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Anal leakage ?
October 12 2013
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
What's with the "?".... aren't you sure if she's your ex?!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ignore DG's pointless post, your question is pretty obvious - you stated your girlfriend's concerns and asked if any of us have any information/experience/opinion regarding those concerns. I don't have any experience but I recall someone mentioning anal leakage before and I decided (perhaps foolishly!) to google (sic) it. There's a wealth of info online and it's definitely worth educating yourself. A bunch of forum folks will have some helpful advice - stay tuned :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tend to agree with her. The sphincter muscle is not designed for things to enter that particular orriface. Oh there is no doubt that the occasional anal session will not do a great deal of harm but I do wonder along with your girlfriend about the long term effects of a lot of anal- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But isn't the average(I use this loosely of course :p) girth of a penis about that of some bowel movements anyway??? Or are you an elephant?? Point is, I'm not so sure that that would happen with the right preparation, and not hammering away like you're trying to find her breakfast... I could be wrong though - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Point is, I'm not so sure that that would happen with the right preparation, and not hammering away like you're trying to find her breakfast... Your such a wordsmith lurk !!!! lmao
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RHP User
11 years ago
...xknots
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
:-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
a penis is hard,a poo is soft,if a poo is hard it can cause pain and other problems...so OP as lilmiss has said, let google be your friend.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know people in their late fifties that have been having extreme anal sex for their entire lives. I am taking double fisting and extreme toys. They have no problems and don't have to get about with nappies on. Its a myth made up by uneducated homophobes to justify their own closeted inhibitions.But that said do be careful and don't persuade someone into doing something that they do not want to do. So uncool to demand anal from a girl that does not want it.
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cremecaramel
11 years ago
"Everything in moderation" seems to fit here- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To count the number of times Ive engaged in anal sex. I can assure you Im tight as I ever was. It still effing hurts until you relax :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
... with everything you say here. N thanks everyone else too for your comments.Quoting 'Blindman67' I know people in their late fifties that have been having extreme anal sex for their entire lives. I am taking double fisting and extreme toys. They have no problems and don't have to get about with nappies on. Its a myth made up by uneducated homophobes to justify their own closeted inhibitions.But that said do be careful and don't persuade someone into doing something that they do not want to do. So uncool to demand anal from a girl that does not want it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We think small doses are fine, but there comes a time when a bit more care is justified around 50. Medical problems with the anus are not pleasant and from memory it ranks right up in deaths. Its over rated that's for sure, guys should receive before they give.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We have several friends who are surgeons at a hospital in Melbourne, who have made mention of an alarming number of young Greek women who have been admitted with anal/ rectal damage following anal sex. The anal lining is very thin and easily torn and damaged. The anus is not designed for sex and is not self lubricating and one has to be very careful with regards anal play. Certainly not something to rush into and do on a daily basis. We know a few gay men in their 50 's all of whom have damaged anuses and haemorrhoids as a result of their lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
... if I knew my partner wasn't enjoying it as well. Lots of foreplay and relaxation, lots of lube and lots of time are keys. I've had some partners that really love it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' We have several friends who are surgeons at a hospital in Melbourne, who have made mention of an alarming number of young Greek women who have been admitted with anal/ rectal damage following anal sex. The anal lining is very thin and easily torn and damaged. The anus is not designed for sex and is not self lubricating and one has to be very careful with regards anal play. Certainly not something to rush into and do on a daily basis. We know a few gay men in their 50 's all of whom have damaged anuses and haemorrhoids as a result of their lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile If anal sex is done without regard and brutally then off course there will be damage, just the same as normal vaginal sex. Any form of sex can cause damage if one partner is an inconsiderate brute. Hemorrhoids are not caused by anal sex. Hemorrhoids are cause by pushing to hard on a turd. You need to eat plenty of fiber to keep the system healthy. I have been having anal sex since I was young and I have no problems at all. I have never been sick, had hemorrhoids, or any problems at all.It could well be argued that the anus is partly adapted for sex. Why would so many enjoy it? Why would it give many such intense pleasure?You know some gay people. Wow that is fantastic, but they all have damaged anuses. Well I smell something not quite right in that statement. Is it bullshit... mmm think so.You don't have to believe me look it up on the net. There are no long term problems associated with anal sex, even if the fucker has a 9+ inch cock.All human contact of any kind involves risk of infection, damage, and ongoing problems. If you fear that then you can easily hide in a plastic bubble, or you can live life to the full and enjoy all the joys that life has for use, including the undoubted and intense please of anal sex.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
I think you may have misunderstood our comment about the gay guys that we know . We know quite a few - but we were simply referring to several of them, who have mentioned that that have a few anal problems. Not all of them.As far as we are aware haemorrhoids are a pinched off "blood" vessel that pops out of its lining and forms a bulge which is then associated with pain and sometimes a little bleeding. Yes we are aware that constipation and even childbirth can cause these, but then so can pushing something large into the anus.Anal sex is not just a "gay" thing and so those opposed to it really should not be labeled as "homophobic" .I disagree that because one may derive some pleasure from anal sex that one can then say that the anus is, to a certain point, adapted and or designed for sex. Thats ludicrous. Its like saying that because one enjoys shagging sheep, that they are adapted to having sex with humans.Yes the anus has several thousand nerve endings, which are probably there for a good reason - so as to let one know when to squeeze and or wipe and or when something is wrong (instinctual) . But I am sure that the anus was not designed to be a sex organ as had it been, it would have been self lubricating for starters.Then there is the fact that the anus & rectum contains a lot of harmful bacteria like ecoli, which if they get into a vagina can cause many problems like vaganitis and urinary tract infections, which is why its a well known fact, that has been well documented, that one never goes from anal to vaginal play without first washing or changing condoms.But we are all different and are entitled to enjoy our bodies in whatever way we wish. If you have been enjoying anal sex since your teens without any health issues or damage, that does not mean that everyone who engages in anal sex will not have any problems.Its best to be well informed and to do ones own research.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just pointing that out to you guys.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well guess you would have to experience what it is like. If you have not experienced the intensity of the pleasure then how can you comment on it at all about what it is like. You do know that in men the prostrate is just inside the anus and that applying pressure to it is similar to the sensation that women get when the same glands are stimulated. If you douche you will find out that the anus does indeed produce mucus so it is self lubricating. The true fact is that the mouth harbors far more bacteria then the anus, including your feared ecoli (By the way only 0.1%, that's right 1 in a thousand strains of ecoli are harmful) Do you not know that the mouth is directly attached to the anus and that the normal way germs get into the ass is via your mouth. By the time you get to your anus the vast majority of the germs have been killed. The germs that remain are mostly anaerobic bacteria that quickly die in the presence of oxygen. You have a greater risk of getting infections from blow jobs and oral sex then anal sex. The germs that reside in your digestive track are healthy germs that you need to be healthy and help the breakdown and digestion process of the healthy human body.I never have anal sex with out first douching. It is a must and when done properly the anus is very clean. Cleaner than a clean plate you eat your food off of. Your hands carry more germs. God do you have any clue about how many germs there are in our environment. Yes if your cock gets covered in shit and then you stick it in a cunt then it can lead to infection, but its the shit that provides nutrients and protection for the germs to live on and survive in a toxic environment.As for comparing anal sex the same as having sex with animals is ridiculousness. Next you will be saying we should only enjoy sex for procreation. Do you not know that anal sex is a natural method of human bonding. Try it one day Mr and see what it is like. You preach informed debate, what would you know if you have not even tried it.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
I, Leslie, have tried anal many times, and so please dont incorrectly assume that I have not.And whilst my husband was very gentle and used lots of lube, what I can say is that it was extremely painful, but then he has a lot of "girth".What I can also say is that for about 4 days afterwards, it was painful and difficult when trying to do a number # 2.But hey, whatever floats your boat. There seems to be more medical evidence, written by specialists, as to the dangers, with very little medical evidence stating that its completely safe and without any risks and or dangers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As I said before, ALL human interaction has risks. You say you have done it many times but then two paragraphs down you talk as if it was but a single instance. So was the many times OK and once it went wrong or was it many times in a dream. I can find endless articles on the dangers of sex, normal vaginal hetro sex. There seems to be more medical evidence, written by specialists, as to the dangers, with NO medical evidence stating that its completely safe and without any risks or dangers. Why do you even indulge if you know all this. Why join a adult sex site if you fear sex... I am not about to stop enjoying my self and giving pleasure to those that enjoy sex with me. You do not know what you are talking about and have little experience in the back door department. Please stop lacing the forums with ill considered moralistic advice and leave it to people that have had A LOT of experience.LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the ass is not meant for sex, then why is it possible for both men and women to have anal orgasms, and literally cum in their arse. I've experienced this myself on a few occasions, and it feels looks and smells like ejaculate, essentially I believe it is the same prostate fluid but it naturally has an opening into the ass cavity as well as out of the cock. In my experience tho it was not so much an intense pulsating experience like ejaculation followed by a loss of energy, not sure if I have had a really deep anal orgasm but have definitely cum in my own ass.The ass, like the vagina takes time to stretch out and get used to having a big cock in it, more so than the vagina. If your husbands cock left you sore for a few days, I would say that you went too big, too soon and were probably not feeling relaxed enough and ready for it. You need to start small and work your way up to having something big in your ass, if done well, with patience, it shouldn't feel painful, and can be very enjoyable, relaxing is the key, and you need to know your not going to be violated in order to be able to relax. The ass has an incredible ability to stretch out over time and as I understand is very elastic, which is what this topic is all about really. :) I already had my thoughts on the subject but I really wanted to check in with others also, and I think this whole convo has helped me understand it all better.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Well guess you would have to experience what it is like. If you have not experienced the intensity of the pleasure then how can you comment on it at all about what it is like. You do know that in men the prostrate is just inside the anus and that applying pressure to it is similar to the sensation that women get when the same glands are stimulated. If you douche you will find out that the anus does indeed produce mucus so it is self lubricating. The true fact is that the mouth harbors far more bacteria then the anus, including your feared ecoli (By the way only 0.1%, that's right 1 in a thousand strains of ecoli are harmful) Do you not know that the mouth is directly attached to the anus and that the normal way germs get into the ass is via your mouth. By the time you get to your anus the vast majority of the germs have been killed. The germs that remain are mostly anaerobic bacteria that quickly die in the presence of oxygen. You have a greater risk of getting infections from blow jobs and oral sex then anal sex. The germs that reside in your digestive track are healthy germs that you need to be healthy and help the breakdown and digestion process of the healthy human body.I never have anal sex with out first douching. It is a must and when done properly the anus is very clean. Cleaner than a clean plate you eat your food off of. Your hands carry more germs. God do you have any clue about how many germs there are in our environment. Yes if your cock gets covered in shit and then you stick it in a cunt then it can lead to infection, but its the shit that provides nutrients and protection for the germs to live on and survive in a toxic environment. Blindman......I am commenting only to say.... yours is a very, VERY simplistic description of the bacterial, viral and even multi cellular pathogens that can be found in the lower digestive tract....... regardless of how clean you believe you have made it.You have an interest in anal sex..... fine.....do what you enjoy, and go to your usual effots to make yourself as clean as you do.But misrepresenting science does not support the position you take in favour of anal sex.This is not the time or pace to give a lecture on pathogens..... simply to say, you are incorrect in your statements about them. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Blindman67' Well guess you would have to experience what it is like. If you have not experienced the intensity of the pleasure then how can you comment on it at all about what it is like. You do know that in men the prostrate is just inside the anus and that applying pressure to it is similar to the sensation that women get when the same glands are stimulated. If you douche you will find out that the anus does indeed produce mucus so it is self lubricating. The true fact is that the mouth harbors far more bacteria then the anus, including your feared ecoli (By the way only 0.1%, that's right 1 in a thousand strains of ecoli are harmful) Do you not know that the mouth is directly attached to the anus and that the normal way germs get into the ass is via your mouth. By the time you get to your anus the vast majority of the germs have been killed. The germs that remain are mostly anaerobic bacteria that quickly die in the presence of oxygen. You have a greater risk of getting infections from blow jobs and oral sex then anal sex. The germs that reside in your digestive track are healthy germs that you need to be healthy and help the breakdown and digestion process of the healthy human body. I never have anal sex with out first douching. It is a must and when done properly the anus is very clean. Cleaner than a clean plate you eat your food off of. Your hands carry more germs. God do you have any clue about how many germs there are in our environment. Yes if your cock gets covered in shit and then you stick it in a cunt then it can lead to infection, but its the shit that provides nutrients and protection for the germs to live on and survive in a toxic environment. Blindman...... I am commenting only to say.... yours is a very, VERY simplistic description of the bacterial, viral and even multi cellular pathogens that can be found in the lower digestive tract....... regardless of how clean you believe you have made it. You have an interest in anal sex..... fine.....do what you enjoy, and go to your usual effots to make yourself as clean as you do. But misrepresenting science does not support the position you take in favour of anal sex. This is not the time or pace to give a lecture on pathogens..... simply to say, you are incorrect in your statements about them. DG You are not the do all and be all of anal sex. If you don't do it how can you comment on it.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Seriously, miss bliss?I think you need to read my comment again, and note the following.....1. I have not made any judgements against anal sex, or those who enjoy it. Quite the reverse. I said if you enjoy it... thats fine. Im not into it... which is also fine.2. My comments above were entirely related to the misinformation on pathogens.... not the practice of anal sex or those tho enjoy it. I was quite specific about that....and 3..... I can without doubt be certain that you have passed comment on subjects you 'dont do'..... so I find your last sentence rather odd, and I wonder why you're so angry about it.DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I think the Op girlfriend does not want anal sex, and the Op is trying to persuade her , biggest supporters of anal sex are those who are not heterosexual. Which is fine for their lifestyle, no real option.
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RHP User
11 years ago
and has an un~lived out fantasy of DP ... just that mine is too big and she finds the thought of it way too much (not bragging, just the way it is). She loves to tease me with the idea of taking another guys cock in her ass that is not so big tho ( while she takes my cock in her pussy ) which is fine, I have the same fantasy anyway and would love to share her with another guy. She does love anal play though and I thoroughly enjoy massage around her ass, sometimes with my cock as well, she just isn't open to any actual penetration at the moment, which is fine of course. We had awesome sex anyway, it's not like I 'need' it, just something I love and would like to explore more. I believe it's more psychological than physical, it's about being mentally ok with it and trusting your partner isn't going to go too far and will respect your boundaries.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... a little correction ... with another guy that I thought was 'cool/respecful' enough. Part of the reason I am not sure whether I should be calling her my girlfriend or my ex right now.... for a little clarity's sake around that.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Alturnative - the prostrate glad does not open into the anus - I suggest you go and check your facts. Yes one can feel the prostrate glad through the thin walls of the rectum, but the prostrate only opens, and discharges its fluid, into the penis where it mixes with sperm cells from the testicles.And for Blindman, I have has anal sex several times with my husband - we have been married almost 17 years.In fact earlier this year , we I had 2 DP's with the same chap, in a MMF 3 some that we enjoyed at Attunga. His penis was a lot smaller, and thinner than my husbands, and so was more manageable and so there was no pain upon insertion. Despite that, and lots of lube, it was still painful to go to the loo for 4 days after that.I am not condemming anal sex - its not for me as I am sore afterwards . You are more than welcome to enjoy it, as you you have for many years. If you feel that its medically safe and has no risks, then thats your opinion. Perhaps you need to speak to your GP and see what he advises ?|
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RHP User
11 years ago
I, and others that I personally know, have experienced anal ejaculate, which for all intents and purposes smells, looks and feels like cock ejaculate, so what I suggest is that you perhaps go and check your 'facts' because this is what I and others have actually personally experienced. From what I understand it is usually associated with what is known as an anal orgasm. Just in case you were wondering, on the times that it has appeared for me, it couldn't have been from another cock, because there wasn't one in there, it was when women were playing with me using their fingers, hands and strap on's.
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
I did a google search " Spincter damage following anal intercourse" which took me to several interesting sites and medical reports. One was surgical report showing photographs of how a damaged anus was repaired surgically. Interesting reading indeed. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounds to me like it was forceful entry by some insensitive sex addicted moron ? Either that or the person was really into pain at the time and wouldn't say no, or most likely a combination of both ?I've got a BIG realistic cock dildo which is almost 2" wide ... and I love it in my ass, feels awesome ! I wouldn't want to just ram it in there tho, no doubt I could seriously damage myself with it if i didn't take my time and use plenty of lube.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The consequence of a stretched Vigania has quite different result to stretched leaking arse.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'AlturNative'I, and others that I personally know, have experienced anal ejaculate, which for all intents and purposes smells, looks and feels like cock ejaculate, so what I suggest is that you perhaps go and check your 'facts' because this is what I and others have actually personally experienced. From what I understand it is usually associated with what is known as an anal orgasm. Just in case you were wondering, on the times that it has appeared for me, it couldn't have been from another cock, because there wasn't one in there, it was when women were playing with me using their fingers, hands and strap on's.Seriously? Bum spoof? You believe that? Can we take some of whatever you're on? lol
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