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Another underwear question

October 25 2015

A recent post got me thinking about another question. At swinger's parties/events, you often see women playing while remaining in their "dress-down" garments, just revealing enough as needed for play. Personally, while lingerie is sexy and complimentary, I prefer, and am turned on more, by women going fully naked (and there's more to touch/more skin on skin). I'm wondering why the undergarments are left on, and I assume it's a combination of: 1. Convenience - If you're going from playing to socialising repeatedly, it's easier and the clothing might be simply a nuisance to get in and out of completely. Especially if it's fancy lingerie, rather than more simple underwear; 2. Temperature - It keeps you warm if it's not warm enough, and as above, if you did take it all off, you'll cool down when playing stops and just need to put it back on again; 3. Modesty - Some women may feel sexier with their lingerie and/or aren't completely comfortable with all of their body showing (possibly more the case with larger women, but I can't generalise as I see it with many body types). Any other thoughts?

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RHP User

9 years ago

Heres a secret... Lingere covers stretch marks and wobbly bits.... So not being self concious of those things in the moment can make a woman feel more confident and sexy.

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RHP User

9 years ago

women do look lovely in all that gear

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RHP User

9 years ago

Not wearing that corset because it improves my posture!

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PL1963

9 years ago

I for 1 adore ladies with "curvy" bits etc, much better giving a lady a sensual full body massage if there's something work with. And yes I find lingerie etc great, especially if left on with access to the good bits. Cheers Paul.

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RHP User

9 years ago

I'm with CT, I prefer the naked feel. And lingerie is usually rather uncomfortable....

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RHP User

9 years ago

Love a lady in lingerie.

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AnnieWhichway

9 years ago

My corset is my smoke and mirror......

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RHP User

9 years ago

Willowtree_2! Love your work! Totally hear you! I think everyone wants to and knows how to look and what makes them feel sexy!!! If you can make someone feel sexy, no matter their preference, stretch marks or otherwise, bring it on......

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PatchworkGirl

9 years ago

If I'm with a lover, in a private setting, I much prefer skin on skin. But if I was at a party or club, with a whole lot of people I don't know, then I'd be more likely to keep a slip or piece of lingerie on - one that still allowed access, and freedom, but also gave me the feeling that I'm not just walking around starkers.

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