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Anal Sex - Naughty or Nice?

February 11 2006

Another probing question (sorry, bad pun ;-) to get us talking and discoving what’s "normal" and what’s not... The question: Is anal sex (between hetro couples, please) the norm, or is it still considered a "taboo" that only "bad girls" and "virgin" Greeks do? Share your stories / experiences / opinions: Ladies: Have you ever been on the receiving end? Is is something you (fairly) regularly partake in, or is a "special treat" for your man? (Aniversary or birthday only?) Do you enjoy it or "put up with it"? (Here’s a rare one) Or are you the one that wants it, but your man (ex?) didn’t want to do it? Men: Have you ever given it to a lady? What did you think of it? How often would you like to do it? What do you think of the girl afterwards? Is she a dirty ho, or is she a very giving and loving woman? Does she cum when you do it? Share your thoughts and lets all learn a little more about whther we are "freaks" or just like everyone lese here. (TIP: Guys- A well worded, thoughtful, correctly spelled and structured reply could catch the eye of a lady reading this thread. Stop complaining about women not replying to your messages, and show yourself as an intelligent and caring lover.) Cheers, M & C Ps. And yes, I have a very giving and loving woman. ;-)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    hi guys , my thoughts on this subject is that done properly in the right atmoshere its a great pleasure for all .its just another stimulation like s&m b&d etc . fetish or what ever you call it but performed in correctly it is very uncomfortable for both not just the receiver iam not talking from person expeirence ive never been penetrated but my partner has and does and enjoys it every time . freaks ! absolutly Not its a pure form of pleasure practiced centuries ago and still been done today . take it or leave it to me its all good amongst adult and freind enjoy sex ia all good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    Hi all, I’ve had experience in this area with my last couple of girlfriends. THe best advice I can give is TAKE IT SLOW!! If you go too far too soon then you can kiss any other chances goodbye. Make sure you do everything to get her used to it and comfortable with the feeling of having something up there. Do whatever you have to do to make her relaxed and comfortable! Most girls will rub themselves to start with and I think that is to take their mind off the initial discomfort. Onc they’re past that point then they love it and usually have the biggest orgasms, seriously. A good starting position is have her on her back with her knees and legs slightly drawn into her chest. This position relaxes all the abdominal muscles and other muscles in that area. If you’re going to try doggie style then make sure she’s not holding herself up as muscles are used to hold this position and you don’t want anything tense in that area. If you start out and she says no then stop and respect her wishes. If you are respectful to her then eventually she will open up an she will thank you forever. Hope this helps. P.S. You can never have too much lube!!!!!! :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    19 years ago

    I first tried anal with my now current fiance and i must admit it wasnt my fave to begin with but now its a regular thing in the sack! And its also a regualr for me to go down on my man from behind, i dont mind if i know the area is clean and well groomed! we both enjoy this tremendously and also when toys r involved! if u havent tried it yet then u missing something that can rock ur world! and as said above ’’u can neva get enuff lube’’