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Anal sex and age...
January 19 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mate.. good trolling... so many questions, so little time.. hehe. So guys with smaller dicks will enjoy more anal sex? I doubt it works like that. Comfortable anal sex is all about feeling relaxed. I suppose that's why poppers are popular. Anyway... having children or not has no bearing in the matter because womens wobbly bits are highly elastic and spring back into place so that, if enough kegels are done, she can snap a twig with her twat after children... and besides these days most kids are born by ceasarian section so they basically put a sideways zipper in the front, nowhere near her perineum. :p hehe. I think the attraction for anal sex has two fundamental components... a) the emotioanl feeling of being so wicked to do something that is traditionally taboo and b) with no prostate to massage, from what Ive heard its that feeling of being full to the brim in the booty that is appealing. Obviously there are other reasons to enjoy anal sex too. No doubt anal sex takes a certain amount of trust and before indulging, I expect that a certain level of pre-excitement is required to feel receptive..... and as for size... well, anything that goes in the front will fit in the back with enough perserverance.... lol... but it's the hardness that causes the deep stabbing pain, not necessarily the size... so guys need to know when to take it easy and when to go for it... which only comes from expereince... therefore if you are new to anal.... you are really going to suck at it... and if you want to be receptive... find yourself an expereinced partner so that you will enjoy it. I guess right there is the reason so many people decide anal sex is not for them.. they've been frigged by an inexpereinced fumbler. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm doing some gardening at the old peoples home up the road from me (I'm a community minded, nice guy). Anyways I'll have a chat to some of the fogies for you and find out why the are such prudes about going to brown town (if they indeed are.. we may be unpleasantly surprised). There's also a couple of hotties, Beryl and Myrtle. I'm going to give them one of my porno DVD's and report back to you in a week if this has changed their attitude to it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It does seem that what is more acceptable now has changed since I was a teenager. Kids didn't have tattoos or pierced tongues... now pierced genitals and nipples are not uncommon. So I wonder what the future will bring? Will it keep getting wilder... or will there be a reaction and things become tamer? There seem to be two big forces happening... The first is the politically correct and the bleeding hearts who are the vocal minority... The second is the ongoing sexual revolution and part goers... The third category is not a force but expect exists in large quantity... the non vocal who are either too busy or don't give a stuff and make it hard to determine where they stand and what for? People here are now more open about same gender sex, oral, anal and even licking out arse holes. So what's the next generation going to bring us?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'eunuch'You saved me a trip to the old peoples home
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi WhiteHawk77 !! I posted a topic recently on here..trying to figure out what is so good about anal!! hehehe and from that I have come to the conclusion...it really is a personal prefferance...true though I think there is hardly a porn movie out there that doesnt have some sort of anal in it..and if this is what the younger generation is watching I guess then it would be considered the norm...Whats even more distrubing..is how many of these young impressionale girls feel that doing anal is the norm but dont enjoy it!! they would feel terrible for not wanting to do it knowing that some guys may expect it...this could be a possible reason as to why these girls say they will but then dont :P again personal prefferance Enlight XXX
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GunnaBHot
15 years ago
Mrs Gunna wasn't into it when she was younger and actually after kids did turn the corner. By the time she was 30 she loved it and now days she actually requests it - not every time but she asks not just me begging lol!! I think it is more "normal" now days and I agree with Balcatta that some girls might think they are obliged to do it and enjoy it and thats sad.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Firstly, what do you classify as 'older'???? sorry but your posts are always trying to compare women who are 18 - 25 to women who are 40+ ... WHY??????Honestly not many women do like anal, because the first experience, if not done right, will make them think that it will be the same all the time... and that is incorrect.It is a personal preference... not if they have had kids or not (OMG you dont give birth from that particular hole).Here is some info that was written by my husband for men to understand about anal (it is from our w/site)... but it is very relevant... no matter what the age of the women .. nor the size of the guys. Cause honestly a lot of guys dont really know how to do it correctly - and the same with understanding how to do fisting - but thats another topic altogether (some probably wont agree but its true).**A few of the girls have said I should give out a bit of educational information on this subject. The subject is anal sex, particularly double penetration. It’s an activity enjoyed very much by many women at the party. I’m not surprised at the number of guys at our party who have not had experience with double penetration before but it does surprise me how many have said they have never given anal sex before. Of course when the guys see that it is openly available they are generally enthusiastic. The problem is that they usually approach it as they would vaginal sex. To get a good result without being a pain in the arse, forget about fucking that arse for a while and work on relaxing it and dilating it. Working it with your tongue is a great way to start. Following that, or instead of that, massaging it on the outside with open handed reasonably firm massage technique just like you would massage a knot out of muscle. Use lots of lube, and push hard, flat, without attempting to insert any part of your fingers inside yet. As your fingers pass over the opening, you will feel when it relaxes and becomes more and more flexible. Now you can cover your fingers with lube and insert an index finger or forefinger, preferably with the finger printed part of your fingers facing her pussy. The idea at the moment is not to finger fuck her arse, its gentle massage of the inside to open it up. Two fingers are actually better then one, so strive to get both forefinger and index finger inside providing you don’t have to use force (if you feel you need force you haven’t done enough prep). Once both fingers are inside, push them all the way to the knuckles, as far as they go. From here you apply pressure with your fingers towards the wall of her pussy. Slowly twisting and withdrawing slightly and short rotating strokes. If there is cock in her pussy you can push harder towards her frontal vaginal wall and use basically the same movement. You will be surprised at the result. Who ever said women don’t have a sweet spot in their arse.? When your two fingers can effortlessly slide back and forth and rotate and there is little pressure on them, she is ready for you to penetrate her with your cock. Again, lots of lube. If this is a single penetration, especially with a woman who is relatively inexperienced with anal, it works better if the woman mounts you or you use the missionary position with the woman’s legs positioned wide and back. If it’s doggy style position the woman’s legs are positioned wide so as to lower her arse closer to the mattress. Try to keep the angle of your cock pointed towards the pussy wall (slightly downward angle) instead of back towards the rear wall of her arse.**So its up to each person to say yes or no if they want to do anal or experience it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why is it that the female always has to be fucked in the ass. How many guys would want us to get a dildo or strap on and fuck them?? Me thinks not many
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RHP User
15 years ago
Got this vision of an anal sex education video being shown at schools, followed by one on fisting. If the Pope wants condoms banned from the bedroom... then here's two forms of sex which don't require contraception. Each convent should add these to their teaching curriculum.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Do you even own a strap on? :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
No I don't but i have plenty of dildos. I just get over guys always wanting to know what they can do to us!!!! What ever happens to a guy that might be uncomfortable perhaps??
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RHP User
15 years ago
that would be a "no" data point in the 40+ group then... :pWH - I'd say it is a general lessening of taboos from "hard taboos", to "soft taboos" if that makes sense. Remember it wasn't so long ago that in many parts of the world (including western/progressive regions) that sodomy was a criminal offense (not just talking about a bit of rumpy pumpy in the bot bot, you could be busted for your wife deep throating your blazing turgid love truncheon), so attitudes in general have changed - I think porn going more mainstream is a result of that, not the other way around.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok - so I pulled some weeds at the old folks home to disguise my real intent and then proceeded to conduct some 'casual' interviews with the residents about why oh why they don't travel the root less travelled. Some of the oldies now wear nappies. I didn't question them any further... but suspect that may be one reason they aren't as kinky as their grand-daughters. Note that this is not confirmation one way or the other... they may in fact be keen on the kink, but I doubt I could erase the mental nappy picture, so figured it would be safer if I never got that mental pic and didn't ask. Apologies to anyone who has a more vivid imagination than I, and now has a mental pic. Beryl and Myrtle have promised to review my copies of Anal High and get back to me in a week... Some of the men expressed that they were more than just slightly interested in anal and doggy style. They say that it is awesome when you get older because the lady can flop the boobs over her shoulders, and you can play with them while going doggy. I'll continue the probe (so to speak) and see what more info I can gather for you Whitey. Let me know if you want to visit and do some of your own probing... I've heard you struck out on the younger ladies, so this place might be just what you need to get you back on the horse.
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RHP User
15 years ago
...I look forward to Beryl and Myrtles review on Anal High...........pmsl......... Oh....and given they are the experts on all things LAXATIVE....we might get a few pointers for the...yaknow....preparation Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Daytimelover49' Why is it that the female always has to be fucked in the ass. How many guys would want us to get a dildo or strap on and fuck them?? Me thinks not manyI would counter that. I suggest not many would be willing to admit it in public, but many more would be willing if asked privately. Its that some guys would equate it with being gay or bi.
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