good deal!!!!! woot woot!!!!! hehehehe 45 minutes...at least..
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RHP User
14 years ago
You had me at hello....actually you didn't even need that. PJ
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadBadDog'So please, expand, explain...as I am all ears....I'm sure we all are... Kama...I thought your advice was sound... Ganga...please also consider a regular colonic irrigation (enema) both for your health and as a method of relaxing and being less uptight prior to anal sex...in my experience the reason for being unable too relax is for fear of an "accident"...and whilst its not a problem for me...my partner is able to completely relax knowing that she feels clean and unlikely to have any issues that need tissues ! lol Anyone else who is feeling down, lethargic, blocked, bellyaches, bloated...give yoursefl a good ol clean out and you will bounce out of bed and meet the day like a new person... It is popular in other cultures...(and amongst pornstars !)...so don't be a prude...and if you dont like prunes...do something to get that shit out of there !!! BadDoggy. Can we talk abut something sexy now ? Why don't you contribute more often, Dawg?HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Took me years to get the courage up to agree to anal sex. I still can't appreciate anal unless i've been taken to near orgasm with 'normal' sex first...that very hot, very wet and about to go through the roof-type horny. 'Normal'... what would you call it? Pussy sex? Lol. Relax! I find the key is to keep the anal muscles relaxed, or yes, it will hurt. And yes ofcourse the understanding guy and the lube to go with it, or soaped up in the shower is awesome too and way easier to um, keep things clean. Once u've tried it a few times, you may find it offers you some of the most explosive orgasms u've ever experienced ;-) Lushx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just a point not mentioned above, there are lubes then there are anal lubes, I find ones with a silicon base work best. Preparation is the key here a liberal application on your arse and in is best before penetration. The initial entry is going to hurt like hell, there are numbing sprays you can get from Sex Shops to reduce this. My advice is to not pull out on first penetration but to pause and wait for initial pain to reduce before pushing further on... good luck. Geting a third person is also a great idea as they can help stimulate, keep u excited, prepare and guide your man in. xxxx M
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tsvhairybear
14 years ago
From a gay male point of view - anal sex is HOT. But yes it HURTS. If done right and u are relaxed it hurts but in an enjoyable, sexual way. If not done right it just downright hurts. Like all things it is a lot of mental preparation as well as physical. If you are not 100% sure or comfortable then it won't work. Preparation is essential - enema/douche to make sure no accidents and once u tried it a bit and realised u are clean it is amazing how well u can relax and enjoy it more. There are also sprays and creams you can use. Guys who want to try it - just go slow. Nice and easy and gentle and eventually when your partner will get into it. I have sadly been on the receiving end of a guy who just did not understand "gentle to start please". Needless to say he learnt the hard way. Give it a go. First time might be the right time so try again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Great advice there Kama.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love to eat my woman for a long time, rimming, sucking clit and tongue all over so could go 45 min if needed but i reckon 20 would be plenty.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You have to get in there and lube it up first, foreplay for hours helps, teaseing with tongue helps relax u, when u think its wet and lose enough for a cock..
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RHP User
14 years ago
we had both maintained a policy of "press the door bell but don't go in the door" till...... last weekend.... when he, well, fel through the door and it was in her words "awesome"
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nicely put bro
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RHP User
14 years ago
from "a bro you wanna know" the male half of us2.... You really don't think that with that much arrogance saturating your post many will be curious? Hey if you can prove you have all the answers and ability to Unlearn (are you a Jedi?) i'll lie naked on cottesloe bch with a kite tied to my "mini-me" (coz like wolverine thinks of cyclops-i'm a dick) purely coz of that council's stance on topless bathing and kites... seriously... if omnipotence is a side effect of Magic-get David Copperfield on the blower!! Just like Badbaddog said, can we talk about sumfing sexy n that??
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RHP User
14 years ago
My previous partner was very keen on anal along with spanking, hair pulling etc- The tame end of being dominated I guess. Anal really did 'ring her bell' and gave her some massive orgasms. The joy of anal for me however was not physical but mental - there is nothing quite so satisfying as making a girl come that hard - but I find the anus to be too smooth (inside) and I much prefer a pussy with its 'built in' grip.Don't try it because you feel you should, but try it because you want to. That should go a long way to help you from tensing up. Get used to having a thumb or finger inserted in your ass during pussy sex. Allow for lots of lube and time. An empty bowel and shower before hand is always a must. (If you skip the shower dont expect the rimming...)Anal sex is not 'out' for me but it's somthing I can enjoy on occasion - we all enjoy the feeling of doing something taboo sometimes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
any horny gals want some funn???
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always get myself into the shit stalky... Then have to take a break ! lol Hope you are well matey... Cheers.
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RHP User
14 years ago
No matter how you look at it, whether the guy is well endowed or average, the anal cavity was not designed for intercourse.....So all i can say to this topic which has most likely said alot already is just take it slow sweetie, don't rush into it (pardon the pun) at all, because it could do real serious damage to you and will NEVER be able to try it again, especially if he has a big dick..... But all the more make sure you lube up fairly well, it doesn't actually have to be ALOT say, but the guy's dick does have to be covered completely in lube, because if he's got a dry spot on there at the point of entry it will most likely start to feel uncomfortable, especially if it's your first time trying anal, and also quite a reasonable amount around and inside your arse is always good just incase there is a dry spot on his dick you both don't realize is there..... Also play a little first with each other, some nice foreplay is always good before the beginning of anal, and also during, my suggestion is while you are in the middle of it (again pardon the pun), have him finger your pussy or you can always do it yourself , the choice is yours really.....But that helps relax you even more especially during..... I hope this helps and i hope you have fun trying it out, because it can be ALOT of fun for both of you..... Playfulguy.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
hi Ganga if your your looking for some one to learn with i am more than willing to help you enjoy the experiance at your leisure and patience am very considerate and willing to please you
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have always wanted to try it, but never have been allowed or been with girls who were really into it :( I'm willing to learn! haha
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RHP User
14 years ago
This guy ^^^^^^^^^^ above started this up again ...... I love a good anal sex or safe sex forum ........truly if Oprah goes off air I can always read anal sex and safe sex forums OK here goes Hey what do you all think about Drugs at swingers parties .................. or What is a professional ? waiting,waiting,waiting .........that should liven the place up a bit ! Brae ..................munching on popcorn before he starts his choc top !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' This guy ^^^^^^^^^^ above started this up again ...... I love a good anal sex or safe sex forum ........truly if Oprah goes off air I can always read anal sex and safe sex forums OK here goes Hey what do you all think about Drugs at swingers parties .................. or What is a professional ? waiting,waiting,waiting .........that should liven the place up a bit ! Brae ..................munching on popcorn before he starts his choc top ! Yehhh at last a sensible suggestion on this thread Sex Drugs and Rock and Roll, White latex outfits, leather studed kisses, we want every infection. Burn the condom let the ladies have wet pussies again ...its their right,,, Anal sex is now illegal in Australia sentence if caught public flogin. Got the Dr Stalky seal of approval. Yehhhhh
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guess a good course of EPO would do wonders for your stamina... Has anyone fucked lance Armstrong and able to confirm (note to armstrongs litigious legal team: only kidding). I don't know about those professionals, but what about fatties? And people who don't write back... Or worse, professional fatties who don't write back...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au'I guess a good course of EPO would do wonders for your stamina... Has anyone fucked lance Armstrong and able to confirm (note to armstrongs litigious legal team: only kidding). I don't know about those professionals, but what about fatties? And people who don't write back... Or worse, professional fatties who don't write back... but how about guys with big dicks and on drugs who don't wear condoms having sex with professional fatties who didnt write back in the first place and have fake photos or photos of the girl only , who is older than both her picture and age descriptor suggest both of whom are cheating ! One of which who didnt put out at a swingers party but did like male on male bisexual action at a swingers club ! Then lets add in some comment about a drinks night and get the whole thread closed down! Brae ..................come on Syd LMAO !
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RHP User
14 years ago
hi ganga,it great to see how many helpful people there are out in rhp land.i would like to include myself but rather than offer more advice, simply offer to meet up with you and we can see how we go.i travel victoria and southern n.s.w frequently and would like to meet any discrete female members or couples interested in genuine contact.please no high jumps or dreamers just real people looking to meet ,like this beauty ganga...1 crazymexican
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hello Ganga30, All I can say is that I convinced my wife to have a crack and ruined it for me for evermore with lack of experience and it was me who took control and did not give it to her to take control. If I could do it again I would do the following......First (because I do have an arse fascination) I would give it a nice amount of time and attention with my tongueSecondly after about 15 minutes I'd introduce a finger very slowly with plenty of lubrication.... then more lube and even though you may think you have enough put twice that amount on before you even think of starting.Thirdly start small, a small finger then slowly get to increase size.Lastly and most importantly If it is uncomfortable stop and then go back a step or just stop and make sure you control the situation not your partner, this is where I went wrong.Have a great time with the anal!Stew
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RHP User
14 years ago
I Fully Agree, Use a good lubricant, Get a man with experence, relax and make youself as comfortable as you can (i recomend lying on your back at first untill it starts feeling good) doggy position can be uncomfortable or painfull for a first time, make sure he gives you a lot of attention in that area riming/licking and touching but dont let him forget about the other areas as well try 2 get him multitasking buy getting him to give you oral while gentlly stimulating your anus , dont let put it in before you are ready you will know when you are because your anus wont allow anything in untill you are relaxed and stimulated , make shure he goes slow and gentle, and dont be afraid to play with your clit it will feel more pleasurable and will keep you turned on
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
About a month ago I was with Mr Cop from Qld and we ended up having anal sex and all I can say is YUM YUM YUM! While it was painful to start with and he didn't use all his cock...it was sooooooooooooooooooooo hot!! He sat in a chair and I straddled him....he then slowly inserted his penis inside me and it gave me control of the movements and how far he could get it in....I found that the best as every other time I tried anal (over 20 years ago)...I tried it on my back and doggy and side to side but was all to painful that I did not want to try it again! I say go the chair....now I just want more more MORE!!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' About a month ago I was with Mr Cop from Qld and we ended up having anal sex and all I can say is YUM YUM YUM! While it was painful to start with and he didn't use all his cock...it was sooooooooooooooooooooo hot!! He sat in a chair and I straddled him....he then slowly inserted his penis inside me and it gave me control of the movements and how far he could get it in....I found that the best as every other time I tried anal (over 20 years ago)...I tried it on my back and doggy and side to side but was all to painful that I did not want to try it again! I say go the chair....now I just want more more MORE!!! xFunlovingx ALL I can say Brae ............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' About a month ago I was with Mr Cop from Qld and we ended up having anal sex and all I can say is YUM YUM YUM! While it was painful to start with and he didn't use all his cock...it was sooooooooooooooooooooo hot!! He sat in a chair and I straddled him....he then slowly inserted his penis inside me and it gave me control of the movements and how far he could get it in....I found that the best as every other time I tried anal (over 20 years ago)...I tried it on my back and doggy and side to side but was all to painful that I did not want to try it again! I say go the chair....now I just want more more MORE!!! xFunlovingx ALL I can say Brae ............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' About a month ago I was with Mr Cop from Qld and we ended up having anal sex and all I can say is YUM YUM YUM! While it was painful to start with and he didn't use all his cock...it was sooooooooooooooooooooo hot!! He sat in a chair and I straddled him....he then slowly inserted his penis inside me and it gave me control of the movements and how far he could get it in....I found that the best as every other time I tried anal (over 20 years ago)...I tried it on my back and doggy and side to side but was all to painful that I did not want to try it again! I say go the chair....now I just want more more MORE!!! xFunlovingx lolz... well well well...... it seems it does matter about technique after all! :p You naughty girl!HugsS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wether with your back to him or facing him, the chair is the best way to fly here. If you face toward him you can lean on his shoulders but reverse cowgirl style is a better angle.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmm yes totally agree with taking it slow and sensual is the best....Lots of lube and loads of foreplay...before you know it....Your doing it lols....and so worth the wait...Enjoy!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Use lube, go slow and buckle up ;-)
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fragnonymous
14 years ago
We've it with her laying on her back helps us get the right angle. Just rotate the hips further around than when you're doing it vaginally. Lots of lube obviously. It makes it easy to play with her clit with your hand at the same time.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
I thought that Ganga asked the same question before...just had to find it! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
It rang a bell, geez even I haven't doubled up on a thread, and I never shut up . . Shut up smartasses
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well she is obviously still wondering XxMeeks
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you're still just wondering about it after a year, surely you're not that curious? procrASStinating a lil bit maybe?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah Ganga... have you taken it up the date yet? Maybe she keeps falling for ass fuckers DGT and is wondering why?xxMeeks
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
She has had it up the date a few times hehehe! She does after all have "Anal Receiving" on her profile since she opened this topic way back in January! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
maybe a guy...promoting gay sex?
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife does not like anal sex or rather can't get past psycological part. She has done it twice, only once with me. When I eat her out after she has squirted a few times I then stick a finger in her ass with resistance and she goes off, sometimes asking for more. One night she asked for more fingers so I had three in her arse and she still want more, but she won't take my cock. When she rides me I sometimes put two fingers in her arse and she is very accommodating and goes off, she loosens up for more with ease. So my thoughts are, is I think it is all in her mind the reason she wont take my cock. I am sure her first experience was bad as well, before I came along.
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