Anal sex?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  anal sex can be awesome when done with care, respect and most importantly, properly. however, most people haven't got a damn clue how to go about it. they get their anal education from the regular porn films which makes it look so easy, that they think all a guy needs to do is just stick his cock in when in most cases (seasoned anal veterans excluded) that's the very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very (you get the picture...?) LAST thing that they do. It's most likely they've had that kind of extremely painful and clumsy experience with anal. I was lucky enough to have someone who took the time to prepare me properly that my first time anal experience was amazing. Though I can't say the same for any other sex partner since losing my anal virginity at 19. Since then, it has always been painful, unless I took matters into my own hands and prepared myself for it, and even then that sometimes wasn't always enough as they'd just pumped at it hard and fast like it was another pussy, and by the time I managed to unclench my teeth and muscles from the pain and get them to slow down, the damage was already done. Having experienced that, I'm still fascinated with anal, and look forward to a time when I find people who care about me enough to look after me first and not hurt me. That is, once I've recovered from a sphincterotomy surgery.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  The other thing is being clean ie enema before anal. Also in the porn videos one sees the insanity of going from anal to pussy which is so wrong. Anal to pussy is a recipie for infection. Anal to mouth is distasteful to say the least unless one is into the taste of scat which is not my thing. Mars

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Anal is something that can be the icing on the cake of a sexual experience and as Cassave says, it has to be done with care and consideration. I have found a more slender penis is better than a thicker one and I have had to forego anal with one lover because of the thickness of his penis. Its defintely something that you need to communciate about and, if you are fortunate to find someone who is willing, ask her to show you how she likes it to happen. Don't, as Cassava says, go pumping away at it as if it is another vagina. Slow is more sensuous and subsequently satisfying to begin with. I have found one of the most satisfying positions for anal is the spooning position. As well as penetrating me, my lover can reach forward to stimulate my clitoris or caress my breasts or he can massage my shoulders as he moves in and out. So in answer to your question, I like anal. Cheers Wilds

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Unless one has had anal sex as a recipient, one cannot understand the pain and discomfort if it is rushed or not done right (heed the girls wise words posted !). Before you try having anal sex as the 'fucker', put yourself in the role of the 'fuckee'. By using a dildo (you can do this alone or with your partner) you will understand how/what your partner will be (or already is if they have had the previous experience) experiencing. Knowing this will you and your partner should be able to make it the pleasurable sex that it can be. Always remember that the receiving partner is the one that should calling the shots. Having just taken it up the bum yourself, I think you will agree with that ;-P he-he!! Relax and Enjoy. And hey, if you find you like it up the bum yourself, go with it. It does not mean that you are Gay or whatever, (if that concerns you) just that you enjoy anal sex.

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  jismgiver

  16 years ago

  From a guys point of view the women can have the greatest orgasm if its done right and GENTLY and there needs to be a lot of TRUST. You dont need to have all your cock inside of her arse just the knob is enough to send her off as this is were all the nerve ending are. Like wildsback said the spoon position or you laying ontop of her as she faces down is the best. I found it a lot better if after youve had heaps of sex and shes all wet and dripping you can use this natural lube to lube up her arse, its just more forplay which nobody would object too ;-) slipping in a finger for a start then just place your cock gently against her arse and let her work it in as she pleases, let her work her arse against you to work it inside her that way shes knows how far to go, but dont be tempted to thrust into it because it will hurt her like hell and youll never get to try it again, and if your layin ontop of her back you can work her wet clit and tits just as wildsback said. The best things is you can pin her down, working her clit, boobs and gently rocking your cock as she pushes back into you, you can drive her wild by almost making her cum then backing off, teasing her more, licking her neck and ears as you have her pinned all she can do is take all that given to her.. she'll cum with an explosive orgasm. Its the horniest thing to have your woman cum that hard... I know it works for me everytime i do it to her.!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I just relised that your after the womans input ,, "SO" im talkin with a girly voice and sittin with me legs crossed ,,"OOOOK" I been stickin me dick up a gals back side since i was 14 , and thats too many years ago to count , in fact , when she says "NO" i dont do anal,,,, I m as devastated as waitin at the fukkin shopping center for half a day and Fat Cat not fukkin turnin up !!!!! Now i know the days of either licking something or having to pretend ya do !!! are well and truly behind us , were modern people in modern times , weird lookin shoes , shirt not tucked in !!,, breakin down boundries,,, yada ,,yada + 2,,!! But this idea of runnin out the back and sticken a dildo up ya ASS!,, So you can learn what its like to stick it up hers ??? I gotta tell ya ,, I got some pretty fukkin serious reservations on that ONE !!! Would ya expect the dentist to pull his own tooth out before pullin yours ??? AND jismgiver ,, Thats a pretty descriptive and articulated piece of advice there , commendable effort indeed FFFFFFELLA !! Possibly the first edition of a How To series "HEY" ?? BUT!! next time ,, would ya like a couple of tissues mate !!! ~~~Horrible~~~ * Dont ya hate it when ya just farted , and theres a knock on the door immediately after ???

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It's a widely known fact that if a dentist has had the experience of a tooth being pulled he becomes a better dentist....lol..... xx Sneeze

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I have pasted a section from our w/site what was written by 'slutmaster' in regards to anal .. and it also includes for dp ... hope you enjoy and maybe some m and w will know that it can be a totally fantastic experience if done correctly ... (and it happens a lot at our parties)... The subject is anal sex, particularly double penetration. It’s an activity enjoyed very much by many women at the party. I’m not surprised at the number of guys at our party who have not had experience with double penetration before but it does surprise me how many have said they have never given anal sex before. Of course when the guys see that it is openly available they are generally enthusiastic. The problem is that they usually approach it as they would vaginal sex. To get a good result without being a pain in the arse, forget about fucking that arse for a while and work on relaxing it and dilating it. Working it with your tongue is a great way to start. Following that, or instead of that, massaging it on the outside with open handed reasonably firm massage technique just like you would massage a knot out of muscle. Use lots of lube, and push hard, flat, without attempting to insert any part of your fingers inside yet. As your fingers pass over the opening, you will feel when it relaxes and becomes more and more flexible. Now you can cover your fingers with lube and insert an index finger or forefinger, preferably with the finger printed part of your fingers facing her pussy. The idea at the moment is not to finger fuck her arse, its gentle massage of the inside to open it up. Two fingers are actually better then one, so strive to get both forefinger and index finger inside providing you don’t have to use force (if you feel you need force you haven’t done enough prep). Once both fingers are inside, push them all the way to the knuckles, as far as they go. From here you apply pressure with your fingers towards the wall of her pussy. Slowly twisting and withdrawing slightly and short rotating strokes. If there is cock in her pussy you can push harder towards her frontal vaginal wall and use basically the same movement. You will be surprised at the result. Who ever said women don’t have a sweet spot in their arse.? When your two fingers can effortlessly slide back and forth and rotate and there is little pressure on them, she is ready for you to penetrate her with your cock. Again, lots of lube. If this is a single penetration, especially with a woman who is relatively inexperienced with anal, it works better if the woman mounts you or you use the missionary position with the woman’s legs positioned wide and back. If it’s doggy style position the woman’s legs are positioned wide so as to lower her arse closer to the mattress. Try to keep the angle of your cock pointed towards the pussy wall (slightly downward angle) instead of back towards the rear wall of her arse. For double penetration the woman’s position is the same, legs wide, feet wide. The guy on the bottom has his legs straight and together. Your legs go over his and the woman’s feet should be around about touching your knees on the floor or mattress. Don’t try and match the guy on the bottom in stroking. Your strokes should be deep and short and slower in the beginning…..only withdrawing a short distance and centering the pressure from your knob on the front wall from about 4 inches deep onwards. As the woman’s response increases and it’s obvious that she enjoying this, you can increase the vigor of your strokes to as much as she continues to enjoy it. Believe me, the difference between anal or double penetration being a totally orgasmic experience for the woman, and just being uncomfortable, boring, or worse, a pain in the arse, is lube and preparation and technique. Of course all this applies if you’re the first cab off the anal rank. If you’re in a group sex situation where the woman is already having anal sex or double penetration and you’re going next, the preparation can be done away with. A dilated arse however can return to its pre-dilated state in a very short time of being unoccupied.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  well on this subject i do not agree with anal sex i know there are women out there that love but i think it is quite disgusting myself the anal area is for shit to come out not stick things up it but hey i think for women that enjoy thats great i have nothing against that but personally i wouldnt there would have to be alot of trust and the male would have to be gentle or alot of damage can be done also that is another thing to consider missb

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