Any regrets ?

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  ontheprowl

  4 years ago

  Not sure i would have many regrets if i met you .... :-) ..... But to answer your question, i have had some negative experiences but i think that's par for the course

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Better to regret something you did then something you didn’t do!

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  teamaj2

  4 years ago

  We’ve not regretted embarking on this exciting , ever changing journey . If we had any regrets perhaps very early on we both weren’t 100% feeling it with a few people we met. We proceeded to play anyway . We would not do that again . All experiences are just that , experiences . You learn from them, move forward , have many conversations about what occurred and sometimes put in place new boundaries. So really no regrets . Ax

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  nightingale8

  4 years ago

  I suppose the ones with big regrets ran away from here

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Regrets, I've a few, but there again to few to mention. *Sex Pistols * I did it myyyy waaaaay.

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  Sawadee

  4 years ago

  Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. If you choose to live the lifestyle something is bound to happen that you did'nt count on... but you do learn by this.

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  The_Antichrist

  4 years ago

  People confuse lessons to be learned as regrets....

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I wouldn’t necessarily call it a regret but I did meet someone on here who I had a long term relationship with, despite knowing all the pitfalls. Now I try not to think of it as years wasted but more as a lesson of not settling for something that doesn’t make me happy. L4Q

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  DonnaBrett

  4 years ago

  We've been in the scene for over 20 years....not one single regret in choosing this lifestyle....have we met some knuckleheads or people who obviously shouldn't be swinging for one reason or another? Absolutely, but thankfully they are few. If someone has issues or hangups...that's their problem not ours, we move on.

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  AnnieWhichway

  4 years ago

  No regrets. A few bad experiences but that's part of life. The lessons from the bad ones made the good ones even better and the bad a distant memory.

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  DanMarcRob27

  4 years ago

  My wife and I were on the scene for 3/4 years on and off we had some good experiences until she was secretly msging someone who she had played with. She had always msg guys but openly she would show me her msgs and I could have access to then anytime I wanted there was full trust all round. But for a couple of weeks she locked down her phone and was acting strange. I ended up finding about 2 weeks worth of incripted msgs with over 100 msgs a day while I was at work getting ignored and driving myself crazy. I called her out and she left after 17 years within a week they were together. Biggest mistake of my life! Not worth the risk

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  JohnAnn2227

  4 years ago

  We have been swinging since our early 20s and only took a break after each of our children were born. We have never regretted getting into the swinging lifestyle. We have regretted meeting up with some people and being found out by some people whom we would have rather not know what we get up to. But we can honestly say that our marriage is better for swinging and we would do it all again.

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