RapidFyr

RapidFyr

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Any anal experts?

August 17 2015

Hi everyone :-) Just wondering if anyone can help out, might be a little TMI but I just want some help and not sure where else to ask. I have been trying to introduce anal play into the bedroom. I have 2 very small toys to start, a small butt plug and a longer probe with graduating bead sizes. Last night I played with the bead probe for the first time , the plug I find slides out because it is thin. The beads were nice but today I am a little dry and uncomfortable in that area. I used the pjur lube. Any suggestions because in the moment I really enjoy the sensation. Thanks for your help 😘☺️☺️ Mrs RF X - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    talk to your partner ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    to be feeling the playing field afterwards. It is all relevant to what your bum gets used to over time. Increasing the toy size as you go will allow you to adjust. Increasing toy size over months/years will mean you wont feel the effects so much of your smaller ones, only the higher end ones. And of course is dependent on how gentle/rough you are. Always try and work up in size during a session will reduce the after soreness. Hope that helps. I've done it once if twice myself .......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The next day feeling is sooo nice though. 😜

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    9 years ago

    Giving side....slow gentle calm approach 😈😈

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    Not only Tara feels a little tenderised My cock copped a flogging too, so tender loving it's a thing. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    And for me, a guy who's really into me has to be not only present but want to take all my holes, the heat and passion just make it happen, hard to put into words but the first time i enjoyed it was with a firecracker, the guy put a lot of energy and time into pleasuring me in other ways first, fast forward round 2 or 3, and ended in me yielding. Before it happened, he pulled me up and ate me out, did everything in a full on fashion even kissing i thought he was going to eat me, so i discovered i loved the tight feeling and knowing they want to take you there turns me on, really turns me on. Not something i do by myself, pussy gets plenty of attention though. I have found though it's all in the angle when in company, and the experience of the guy. Just my experience - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    😝😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lube lube lube.. just to let you know, lube is very important. It is also important to get some lube in before you insert a toy. As you insert a toy the lube you put on it is removed at the first sphincter. Even though it feels lubed you may not be sufficiently lubed deeper in. Use a small syringe, if you have a small tube you can attach that to the syringe. Vaseline is good, as it will coat the inside of the anus and protect it from damage. It is long lasting and safe to use. J Lube, this is the stuff vets use. A water based lube, it comes in powered form and needs to be made as required as it has a short shelf life (a few days at the most) It can be frozen but if you do you must sterilize the containers, mixing implements, and water. It is food grade and safe. Oils, there are many oils available. ONLY use PURE oils, never use oils that are scented or have anything else added. your insides may not get along with the additives, and NEVER use oils with heating/warming/barm additives. Many of the more exterm people (fisting) use Crisco, its a hardened vegetable oil. It is cheap, you can get it at the supermarket, and it is long lasting during use. It is safe to use. Then there is a million and one lubes you can buy from a sex store. Anal can be great but you must be careful. If you are inserting and feel a burning in the muscles down there you should slow down. The burning is lactic acid and a sure sign you are doing damage. The sphincters can stretch an amazing amount, but not if you dont give them time to relax. Douche. Personally, I will not do anal if its not spotlessly clean so I always douche and expect others to douche as well or I will not go there. If you have never done it buy your self a douching kit from a sex store.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    9 years ago

    Time is needed as all butt holes are not the sameand I noticed you have started at an older age.This might add difficulty as the old saying goesteach an old dog new tricks.You are doing great so far so just be patient. Quoting 'Whateverway' to be feeling the playing field afterwards. It is all relevant to what your bum gets used to over time. Increasing the toy size as you go will allow you to adjust. Increasing toy size over months/years will mean you wont feel the effects so much of your smaller ones, only the higher end ones. And of course is dependent on how gentle/rough you are. Always try and work up in size during a session will reduce the after soreness. Hope that helps. I've done it once if twice myself .......

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    There are a few big arseholes at my work who I have to contend with each day..... does that qualify me as an expert in arse? (whatever happened to that profile that had a name similar to the topic??? )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The Ass is meant for one thing only ,That is to do shit out of ,people stick theirs cocks up a persons Ass . This is way to much for me,cannot take it anymore. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RapidFyr

    RapidFyr

    9 years ago

    Thanks all for the suggestions and the laughs. I don't mind the "afterglow" as such lol it was more than uncomfortable so I was wondering whether there were any better lubes or toys that would be better. Bigocean- I was operating those toys not my partner so unsure what you mean by that. Whateverway- thanks so much for your in depth response and kind words. I might need to be a little more gentle even if I am enjoying it in the heat of the moment ;-) Mrs RF X - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mado - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Coconut oil is simply the best lube you will ever find , try it you won't be disappointed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lube, lube and more lube... Training is best... a set of but plugs... start small and work up... Cleanliness is essential... enemas... fun in themselves... ;) Ah the joys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'BellaRH' The Ass is meant for one thing only ,That is to do shit out of And since the mouth was only intended to receive food and drink for nourishment, your wife would never give you a blowjob either, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    you have been trying to introduce anal play into the bedroom ? Sorry it just sounded like you are going anal alone! Thats why i said Talk to your partner .😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    You love taking it up the arse. Thats why i knocked you back. I wanted you to do me and man up. Annie. Hugs and kisses though.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'BellaRH' The Ass is meant for one thing only ,That is to do shit out of ,people stick theirs cocks up a persons Ass . This is way to much for me,cannot take it anymore. - Posted from rhpmobile By the looks of it, Mrs Bella might have some secret desires.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Man up??? Or Man Down??? :p

  • precious142

    precious142

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Stirry' 😝😈 - Posted from rhpmobile Dr Meeka is on leave!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'BellaRH' The Ass is meant for one thing only ,That is to do shit out of ,people stick theirs cocks up a persons Ass . This is way to much for me,cannot take it anymore. - Posted from rhpmobile Look up "Jenna Haze - Ass licking fun " on youporn. One of my favourites.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry off topic!! Happy Birthday!! You are the 17th Aug?? So am I!!!! I've only tied anal a few times and it's not for me. It can be embarrassing if you are not prepared. Who knows when these things are going to happen. 😱 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RapidFyr

    RapidFyr

    9 years ago

    I was actually quite shy to post this question, thank you again to everyone who gave advice and pointers! The coconut oil sounds great and the it makes sense about making sure the inside is lubricated too as well as the toy or the outside. And to all who came to my aid and made me feel not so bad about posting when it was mentioned that anal play is disgusting- many many kisses 😘😘😘 Mrs RF xoxo - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'BellaRH' The Ass is meant for one thing only ,That is to do shit out of And since the mouth was only intended to receive food and drink for nourishment, your wife would never give you a blowjob either, right? And there goes the idea of the sounding rod then.... :)

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    9 years ago

    Sweetie that is a most beautifully tasty butt you have. What I can't work out is why take aim at an anal forum and lead in with your butt? Fucked if I can work that one out😂😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That is a great come back ,very original . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    And then you put "come" and "back" in the same sentence. I think you're secretly gagging for it. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I agree with 'Together34'. Coconut oil is just the best lube you can use. It's natural so you know it won't cause any harm back there. It will coat the insides and protect it from damage. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I imaging a lady of... um experience in these matters would be able to "pompoir" when a gentleman in parting her anus... perhaps even with more dynamism than when he is parting her "front bum"... pssst... I did not know what "pompoir" meant until this morning either. Google is a wonder.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'ChocolateTherapy'It's natural so you know it won't cause any harm back there. It will coat the insides and protect it from damage. just being natural doesn't mean it won't cause harm - sugar is natural and would give a yeast infection in the vagina, radium is natural and didn't do the Curies any favours... (coconut oil is reportedly great, just disagreeing with the 'natural is good' reasoning)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'll chime in my two cents. I use a very high quality lube, which is hard to track down and only sold in a few shops, it's the Probe brand and the only place I know of that sells it in Australia is at D.Vice online. But as a plus it comes in 500ml bottles! But once you get a bit of lube inside of you, plus some lube on your toy/man/part of a man/etc, slowly and gently start to work it back and forth and you feel yourself loosen just a little more with each turn. Once it slides it, just wait and hold there for a bit, and relax yourself again, and only once you have relaxed start to go to work, with an ever increasing intensity until you are spent. Also position makes a big difference to keeping the lube in the right spot. If you go ass high and shoulders down, the lube tends to run into you and away from where it's needed, but if you go into a squatting position then the opposite can happen and it can run out. So for starters I suggest trying to keep your upper body on a vague horizontal position (ala doggy position). And the rest is just practice... delicious delicious practice.