bicurious1234

bicurious1234

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Any ladies arranged a threesome for their man as surprise?

July 04 2017

My mans 30th coming around the corner and I really want to arrange surprise threesome and invite another female into the bedroom. But needing help on how I find a willing female, and how do I propose the idea! I have experimented with females and threesomes in previous relationship, but never in this relationship. We have brought up the topic and idea but we have not been serious enough and gone through with arrangements for threesome yet. Whats everyones thoughts?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    we'd love to know too! especially finding girls that will/want to do it! and that don't have partners that expect it in return necessarily, or that aren't jealous etc. We play away/separate if we get on etc. so not issue for us, but pretty much everyone we do know always play together.... and finding single girls that are not fake. next to impossible ha

  • mango69er

    mango69er

    7 years ago

    Go for it. As long as you think he will be fine with it. And wont harm your relationship. One night of sex isnt worth it. But my partner did it for me on my birthday. It was awesome - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sexyfuntimes181

    sexyfuntimes181

    7 years ago

    buy one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I've never heard a woman refer to another women as female. And a willing female?? Sure this isn't a 50 year old man writing this question? Sounds weird.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    What's in it for her ? I mean do you think being a present for someone is enough ? Maybe. You could always hire a professional, at least they will turn up. But you do have 2 years to plan. 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There are plenty of single women out there that are looking for some FFM fun and im sure ur man would not say no ,,,even if u want to keep it as a surprise why don't u just bring it up in a conversation with him and see what he has to say ,,,im sure he would love the idea just like any man would

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There are plenty of single women out there that are looking for some FFM fun and im sure ur man would not say no ,,,even if u want to keep it as a surprise why don't u just bring it up in a conversation with him and see what he has to say ,,,im sure he would love the idea just like any man would

  • mango69er

    mango69er

    7 years ago

    Yeah baby. Always so wise and giving. Your the best - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    Mango69er....... Luckyforsum617..... Wow.....do you have identical twins.......or two profiles??😉

  • mango69er

    mango69er

    7 years ago

    One each. No fighting over the phone that way - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We are looking for another woman to. They are in such demand by both couples and single guys it can take some time to find one. I know as a single woman being approached by couples the ones that treated me like more then a plaything for their partner or both of them were more likely to get a response from me. My approach is based around this, but as yet no success. Good luck. Hope you find what you seek. Missb

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I need a girlfriend like you!

  • bicurious1234

    bicurious1234

    7 years ago

    Sorry CandyDelicous, I suppose I am use to FFM MMF terminology. Also check out my photos if you have any doubt, all me 😘. Thanks for everyone's responses, also I am very confident he will be fine with it, but still worried with a professional, what if she's not attractive and there is no desire there? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'bicurious1234'but still worried with a professional, what if she's not attractive and there is no desire there? go to another website and pick a different one that you do find attractive? It'd be a lot faster/easier than finding volunteers, narrowing it down to ones you're actually attracted to, then who will actually show up.

  • mango69er

    mango69er

    7 years ago

    Whats in it for her. If she is bi. Could be alot in it for her. I know my better half had just as much fun as i did - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    it is always best to meet first and if u connect im sure ur partner will like also

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    7 years ago

    Just wondering out loud hereIf the tables were turned, and the OP was a guy who wanted to secretly organise another guy for a surprise threeway with his unsuspecting partner - Would we all be so willing to offer advice or would we be flaming him down?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I constantly look for women we can have lots of fun with ... if there's a friendship there as well, even better :) I share with my boyfriend and I love watching him with other women ... that's what's in it for all of us :) pleasure, tripled lol! As the other lady there I don't expect to be pleasured first or anything like that, we aim for seamless play and pleasure :) My philosophy is that the lady you invite is treasured and not a toy thing and if she's comfortable, I'd love for her to stay the night too :) I don't want anyone to feel 'discarded' or used :( On a personal level, I was asked to join a couple (lady not even bi curious) because she knew I'd be extremely respectful of their boundaries, I wouldn't be looking to steal her man and she said that I'm one of only a couple of women she knows she wouldn't mind kissing and touching (woot woot) and her man thought I was hot :) I had an incredible evening with both of them ❤️🤗 I'm lucky that my network is extensive and opportunities emerge ... but I also actively look for lovely people to play with :) I have very good taste in women and we've had amazing experiences 💕💕 Mary xx

  • MrandMrsBrady

    MrandMrsBrady

    7 years ago

    I once arranged a FFFM for Mr U ,I did all the ground work I invited 4 single ladies I had been chatting to as the drop out rate is high that way come party night 2 were still confirmed plus me...it was a fun night for all :) persistence and patience anything is possible - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    My playtimes w my man have been 3 escorts, 1 not.. (but we had rules set before hand which helped). i totally agree with those above who suggest hired help esp in the first exp.. You can trust them and you can be boss. Just make sure you brief the agency on the fact it's the 2 of you she will be seeing.. And ask for photos to be sent to your mobile to check it's the same girl on the website.. good luck x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Sexy2looking_shh' My playtimes w my man have been 3 escorts, 1 not.. (but we had rules set before hand which helped). i totally agree with those above who suggest hired help esp in the first exp.. You can trust them and you can be boss. Just make sure you brief the agency on the fact it's the 2 of you she will be seeing.. And ask for photos to be sent to your mobile to check it's the same girl on the website.. good luck x

  • ProfDavros

    ProfDavros

    7 years ago

    Your partner is a lucky man! This may already be overtaken by events but... My partner arranged a birthday treat 2 years ago - for a Tantra massage that she attended as well. Although a professional session, it was a fun surprise. Mind you, we had been to an occasional private swing party or two in the past, but not recently. The hardest part for me was letting myself enjoy the session when she was watching but not joining in. I realise you may want to surprise him, but if you are concerned about his reaction to the reality, could you gauge his feelings with a FFM porn film? Talk to him about it after - make it safe for him to answer honestly - let him know you'd find it hot to do something like that for real. Have you considered hiring a professional for a short surprise? Let him select a few agreeable women who advertise, then you arrange it. That way he still won't know until the night who is coming.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wow I'm seriously impressed, that sounds like heaven. Been trying to swing a FFM for my self and my partner for his birthday (purely self indulgent for my part, he gets to play with me all the time and I wanted to play with a women too) through fetlife but they all seem to flake it's a shame because every time I would talk to one I would get so excited about the possibility and then they would ghost or something. But I figure if I was up for it when I was single there would be other women out there up for it.

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    7 years ago

    Hi, We have done this a lot for each other. We also do it for our friends. We have a group of friends, 6 couples including us, who regularly play together. We have an agreement that one of the wives will help out another couple for the husbands birthday and vice versa with the husbands for a wife's birthday. The only way we have found to guarantee that your plan will work out. have you thought about taking your partner to a swing club for his birthday? A lot more chance of him having a memorable birthday!Good luckAnn & John