Anal sex question for the ladies

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  lovebitten

  15 years ago

  Please do not take this the wrong way, but your questions indicate that with anal, you may not have much experience.   I think this would make any female a bit nervy! Given that anal is potentially painful if the participants are not fully knowledgeable about what they are doing!   Maybe find a femail with a lot of experience with it, and learn all you can from her!   lovebitten xoxoxox

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  playfulminx

  15 years ago

  There are a few anal sex questions posted on Ask Sam in Community. Otherwise heaps of forum posts about anal sex have covered the topic so go hunting :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Agree with all of the above comments. Sounds to me like you are trying to get off on all our comments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I rarely put down on any forums or in any messages for that matter, descriptions of any type of sexual experiences that i have as i always figure guys are just getting off on reading about them.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As for Lube... it's the quantity you want.... than the quality.. but silicone lubes are brilliant wherever you wanna put them.   "Taking a cock fully in your arse" depends on the cock. As a general rule of thumb a large semi firm cock is a lot easier on your insides than a rock hard short and fat one..... either way, it's the little twinges of pain that make receptive anal sex so interesting. Positions vary. Guys are all built similar yet different and we all got our own ideas about how to go about it... so the position that worked best for one lover may not suit the next guy that comes along. Also, since sex is such an expressive indulgence, it's all about the vibe at the time. You might want to be smooched and cudddled and gently taken up teh bum in the missionary position.. or you might want it hard and fast in doggy... or any number of combinations limited only by your imagination.   If nothing else, an in-experienced lover is often most painful and least satisfying... so if anything, I suggest you take it real gently and respond to your lover's movements.   It's also a fair consideration to make sure your lover is completely warmed up and has cum at least twice before you consider anal sex. :p   HUgs Gaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  "Ladies interested in hearing your thoughts so could you tell us about your anal experience what type of lube you found to be the best did you start with a finger or an anal probe first & how long before you could take a cock fully in your arse without any pain & which position you found the best"1. Swiss Navy.....best lube ive found so far.2. yes and yes. Take your time and warm her up properly.3. um....depends on the guy....and how much i want him to fuck me.4. i love it doggy...but mish and spooning are good too.And if you really want to know how it feels....buy a strap-on and let her fuck you with it first.You'll soon learn that slow and steady wins the race....and that SHE determines how fast and hard you go!!Just my opinion...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Anal sex, if it is done right, is painless and intensely pleasurable. There are millions of nerve endings in and around your ass, and stimulating these can easily cause orgasm. It should not be painful even the first time you do it, if you do it right.   - Relax. That's the first rule. If you feel yourself tightening up, you aren't relaxed. Relaxation is all it takes to make it painless.   - Use plenty of lubrication--preferably not water-based, agree with Miss BJ, Swiss Navy. Also, avoid so-called "numbing" lubricants; these can mask the sensation of serious injury.   - Never penetrate anyone vaginally with any object or body part that has been inserted anally. Doing this is just begging for a bacterial infection.   - Penetrate your partner slowly, especially if you aren't experienced with anal sex! Give your partner time to relax, especially if you're new at it. Nervousness and fear make you tense up. Take it very slowly, until your partner relaxes. Penetrating a partner who is not relaxed is painful and may cause tears or abrasions, and you don't want either.

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