M54
Any Luck on RHP?
January 31 2018
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Yep your profile is a bit bland... Your first paragraph, are trying to write a poem or convince someone to “try” you?? Your photo is shit, needs a whole new angle and perspective that backs up what you claim in your profile...not that hard is it?? As for the disclaimer regarding Sydney University... How on earth do you think you’ll know if they’ve looked at your profile?? You cannot see details of the profile unless you’re logged in, so unless the profile is called “Sydney University” you’re never going to know are you?? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
The following is harsh, but true. I’ve not read your profile But after your comments above, I really don’t need to. If your profile doesn’t mirror who you are, how can you expect anything positive to come from your poor representation.... or even misrepresentation? Just sayin..... words we write matter. They give insight into attitude and behaviour. Dudes-in-undies photos are a dime a dozen in here. Again, that’s a choice you made to represent your look and attitude.... so if you feel you look better than that..... back it up! And I don’t mean no undies on flexing bathroom while the wife is slogging it out at work type photos 6-8 months, trying same thing, having same result.... Bloke, you’re 47. Surely you’ve worked out good and bad patterns by now?! However, if you do so well in the real world, as so many men in here like to promote......... why persist in the virtual one?? Time for a re-evaluation Here Endeth the tough love sermon Because you asked DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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Funtimes31RHP
7 years ago
Yes, you are right, the amount of time spent (wasted)on trying to organise a shag is so disproportionate that in the end you are better off looking at alternative options. You have such a mix of of people on this site. (1)There are straight out profiles which have been created on this site which are simply fraudulent in nature, ie these people do not even exist in reality and have been put on this site to make out that there is great variety and availability. These profiles are littered with the words;" ask me". (2)There are scams where women seek men and are part of a fraudulent operation to ultimately relieve you of your money. Typically, they give you an email address almost immediately for you to contact them on and then you get a very lengthy stereotypical history of their life and of hardship which then leads you to other devious scams. (3)Then there are the single guys who pretend to be in a relationship and wanting to hookup with a couple and provide a bullshit excuse on the day to meet up, that their partner couldn't make it when there was never a partner. (4)Then there are the guys legitimately in a relationship who are into cuckold or bi situations who are only interested in other guy's cock pics. (5)Then there are ladies who use the site for prostitution or sugar daddy scenarios etc (6)Then there are actually real people who are into swinging /hookups etc....the honest ones If you have a look at this site you will see a multitude of guys who pay/subscribe for various periods of time and for various classifications. Then look at the number of paying females/hetro couples who subscribe, and they are a fraction of the number compared to males. So, after you eliminate all of the above "users" listed (1) to (5) of this site, what's left? What's left, is a relatively small number of fair dinkum people and a lot of guys to choose from. Good luck!
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mango69er
7 years ago
I dont think anyones profile says who they truely are. Anyone can write anything on there profiles. Take all profiles with a grain of salt. Those of you with the so called good profiles. Can come across as real wankers, when commenting on others. Is that who you are in real life - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have not read your profile so cannot comment but I will just say from the few times I have been here it is just a matter of keeping on trying. Eventually you may find someone who takes an interest. Not a great deal of luck here myself but each time I have met at least a couple of women and I would say I have a rather bland profile each time. Not one into talking myself up so I leave it pretty simple. Hope you are a genuine non-attached lad so I will say hope you get something worthwhile out of your experience here. Oh and I don't think there are too many mirrors here just personal choices that some fit and some don't.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you all, even for the harsh critics, love the feedback and will change soon.Again, thanks.
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RHP User
7 years ago
"but the profile no way mirrors who I am and how I look and "People are hiding behind a mirror it seems to be..........cant grasp it...." So if you know the problem then what was your question again?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Profile doesn't at all reflect who you are then change it so it does. LC.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Look this probably isn't fair, you were trying to express what you are looking for. But where you write "need sex and touch of women" I suspect you're turning a few potentials off (subconsciously or otherwise). As M'lad says, what we write matters and these six words are not working for you for a couple of reasons. Firstly, the first 2 words; "need sex" = NEED SEX = desperate = not in demand = low value. That is the process running through the subconscious of your potentials when they read that. Lastly, the last word "women" as in plural as in you want everyone/anyone. This does not make the potential reading this feel special. I get what you were trying to say and it's great you know what you're looking for and are trying to express it but I would suggest rejigging that in such a way that communicates (subtly) what you have to offer. Neediness is not attractive, abundance is.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Also I would add that “try me” sounds desperate so does “I’m horny” and “need sex”. *swoon* 🙄 I’m also becoming very cynical at the word “fun” on this site - translation root. You haven’t really stared who you are or what you’re looking for another that a woman’s body to satisfy your needs sexually. I’m sure, you, and many others could do a lot better 😉 good luck. But at least it’s honest I guess - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
7 years ago
Best way to get involed with RHP is.... Go to events. - Posted from rhpmobile
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barrymundi1
7 years ago
By the look of it I will not be paying again 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm also getting a bit cynical about 'fun'. I used to wonder what the issue was and said so I think on the forum but more recently, given that I'm now looking for more commitment, a number 1, I continue to get messages saying simply that they love my profile and they'd love to have fun with me or let them know if I want to have fun? We all want fun, however firstly they say nothing specific about my profile so I assume they send the same message to a heap of women, then when I check out their profile, it usually states they don't want anything serious, just here for fun lol It just gets a bit same old same old, another guy wanting a root and who with, he doesn't care. One profile banged on about how he wanted to be dominated, further along said he'd like his body to be used or it was available kind of lol No mention of a single thing for us or desire of what he would want to do to us, what he would deliver. Zero would be my guess 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
To those that say "if you do so well in real life why do you need to come on here" (and I've seen this question asked a lot) I do quite well in real life and that's perfectly fine if you're after a more vanilla relationship but I'm on rhp because I want a little extra. Vanilla girls are easy to find for me but naughty kinky experimental girls.....well they're like gold dust! I believe in the next 10 to 20 years they'll be another sexual revolution and hopefully women won't be judged as much for their promiscuity and maybe the male/female ratio on rhp will be a little more balanced.I also hope that when this wonderful day comes I still have all my own teeth and I don't have to shit in bag connected to my waist.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fun = root. Lionsdoll, men assume that fun means casual sex. No drama, no commitment (which usually leads to drama), and no exchange of real names or details if they can get away with it. It’s pretty self evident.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just because a girl is kinky, it doesn’t necessarily follow that she is promiscuous. The two are not synonymous
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I sincerely hope we dont have to wait 10 to 20 years for women not to be judged for a healthy interest in sex! 2018 would be just fine with me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I want kinky and promiscuous Candy. A girl that loves cock and knows her way around a penis. A girl that will tie me up, shove a rubber duck in my mouth and then stick leggo in my foreskin. This is why I've never understood the religion of Islam. I can't think of anything worse than 42 virgins when I die. Give me 42 sluts anyday of the week! I hope it's 10 to 20 years either msjonesy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I haven't read your profile but let's just get the obvious out of the way. Single men unfortunately are the biggest demographic. Thus women have the pick of the litter. Yes a well-worded profile may get you a look in but if you aren't attractive your chances just took a massive nosedive. As they can pick and choose the women here hold the upper hand and they know it, so expect to jump through hoops should you proceed to the second stage of actual written contact. If by chance you survive the final cull and make it to a meet-up please be on your utmost best behaviour as despite the so-called discretion assured you I know for a fact quite a number of the women on here are friends and share intimate details amongst themselves, so if you blow it with one you will probably be blackballed for life. My suggestion if you want to put yourself through all this as opposed to other avenues to meet women then may I suggest getting from behind the keyboard and attending meet and greets or swingers clubs. Don't look for the cliques or popular people, but look for the wallflowers who are probably in the same predicament and looking to meet new people. Strike up a conversation and see where it takes you.
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Funtimes31RHP
7 years ago
It's vintage stuff delivered with such precision and an efficient use of words. Not sure what business you are in but you definitely have a comical side to you
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
When people ask “what’s WRONG with my profile?” They’re asking for our perspective on their profile wording, pictures etc... Those perspectives will vary from person to person... But at NO point is anyone’s perspective a proclamation of being the owner of a “good profile” nor does it guarantee that that perspective is going to appeal to everyone...it doesn’t need to... But I’d much prefer to be called a wanker for my unsanitary honesty, than to lead a person into a false sense of appeal merely because I don’t want to offend them.. And.... I’d expect that if the boot was on the other foot, that no one pulled any honesty from me.... After all, greatness, was never born from being great, but instead greatness was grown from seeing the failures.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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TheClitWhisperer
7 years ago
i ve read ur profile , i give u my opinion as a str8 blokeonly one pics of u in ur undies .... not enough i thinkyou write " need sex" and "try me" sound a bit like a desperate callmaybe you should write more about u , share a bit more than " i m horny" lol honestly who is not horny on this site u like boats ? maybe you got a boat ? sound like a perfect magnet for some adventurous ladies? don t be shy and go check what other guys put on their profiles , u might find some ideas ;) after that it s all about how you write ur messages , can t help u with that , there s heaps of topics and forum about that here , dig it ! and for god sake i hope you know you keep ur dick pics for urself .... if she wanna see it she will ask for it lol wish you luck!! have fun and stay safe
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RHP User
7 years ago
On the subject of messaging, never throw your kik etc to her when she's trying to start a conversation by opening up and sharing personal stuff, it's a real mojo killer. Put in the time engaging in conversation, getting to know us. Women can get purely sex as much as they want, you need to offer more than just sex to shine through
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'mango69er' I dont think anyones profile says who they truely are. Anyone can write anything on there profiles. Take all profiles with a grain of salt. Those of you with the so called good profiles. Can come across as real wankers, when commenting on others. Is that who you are in real life - Posted from rhpmobile I absolutely love to wank. When I had a profile I'm sure people had different opinions on it but what could not debated was that it worked, even on the super difficult "Guest account and lives with parents mode" so I thought it was pretty good. That's why I feel qualified to contribute to this thread (where somebody has actually asked for profile advice). People think too hard about what the profile says though. It's mostly about pics and then not saying anything that makes you look like a loser, weirdo or a psycho. Did I mention that I love to wank? I really do, I have such a big glorious cock. Sometimes I even wank in front of a mirror so I can wank over myself wanking. So yeah, it probably is me in real life.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi,today sex in gold coast - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve met a lot of women on other sites, but none on RHP. Been on here nearly 6 months now,never had a woman message me without me sending one first, and have had very few replies when I do send messages. I’m very honest and don’t bullshit at all, my profile is all fact. So not sure what women are looking for, but I’m pretty sure it’s not me!! When my account runs out I don’t think I’ll renew it, maybe I need to give up sex and play bowls instead......
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MisterFit
7 years ago
I believe if you truly want something you'll put the effort in. Whether that be putting the effort into your profile and pictures, your messages or doing the research on where you are going wrong. I honestly thought when coming to this site I wouldn't have much of a problem finding what I was looking for but this is certainly not the case. Remember there is soooo many more guys than girls on this site so if you want to get noticed maybe you need to change it up. Not everybody is into the same thing, if they were, the world would be boring. I send out a decent amount of messages and most I don't hear back from or I get the thanks but no thanks reply. However I have spoken to a few awesome people and met a couple aswell. The forums are a goldmine for information and like Frenchsoul said, don't be afraid to get ideas from other profiles. I would be lying if I said i had never looked at other males profiles for ideas.
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
I have had people message (mostly gay guy), which reminds me change my pics. It seems couple play games even when they advertise for a male. I live in Newcastle which is home to Australias lamest play people but all couples who actually say they "seek a man" play games. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
I have had people message (mostly gay guy), which reminds me change my pics. It seems couples play games even when they advertise for a male. I live in Newcastle which is home to Australias lamest play people but all couples who actually say they "seek a man" play games. Hopefully this site changes and time wasters can be reported. Three strikes your our unless you can verify you are real - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cowboyinthecity
7 years ago
Sorry everyone - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I haven't been on this site for a while and the first forum post I read is you espousing your personal philosophy. It's good but doesn't work for everyone. The OP seems like the vast majority of men thinking they can get their end wet easily on this site.
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RHP User
7 years ago
First of all hi, after reading the comment on this post I will be adjusting mine and I will be quite brutal as I am so sick of fluffing things up! I know my age is a real issue and there is not a thing I can do about that! Shits me to tears but I understand. I hate the fact that males have to behave like twats to get a chance of getting laid and this will also cause me problems on here, luckily I have not wasted any money yet to find out what I already Know. Change your profile and be more assertive, cannot be any worse than it is now can it! If we become real, maybe women would become real and would chat with us? I say I love anal and that just about kills most conversations but I am not so well endowed so if they had the courage to ask why I could explain and try they may actually understand my reasons but it never gets to that on these sites!Just an example that may help you!Good luck!
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Welcome back to the zoo Clearly, there’s no single solution..... and my personal philosophy is indeed my own But it’s worth noting that I’m not the one complaining 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had a profile that I wrote with the idea in mind of appealing to the most people but now I have a profile that I just wrote as if I was talking to someone in the pub. I don't really give a fuck if anyone likes it. Membership in here costs little more than the price of a pint of beer per month. I've met a unicorn and a couple who've become regulars with and that's justified paying the money.
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Twisted_Mister
7 years ago
Nailed it. If your profile doesn't reflect who you are, then maybe you need to change it for a more accurate reflection of yourself. Like mine. It's bang on, and I'm drowning in it. Beating them off with a stick, I am. Oh hang on.... Forget everything I said. Go with the bloke from Brisvegas.
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Twisted_Mister
7 years ago
Having just read Pommy's profile bio (from a completely heterosexual and education POV) something like that would work for you. Be careful though, that what you write - whether tongue in cheek or not - you can back up in IRL.
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